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writes:Ok so when I was 15 I had this friend who really presured me to do this I didn't want to and I accidently clicked the wrong age thing I know I'm 16 now. Ok anyway so it was to the point where I did things I never would have done and believed things were ok when they weren't. So this last year freshman year like 2 people in our grade had had sex but I got to the point where I was using guys and everything and random hookups. So over the summer we went on vacation to florida and i met this guy. We went off to go sit on the beach and talk, and we just started hooking up. All of a sudden we were having sex with out protection (stupid i know). The next day we left and I talk to him like on occasion. It was like six months ago luckily i am not pregnant, but I feel like I made the biggest mistake of my life. I lost my virginity to some guy i barley knew. I feel like I will regret it forever, and no one will want to date me because they are afraid I will use them. I stopped being friends with this girl by the way, she was really bad for me. Do you think this mistake will stay with me forever??
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): Yes it was a mistake but learn from it and don't rush into things so quickly again. Next time wait for somebody you really want to have a sexual relationship. Don't dwell on past mistakes concentrate on the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): honestly, I think that is a more typical way to lose your virginity. A lot of people I know share their stories about losing their virginity to laugh at how stupid and awkward it was, because many people are just curious and want to have sex but are a bit weirded out by it, and usually end up having sex with someone they barely know. I think you will get over it. Everyone wants it to be special, but it rarely ever is.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (13 December 2008):
 No, it will not haunt you forever unless you want it to affect you. Just realize that you were young, maybe a bit stupid (we have all been there) but put it behind and move on with better wisdom. We all make mistakes. Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): Well, I would say it depends on your religious views of virginity, however, I know it's possible to work through issues via positive thinking and stuff. So I'll say firstly that you'll remember this guy your whole life. By that I mean once you make love to, hookup with, fu**, any guy there's a piece of them that will always be with you, and apart of you. You might not feel bad about how you lost your virginity later on in life (if you think of it as a learning experience or something. But just make sure you talk it over with someone, like a good friend or school counselor. I know it may feel like you'll regret it forever, virginity is a very personal thing, most times shared with someone you love. However, life will go on, and you'll most like (if you want) find a guy you're in love with, and understand what it's like to share your body with some one you have love for (and not just lust;]) Hope this helps.
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