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Her parents are against our relationship, I don't see why religion is such an issue?

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Question - (13 December 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male Kenya age 30-35, *tgreggie writes:

Anyone out there. Please help me, i will be so very thankful to u. I'm a 19 year old boy from Kenya in love with a 18 year old hindu girl from Malaysia. I met her when i went to study in a college in Malaysia. She is my first love and we've been together for 5 months. My parents don't know about her. her parents are the problem at the moment. There was once i wrote her love notes which he kept in her wallet, that her dad found in her wallet when she went wasnt at home.

The parents warned her to stay away from me. Now im back on holidays in kenya and i really miss her and the only way i keep in touch is by calling or email or chatting, she went to a party and dint tell me that she had left her cell phone at home.

Long story short, she decided to stay over at her cousins the next day which was today and me having no idea tried calling her incessantly and sending her lovey dovey messages like i miss u horrbly and come online. Her dad picked up the phone and kept quiet while i muttered a few words and got no reply. After 2 times of calling and hearing no answer on the other end, i saw her come online after 20 minutes from her cousins computer to send me a mail saying dont call or text her cell coz she was at her cousins and her cell phone was at home. When she heard what happened, thats when she told me her dad mustve picked the phone.

All the messages ive sent her r on her phone. I don't know what to do. She hasnt gone home yet, i don't know what the parents will tell her. She is young and can never allow her to be with a 19 year old of a different religion, and she has an elder brother who will find out about me from the parents now.

Its obvious they might make her change college coz they know im in the same college, but i cant be without her. Its been 2 months holidays and ive been waiting to see her. I love her so much. I cant imagine her being away from me now. Whats even worse is that her dad is a senator in the area. We're both of similar tribes. I dont know why religion is such an issue. Someone, anyone please help me.

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