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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:am im gay for being attracted to a girl who is every thing i wish i was. she has somthing special bout her smile and personality help and is there any thing wrong with being gay Reply to this Question
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reader, minex  +, writes (15 December 2008):
Darling!
there is NOTHING 'wrong' with being gay.
and just because you find yourself 'attracted' or even 'curious' about a person of the same sex, it doesnt mean you're gay. you could be bisexual, or you could be completely straight! just curious. i'm bisexual myself. i agree with sommerslover, at our age hormones are raging like CRAZY! i regularly have to sit down and just think, about weather i actualy fancy people, wether im just lonely, wether i really am bi, wether theres any point in trying for a relationship, and i generly come to the conclusion, ALWAYS TRY. because if you don't try, you're not going to get ANYWHERE. so meh, if you like this girl, see about getting closer to her?
you may realise as you get closer that your 'feelings' towards her were just misplaced emotions or jealously, envy or anxiety.
feel free to pm me:)
there is nothing wrong with being gay.
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female
reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (13 December 2008):
 Hello,
As the others have said, I don't think I'm convinced that you're actually a lesbian. Maybe you have a tiny girl crush, but it just seems like you really admire her.
However, there is NOTHING wrong with being gay or lesbian. There are tons of wonderful, smart, amazing homosexuals out there who are no different from anyone else, straight, black, white. Your sexuality is your own choice and doesn't make you any better or worse of a person, it just makes you who you are. As for having children, you have so many alternatives to the typical penis/vagina sex, add semen, pop out a child. Adoption? Surrogate? Sperm donors? We're moving forward! This is the future!
Okay, I'm done with my rant, but yes... I don't think that you're a lesbian and there is nothing in the universe wrong with being gay.
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female
reader, truelove is the best +, writes (13 December 2008):
 You are totally not gay. Its natural to envy someone because you think they look better than you or act better than you. Your not gay. And your still young so you can't really know if your gay or not. Also there is nothing wrong with being gay. I have 5 friends that are bi and a cousin that is gay. Its fine. People shouldn't judge you for who you love. It's not like you tell them who they can and cant sleep with so they shouldn't tell you who you can or cant sleep with.Im sorry to tell a decent 1 that never everyone wants to have kids. I don't want kids i hate them i just look at how i act and everyone else and it makes me not want to have kids.Besides people should stop people from marrying who they want because then they are going against one of their rights. Its called THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS!!!! And no one can take that away from you.So no your not gay you just feel jealous of her i would say and you don't want to have sex with her or anything so you cant possible gay.
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male
reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (13 December 2008):
 Why are you calling yourself Gay...? You'll be gay if there is desire to have sex with the same sex.. !!
I know i would recieve a pounding for what i am gonna say but I am really against the whole Gay thing.. !! I think it is Not Normal to be gay. Boys have Sex with girls, the prime motive is to give birth to a child and then secondary motive is to enjoy in the process.. !!
Having sex with the same sex is Gross.. !! People say it depends on choice but what kinda Choice is this..? Same Sex Marriage..? Woah, What's the point in it..?
I am so Against the Gays.. !!
G'day
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male
reader, sommerslover +, writes (13 December 2008):
 Just because you admire/envy a girl doesn't mean you are gay. At your age your hormones are running around in your body, no doubt driving you crazy. Are you attracted to boys ? Do you like the idea of dating a boy ? As for anything wrong with being gay ? no.
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