Boyfriend wants to go on holiday with his mate and 2 female friends... without me. Am I wrong to feel this is inappropriate?
Q. Hi, just a quick question as I am really in need of others' opinions. My boyfriend recently asked me how I would feel about him going on a holiday for a week with one of his male friends and two female friends. Is this inappropriate for someone in a ...
A. 4 September 2013: We need the answers to all the questions the aunts have asked to give you some advice.... (read in full...)
Why is he being cruel? Is his ego just bruised?
Q. I was getting along well with this man, and even agreed to go on a date with him. He made it pretty clear he liked me as more than a friend, although nothing had ever happened between us that went beyond talking. The night before our date, a mutu...
A. 4 September 2013: If he doesn't leave you alone in short order I'd get a restraining order, he's too creepy and weird.... (read in full...)
Need to get over someone quite pronto...too distracting!
Q. I feel like a right mug for feeling this way about someone...almost like an infatuated teenager who is inferring way too much for their own good. I was hoping for a sympathetic ear to give a bit of advice on what the decent thing to do is in this ...
A. 4 September 2013: Take the bull by the horns, I realize the Britishness of this but just once trust a Yank and go for it. You'll find out quick fast and in a hurry whether she is interested.... (read in full...)
He's moved back in with an ex and says he needs to spend days or weeks without me so he can miss me. Huh?
Q. A man and woman have been living together on and off for four years; the man moved out a year ago, however they have maintained contact and have stated they both want to work on the relationship and renew it.. the man had no place to go (he has no ...
A. 3 September 2013: Tell him what iAmHere said, "Buddy you can have you whole life to miss me". Then let him. Great answer by the way, iAmHere.... (read in full...)
When I mention the "L" word he clams up on me!
Q. I am struggling to understand a man i am seeing on a regular basis,we have been together for years,yet not once has he told me he loves me yet he know's i love him very much. What i don't understand is he is always telling me i am his darling ...
A. 3 September 2013: He SHOWS you he loves you and that's much better than just saying it. ... (read in full...)
How much will it cost per month to have a girlfriend? Outings,gas, gifts, clothes? I need to factor the cost into my budget
Q. How much does a girlfriend cost per month? Do not bother replying if you say "priceless" or "too much" as those sayings are far too old and a scapegoat. Women, don't bother replying with bs that you are free, and don't tell me that you always pay ...
A. 1 September 2013: Just go looking buddy, it's like a box of chocolates, only you do have a choice you know. My only advice is to not go to Vegas and marry one on your first date. ... (read in full...)
I need both my husband and my lover
Q. So ive been married for 18 years, we have 4 children all teens. Extremely unhappy since 2007. We always had a sort of toxic relationship. Fighting (just words) , making up, great sex..etc. In 2005 he was involved in a business that required alot of ...
A. 31 August 2013: Forget the PI, just find the best lawyer your husband can afford and get busy. ... (read in full...)
I need both my husband and my lover
Q. So ive been married for 18 years, we have 4 children all teens. Extremely unhappy since 2007. We always had a sort of toxic relationship. Fighting (just words) , making up, great sex..etc. In 2005 he was involved in a business that required alot of ...
A. 29 August 2013: Talk to a lawer immediately .... (read in full...)
Husband works from home and I hate it!
Q. Hi, Does anyone have a husband that works from home? Mine started recently and I hate it. He makes me feel like the villain but I adore him. I just don't want to spend every second together. He goes to a room as his office but there is still a ...
A. 28 August 2013: I hear ya sister. My husband has recently retired and I'm be doing the same in a two years. I truly wonder what it's going to be like being with each other 24/7. I guess I'll find out...... (read in full...)
I need both my husband and my lover
Q. So ive been married for 18 years, we have 4 children all teens. Extremely unhappy since 2007. We always had a sort of toxic relationship. Fighting (just words) , making up, great sex..etc. In 2005 he was involved in a business that required alot of ...
A. 27 August 2013: If you couldn't hide a vibrator from your husband I highly doubt you will be getting away with meeting your lover 2 or 3 times a week for very much longer. So you most likely will be in a divorce in short order. After 18 years of marriage you should ... (read in full...)
I'm confused by my partner's behavior during sex with other couple??
Q. Dear qupid..... My woman and I started a swinging lifestyle. The first time we got together with a couple we had no problems.... Second time no issues there neither..... Third time was all bad.... We get...
A. 27 August 2013: Just curious, you call her your woman, are you two married?... (read in full...)
My wife came back to me after an affair but she's pregnant and I don't know if it's mine
Q. My wife left me for another man last year, she was carrying this hidden affair for a while. I was clueless or chose to be blind about it. She broke my heart because I really do love her, I tried really hard to get her to come back and she did. She ...
A. 27 August 2013: You do know that the child needs to know their biological father. ... (read in full...)
My wife came back to me after an affair but she's pregnant and I don't know if it's mine
Q. My wife left me for another man last year, she was carrying this hidden affair for a while. I was clueless or chose to be blind about it. She broke my heart because I really do love her, I tried really hard to get her to come back and she did. She ...
A. 26 August 2013: Does the guy she had the affair with know she is now pregnant? If it is not yours, you plan on telling him right?... (read in full...)
My married man is too busy for me but I don't want to let him go!
Q. Im in love with a married guy, 6years older than me. He lives about a 5hour drive away from me and he comes once or twice a month to oversee his projects (he's a building contractor). Last weekend was a long weekend and we chilled from thurs to ...
A. 26 August 2013: You have to have a hold on somebody before you can let him go, you don't, you never did and you never will. Even tho' he pays well I advise you take him off your client list and make a pledge to never get emotional about your johns ever again. ... (read in full...)
Thankyou all for your help
Q. Hi!! This is not a question, I just wanted to say thanks, I have a lot of problems in my relationship right now, I'm posting questions here on a weekly basis, and all of your answers have really helped me. Thank you very much, you are wonderful pe...
A. 25 August 2013: Name names...who helped you?... (read in full...)
How should I act around the man who rejected me?
Q. I had a crush on a man, who was out of my reach. It was inappropriate. But I told him I had a crush on him and he pretty much rejected me, with no answers after a lot of flirting, when we'd see each other, smiling, waving, winking etc. he didn't h...
A. 23 August 2013: Is this person a teacher or a boss of yours?... (read in full...)
Brother is running around with an older man and lied to me. I found out by snooping. Do I confront him?
Q. Hey-My brother went away on a trip and had me come and feed the fish at his place while he was gone. I'll admit I did a bit of snooping and found his password to his email...What I found shocked me! He has been having sex with another guy quite ...
A. 21 August 2013: Wow you just don't get it do you?! Leave this alone. He knows where to find you if he wants your advice. Drop it before you lose your brother altogether.... (read in full...)
He says he can't marry me because of his parents but we are intimate. Should I stop this?
Q. Well I don't know from where do I start. I'm in a very difficult condition to be understood by anyone. My story has started one year back when I kissed him for the first time. It's not that I haven't kissed any guy before him but with him something ...
A. 21 August 2013: oops sorry about the hiccup.
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He says he can't marry me because of his parents but we are intimate. Should I stop this?
Q. Well I don't know from where do I start. I'm in a very difficult condition to be understood by anyone. My story has started one year back when I kissed him for the first time. It's not that I haven't kissed any guy before him but with him something ...
A. 21 August 2013: He's a big boy, let him fend for himself. You need to get out of this dead end. Best to get the heartache over with and move on.... (read in full...)
He says he can't marry me because of his parents but we are intimate. Should I stop this?
Q. Well I don't know from where do I start. I'm in a very difficult condition to be understood by anyone. My story has started one year back when I kissed him for the first time. It's not that I haven't kissed any guy before him but with him something ...
A. 21 August 2013: He's a big boy, let him fend for himself. You need to get out of this dead end. Best to get the heartache over with and move on.... (read in full...)
Anyone else ever not been invited to a baby shower? I'm engaged to her father.
Q. I've been in my current relationship for 5 years and we are engaged. I know his children, etc. The daughter is married (27 years old) and is now pregnant for the first time. She is having her baby shower in a couple of months. I only found this ...
A. 21 August 2013: Was your fiancé's divorce a messy one?... (read in full...)
Brother is running around with an older man and lied to me. I found out by snooping. Do I confront him?
Q. Hey-My brother went away on a trip and had me come and feed the fish at his place while he was gone. I'll admit I did a bit of snooping and found his password to his email...What I found shocked me! He has been having sex with another guy quite ...
A. 21 August 2013: "a bit of snooping"??? Chickie you did more than a bit of snooping, and then to top it off you go running to your friend a blabbed to her! You should have fed the fish and left, now you potentially have ruined your relationship with your brother ... (read in full...)
I can rarely make my girfriend orgasm, she can do it by herself but doesn't let me share in the experience and it makes me feel hurt, rejected and excluded
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. I am feeling pretty low in the relationship because of an issue which has been bothering me for nearly a year. I can only make her cum at most about 1x a month and we have an active sex life. She ma...
A. 20 August 2013: I'm trying to tell you guys that this poster has posted this numerous times, he's gotten many great responses and suggestions yet here he is again...he isn't really looking for help.... (read in full...)
I'm married, he's married. Do I tell him that I have a crush?
Q. I am married and I have a crush on a married teacher I met only briefly. Should I tell him? ...
A. 20 August 2013: Yeah why would you think you should tell him?... (read in full...)
Are boobs that important to guys?
Q. Hello! Ok so I am a 17 year old girl, and very small and thin... If any of you know who Ariana Grande is (singer/actress) I basically have the exact body type as her. Short, petite, and thin. Unfortunately that also means I really don't have boobs ...
A. 20 August 2013: Soundly ?.. How does that remotely be like suddenly? These damn devices are taking over ....... (read in full...)
I can rarely make my girfriend orgasm, she can do it by herself but doesn't let me share in the experience and it makes me feel hurt, rejected and excluded
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. I am feeling pretty low in the relationship because of an issue which has been bothering me for nearly a year. I can only make her cum at most about 1x a month and we have an active sex life. She ma...
A. 20 August 2013: You aren't going to get the answer you want from this site, quit posting.... (read in full...)
Are boobs that important to guys?
Q. Hello! Ok so I am a 17 year old girl, and very small and thin... If any of you know who Ariana Grande is (singer/actress) I basically have the exact body type as her. Short, petite, and thin. Unfortunately that also means I really don't have boobs ...
A. 20 August 2013: My husband is a huge leg man, if she has big boobs it 's a bonus but if she has nice legs he's impressed. Now my son is totally into faces but if they have big boobs that's a bonus. My son in law is into a great butt but he says if they also have a ... (read in full...)
Could my daughter's cheating cause a family feud to develop?
Q. Thank you for your help with my question at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-daughter-was-cheating-on-her-fiance-with.html - I appreciate it. However, the thing I was most worried about was a family feud developing between the two families - e...
A. 19 August 2013: I don't know where in the states you live but here in NC this type of situation has escalated into gun play. If your daughter doesn't knock off this nonsense then I certainly wouldn't stand too close her on the street corner.... (read in full...)
She seems more friendly to me than to others -- could she be interested?
Q. I sometimes shop at this supermarket and checkout by this girl, who is always very nice to me. She is always very interested in hearing about me and tells me about herself. When I first checked out by her, I asked her where she is from, which she ...
A. 19 August 2013: Absolutely ask her out.... (read in full...)
I was upset all evening, was I overreacting?
Q. Hello, yesterday I had a meeting in the city with my boyfriend. I was a little late and when I came to the meeting place I saw him talking to his ex gf who he knows I hate very much, because she is psycho bitch. They were laughing and when I was ...
A. 19 August 2013: I think you overreacted. He just happened to run into her by chance, all he did was show some good manners. I also agree with the Owl, one psycho girlfriend in a lifetime is one too many. Wise up or you'll lose him.... (read in full...)
Cougar needs advice - does he like me?
Q. Hi everyone. I am a 32 year old mother of 2 children. But I am stuck in a loveless marriage with an uncaring husband. However I have recently fallen for another man who is intelligent, has many of the same qualities as me, and ohh so gorgeous ...
A. 16 August 2013: Yikes wow whacked...get a grip. You really need to come to terms.
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I've lost sight of myself in this relationship and don't even like my boyfriend, who treats me with didrespect. How do I leave him?
Q. I want to leave my boyfriend. We've been a couple for 2 and a half years and the relationship has been going nowhere for most of that time. We argue a lot and when we don't argue, we hardly talk to one another. We had a lot of pro...
A. 15 August 2013: Just take a deep breath and tell him what you just told us. Be clear and be firm. Break ups are always difficult but I think you won't be regretting this one for very long. ... (read in full...)
I'm eight months pregnant with our first baby boy and I'm absolutely, ridiculously terrified!
Q. My husband and I have been together for seven years. We're as strong as ever and I couldn't live without him. He's my soul mate. Well, I'm eight months pregnant with our first baby boy and I'm absolutely, ridiculously terrified. I thought I was ...
A. 14 August 2013: Totally normal. I gave birth 3 times and even with the third one I was apprehensive just before the birth. You will be fine. And when you hold your son for the first time you will be awestruck and so very happy. Congrats. You'll soon be baking those ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has retrograde jealousy and its getting worse!
Q. Hello Everyone, I have spent the last week reading everything I could on this website relating to the subject of "Retroactive Jealousy" but I was not able to find much relating to my case (surprisingly, since there is a lot of information here...
A. 13 August 2013: Boy this post just breaks my heart. I feel so sorry for you Buddy. This doesn't look good at all. She needs professional therapy I'm afraid. Is there any way you can convince her to get it?... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend's much older brother. Does that make me a bad person?
Q. I have a wonderful boyfriend. Who's loving, caring, funny and perfect! He makes my life complete and without him I'm nothing. Just since we have had a few large problems.. He finds away of escaping from reality. What has lead me to socialize with ...
A. 13 August 2013: I'm sorry but when we get questions about marriages at risk and child care issues and then we get one about a goofy teenage crush that in a couple of months is going to vanish it.'s really hard not to just scream. You know when I was your age, we ... (read in full...)
She said I need to date someone my age. What does she mean really?
Q. Dear Savants of Dear Cupid, You all have given me sage advise the numerous times I've ventured forth. You've saved me from wrecking my ship against the rocks, for which I thank you. A question: "What does this mean?" The tennis player conta...
A. 12 August 2013: Of course you know exactly what she meant, albeit hypocritical. But it really doesn't matter anyway since you aren't interested in dating her, right?... (read in full...)
How do I deal when my boyfriend stares at women in front of me and his boss and his wife
Q. My boyfriend is a high ranking executive with a juvenile behavior towards women I am finding out. We have dated for a couple of years. A couple times a year he has to go to a conference with the director of the board and his wife. They are ...
A. 12 August 2013: No you are not being thin-skinned. He's being rude. Tell him to gawk on his own time, but when he's out with you he needs to show you some respect and keep his eyes to himself. Also tell him that the other women don't appreciate his ogling them ... (read in full...)
My step daughter texts her mom's b/f frequently and it makes me uncomfortable
Q. My stepdaughter Isabel who is 17 has been texting her mom's boyfriend a lot... I ask her what the heck they talk about - he says that he teases her a lot. They text pretty much every day, sometimes pretty late at night. I asked her if he's ever ...
A. 12 August 2013: Does Isabel's Dad know what is going on?... (read in full...)
Was he right to compare my body to a woman in a porn movie
Q. I've been dieting and lost 12 lbs thus far. I was doing this mainly to lose some tummy fat that settled as I have grown a little older. This seems to be the hardest area for me to lose it. My boyfriend, we are talking about marriage, and ha...
A. 12 August 2013: Men. One wonders how they manage to get around having one foot permanently stuck in their mouths.... (read in full...)
My parents gave me up to foster care and it seems no one is on my side
Q. I want a normal life style but yah right! I'm not a normal kid like everybody else. My parents gave up on me! 7 years ago me and my brothers and sisters got taken away by foster care. I had to grow up fast and see and hear things that a lil one ...
A. 12 August 2013: Call your High School and make an appointment with a counselor. They can help or find someone who can.... (read in full...)
He stares at my lips while speaking. Does this mean anything?
Q. So there is an older man.. about 10 years older, I am 21... He is my superior at work. He's really smart and I find myself really attracted to him. Every time he is explaining something to me he looks at my lips while he speaks. And when he is t...
A. 12 August 2013: Is he married?... (read in full...)
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