I just want to tell him how I feel, I've had a crush on him since I was 12!
Q. I'm 18 and I just graduated high school. I have been "in love" with one of my bosses(47) since I was 12, and I was just thinking about telling him I've had a crush on him since I've met him. He's married with children, and older than my parents, but ...
A. 5 June 2013: Why do you feel you need to tell him if you have no ulterior motives?... (read in full...)
My husband is a great dad except for his yelling!
Q. My husband is a great dad but if he has to ask my son and daughter to do somethng--ie clean up their rooms or take a shower more than twice, he starts yelling at them. My son is 10 and is really affected by that. he just starts crying and has told ...
A. 5 June 2013: What I have been dealing with in the last ten years or so is "helicopter" parents. They are parents that feel they have to be involved with their kids 24/7. But this is college students. Even at 18+ the parents won't let go. Your husband is trying ... (read in full...)
I like a guy but I've slept with his friend in the past, before I knew him. I've been honest and told him but what do I do now?
Q. Hi everyone! So I have a bit of a situation on my hands and could really use some help and advice with this. So, for the past year I was living and working in France and recently came home a couple of weeks ago. While I was out there, ...
A. 4 June 2013: I guess you've just made a new friend and that's it. It is what it is.... (read in full...)
When is it time to tell him I don't want sex before marriage?
Q. Hey everyone, I have been dating this guy for a month and a half now..we really like each other but may be things with us just happened too soon cuz there was soo much chemistry and sparks! There is one thing about me that I need him to know 'I ...
A. 4 June 2013: Absolutely tell him. I personally wouldn't marry someone I had never had sex with (it can tell you a lot about a person) but if that's your choice, he needs to know. But if he feels along the lines that I do, be prepared to lose him.... (read in full...)
My husband is a great dad except for his yelling!
Q. My husband is a great dad but if he has to ask my son and daughter to do somethng--ie clean up their rooms or take a shower more than twice, he starts yelling at them. My son is 10 and is really affected by that. he just starts crying and has told ...
A. 4 June 2013: I agree with Serpico. A 10 year old shouldn't have to be told to do something more than a couple times at most. You are doing him a disservice by allowing it. I don't think your husband is the one with the problem. Just tell the kid to do as he is ... (read in full...)
Please have dinner ready by 8:30 he asks me, but can't be bothered to let me know he'll be late?
Q. My boyfriend of 5 years asked me to cook dinner for him and his brother after his soccer game. Please have it ready by 8:30 he said. So off he goes. I had to race home from errands to have it done by then. 9 pm comes along and he finally calls to ...
A. 4 June 2013: Does he do stuff for you when you ask him?... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting, not getting ANYTHING for mother's day?
Q. I am the mother of two small children, four and two and this year for mother's day I didn't get anything from anyone. No one in my family and my bf of four years, the father of my children, didn't get me anything either. No card, no flowers, ...
A. 4 June 2013: Now here is how I figure it, some holidays are stupid like Valentin's day, and really think birthdays are stupid, but Mother's Day is a day I actually EARNED it is MY holiday out of the entire year. Like I said earlier, since mother' day comes ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting, not getting ANYTHING for mother's day?
Q. I am the mother of two small children, four and two and this year for mother's day I didn't get anything from anyone. No one in my family and my bf of four years, the father of my children, didn't get me anything either. No card, no flowers, ...
A. 4 June 2013: Now here it is,... (read in full...)
Do you think this widow would take it well if I ask her out for a drink or a pizza?
Q. There is a widow of 2 years that i really like. We are friends and sometimes my stupidity make me over-do things with her. But i try to make her laugh and try to be as casual as possible and i think she responds well frankly. I really don't ...
A. 3 June 2013: Yeah were you planning on including the wife at the pizza party?... (read in full...)
My irrational fear of getting pregnant is stopping me from meeting guys.
Q. Hi there, i'm sure this seems like a really stupid question but i just need some calming advice. I'm 22, still a virgin and only kissed a couple of guys. I dont have a problem with any of this however my problem is i have an irrational fear of ...
A. 3 June 2013: As long as you are fully versed on human reproduction then there nothing to be feared. Get yourself on a BC pill that is right for you and then make sure you have condoms for your partner in case he "forgot" and you are good to go....or is this a ... (read in full...)
I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get her back but I don't know where to start! Help?
Q. okay , it is been along time now but i'm back ...and i have a question ..i really need help with it because i have no idea what to do . if you hurt your friend how many time do you say i'm sorry and what do you do when she just doesn't want to ...
A. 3 June 2013: Are you a lesbian? I'm thinking that's the only reason she would be acting this way. You came on to her didn't you...
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Am I over reacting, not getting ANYTHING for mother's day?
Q. I am the mother of two small children, four and two and this year for mother's day I didn't get anything from anyone. No one in my family and my bf of four years, the father of my children, didn't get me anything either. No card, no flowers, ...
A. 2 June 2013: What I did when my kids were little and Daddy didn't kick in on Mother's Day was to buy myself something really nice on Father's Day. He got the message. Now that my kids are grown I tell them they can forget my birthday but it will be hell to pay ... (read in full...)
Why do I have to be his secret? He won't tell his family about me!
Q. So my boyfriend is 25 years older than me, we've been together for 4 months, we're happy age is not a problem, my problem is the fact he won't tell his ex wife or his kids! When we started seein each other we always said my mum would be the problem ...
A. 2 June 2013: What was the reason for his divorce? Are you positive he IS divorced and not just separated? How long was he married? How old are his children? Do you ever want children of your own?... (read in full...)
Will having sex with him prove that I love him? I don't want to lose him. What should I do?
Q. I just had a new boyfriend ane he want me to have sex with him to prove that i love him,i told him that i am a virgin but i am not,i dont want to lose him,what can i do?...
A. 2 June 2013: Yeah the first time I heard that line it was more like "Wouldst thou fair maiden show thou truest heart and soul to all yon kingdom by a romp with me in yon meadow?"... (read in full...)
I want this older man but his wife is fighting tooth and nail to keep him!
Q. hi i just want to know what you all think i should do about this situation. im 23 and i met a guy at work, we have been talking alot, and he watches me when i work, i work in the office on the second floor and he works at the desk on the first floor ...
A. 31 May 2013: Why do I hear hoof beats coming closer and closer?... (read in full...)
How can I get my bad temper in check, and make it clear that I love him so much?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am with the love of my life and I never want to loose him. He is my everything. I feel like I will loose him because of my anger. I have bad anger and a short fuse. I love him to much to every loose him and if I do I may just go craz...
A. 31 May 2013: Wow, that was a quick turn around!... (read in full...)
How can I get my bad temper in check, and make it clear that I love him so much?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am with the love of my life and I never want to loose him. He is my everything. I feel like I will loose him because of my anger. I have bad anger and a short fuse. I love him to much to every loose him and if I do I may just go craz...
A. 30 May 2013: Get some anger management counseling. It will help you learn how to channel that anger so you won't take it out on your partner and possibly drive him away. Also it will show him that you take your relationship very seriously. Actions speak louder ... (read in full...)
Was it a one night stand or does he have other plans?
Q. So I went home to my sister's wedding and I met this guy, he is Danish, anyway, we end up getting so drunk and we spent all the wedding day together, to make things short I went back to his hotel room and we had sex. I was actually the one that ...
A. 30 May 2013: Relax and enjoy your date. keyword:relax... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel this confused after a break up you were sure you wanted?
Q. Hello everyone, I have just come out of a relationship which lasted over a year and a half. The relationship began quickly. We were effectively in a relationship together after just a few dates. We had a lot in common, it seemed. We shared simila...
A. 30 May 2013: Hi Andy. Remember me? Long time no see.... (read in full...)
I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get her back but I don't know where to start! Help?
Q. okay , it is been along time now but i'm back ...and i have a question ..i really need help with it because i have no idea what to do . if you hurt your friend how many time do you say i'm sorry and what do you do when she just doesn't want to ...
A. 29 May 2013: Well good luck, but with all this drama, whatever it was you did to cause the problem must have pretty bad or your friend sincerely has some major issues.... (read in full...)
The thought of this man really excites me but I don't want to lose my husband
Q. I am riddled with guilt, anxiety, and excitement. I am married 15 years to a man I have known 20 years. Recently I met a man at a place I usually shop. We struck up a conversation, and met almost every day there. Finally he asked me if I am ...
A. 29 May 2013: Cindy's absolutely correct. You have already cheated on your husband. Your rationalization doesn't hold water. Now your choice is to either knock off the nonsense and work on the problems in your marriage OR make the biggest mistake of your life ... (read in full...)
Is marriage a deal breaker?
Q. I've been with my partner for 3 1/2 yrs now and we still don't live together because of both our situations. He going through a divorce and almost at the end and me because 'im not working. I love him very much and he loves me too, i would really l...
A. 28 May 2013: Were you the reason his marriage fell apart?... (read in full...)
I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get her back but I don't know where to start! Help?
Q. okay , it is been along time now but i'm back ...and i have a question ..i really need help with it because i have no idea what to do . if you hurt your friend how many time do you say i'm sorry and what do you do when she just doesn't want to ...
A. 28 May 2013: Yeah what did you do?... (read in full...)
I have a live-in mother-in-law who criticizes everything I do!
Q. Hi, This is my first post. please be kind to me and excuse me for long boring passage. I have a mother in law who criticizes everything I do or say. It goes from a simple recipe to how to take care of my baby. She lives in with us. My husband...
A. 28 May 2013: Sweetheart there is nothing you can do if your husband will not support you. If he refuses to tell his mother to back off your options are very limited. All I can advise is you has a very calm sit down chat with you husband and tell him how unhappy ... (read in full...)
It bothers me that my b/f has a tatoo on his foot of the day his g/f died
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. He has a tattoo on his foot representing the date that his first girlfriend died in a car accident several years ago. At the beginning of our relationship I didn't mention the tattoo, but ...
A. 28 May 2013: What should you do? This so no duh! Either you get over it or get a boyfriend with no history. Jeeze Louise, talk about insecure. No sympathy.... (read in full...)
Since this girl came into the picture its like I don't even exist!
Q. Hey everyone I've been debating whether or not I should ask for help on this problem because it's so long and confusing but I'm really confused and need help and need to get this all off my chest. I've always had a great relationship wit...
A. 27 May 2013: I guess if she isn't interested in being your friend but more into being the local bicycle then all you can do is sit back and see if she burns out. She obviously has some issues so just wait and see. Hopefully your boyfriend will rise above an easy ... (read in full...)
I am a fake person online and I don't know how to come clean
Q. I am a fake person online. I fell in love with an Airforce man. I don't know how to tell him, cause I know he won't love me, after he sees the real me. I am trying my best to figure out a way to tell him, I don't know how and I don't want him to ...
A. 27 May 2013: You have no other choice but to come clean and fess up. Of course he will most likely drop you like a hot potato but then eventually if you ever actually meet up the truth will come out anyway. Better sooner so you don't waste your or his time on a ... (read in full...)
I want this older man but his wife is fighting tooth and nail to keep him!
Q. hi i just want to know what you all think i should do about this situation. im 23 and i met a guy at work, we have been talking alot, and he watches me when i work, i work in the office on the second floor and he works at the desk on the first floor ...
A. 27 May 2013: So what exactly are you asking? Do have doubts about this relationship? Are you concerned about the ethical aspects of home wrecking? Do you feel justified in causing heartbreak in another human being? What do you want to hear?... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my marriage over porn...but I cannot trust someone who will look me in the face and lie.
Q. My husband knows how I feel about watching porn behind my back and lying about it. I don't like him watching it at all because I know that my body doesnt compare to those girls (after having his baby my stomach was severely covered in stretch ...
A. 27 May 2013: Okay, I was married before the Internet. My husband had a huge collection of Playboy's and Hustler mags. I made him burn them in front of me. From then on I said "no collections" . If he bought any porn it was a one time only whank (maybe two). ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend who is going through a divorce, is there any hope we could be together? Or should I just give up?
Q. My heart is broken and I am wondering if I should just give up on love. I REALLY need help in this situation! I feel very broken about this. Please no mean answers... I'm hoping no one will judge me for this. I love my best friend. I love...
A. 22 May 2013: It sounds pretty hopeless to me. Since you are so very determined that you will never love any other man, I guess you might as well give up on love. However if you do give up you will NEVER know if that truly is your only option or if you are just ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my parents permission to stay over at my Bf's house so I can meet his parents?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly three months. We met through my friend going out with his friend (kinda complicated but that's the basics). I'm 17 and he's 19. He's met my parents and he wants me to meet his, and they're really ...
A. 22 May 2013: See ya on the flip side baby cakes.... (read in full...)
I have been invited to attend my married lover's birthday party. I don't think I should go, should I?
Q. Hi.All I'm in a very long term relationship with a married man,please no judgements,we can't end it so it goes on and has done for years. We are both in our late 60's and have known each other for over 30years.he treats me with the utmost respect a...
A. 18 May 2013: Does the wife have any clue at all as to your role in her husband's life?... (read in full...)
How do I ask my parents permission to stay over at my Bf's house so I can meet his parents?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly three months. We met through my friend going out with his friend (kinda complicated but that's the basics). I'm 17 and he's 19. He's met my parents and he wants me to meet his, and they're really ...
A. 18 May 2013: Have his parents call your parents.... (read in full...)
We both like each other and want to go on a date but we are too busy to meet up, how do I act in this situation? Can I flirt with other guys or not?
Q. I confessed to liking him and he told me he likes me back. He has tried asking me out, but since we're both busy with exams at the moment, we haven't really decided on when. What is he expecting from me? Does he expect us to be dating now or a ...
A. 16 May 2013: Don't buy him a thing until you have an established relationship. And go ahead a flirt if you feel like it, it's not like you are committed at this point in time. ... (read in full...)
My surprise weekend turned to going to his mom's! Why couldn't he have told me the truth sooner?
Q. Please help I don't know how to handle this. My boyfriend of 2 years told me he was planning a surprise weekend away for this weekend and I told my family and friends and this week ago I wanted him to give me an idea of where we were going so I know ...
A. 16 May 2013: Tell him from now on he need to piss or get off the pot. Explain to him how disappointed you get when things are just hot air. And I guess you will have to just take his "plans" with a grain of salt until you know for sure whether they pan out or ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of his ex! Will she ever be out of the picture?
Q. hi all thank you for taking the time to read this. i have fallen in love with a man who is 25 yrs older than me and im having his baby. the problem is, is that his stupid ex wife will not get it through her head that i am with him now. i had to w...
A. 16 May 2013: Ha ha Please say you are a troll trying to wind up the aunts/uncles. Please? For the sake of all humanity?... (read in full...)
Do you think I have any right to be angry? Or was I to blame for being naive?
Q. Well I was dating a guy for a month. It was a LDR and on the third date, I had to spend the night at his, due to distance. The date did not go too well, we had a bit of a falliing out but made up. In the night, he said he would prepare the spare ro...
A. 16 May 2013: Life lesson.... (read in full...)
Do you think parents who do not want to take responsibility for their children should be let scot free for the sake of peace?
Q. I have a 10 year old daughter with my ex. My ex has not been seeing the child nor supporting her financially. I took him to court for child maintenance, and he was ordered. He only paid few times and has completely stopped. I work and can somehow ...
A. 15 May 2013: Go back to court and get his child support directly deducted from his pay.... (read in full...)
Do I confess my feelings for him before I go?
Q. Over a year ago, I started working as a Team Leader in a customer service account that employed over 200 people. Since I was recruited externally, my lack of familiarity with the account and the people made me feel very apprehensive, but the manager ...
A. 15 May 2013: Since you don't know if he texts others and you don't know if he isn't just as flirty with others, it's hard to say, I guess if I were you it would be worth the risk to just ask him out for a drink. What have you got to lose?... (read in full...)
Do I confess my feelings for him before I go?
Q. Over a year ago, I started working as a Team Leader in a customer service account that employed over 200 people. Since I was recruited externally, my lack of familiarity with the account and the people made me feel very apprehensive, but the manager ...
A. 15 May 2013: Since you both are single I'd just ask him out like Zippy said. Nothing ventured.... Any way if he does say "no thanks" at least you will be leaving soon. ... (read in full...)
Can you be happy and have fun in life if you don't have any friends?
Q. How can you be happy and have fun in life without having friends? Is it possible? I've always been kind of a loner, and I don't really know what to do with my free time. I feel really lonely and I feel like you have to have friends to be happy...
A. 15 May 2013: If you feel lonely then you really aren't cut out to be a loner. Loners ENJOY being alone, they prefer it. You just need to find the right kind of friend(s). And you find them by doing exactly what KC suggests. Figure out what activities you really ... (read in full...)
Do I confess my feelings for him before I go?
Q. Over a year ago, I started working as a Team Leader in a customer service account that employed over 200 people. Since I was recruited externally, my lack of familiarity with the account and the people made me feel very apprehensive, but the manager ...
A. 15 May 2013: Are you both single?... (read in full...)
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