Why would my lover ask his wife to pick me up?
Q. I have a really strange question to ask. Iv'e been involved with a married man for over 8yrs.and please i'm not here asking for comments regarding the long term affair.but today when i texted him and said i will not be home till later this afternoo...
A. 17 July 2013: "I WOULD HAVE asked my wife..." but he didn't. Like Trish said, either he is dumb as a post OR like the other one said, it was an empty gesture OR maybe it's both. What does it matter anyway, I think you have bigger issues to deal with than this ... (read in full...)
Does getting oral still qualify you as a virgin?
Q. hey guys just a quick question does geting oral qualify as being a virgin some people say yes others no if you can help please do...
A. 17 July 2013: Why am I yawning ........ (read in full...)
Can a married man love his wife and mistress at the same time?
Q. Can a married man love his wife and mistress at the same time?...
A. 16 July 2013: So OP, which one are you?... (read in full...)
My partner said he will never forgive me for my shouting at him because he let our 16 week baby boy roll off a chair!
Q. We have a beautiful 16 week baby boy who ia amazing. My partner and I have been together nearly 4 years.Our son is a miracle as we were told we might have problems conceiving. Yesterday my partner told me he did not want to be with me any more, I am ...
A. 16 July 2013: Give him time to cool off and get over your hurtful words. He may realize that the "mama bear" lurks in all mothers especially new mothers and forgive you. I hope he does but if he doesn't then there may be some other underlying issues at play. Best ... (read in full...)
Does getting oral still qualify you as a virgin?
Q. hey guys just a quick question does geting oral qualify as being a virgin some people say yes others no if you can help please do...
A. 16 July 2013: You are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse.... (read in full...)
Do you think he feels guilty?
Q. Hi i was just wondering do men feel guilty about a relationship after it ends me and my ex split up 4 months ago after money problems and a miscarriage to which he left me 3days later lately though he has been trying to talk to me i don't want to ...
A. 16 July 2013: Only he can tell you if he feels guilty, we can only speculate. If you really want to know, ask him. But if you aren't interested in getting back together with him then I would advise you to just let it go.... (read in full...)
Where can I find a younger woman, evolved intellectually, who isn't interested in procreating?
Q. I'm in my mid fifties, look 10 years younger, am mistaken for being in my thirties on occasion. I find younger women attractive, but I'm afraid to respond to their overtures for fear of rejection when they find out that I'm much older than they ...
A. 16 July 2013: When you say younger women are we talking about 30ish or 20ish? I guess it's moot because in any case, you are going to have your work cut out for you, that's for sure. Stricter guidelines, narrows the field.... (read in full...)
My online guy is giving me the silent treatment
Q. Hi, Guy’s I hope you can help. I met a guy online. We have been talking for two months now. He asked me if we could become exclusive since we got along so well. I said yes. We haven’t met yet because he lives long distance. I have asked hi...
A. 11 July 2013: Yikes, you can't possibly be serious about this nut job?!!! He hears voices and thinks he has special powers??? Leave him to his talking demons and be glad he is a long distance away. ... (read in full...)
Why is this woman dabbling in my personal business? I don't believe she really cares about me
Q. I got offered a job in another city. I was unable to make it to the face to face interview due to financial reasons at the time. The company then offered to do a phone interview. Usually what follows is a second interview, however they offered me ...
A. 10 July 2013: Maybe she's jealous who knows and why waste anymore time worrying about her or what she says? It's not like she is a good friend so let her flap her gums, don't pay any attention. Good luck with your new job.... (read in full...)
Should I tell him off for giving my friend herpes?
Q. My friend had sex with this guy she hardly knew (we're on holiday) and firstly he stole her headphones and totally avoided her, but now she has got ulcers on her tonsils and it looks like herpes. Plus she has all the other symptoms like muscle ...
A. 10 July 2013: None of your business, stay out of it.... (read in full...)
Should I be jealous that my B/f might become interested in this girl and leave me for her?
Q. I met my boyfriend last year at the gym I train in. He is a personal trainer and we got along really well and started dating after a few months. We now live together and for the most part it is a really good relationship! We have lots of fun and ...
A. 10 July 2013: No need to be borrowing trouble Honey. Whenever you start having those unsettling thoughts find something to distract you. Go for a bike ride, read a book, whatever it takes. Just make sure you don't hound your boyfriend, guys get fed up with needy, ... (read in full...)
Married man dumped me and I am feeling so used and stupid!!
Q. I had a fling with a married man. I posted here not long ago but I think my question reached a max with 27 answers because I tried to post a follow up and the site would not allow me. This is my follow up. You can say I TOLD YOU SO and I had it ...
A. 9 July 2013: just read the last sentence of my hiccup post....dang it... (read in full...)
Married man dumped me and I am feeling so used and stupid!!
Q. I had a fling with a married man. I posted here not long ago but I think my question reached a max with 27 answers because I tried to post a follow up and the site would not allow me. This is my follow up. You can say I TOLD YOU SO and I had it ...
A. 9 July 2013: Went shopping and got some great deals, you guys shoulda come with...Anyway OP aren't you getting to be of the age where you are a tad worried about the possibility of ending up old and all alone? I mean he's made it very clear that he's sticking ... (read in full...)
Married man dumped me and I am feeling so used and stupid!!
Q. I had a fling with a married man. I posted here not long ago but I think my question reached a max with 27 answers because I tried to post a follow up and the site would not allow me. This is my follow up. You can say I TOLD YOU SO and I had it ...
A. 9 July 2013: Went shopping and got some great deals, you guys shoulda come with...Anyway OP aren't you getting to be of the age where you are a tad worried about the possibility of ending up old and all alone? I mean he's made it very clear that he's sticking ... (read in full...)
Married man dumped me and I am feeling so used and stupid!!
Q. I had a fling with a married man. I posted here not long ago but I think my question reached a max with 27 answers because I tried to post a follow up and the site would not allow me. This is my follow up. You can say I TOLD YOU SO and I had it ...
A. 9 July 2013: Come on Girls, let's go shopping....... (read in full...)
My girl on the side stopped contacting me. Do I discuss this with my wife? She knows about this girl already
Q. My wife and I have a fairly open relationship. Recently I met a girl at a party and we got on well. We eventually slept together a couple of times, my wife being aware and okay with it. The three of us spent a few evenings and days hanging out. ...
A. 8 July 2013: If you don't have any friends you can turn to then hire a therapist they at least HAVE to listen to you.... (read in full...)
I need alimony money from my husband. How does that work?
Q. my husband s filing for a divorce. There is no money in the house and we dont have any other assets together but i want him to give me alimony. i just want to know what is going to be on the divorce papers? Is it going to have question on how much ...
A. 8 July 2013: Yep it depends on how long you were married and your state's divorce laws. But judging by your age bracket, alimony doesn't seem likely. Check with your lawyer ASAP.... (read in full...)
He sent me a critique of our night together!
Q. Dear Cupid, Okay this is embarrassing.. I started to see a guy, very smart, kind and fun to be around. Last night was the 1st we had sex. I am a bit shy by nature but quite open minded sexually. Anyway the sex I thought was quite good, and when I...
A. 8 July 2013: Tell him you'll be coming out of the bathroom next time wearing a hazmat suit and carrying a candle if he doesn't apologize immediately for his bad manners.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a married woman. Her husband knows and she broke it off saying she can't live with the lies!
Q. well were to start really, Actually I am rather a pathetic person and very weak I think. In January this year I met a very beautiful woman on a site for language exchange we got talking I knew she was married but unhappy. he is from Ukraine and...
A. 6 July 2013: Sorry for the hiccups...... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a married woman. Her husband knows and she broke it off saying she can't live with the lies!
Q. well were to start really, Actually I am rather a pathetic person and very weak I think. In January this year I met a very beautiful woman on a site for language exchange we got talking I knew she was married but unhappy. he is from Ukraine and...
A. 6 July 2013: And if CG says anything about a spit roast don't worry, it's just an old family recipe.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a married woman. Her husband knows and she broke it off saying she can't live with the lies!
Q. well were to start really, Actually I am rather a pathetic person and very weak I think. In January this year I met a very beautiful woman on a site for language exchange we got talking I knew she was married but unhappy. he is from Ukraine and...
A. 6 July 2013: And if CG says anything about a spit roast don't worry, it's just an old family recipe.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a married woman. Her husband knows and she broke it off saying she can't live with the lies!
Q. well were to start really, Actually I am rather a pathetic person and very weak I think. In January this year I met a very beautiful woman on a site for language exchange we got talking I knew she was married but unhappy. he is from Ukraine and...
A. 6 July 2013: Hey James, what say you host, a BBQ at, your villa? Our wonderful aunt Irish has done a disappearing act and we need a place . Now a villa sounds damn ideal to me...what say?... (read in full...)
Would you change your religion for love?
Q. Ok,this is probably not the smartest question, having been spurred by the vision of a Sex and the City rerun, but I'd be curious to know the opinion of my esteemed DC colleagues and readers : would you change religion for love ? why, or why not ...
A. 6 July 2013: Definite no. My religion is an integral part of who I am. Inseparable .... (read in full...)
My crush talked to me today and I'm so happy - how do I initiate another conversation?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles Something really great happened to me today! The guy I've had a crush on for months Talked to me! He talked to me because my friend introduced me to him, what he said was not much but I am so happy! He said my name and looked m...
A. 6 July 2013: First question: is hr single?
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My best friend chose a girl over me
Q. Whether or not you will answer or not, idk but I am currrently in the same situation, (different of course but sameish) We were best friends for a.long while. Things all changed when he got a gf. I mean, I have had one before, just remember that. ...
A. 5 July 2013: This and quite frankly everything else in your life will have to be reviewed very carefully for the next few years. Consider yourself a work in progress.
You will make friends and lose them. Everyone goes through your stage of life. Trust me nobo... (read in full...)
How do you ask to have an open relationship
Q. What is the best way to go about asking your boyfriend to allow the relationship to become an open relatonship?...
A. 5 July 2013: Of course you want to be free to see whomever you want and whenever you feel like it, that's why the good Lord gave you your youth. Don't waste it. Feel the freedom and embrace the liberty while you can. There is plenty of time for the ball and ... (read in full...)
I can't have a relationship with him but I can't stop thinking about him.
Q. Hi, I know this may sound crazy, but it is true. 2 years ago I had a problem, and I needed help. He was the only one to help, he's so decent, clever and gentleman. I noticed him staring at me sometimes, so I tried to make it brief talking t...
A. 4 July 2013: He's not a hunter, he's being hunted. Ease off baby cakes you sound just a tad psycho.... (read in full...)
Will I be judged for my not perfect body in a bikini?
Q. I'm looking for opinions here. What do men think when they see a woman wearing a bikini who is not that skinny, and does not have big boobs? Do you look at her and think "gross", or do you respect her for still having the confidence to we...
A. 4 July 2013: Hell, just wear the bikini, you'll find out fast enough. Enjoy the beach, I know I do.... (read in full...)
Demanding Sister Wants Gift for her Kid
Q. Last year my niece turned three years olf. She had an amazing birthday party with lots of family and gifts. My sister just confessed that she was upset with the fact I did not get her than 3 year old a gift. My niece is turning four soon and my ...
A. 3 July 2013: Buy the 4 year old whatever you feel you can afford and leave at that. If your sister is rude enough to complain then just ignore her.... (read in full...)
I say he is the most disloyal man ever and he says he is just being honest about his emotions. What do I do?
Q. I am so sad and tired. My boyfriend of 6 years has become completely disloyal to me. One example, We auditioned for a play together recently and I was disappointed that I did not make callbacks and therefore would not be getting a speaking part in ...
A. 3 July 2013: I know it's painful to leave this relationship but I truly believe it won't be all that long before you'll be kicking yourself for not doing it sooner. You go girl and find that happiness you deserve.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend still lives with his parents and I wonder if he'll ever grow up.
Q. So...I have been dating a guy for going on 2 years. He has lived at home the entire time. He has zero privacy as his bedroom is next to his moms. His dad basically lives in the basement. His dad has a bedroom and living room and bathroom down ...
A. 2 July 2013: You've been dating for 2 years and have never met his parents? Never been to his house? Honey he's hiding something from you, very very fishy. If you know where he lives why not drop by and surprise him?... (read in full...)
I can't have a relationship with him but I can't stop thinking about him.
Q. Hi, I know this may sound crazy, but it is true. 2 years ago I had a problem, and I needed help. He was the only one to help, he's so decent, clever and gentleman. I noticed him staring at me sometimes, so I tried to make it brief talking t...
A. 2 July 2013: Nevermind... (read in full...)
I can't have a relationship with him but I can't stop thinking about him.
Q. Hi, I know this may sound crazy, but it is true. 2 years ago I had a problem, and I needed help. He was the only one to help, he's so decent, clever and gentleman. I noticed him staring at me sometimes, so I tried to make it brief talking t...
A. 2 July 2013: In the USA he ca... (read in full...)
I can't have a relationship with him but I can't stop thinking about him.
Q. Hi, I know this may sound crazy, but it is true. 2 years ago I had a problem, and I needed help. He was the only one to help, he's so decent, clever and gentleman. I noticed him staring at me sometimes, so I tried to make it brief talking t...
A. 1 July 2013: Is this professor from the same culture as yourself?... (read in full...)
I can't have a relationship with him but I can't stop thinking about him.
Q. Hi, I know this may sound crazy, but it is true. 2 years ago I had a problem, and I needed help. He was the only one to help, he's so decent, clever and gentleman. I noticed him staring at me sometimes, so I tried to make it brief talking t...
A. 1 July 2013: Why can't you have a relationship with him? Are you both single?... (read in full...)
How can I look out for my foster son?
Q. I fostered a child three years ago, and the child is now 6. He was abandoned by his parents when he was a baby. I got him before I got married. Am now married and my husband has had a hard time accepting the boy. He is just plain cold towards him, ...
A. 30 June 2013: Did you adopt him or is he a foster child?
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How should I handle this situation at work?
Q. How should I handle this situation with these girls? So I recently got a new job and the girls I started with dont really talk to me and aren't friends with me like they are with each other. Today one of them started talking to me about...
A. 29 June 2013: Stay friendly, smile, be courteous, do favors when you can but only when you can, but keep your private life private. It is sheer hell going to a job you dread everyday. I know, I only stayed at it for two months then quit. I loved all my other jobs ... (read in full...)
Is it just me of has anyone else noticed the same assumptions and consolations that people make when someone says that they've never had a girlfriend and are having difficulty finding one?
Q. Is it just me of has anyone else noticed the same assumptions and consolations that people make when someone says that they've never had a girlfriend and are having difficulty finding one? 1) You have to be happy alone before you can be with some...
A. 29 June 2013: I think that's the ticket for you. Approach meeting females as just making a new friend not anything more. Who doesn't want more friends? Having people to hang out with and just relax is the way to go. If something develops, fine and dandy, but if ... (read in full...)
I'm tempted to have an affair with my hot co-worker to get back at my husband for the pain he put me through 3 years ago
Q. I am currently married for 3 yrs now. However, my husband and i had many issues in the beginning of our relationship when we were dating. he didnt tell me that he was still emailing his exgirlfriend because he told me she wanted to end her life so ...
A. 29 June 2013: As the others have said, you are comparing apples to oranges my dear. If you have ONLY been married for 3 years and already are looking lustfully on your coworkers I suggest that perhaps your marriage is as good as dead. Get a divorce and go play ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex contacting me and even wanting to have a pajama party??
Q. I havn't seen my ex boyfriend who dumped and left me alone in another state for nearly 3 months though he has phoned me regularly like once a week since leaving. I have now returned to the same state as him and been here for 3 weeks. He has done ...
A. 25 June 2013: "now he wants me to drop off some stuff he left with me at his house as it is too heavy for him to carry"
This is when I went wtf?????... (read in full...)
Why didn't my b/f introduce me to his friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I went to the beach and we were having a nice time until we were walking out of the water and he saw an old friend. He walked over to his friend and embraced him and I was walking over thinking he'd introduce me. He then grabbed his ...
A. 24 June 2013: Definitely ask him. How long have you been dating? Have you met ANY of his friends or family?... (read in full...)
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