Do I confess my feelings for him before I go?
Q. Over a year ago, I started working as a Team Leader in a customer service account that employed over 200 people. Since I was recruited externally, my lack of familiarity with the account and the people made me feel very apprehensive, but the manager ...
A. 15 May 2013: Since you don't know if he texts others and you don't know if he isn't just as flirty with others, it's hard to say, I guess if I were you it would be worth the risk to just ask him out for a drink. What have you got to lose?... (read in full...)
Do I confess my feelings for him before I go?
Q. Over a year ago, I started working as a Team Leader in a customer service account that employed over 200 people. Since I was recruited externally, my lack of familiarity with the account and the people made me feel very apprehensive, but the manager ...
A. 15 May 2013: Since you both are single I'd just ask him out like Zippy said. Nothing ventured.... Any way if he does say "no thanks" at least you will be leaving soon. ... (read in full...)
Can you be happy and have fun in life if you don't have any friends?
Q. How can you be happy and have fun in life without having friends? Is it possible? I've always been kind of a loner, and I don't really know what to do with my free time. I feel really lonely and I feel like you have to have friends to be happy...
A. 15 May 2013: If you feel lonely then you really aren't cut out to be a loner. Loners ENJOY being alone, they prefer it. You just need to find the right kind of friend(s). And you find them by doing exactly what KC suggests. Figure out what activities you really ... (read in full...)
I do everything for him and he does nothing for me! Is this love?
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship since 2 and half year now. I did so much for my fiancé that now days no one does. I got laser hair removal for 10,000, I gave him everything he asked me for, expensive perfumes, shampoos, glasses, iphone ...
A. 15 May 2013: Wow is all I can say. You really need to come to grips with the fact that you are being used and if you think you are broken now after 2 1/2 years, just think how you will feel in another year. Girlfriend, this ain't gonna get any better. You have ... (read in full...)
Do I confess my feelings for him before I go?
Q. Over a year ago, I started working as a Team Leader in a customer service account that employed over 200 people. Since I was recruited externally, my lack of familiarity with the account and the people made me feel very apprehensive, but the manager ...
A. 15 May 2013: Are you both single?... (read in full...)
My FWB is sick of me and called me a whore! Did I do anything wrong to deserve to be treated this way?
Q. Dear Cupid I am in on and off FWB with my best friend. I fell in love with him but he says he likes me but no love word. Long story short, he bacame very abusive (physically and emotionally) lately. I couldnt even hold a decent conversation ...
A. 14 May 2013: The THING you did wrong was the whole FWB thing. I personally think the whole concept is a crock. Next time wait for an actual relationship to develop before you let that nickel between your knees drop.... (read in full...)
Dating a girl for 2 weeks, saw some strange messages on her phone then her best friend calls me to tell me to walk away from her! What should I do?
Q. I have been online dating for about a year and I go on about 2 dates a week. I'm no Brad Pitt but i'm a good looking guy and have just qualified as a children's doctor. I met a girl (M) 2 weeks ago and we have been on some dates. She is cute ...
A. 14 May 2013: All this and you have only known her for 2 weeks? Sheesh!
Slow down Buddy. If you don't you will deserve all that you get. It's been 2 weeks for crying out loud. Think with that head that is above your shoulders. As a doctor I assume you are tota... (read in full...)
Texting relationships: good or bad?
Q. What are your opinions on a relationship that is 90% texting, phone calls maybe every other day or so and mostly booty calls. The guy is telling the woman he loves her, but he is telling his really close friends that "Hell No I Do Not Want To Spend ...
A. 13 May 2013: Other than phone calls and sex, do you guys do anything else together?... (read in full...)
What's a good way to make friends?
Q. Hey everyone. This may sound silly but what's a good way to make some friends? I'm only 18 and I've never really had many friends. Some of the friends I did have are no longer my friends. I go to a community college and nobody seems to really talk ...
A. 13 May 2013: Join some clubs at your college or do some volunteer work in your community those are great ways to meet people. I wouldn't pursue the online thing but then that's just me.... (read in full...)
Do you stay out of the financial decisions your fiance makes with his children from another marriage?
Q. We live together. My fiance has two adult children from his first marriage. His son has a nice job and a new girlfriend. His son moved out of his apartment with his last girlfriend...he broke it off with her. His son is now moving into an ...
A. 13 May 2013: You are very wise to stay out of it. As long as it's not YOUR money, stay as far away from this hot potatoe as you can. Remember this tho' when you do finally tie the knot you may want to keep your finances separated. Just curious, do you have any ... (read in full...)
I want to make an impression on her. How can I make this boat trip special for her?
Q. Hey Im taking a woman on her first boat trip and want ideas to make it special for her. We have 23 people and we are snorkeling and doing some wildlife sightseeing. I'm having her match my swimming suit n also baking a family dessert recipe for h...
A. 10 May 2013: Dessert and matching his/her swim suits would do it for me.... (read in full...)
Am I an awful girlfriend because I don't want to go to the car meet with my boyfriend?
Q. Hello aunts and uncles. I feel like an ungrateful spoiled girl for this question since there are so many about women whose men do not want to spend time with them, I have the opposite issue. I actually started to live with my boyfriend of a y...
A. 10 May 2013: I also think you should just suck it up and go with him. Hell I go fishing with my husband all the time and it's not because I like to fish. It's a quid pro quo kind of thing if you love the guy. Besides you never know, you may actually enjoy it.... (read in full...)
Not a romantic relationship question, it's a cry for help. Should I leave my alcoholic dad and start my own life?
Q. I want to move with my boyfriend and our to kids to Michigan, where we both have jobs waiting and we can stay with his Aunt for cheap while we save up for our own place. My mother died about four years ago, my dad is an alcoholic and was before m...
A. 10 May 2013: I agree you need to get the DSS involved at this point. You will need to explain the situation clearly to them and that you will be moving out of state. They will monitor the situaton at your father's home and if needed will remove the younger kids ... (read in full...)
Is this a problem what happened when I had sex with my girlfriend last night?
Q. MOD NOTE: English is not the first language of asker. Dear sir.. I am 27 years male. I do have habit of hand shaking my peninsula.(masturbating). When I do so that lequid comes out.(I ejeculate when I mastubate). Last night I had sex with my g...
A. 9 May 2013: Tish...??? ... (read in full...)
Is this a problem what happened when I had sex with my girlfriend last night?
Q. MOD NOTE: English is not the first language of asker. Dear sir.. I am 27 years male. I do have habit of hand shaking my peninsula.(masturbating). When I do so that lequid comes out.(I ejeculate when I mastubate). Last night I had sex with my g...
A. 8 May 2013: "hand shaking my peninsula" is going into the DC Manual.... (read in full...)
Is it lust or love I feel for my cousin?
Q. Hi, i have one small story,about my attraction with my married cousin sister from my ssc onwords it started when i was slept with her on same bed(normal sleep) but next few years i din't much interactions with her one day again i went to her...
A. 8 May 2013: Sentimental??? Once I got to the 12th word in this post the answer was clear. Whatever it is you are asking my advice is to leave the lady alone. Totally alone. Get on with your own life.... (read in full...)
I thought he was my soul-mate, but now he's with a girl who's everything he said he hates
Q. My ex and I broke up a month ago. We'd been together 3 years. Completely out of the blue he sat me down and said that although he loved me, he couldn't be with me, I wasn't making him happy. I genuinely didn't see it coming - everyone used to say we ...
A. 7 May 2013: You handle like we always advise: stay busy and occupied, force yourself to stop looking at his and her Facebook pages, go out with friends and be visable, no moping around the house. As far as his new girlfriend being everything he said he hated ... (read in full...)
When do I tell someone I am dating that I cannot ever have children.
Q. I am an 19 year old female, I have just met a guy who I have started dating, we have been on 1 date, but been talking for months. Last year I found out that I can never have children, when should I tell him this? I have been thinking I should tell ...
A. 6 May 2013: I certainly hope you have gotten a second and thrid medical opinion.... (read in full...)
Does the number of people you sleep with have any effect on you later in life?
Q. I am just wondering if the number of people you sleep with has any psychological or emotional effect on you later. I am not talking 3 or 4 partners. I mean, like, say 50 partners. My best bud is dating seriously a girl who has slept around qui...
A. 6 May 2013: Do not go there Buddy. Do not get involved in that aspect of your friend's life. It will bite you in the butt. Let him make his own decisions and choices regarding his love life. This is truly a time to mind your own beeswax.... (read in full...)
I think I've found my soul mate but she's 35 years younger than I. What do I do?
Q. I think I have found a soulmate, however I don't think we were meant to be together as we have a very large age difference. I think that as the older person I am meant to help her in some way. Why do I think we are soulmates? Well, our likes are so ...
A. 3 May 2013: How old is she? Help her? Help her in what way? Why do you think she needs help? How old are you? Have you ever been in a long term relationship?... (read in full...)
Did my ex love me?
Q. Hi i was just wondering did my ex really love me he would correct everything i said everything i done even stupid things like cleaning my teeth how i tidy up how i hoovered yet he could be so loving he would also call me names quite often and tried ...
A. 2 May 2013: He's history so force yourself to stop dwelling on the past and start living in the present. Make some plans for the future to give you something to look FORWARD to. Chin up onward and upward.... (read in full...)
I broke up with my boyfriend but now I'm not sure if I did the right thing?
Q. I dated my boyfriend for 8months and we started drifting apart. I attributed it to the fact that he was working at that time (it was vacation. We're both college students) so maybe that's why we couldn't hear from eachother much. That was actually ...
A. 30 April 2013: I was exhausted just reading your post. This relationship is too much work. You do know that boyfriends are supposed to be fun and make us happy, right? If you have a pair of shoes that hurt your feet, do you wear them? Don't go back, go forward.... (read in full...)
I kept waiting for him to leave his g/f but he never really did so I ended things. Did I do the right thing?
Q. I'm confused that I already made a mistake as he asked me to wait for him to breakup with girlfriend of 6 years he told me they are in verge of breaking up but I didnt do it. I just stoped waiting and said goodbye a month ago. I've waited for him to ...
A. 29 April 2013: You absolutely did the right thing. Time is precious and it should never be wasted. Keep on with the no contact, you'll feel better soon. Just keep telling yourself that if he really loved you as much as he claims, he would have done that break up ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants me to experiment with a woman?
Q. I've been in a relationship for seven months and it's been great for the most part. He recently told me that he thinks every woman should have a sexual experience with another woman, especially if they're in college like myself. He doesn't want to ...
A. 25 April 2013: What if he told you it would turn him on if he knew you were having sex with a llama? ... (read in full...)
Will a shy guy ever ask a girl out?
Q. I really like this shy guy, but with his line of work, i am a 'client' so it makes the situation a lot harder to court him (thou i am not a direct client of his). I have written a question on here before and i get the impression that he does like ...
A. 24 April 2013: I don't think you have any other choice but to ask him out. If he's so shy you might have to wait forever for him to get around to it. At least if you do it you'll know whether he really is interested.... (read in full...)
How should I ask him what our status is?
Q. So I've been talking and spending some time with a guy I met but I don't know what he considers us or if we are just friends at the moment is it ok to ask him what he considers us and if so how should I ask?...
A. 23 April 2013: Way to early, have patience.... (read in full...)
Was my devastation regret and sadness about how he ended the relationship? Or is my friend's theory about it being "true love" possibly true?
Q. This is a strange question that i know can not be answered easily and i know it's long, but my friend keeps telling me it and I really need to know if she's right, because a part of me is starting to realise it may just be that! Over 3 ago mon...
A. 20 April 2013: You've been broken up longer than you were together. You only dated him for two months so luckily you didn't waste too much precious time on him. So don't waste any more dwelling on it. It doesn't matter whether you loved him or not, it's a closed ... (read in full...)
Does my husband not even care enough about me to answer these questions?
Q. i asked my husband, does he think i am beautiful? He said he didn't know. He never looks at me that way. When i asked him what he likes about me, he said he doesn't know. What do this mean or what should i do? ...
A. 20 April 2013: Were you a mail order bride or something? Why didn''t you ask him these questions BEFORE you married him?... (read in full...)
Sexually charged BF after a fight?
Q. hello, After my boyfriend and I have an argument and sort things out, he tends to ask for a lot of sexual attention. why does he do this? Thank you....
A. 19 April 2013: He's a very brave man to ask for a blow job after an argument.... (read in full...)
Advice on the pullout method
Q. I have been with a guy for over a year now and we have been having sex the entire time we came together on the pretext of just sex on both parts it obviously escalated more due to our time together, well we have been using the pullout method and one ...
A. 19 April 2013: 1.2 billion Roman Catholics can't be wrong.... (read in full...)
I know the relationship is over but I'm mad that he didn't even have the decency to end it. He just stopped contacting me
Q. I was dating this guy for a month, and we were sleeping together. We both went away over the Easter break and he said before we left that'd we'd see each other afterwards. Then when we both got back I texted him to ask if he wanted to meet ...
A. 19 April 2013: Wham Bam Thank you Ma'am. Next time don't put out until you have an established relationship.... (read in full...)
I need to get over my ex
Q. Hi so I wanna know how to get I've my ex. Ok long story shirt we were together for a couple months and we just recently broke up. He was sooo annoying towards me and my friends. None of my friends liked him and wanted me to break up with him I did ...
A. 19 April 2013: Relax and enjoy your teenage years the best you can. Once you are through them, you'll be able to think rationally again.... (read in full...)
My Bf is getting angry unneccessarly and calling me names. What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid Today is my bf birthday. I called him several times from the morning to wish him, he didn't pick up the call and not responding to text. He is in his parents house now. I know he is not sick nor busy, got the information from c...
A. 17 April 2013: You should just leave him alone. I too think this the end of your relationship. Why your BF is being such a wimp about telling you is the big queston. Let him contact you next, but I would definitely consider it kaput. Chin up Sweetheart, he sounds ... (read in full...)
Should I marry a girl I love but has cheated and lied to me in the past?
Q. Hi, I ve posted on this website before and I ve found the answers helpful so I am back looking for some more advice please. Should I get married to my on off girlfriend of four years given that we have had quite a volatile relationship? ...
A. 16 April 2013: If you marry her I think there are two sides to consider the upside and the downside. The downside would be the inevitable costly divorce (and she WILL take you the cleaners). The upside is the huge savings you'll have on doormat purchases.... (read in full...)
My Crush always has a hard on around me and does nothing to hide it.
Q. I've noticed that my crush tends to have a hard on when we hang out and he stands in my face and it becomes very obvious to me that he has a hard on. I don't look at it cause I know is there. Is almost as if he wants me to know he has an erection. ...
A. 15 April 2013: Just don't sit down when he's around. Unless he's really really tall, that should keep his crotch out of your face. Here's your new motto "From this day forward I'll speak up AND stand up".... (read in full...)
Is there any way to get this guy to like me?
Q. So I'm 15 and there's this guy I really like and we text quite a bit and we were playing the question game and he said I was cute but he also said he likes someone else. Us there any way to get him to like me because I really want to go out with ...
A. 15 April 2013: You mean like a magic wand or something?... (read in full...)
Boyfriend mocks me and now I'm so self conscious!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 3.5 years is always mocking me whenever we go out (like i look like an ape, or i look at him like a dog,....), its hurting me and i told him several times not to do it, but he always does. Nowadays i feel very self-conscious e...
A. 12 April 2013: Yep this one has a quick fix, lose the loser.... (read in full...)
I felt betrayed when I found out my girlfriend had told me I was her first boyfriend but I wasn't!
Q. Alright so this is going to be kiiinnndd of a weird question. It's water under the bridge now, but I just want to see if my reaction to my girlfriend a while ago was reasonable. So here goes: My gf and I are in 10th grade in high school. All the ...
A. 12 April 2013: Was SHE your first girlfriend?... (read in full...)
GF went back to her EX, I made my one night stand pregnant, GF came back and then left when she heard about the pregnancy?
Q. My ex and I broke up about 6 months ago, which she went back to her ex (whom is the father of her child). I was assured it was over, and I begged her to come back. She suddenly comes back with a paper showing a divorce, and wanting to start...
A. 12 April 2013: I agree with Cindy. I think she most likely doesn't want to have a relationship with someone who has unprotected sex at the drop of the hat. I certainly can't blame her. And I certainly hope you plan to support your child, tax payers are getting ... (read in full...)
GF is cheating and I don't see it?
Q. I have been dating my jealous, possessive, demanding and highly strung girlfriend for just over 2 years. I have constantly tried and failed to meet her demands and expectations. Her jealousy occasionally turns violent and emotional if she ever gets ...
A. 11 April 2013: And you are still with her because.....?... (read in full...)
How can I get this man to bend? He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship
Q. I had a beautiful relationship with a man for ten months. We are both 38. We went through through alot together. He had been seperated from his wife for three years. They had no kids involved. The thing is his ex wife didnt really want him back, ...
A. 9 April 2013: "sigh"... (read in full...)
How can I get this man to bend? He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship
Q. I had a beautiful relationship with a man for ten months. We are both 38. We went through through alot together. He had been seperated from his wife for three years. They had no kids involved. The thing is his ex wife didnt really want him back, ...
A. 9 April 2013: "sigh"... (read in full...)
He wants a relationship, but not with someone with children
Q. So I pretty much know what I should do, but I wanted a second opinion... There's this guy I started to hang out with outside of work (we're co-workers sort of). He has a temporary job working in the district I permanently work in. We started hangi...
A. 8 April 2013: Take him at his word, he's too immature to deal with your having a small child. Go with your gut and say good bye in June.... (read in full...)
How can I get this man to bend? He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship
Q. I had a beautiful relationship with a man for ten months. We are both 38. We went through through alot together. He had been seperated from his wife for three years. They had no kids involved. The thing is his ex wife didnt really want him back, ...
A. 7 April 2013: He's going ahead with the divorce for himself, not to be with you. He already said he doesn't really want a relationship. He just trying to string you along to keep you in his back pocket. He'll pull you when he wants then stuff you back in when he ... (read in full...)
How can I get this man to bend? He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship
Q. I had a beautiful relationship with a man for ten months. We are both 38. We went through through alot together. He had been seperated from his wife for three years. They had no kids involved. The thing is his ex wife didnt really want him back, ...
A. 7 April 2013: What you "HAD" was a whole lot of nothing. Take off those rose-colored lens and take a deep breath, does it smell like coffee? You can and must do better. Happy hunting, it can actually be lots of fun.... (read in full...)
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