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Im 16 so ok, I dont know the ways of the world, but who actually does? Life is a mystery. So thats why this site exists!
I have used this site before to help with my problems, and I thought I should give something back. I want to help others who are in difficult situations.
I love animals, especialy horses, dogs and for some reason lions :)I have 3 dogs and a pony. I also love acting, singing and dancing and all that malarky. I have been horse riding for 13 years now :D
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Missing my ex bf so badly... help!
Q. i really miss my ex. its been about a month since we really spoke. i mean i seem him twice since then, and he spoke to me, he even kissed me the other day, after telling me a month ago neva to speak to him again. so i havent hit him up and wasnt the ...
A. 21 November 2009: Look the best way to get over him, is just to leave it. I know its so hard, the hardest thing ever, and you'll be reading into little actions to see if he still likes you.
But there is no point to it. Occupy your mind with other things. Let him come... (read in full...)
Am I a slut?
Q. Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months in...
A. 21 November 2009: Your not a slut, rumors are spread easily at this age and things are exagerated.
Plus its not like your doing it with tonnes of different guys.
But its all down to you, if you feel like a slut, pehaps you should take it easy for a while.
However, ... (read in full...)
Why would my boyfriend suddenly exclude me from his birthday plans?
Q. i was wondering, last night was my boyfriend's birthday. We've been together almost 3 years on and off. Every year weve spent it together, last night he excluded me from hanging out at his local bar where ive been with him before and met his ...
A. 20 November 2009: This does sound strange.
Was it a boys night?... (read in full...)
Who the heck is "Sadie?"
Q. the guy I ve been seeing just text me, he said ok tks sadie, thing is my name isnt sadie....what shall i do...
A. 20 November 2009: My friend called me Judy the other day simply cos he had predictive on and was in a rush. Ask him :) x... (read in full...)
What gave me this sudden, intense chill???
Q. In the middle of my last class I got this sudden intense feeling down below (which felt good) and it gave me a chill? Like a sudden very short chills. Although I did not do anything at all I was just talking to friend in the class (and when this ...
A. 19 November 2009: Someone walked over your grave?
Hmm.. im not sure, prehaps you were just shuddering?
:S
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Adice on a girl
Q. So I've been sort of going out with this girl for like a month. We've been talking and I've known her for a long time and I really like her. However, she hasn't talked to me in over a week. Nothing wrong with it, but its strange because we were ...
A. 19 November 2009: Hmm just send her a nice text;
Hey, havnt heard from you in a while! How are you? :) x
Something like that?
Dont be pushy or clingy tho, if shes havnt second thoughts then she will want to have some time to think.
Good luck :) x... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and wondering if I am a lesbian?
Q. I am 13 and like boys. But last weekend I stayed at my BFF house like we do sometimes. That night we started talking about boys and sex and stuff. We were talking about what it is like with our boyfriends and started messing around. So we e...
A. 8 November 2009: Um.. what exactly did you do? I think the same thing still applies. Im sure your BFF doesnt want it mentioned either, so if both of you stay quiet im sure it will be fine :) xx... (read in full...)
Heard a lot of bad things about this guy...should I drop him or give him a fair shot?
Q. Ok this is kind of long but I really need your guys's help. Ok I just started highschool and there's this boy that im very confused about. He's a sophmore but should be a junior because he got held back cause he had to go to rehab......
A. 8 November 2009: hmm... well if he wants to get you into bed then hes bound to be nice to you.
If what his mates are saying is true, he doesnt sound like a nice guy.
Id ask him nicely about it. Be careful and dont get too involved,
Good luck
xxx... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and wondering if I am a lesbian?
Q. I am 13 and like boys. But last weekend I stayed at my BFF house like we do sometimes. That night we started talking about boys and sex and stuff. We were talking about what it is like with our boyfriends and started messing around. So we e...
A. 8 November 2009: Your a bit young to know if your gay or not :)
Does it really matter either way?
I think you were just experimenting with your friend, your a teenagers and your hormones are all over the place, so you wont have a clue what your really want untill y... (read in full...)
Do you think it's okay to send your ex a Happy Birthday message? Or should you just leave it?
Q. Do U think its ok to send your ex happy birthday message or just leave it?...
A. 8 November 2009: Do it to show there are no hard feelings =] xx... (read in full...)
Could my two friends be having a secret affair?
Q. I'm not sure why I'm writing this but here goes. At college, I know this girl and to me it looks like this girl likes other girls. I know this sounds stupid but I'm not sure if it's in my head or if it's true. This girl (the main one-lets call her ...
A. 4 November 2009: Maybe Karen is just intimidated by Lucy... I know that most people look up to and respect the more confident and popular girls.
Doesnt mean she fancies her!
Could just ask them?
xx... (read in full...)
Her mom thinks a 2 year age gap is too much
Q. im a 17yr male in grade 12 and ive just started dating a girl in grade 10 who is 15. im having a hard time convincing my mom that its ok that im two years older... how can I convince her that its ok, or rather, is it actually ok?...
A. 28 October 2009: I think its fine :)
obviously theres the issue that if you sleep with her, its illegal, but hopefully your not planning that for a while.
So no worries.
Prehaps invite her over so your mum can see what a lovely mature girl she is?... (read in full...)
Ladies: what is your experience with sex on prom night?
Q. I’m going to the winter formal soon. I truely care about my boyfriend . I look forward to a the evening of dressing up etc. the thought of sex has entered my mind. If we have sex on the winter formal night I think it should be with someone like my ...
A. 28 October 2009: Like tux said, you dont have to have sex, but I suppose it will be more memorable.
But remember, its not going to be amazing on your first time.
Just make sure you have a bed, in a place your not going to be disturbed (preferably can stay there al... (read in full...)
I wanted to understand what men think when a girl rejects them?
Q. I had met this guy that was a dj and he always asked for sexy pictures, I gave him one because I thought we were dating. I know how dumb that sounds but he convinced me. But now he wants to be friends and I stopped sending him pictures. I basically ...
A. 28 October 2009: Prehaps he thinks your playing hard to get...?... (read in full...)
She spent the night in a single bed with her ex and doesn't think she's done anything wrong!
Q. Ok a need help and quick! my girlfriend yesterday went out to the pub which is cool a dont have a problem with her goin out howvere she tells me today that her ex (the girl she was in lover with only 10months ago was out with her) and that she ...
A. 25 October 2009: Well... oh this one is hard! If the guy wasnt a ex, would you still be mad? Because, yes she shared a bed with another guy, but in theory, if she hadnt been out drinking or had another alternitive of getting home, then she would have much rather... (read in full...)
I can't tell if I'm pregnant and I'm afraid to tell my parents!
Q. I had my period for the first three months and missed the fouth and got it the fifth month. Could i be pregnant? I havent had any symptoms and my periods are usually irregualar. HELP!!! Im scared that i was pregnant and that i had sex for the first ...
A. 25 October 2009: Well if the only time you had sex was 5 months ago, I doubt your pregnant. Plus maybe your just irregular, these things happen. I'd wait for your next period (but please dont fret if its a few days late, stress delays these things!) If it doesnt c... (read in full...)
Going to Homecoming in a week and don't have any ideas on what to do after!
Q. Need Help quick ! Going to Homecoming in a week and dont have any ideas on what to do after. Any suggestions ? Please Help!...
A. 21 October 2009: I assume your talking about an after party or something? Right, its always hard to get someone to hold a party, as their parents wont want it- BUT its always fun to have a sleepover, with both guys and girls (if its ok with your parents) and then... (read in full...)
Should we be friends or FWB?
Q. I've been talking to this guy for a while now, and he is so sweet and really nice, but I'm confused about how i feel about him My friends take the piss out of him, but sometimes i get surges of time thaat i really wanna be with him and stuff li...
A. 21 October 2009: Dont go into the fwb zone...
if you like him your friends should accept that and not take the mick. Have a quiet word with them, then go for it :)
xx... (read in full...)
Can a girl get pregnant from dry humping?
Q. Okay so me and my boyfriend went to the movies on Sunday. And we got caught in the moment so we started dry humping we both had our clothes on though. I ***never*** took my clothes off and neither did he. But when i got home i checked my pants and ...
A. 21 October 2009: Wait you were dry humping in a cinema theatre?!
Ok... no you cant be pregnant, yes its possible but not with that many clothes on x... (read in full...)
Can't figure out whether I like this guy or not?
Q. Theres this guy that goes to my college, i see him around sometimes. well about once and we said hi. We've been speaking on msn for like 5 months though, and we are always chatting and getting on well. He flirts sometimes, not lots but a little :...
A. 21 October 2009: Theres nothing wrong with going to the cinema with him, or anything like that, just dont act couply until your sure you like him, i.e no kissing or cuddling, because thats gonna lead him on.
Ok, a few months ago I was pretty much in your situ... (read in full...)
Can't figure out whether I like this guy or not?
Q. Theres this guy that goes to my college, i see him around sometimes. well about once and we said hi. We've been speaking on msn for like 5 months though, and we are always chatting and getting on well. He flirts sometimes, not lots but a little :...
A. 20 October 2009: Well you dont have to go in a serious relationship, you can date him for a while and see if you get along, and prehaps you'll forget about this other guy :)
Just dont string him along if it wont happen!
xx... (read in full...)
Am I totally out of line here? Uncomfortable about a text my girlfriend received.
Q. well it started bad in the first place because i looked on my gf phone at a message that a male friend of hers sent to her. the message said and it was forwarded to her ....you and i do it in the bedroom.we do it in the livingroom we do it all over ...
A. 20 October 2009: Mate, that text is just a chainmail thing thats sent around. I would have no problem sending to to my friends. I get millions of them, admittedly most not as graphic but ive got worse.
Dont worry about it :)
x... (read in full...)
What does "exclusive" mean while dating?
Q. I started dating this guy and it was funny when he said we were exclusively but now i feel dumb cuz i dont know what exclusively means. help me?...
A. 20 October 2009: Just means you both are committed to each other :)
and if you were to do things with other people it would be classed as cheating.
Sounds like he likes you!
Good luck :)
xx... (read in full...)
How do I save a relationship that's going downhill?
Q. hey i need help with my relationship, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 month now. but i feel it is going down hill and i dont no what to do, when we first started going out it was good but he kept joking about this girl he ...
A. 20 October 2009: Yeah he sounds like a jerk. Do what CaringGuy said.
Dont worry about it chick you can do so much better :)
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Suspicious letters...
Q. okay. so i was searching through my boyfriends room the other day and i came across a letter, behind it was more . there were about 7 or 8 of them saying "i love you " and such. His mom claims that there has never been another gurl come to the house ...
A. 20 October 2009: Hmm unless you want him to know you snooped in his room you cant really confront him.
I expect they are just letters from past girlfriends. Its not healthy if hes still obsessing over them, but I still keep Valentines Day cards and stuff from ex's... (read in full...)
What do teenage girls whisper with each other about?
Q. Hi, can only teenage girls answer this please. I'm just wondering what you talk about when your go into circles and whisper.... It intemidates my friends and I lol so just wondering. ...
A. 19 October 2009: EVERYTHING YOU COULD POSSIBLY IMAGINE
Mainly boys.... (read in full...)
I am going to the homecoming and I need tips! Help!
Q. Need help! Going to Homecoming and I need some ideas! My gf is going to wear either a purple or red dress. Need help!...
A. 16 October 2009: Id just match the dress with the tie. You can get a really cool patterned purple tie, and then just a plain shirt, probs in white.. along with the black suit you'll look great :)... (read in full...)
I am going to the homecoming and I need tips! Help!
Q. Need help! Going to Homecoming and I need some ideas! My gf is going to wear either a purple or red dress. Need help!...
A. 13 October 2009: Well purple and red are pretty different, so when shes decided, ask her for a sample of her dress and get a matching tie.
BEWARE! There are many shades of purple and red, and you want to match! Men dont realise this...
Anyway, untill shes decided,... (read in full...)
If I can get her into it it's OK, right?
Q. if i was in the mood for sex and my gf isn`t and i did things to make her horney like foreplay is it safe to assume i can proceed? if she resisted at first but then gave in then it`s ok? its not rape if she ends up enjoying it right?...
A. 5 October 2009: Well its not rape, but I doubt your relationship will last if you keep on doing it.... (read in full...)
Are there stereotypes about cowboy boots I am unaware of?
Q. I am a 26-year old young professional and I have been dating a 30-year old man for almost two years. I recently mentioned that I wanted a pair of cowboy boots to wear over jeans just to go around the town with him because I liked the look. He pr...
A. 4 October 2009: I AM 16 and I dont see many girls wearing them tbh and I have no idea there was a sterotype about them! Personally I think they look nice with jeans! Maybe if you wore them with fishnets and a short skirt it would look whorish but go ahed and get ... (read in full...)
At what age can I legally move in with my mom?
Q. Hi. Right, my problem. I HATE my dad. I really hate him! My parents have divorced and they now live only a couple of streets away from each other. My brothers and i spend half the week with mum and the other half with our dad. I was wondering,...
A. 4 October 2009: I think your mum could get custody of you right now. You can llegaly live on your own at 16, so if you wanted to wait untill then, you wouldnt have to do the custody thing, but your dad might complain.
Talk to your mum about it :) she should sort... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with her or not?
Q. Hi iv been out with my girlfriend for 3 years now and she is a little bit older tgan me and she wants to have sex but im not fully comfident with my body i have muscle but iv got a bit of fat on my belly only a little and it knocks my confidence ...
A. 4 October 2009: Hun, if your not ready, then your not ready. She will wait for you if you dont want to make this step, just tell her that!
As for your tummy, dont worry! I feel exactly the same, and believe me she wont even notice. My boyfriend has a little bit ... (read in full...)
Girls, do you like it when guys wear eyeliner, or "guyliner"?
Q. do girls like it when a guy wears guyliner? i would like girls' opinions. thanks for any responses... ...
A. 3 October 2009: Not unless your a emo-y kind of guy, or it fits in with your fashion.
Otherwise no.... (read in full...)
How should I apologize for accidentally touching her breast?
Q. So, theres this girl in my 9th grade english and P.E. classes, and we been hanging out alot. I like her, she likes me, and we get along really well. I hug her almost every time we have to leave eachother for classes/ bus, although were not actually ...
A. 30 September 2009: Just forget about it. It happens sometimes but im sure she will realise it was a mistake, if she even noticed! x... (read in full...)
Good suggestions for my best friends b-day, should I center it around his kids?
Q. My best friends birthday is coming up this saturday. I was thinking about making a collage of pictures of him and his kids. There is one picture I have of all of them in front of a fountain I was thinking about making that the focal point. Anyway is ...
A. 22 September 2009: Yay :)
Congrats!!
xx... (read in full...)
Can someone tell me what dry sex is?
Q. Hey... im a little confused can someone help me. ok im not really into sex but my boyfriend fingers me and the other day he mentioned the words dry sex and honestly i dont know what 'dry sex' means so i just went along with it and changed the subj...
A. 20 September 2009: Its like going through the movements of sex, without actually having sex. Like rubbing against each other. It can be done whilst wearing clothes, or not, but be careful if you have none on because if he comes, there is a slight chance you could get ... (read in full...)
How long does sperm live outside the male body?
Q. My girlfriend and I want to have a baby, She is the dominant one in the relationship, however she wants to have the baby. She also does not want to have sex to get pregnant, so we are trying to come up with other ways to get her pregnant. I want ...
A. 18 September 2009: Emily- the poster is a woman too hehe
But sorry I cant answer you question, I'll just say, where are you getting the sperm from? It could cause complications in the future if its from a close friend.
Good luck xx... (read in full...)
What did his answer on Facebook mean?
Q. Hi! Ok I am so happy well before I said things that I regret to the boy I like allot and I apologised yesterday and he replied today and said.....haha we all make mistakes..... What should I say back? Does he like me back now? Signs: Sta...
A. 18 September 2009: Boys dont read into answers. Or put cryptic clues like '...' which to a girl may mean its leading onto something more. But boys just say what they mean. Sorry xx... (read in full...)
Why are people trying to get between me and my g/f?
Q. Hullo... My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly two years....yaaaaay...im 17 turning 18 soon, and shes 18. We love eachother very much, blah blah, youve heard it all before. For some reason, some of her male friends are all insisting on...
A. 16 September 2009: People are jealous and will always try to split you up, but its fantastic to know neither of you are letting it.
Congrats, im really happy for you :)
xx... (read in full...)
I popped the big question to my ex but her boyfriend was there
Q. Hello world!!!!! Mmmmmmm I popped the big question to my ex and her new boyfriend was there. She didn't answer. She wants to talk about 2day.she asked how would it look if I went upstair with the ring on? Is she tellin me yes but that dude was ...
A. 16 September 2009: Wait shes your ex... so why are you wanting to marry her?
And she has a boyfriend.
Sorry dude, give it up.
You'll find someone :)
xx... (read in full...)
Good suggestions for my best friends b-day, should I center it around his kids?
Q. My best friends birthday is coming up this saturday. I was thinking about making a collage of pictures of him and his kids. There is one picture I have of all of them in front of a fountain I was thinking about making that the focal point. Anyway is ...
A. 16 September 2009: Thats a great idea, as long as it wont look a little strange that the collage is of his kids, not you and him.
Prehaps you could make it with the kids?
Otherwise i think its a very sweet idea :)
xx... (read in full...)
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