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So ok, I dont know the ways of the world, but who actually does? Life is a mystery. So thats why this site exists!

I have used this site before to help with my problems, and I thought I should give something back. I want to help others who are in difficult situations.

I have been horse-riding for most of my life and I love it. I currently have one horse. He's gorgeous. I also love acting and drama.

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My boyfriend called me a stalker and it was justified because of my actions. What should I do to recover from this?

Q.   This morning my boyfriend borrowed my phone and saw that i had typed in google the name of a girl that he had recently added on a social media site to see who they were. I denied i had done it and didnt know how it was on there which was an obvious ...

A.   9 August 2014: Just make it into a joke. Yeah it was a bit over protective, but just say you were curious as to who she was and how you knew her. Be honest and say why you did it. Everyone gets moments of insecurity. I'm pretty sure if I ever mention a guys name... (read in full...)

Why is my sister's age such a big deal in her achievement and success?

Q.   My sister is 23 and everyone is going on about how amazing her success is, please help me see why it's so impressive!!? She left home at 20, and moved to Paris to work in fashion, since she felt this is where her career was and would benefit he...

A.   9 August 2014: You come across quite bitter. 23 is relatively young age to achieve such success, thats all there is to it, really. She's done extremely well.... (read in full...)

I feel slightly weird that my girlfriend follows my best friend on Instagram

Q.   Is it normal for girlfriend to follow your friends on instagram? My best friend is on Instagram. I don't have an account so I really don't know too much about it. But my GF does have instagram, and I noticed that she follows my best friend. Not...

A.   5 July 2013: It's not that big a deal really. I think the idea of instagram is that you follow loads of people so you can see lots of different pictures. Have they met each other? I suppose it would be a little odd if they didn't know each other but most likely ... (read in full...)

'X' in a text message, is it just for people close to you or for anyone and everyone?

Q.   Ok, so this may sound strange to some but agreed upon by others - I just want to know weather I'm being unnecessarily stupid and to get others views. I've been with my girlfriend for just over a year and we moved in with each other two weeks ...

A.   15 June 2012: Actually, I usually find less is more with texting... let me explain. I know a lot of my guy friends don't bother with x's at the end of messages. Personally I find all girls usually send at least one. I usually match the person. If they send me ... (read in full...)

Could fate bring us back together?

Q.   Do you honestly believe if two people are meant to be together that they will meet again? Because I made a stupid, stupid mistake! I'm not going to go into what happened. It was down to miscommunication and things being twisted and misconstrued. ...

A.   28 February 2012: I believe in fate, but I also believe you have to work hard to get what you want. If you want this guy back, go get him. If that doesn't work, you're not meant to be, and there will be someone else out there who's a million times better for you :)... (read in full...)

Is he using me for sex even though he has a girlfriend?

Q.   this is a long story, everything i will mention is pretty important to the case but basically i just want a strangers point of view on what i should do... im 16 and i was dating this boy (j) in september, and i really loved him. sounds silly but...

A.   24 February 2012: Yes. This is a ridiculous mess. He's a boy and he wants sex, from both you and this other girl, which he is clearly getting. You all sound very young and its getting a bit silly. I don't think you love him, I think you really hate seeing him in the ... (read in full...)

I'm 20 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend will not tell his parents. What should I do?

Q.   Dear cupid. Im 20 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. my bf of 2 years. still has not told his parents and I dont know what to do. I gave him option to leave if he wanted and he decided to stay but is still making no effort. His parents need to know ...

A.   30 December 2011: My friend was in exactly your situation, her boyfriend refused to tell them (and they both lived in the same town). In the end, her parents bumped into his parents on her DUE DATE, and had to let them know. The baby arrived 2 days later and although ... (read in full...)

I'm FWB with my younger ex, but he has another girl as an FWB too! How do I get him to like me more than her?

Q.   Hi everyone, well I really need help in this situation and please reply with honesty. well here we go first of all im a 16 yr old girl and I have an ex bf that my lil brother present to me, my ex is 14 and not turning 15 till 8 months and im ...

A.   21 November 2011: The one thing i've learnt about guys is that if you give them attention, they get bored and think they can treat you like dirt, because you'll always be around. Ignore them and they'll come trailing back eventually (at which point you laugh in their ... (read in full...)

If a girl has kissed say 12-13 guys in two months, what kind of girl does that make her? Would you want to get involved with her?

Q.   If a girl has kissed say 12-13 guys in just about two months, what kind of girl does that make her? Would you want to get involved with this girl, or is it better to not go there? I ask because I met a girl who I got talking to in a club and I ask...

A.   20 November 2011: I'm guessing you've both just started uni. In that case the number is going to be higher, because everyone is going out and meeting new people. I don't think it matters... if she'd slept with 12 in 2 months then ok, thats pretty extreme, but its ... (read in full...)

Next month I'm meeting my Boyfriend's family for Christmas. But he'd rather I didn't give them presents. How will it look if I arrive empty handed?

Q.   I have a dilemma of etiquette on my hands! Next month, I'll be meeting my boyfriend's family for the first time; his parents, grandmother and three siblings. My boyfriend has a rather acerbic relationship with his siblings - an older brother and ...

A.   14 November 2011: Get a big tin of chocolates, everyone digs into them around christmas :) ... (read in full...)

Do girls always find nude art in a guy's place offensive?

Q.   Ok, I studied film in college and since then have gotten interested in still photography as well, especially photographers like Howard Schatz, Patrick Demarchelier, Andreas H. Bitesnich, and Herb Ritts. Nudes happen to be one of the subject-matter ...

A.   13 November 2011: I think some girls would, just because being naked is still taboo in some places. I don't think i'd mind it as such, but if there were a lot of pictures of perfectly formed women i'd definatly feel self concious and feel like you'd expect me to have ... (read in full...)

How often do I take my girlfriend out? And where?

Q.   I just got into a relationship with this amazing girl. She's funny, smart, nice, and beautiful, and we went on a first date, we held hands, went roller skating, it was nice, now this is my first gf, so I don't know what to much. My friends say that ...

A.   9 November 2011: When I had boyfriends at your age, I would only really go on dates with them at weekends, but of course i'd see them at school and things too :) I'd suggest meals and cinema, or even just getting a coffee and talking for hours, you have so much to ... (read in full...)

IS my girlfriend cheating on me? I need women's advice!

Q.   I just want to know if my girlfriend is cheating. we been together for some time but since we both in two different colleges we dont see each other as much but we do txt and talk on the phone. she recently sent me a picture and i noticed her butt is ...

A.   29 October 2011: This is so ridiculous. If having sex doggy style gave you a noticably bigger ass, do you think any women would agree to do it? Seriously, it was probably just the angle of the picture.... (read in full...)

Too strong a hymen???

Q.   I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to ...

A.   29 October 2011: This doesn't sound normal, i'd go and see a doctor.... (read in full...)

Is it normal for sex to feel different with/without a condom?

Q.   dear cupid, soo, the first few times that i had sex, the guy used a condom. buuut there were a few times after that when he DIDN'T use a condom. please don't start lecturing me about how this is risky behavior and that i could wind up getting ...

A.   11 October 2011: It's probably because theres lots of lube on a condom, so naturally you won't get that without, and it'll hurt more. Personally I don't feel much difference, but guys do (find it better without), so I advise you to get them into the habit of wear... (read in full...)

Can a school nurse give a pregnancy test?

Q.   Hi im 15 and i think i might be pregnant the last time i had sex was early september and i had a period since then but it was kind of weird. A little over a week after my period i started spotting and my bras are leaving marks on me i know its ...

A.   11 October 2011: Good luck and let us know :) Your Dad's girlfriend sounds really supportive!... (read in full...)

Can a school nurse give a pregnancy test?

Q.   Hi im 15 and i think i might be pregnant the last time i had sex was early september and i had a period since then but it was kind of weird. A little over a week after my period i started spotting and my bras are leaving marks on me i know its ...

A.   10 October 2011: It sounds unlikely that your pregnant :-) I don't think your school nurse will stock them. Mine didn't at high school, but at college they ran a clinic on Fridays which did. There is most likely a sexual health clinic in your closest city which will... (read in full...)

Flatmate problems....

Q.   I've just moved into a shared student flat in a convenient location near the uni I've just started a course at. It's an ideal location. I moved in a bit later than two of the other people in the flat because I live within an hour and waited until...

A.   10 October 2011: It's always going to be tricky if you've moved in a week later (I presume you missed freshers week?) as thats the greatest week to befriend your flatmates so they might see you as an outsider for a bit. I'd try and make an effort to spend some time ... (read in full...)

Anyone understand the reasoning behind making high schoolers wake up so early?

Q.   This really isn't a good dear cupid question but i have no where else to ask this. Does anyone know why they make high school students wake up so early as opposed to middle schoolers and elementary school students? In my school district, th...

A.   22 August 2011: Maybe because your growing up and need to be more mature and have more responsibility? Theres actually a school in Scotland who have lessons from around 12am-6pm, based on research which showed that teenagers were noctural! Not sure if I fully be... (read in full...)

I don't understand his text message

Q.   I received this text off a guy. But this was part of the text. It said "I feel bad coz I enjoyed the flirting with you and that's why I haven't been talking to you..." What did he mean??...

A.   8 August 2011: Does he have a girlfriend? Or some other reason why he shouldn't enjoy the flirting?... (read in full...)

I want to bed my boyfriend's friend! What should I do?

Q.   i love my boyfriend soooo much i have been with him for 6yrs. And he is the sweetest guy u will ever meet he does everything for i mean everything. But his friend is sooooo hotttttt i wanna have sex with him. what do i do?...

A.   8 August 2011: Dont be ridiculous, if you loved him that much you wouldn't be bothering about anyone else. And if this other guy was any kind of a man he wouldn't sleep with you anyway, out of respect for his friend. If you feel like cheating, i'd leave them both... (read in full...)

I thought it was normal to masturbate?

Q.   so the other day i was playing never have i ever with my friends. we are all 15 and we are like the more popular girls in school. a few have them have had sex and everyone else has been fingered. anyways someone said "never have i ever mastraba...

A.   17 July 2011: We play this game all the time, and no girl ever admits to it- EVER. And we're all 18. Everyone just say's 'Oh I think its strange, why would I need to do that?'. It's kinda taboo. I would never admit to it in real life. Your normal, and girls just... (read in full...)

My friend told my boyfriend I was cheating even though I'm not! Should I end the friendship?

Q.   Ok so this girl who is suppose to be my best friend told my boyfriend that i was cheating on him by sending naked photos to some other guy. Truth is, i wasnt cheating on him and yeah she did go through my phone and saw a picture of me in my bra but ...

A.   10 June 2011: Don't dump your boyfriend, he's done nothing wrong! I agree with other posters, is your friend into him? Maybe prewarn him about that. As for your friend, she doesn't sound like a particularly nice person. You don't have to ditch her completly, but ... (read in full...)

Do all virgins bleed? My boyfriend is now doubting that I'm wasnt a virgin because I didnt bleed!

Q.   I am 20 and had my first sex with my boyfriend, but my boyfriend doubt that I was not a virgin just because I didnt bleed.. Do all virgins bleed??? has my virgnity gone because I used toys before I has sex with my boyfriend??...

A.   1 June 2011: Nope, I didn't. Neither did a lot of my friends.... (read in full...)

Is this normal?

Q.   My bf and I had oral sex for the first time and we both really enjoyed it, but my question is if is normal for me fo feel discomfort and little pain everytime I pee on the clitoris part??? Like I said when we were having sex iit didn't hurt or ...

A.   21 April 2011: A load of my friends, after having sex for the first time/ with a new partner ended up getting a 'water infection' which isn't serious, but it hurts when you pee. It's easily cleared up with some antibiotics from the doctor or sometimes it tends to ... (read in full...)

How can I get over her when I sit right next to her?

Q.   Ok... so my girlfriend and i are both in highschool. Im a junior and she's a sophmore. We both met in the same class and hit it off instantly and soon started to date. Well we fell harsh for each other and wouldnt give up on one another.... ...

A.   22 March 2011: The mutual friend could be very handy, ask her if theres any chance of saving the relationship. But you need to talk to your ex face to face, and soon. If theres not then i'd just move on i'm afraid.... (read in full...)

I'd like to cook my b/f something nice. Any suggestions?

Q.   hello everyone in 2 weeks time my boyfriends parents are going away for the week, were together 1 and a half years now and i've never really cooked anything special for him, well while his parents are away i want to cook him something really nice. h...

A.   22 March 2011: I don't know how good a cook you are, but stir-frys are pretty easy and very tasty. You just need noodles, boil them up. Fry some ingredients up in a big pan, whatever you like to eat. I reccomend bacon and mushrooms. Then add the noodles and fry ... (read in full...)

195 pictures of porn stars in his phone!

Q.   i am very saden with my baby's dad recently i wanted to surprise him to make a picture collage with the pictures that he had in his phone with my little girl and for my surprise he had 195 pictures of naked women specially with porn stars and i ...

A.   17 February 2011: Well, he's a guy. They generally like naked women. Whats the big deal?... (read in full...)

What makes a man "good at screwing"?

Q.   Question for the women: I hear men described as being "good in bed" and as being "good at screwing". What's the difference, and what makes a man "good at screwing"? Is this a skill that can be learned, or is it some sort of natural ability?...

A.   8 February 2011: Basically the guys that are 'better in bed' shall we say are the ones who dont just get themselves off but actually bother about the woman's enjoyment as well. Obviously theres other stuff but being a girl and spending a lot of time gossiping with... (read in full...)

What does she mean "I'm not that great a girl?"

Q.   What does a college girl really mean when she says "I'm really not that great a girl" after asking her out? I met a girl in college and things were going great. We both had majors in journalism and had a lot of things in common. I never had the lu...

A.   6 February 2011: Ok, either: A) She has really low self esteem, and thinks shes not good enough (I think you'll know if this is like her) B) She likes this other guy she's going out with and wanted to make you feel better by saying she's not that great. C) She s... (read in full...)

Married 5 years, still virgins, help!

Q.   This year I will celebrate my 5 year wedding anniversary. Unfortunately, my wife and I are still virgins. I love her with all of my heart. People that know us think we have the most wonderful, romantic relationship. Love letters every morning before ...

A.   29 January 2011: Yeah, technically you could get an anulment as you havn't consumated the marriage. 5 years and no sex?! You really need to talk to her, maybe shes scared? I guess she may not know what shes missing.... (read in full...)

Can I get pregnant if he came but I didn't?

Q.   Is it possible that I can get pregnant if my boyfriend came in me but I never came? And I start around the 5th of every month?...

A.   29 January 2011: Um... if this were the case I doubt many woman would get pregnant ;D Seriously though, if you dont know this you probs you read up on sex ed before you have sex again. But basically, yes of course you can get pregnant. All it takes is one sperm (s... (read in full...)

My boyfriend didnt get my anything for Christmas, do I have a right to be upset?

Q.   My Boyfriend of one year previously best friends for two years, didn't get me anything for christmas last year and I'm a little confused if i should be upset or not. I've splurged a little too much on him since it was our first christmas and that ...

A.   25 January 2011: If he cared, he'd get you a gift. I'm pretty broke, like all the time, but when its my boyfriend/bestfriend/parents birthday I SAVE. Or if things are really bad, its not hard to make a CD with all your favorite songs, or decorate a picture fram... (read in full...)

If he really loved me would a 20 minute drive matter?

Q.   I'm 15 years old, and I like this guy who just turned 17. He lives in my moms town, 20 minutes away. We both liked each other for almost 3 years, and just recently he told me he loved me, which considering he didn't even tell me that when we dated ...

A.   20 January 2011: If he loved you, he'd bloody drive! Guy who liked me acted like a taxi for me (of course I didn't allow him to do this often, just if we were going to the same place. But the offers were sweet) Na sounds like a lost cause, he wants you to waste yo... (read in full...)

Should I tell my wife I cheated on her with over 30 prostitutes?

Q.   I'm 35, my wife 36, we have 2 kids, married for 7 years. Before our kids born we have really great relationship and have sex every day. Sine she got pregnant the first kid her interest for sex declined sharply. No matter what I tried the most we can ...

A.   19 January 2011: Ermm... if you want to keep her, then no don't tell her just keep it in the past. However if you have a guilty concience and can't do this, then your gonna have to keep her. Just don't expect her to stay. You basically cheated on her with over 30 w... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to not tell anyone I'm pregnant, and that I'm secretly getting an abortion?

Q.   I need some good advice, I'm 18 and I'm in college it's my first year. I found out that I'm one month pregnant and I don't know what to do. I feel as if my life is over. I'm thinking about getting an abortion without anyone knowing. Is that wrong, ...

A.   11 January 2011: No, its completly your choice. If its only your first year of college you might not know if your friends there are seriously against abortion or something, so best to keep these things quite. If you have a close friend that you trust, you shou... (read in full...)

I feel he loves this 12 year old more than he does me!

Q.   my bf of a little over a year, finally got rid of his gf of 13 years. she was a tweeker and cheated on him, got pregnant, made him think it was his, found out it wasnt, one week b4 baby turned 5 years old and now is adament on raising her kids. well ...

A.   9 January 2011: Oh my god, your a grown woman! i'm a teenager and I already know that if I had a kid i'd give them the shirt of my back if they needed it. He's raised her as his daughter, so she is. HE LOVES HIS KID. He sounds like a damn decent parent, thank god ... (read in full...)

What exactly is 'second base'?

Q.   what exactly is 'second base'?...

A.   7 January 2011: The way I see it: First base: Making out. Second base: Using your hands, wanking off a boy/fingering a girl. Third base: Oral sex. Fourth Base: Sex. Guess it varies as to where your from :-)... (read in full...)

Planning on losing my virginity but scared about a lot of things!

Q.   Im 13 year old and im planning to loose my virginity to a 16 year old soon ! Dont know what to do! I love him but i got doubts im scared he'll leave me or change towards me , i honestly am confused , his never offered for sex but i feel like i am...

A.   6 January 2011: If you have doubts your not ready. Also... your 13! Thats ridiculously young, and quite possibly illegal (he could be done for rape, although im not 100% sure of the laws in your country.) Guys are likely to boast, so rumours may go around. If you ... (read in full...)

I love her but don't want to be one of her sex slaves

Q.   Hi everyone, In short I know a girl who I care for and think I love, the problem is she is beautiful and younger and does not want to settle for any one man. She has a string of open relationships where she is sexually intimate with a few people. ...

A.   3 January 2011: You can, but you'll end up getting hurt, jealous and bitter if there are feelings involved. I'd try and find someone else :-) ... (read in full...)

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