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Hi im 25yrs old yes i know im young, tho i have alot of maturity for my age. i am very logical. I have seen an heard alot of things so i feel i am able to help others in similiar situations and would like to generally help others. I live in the UK .

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Are cold sores herpes?

Q.   Okay, this may be a bit stupid but please bare with me. I'm 20 years old and I've just found out I have herpes simplex type 1. I haven't been tested, I've been told that cold sores are herpes? I've had cold sores since I was a baby and I didn'...

A.   17 July 2012: yes they really are. Dont feel disgusted about it you were born with it not much you could of done. You just have to becareful when you feel one coming on and if their is no touching till its gone. their are various things you can use on the cold ... (read in full...)

Positions for a smaller guy

Q.   My boyfriend is on the small size. I was just wondering if you had any suggestions for specific positions that would help me feel him the best. Thanks in advance!...

A.   6 June 2012: their are many positions that can help get deeper penetration, however their are things you can buy as well to give more girth or a different stroke. http://www.sexinfo101.com/deepimpact.shtml there are a few positions on this site. hope it helps ... (read in full...)

What could this bump inside my vagina be?

Q.   Basically, a couple of days ago I was touching myself down there, and on the edge of my outer lip I found a very small skin coloured, headless bump (not a blister). I tried squeezing it yesterday (it was very hard) and after a while a small bit of ...

A.   4 June 2012: It can also be a cyst dont think the worst just go get it checked out by your gp. I know it can be embaressing but they have seen many more than yours and alot worse. try and not get worried just go see your gp. xxx... (read in full...)

Will I find someone who doesn't believe in sex before marriage?

Q.   Hi, I am a Christian and I believe in no sex before marriage, however I don't know that I will ever find someone who feels the same and is also a virgin, are there any people like that out there??...

A.   26 May 2012: I am sure their are many christian who believe the same thing so your not alone. whether you will find someone who isnt christian and is a virgin is possible but perhaps somewhat unlikely. have faith.... (read in full...)

How important is relationship experience when choosing a partner?

Q.   I wonder, how important is dating or relationship experience when choosing a partner? Does someone need to have relationship experience for you to consider them a viable partner? How do you view inexperience or someone with little relationship...

A.   23 May 2012: I guess in my experience men who have had a few relationships tend to know what their looking for more defined. Someone who is knew to relationships sometimes dont know what to expect or quite know how some things are. i wouldn't say that not ... (read in full...)

If I don't learn to relax the relationship will have problems down the road

Q.   I have some questions about how to avoid being needy/clingy and how to relax and let things happen at their own pace... First, some background: I have been seeing a woman now for three months or so. Our situation is somewhat complicated by ...

A.   27 January 2012: makes more sense hearing of your last relationship. Perhaps you think shes too good to be true because she is better stability than your previous partner. Just try to be you. if you want to text her or call do it as long as its less than 50 times ... (read in full...)

If I don't learn to relax the relationship will have problems down the road

Q.   I have some questions about how to avoid being needy/clingy and how to relax and let things happen at their own pace... First, some background: I have been seeing a woman now for three months or so. Our situation is somewhat complicated by ...

A.   25 January 2012: I had this problem a while back with my ex. i over obsessed that wasnt the reason we split but it was a large part of it. my sister noticed how i was and she said you have to relax and let things run its course or you will ruin something pretty ... (read in full...)

What is this married woman REALLY saying?

Q.   What does it mean when a married woman says that she answers more to me than her husband that doesn't talk much?...

A.   23 January 2012: I find it more worrying that your entertaining a married woman. It must mean she has some deep seated issue with her own relationship which mean she is unsteady and not ready for a new one she could easily make mistakes that she will regret, she ... (read in full...)

Taunts from people about my appearance are upsetting me!

Q.   Hi Aunts, this isn't really a relationship question as such but I was hoping that you could give me some advice about dealing with people who make nasty comments. I would have been described as a Tomboy when I was younger as I always played fo...

A.   22 January 2012: I was the same when i was younger however i wasnt just playing soccer i helped out on the farm. So i had no idea on fashion or really on make up. Very nieve about how people acted as well, some can be really cruel but they do it to get kicks ... (read in full...)

Could she have recorded me? If this video got out it would ruin my life! What should I do?

Q.   Hello there, I really need help. I am a guy and I have a girlfriend who I really love. Some time ago (about a year ago) we had a bad period and in this period I started chatting. In a chatbox I met a girl and we talked on msn for a while. ...

A.   22 January 2012: It is as simple as this you screwed up, and now fate will play its hand. She either A did not tape it and life is all good and well. Or she did tape it and she keeps it secretly to view herself or she will put it on a website who knows. It is now ... (read in full...)

Can I wear black to a wedding?

Q.   HELP NEEDED!!! I know this has nothing to do with relationships but all input wanted!! My cousin gets married in April...and from my direct family (mum, dad, brother) im the one who has to attend the whole day (as in ceremony at church and party...

A.   22 January 2012: black is ok for whenever however everyone sees weddings as a colourful day. I think as long as its tasteful with a bit of colour its fine. As you said your going to wear gold fantastic that will break it up and not look like your going to a ... (read in full...)

My wife wants kids and I don't!

Q.   I'm 26 and married for 4 and a 1/2 years and my wife wants kids, but sometimes i don't. Yesterday we were in her friends home and i saw their kid energy all night and i thought to myself: "My GOd! I don't want kids, i dont want that hell! I dont ...

A.   21 January 2012: i agree with honeypie. you really should have thought about your futures ie kids marriage careers, you need to talk to her about this bring up your concerns tell her how you feel then ask what she wants to do. As honeypie said if you give her what ... (read in full...)

My gf is pregnant with her abusive ex-bf's baby! What do I do now?

Q.   I met a girl 3 months ago, and we fell madly in love and were both 39 and have talked about marriage and we both feel we have found our soul mates in each other. During these 3 months ive found out that her last relationship the guy cheated on her ...

A.   21 January 2012: You got into things real quick and im not saying that it cant happen that way just that things can change very quickly early on in an relationship. I think she is focusing on her and the baby and wants it just that way her life is complicated and i ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to glance at a woman's breasts if she is not showing cleavage?

Q.   Hi, hopefully this question is appropriate and it doesn't offend anybody. Is it okay to glance at a woman's breasts if she is not showing cleavage? Suppose for the purpose of this question that the guy is at a social gathering like a party or...

A.   19 January 2012: Whether its ok or not its a cheeky thing to do, And i am positive in this that most people have done it whether its breast or a crotch wondering what is under the hood lol. as long as nobody really notices i dont see the harm in having a little ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend hearing things and assumes I'm cheating!

Q.   Please I am need of desprate assistance Yesterday my girlfriend came over to my house to study she was already mad at me because she is thinking I cheated because Long story short I didn't cum the day before and I told her "I'm gonna cum ok" she ...

A.   18 January 2012: she seems paranoid to say the least. Alot of women or men go through this phase. its vunerable place and scary, however if she does not change this attitude you wont be together for very long. And as for your dad cheating she is just trying to ... (read in full...)

Was this guy touching me in a non-sexual way? Is that even possible?

Q.   This is kind of a long story, it's partly about what happened yesterday and partly about my entire life... Please bear with me! I'm an almost 20 year old girl, I'm a virgin and I've never had a boyfriend, and lately I've been getting frustrat...

A.   15 January 2012: aww no problem i'm so glad it worked its self out in the end. At least now you have the answers to your question. All the best aphex xx... (read in full...)

Was this guy touching me in a non-sexual way? Is that even possible?

Q.   This is kind of a long story, it's partly about what happened yesterday and partly about my entire life... Please bear with me! I'm an almost 20 year old girl, I'm a virgin and I've never had a boyfriend, and lately I've been getting frustrat...

A.   15 January 2012: aww no problem i'm so glad it worked its self out in the end. At least now you have the answers to your question. All the best aphex xx... (read in full...)

Long distance phone sex

Q.   My boyfriend and I are long distance and recently he's been saying he wants to hear me come over the phone. The problem is I feel silly, I'm not a kid but I get the giggles and when we do do this I want it to be amazing - I want him to be thinki...

A.   11 January 2012: i have done it before. You do feel rather silly however it can be lots of fun and exciting. I find it easier at night time that way i can close my eyes and imagine what we say or want each other to do and it doesnt feel so silly because its dark. ... (read in full...)

Was this guy touching me in a non-sexual way? Is that even possible?

Q.   This is kind of a long story, it's partly about what happened yesterday and partly about my entire life... Please bear with me! I'm an almost 20 year old girl, I'm a virgin and I've never had a boyfriend, and lately I've been getting frustrat...

A.   4 January 2012: He is a guy and their not normally that good to read their actions or thoughts. However you got a guy and two pretty girls i think you would be tempted to play a little without making it dirty of course. However as you said he could be that touchy ... (read in full...)

I have slept with 6 guys, and it is soon to be 7, is this a lot of people to have slept with at my age?

Q.   I am 19 and have had one long-term serious relationship, and a few shorter less intense ones. I have slept with 6 different guys, 3 of them boyfriends, 3 of them flings or one-night-stands. I am sort of considered a slut in the small town in wh...

A.   14 December 2011: Considering in the old days yes its way too many you should be ashamed tsk tsk tsk. However this is the new age. It is slightly frowned upon if you sleep with many guys (20 and above) gives off an impression. when i grew older the more i slept with ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend's issues about his life are really taking a toll on our relationship and me!

Q.   So this is kind of a long story... My boyfriend and I have had a pretty great relationship, up until about a week ago. We met last April. He told me he had broken up with his last girlfriend almost a year ago. She did cause some issues because s...

A.   8 December 2011: i agree with lauren. He is making excuses for his choices in his life. We walk the paths our life has instore for us. Not our past or our childhood it only defines us. At any point he could change if he wanted to. I think you should focus on ... (read in full...)

I am pregnant but don't want to tell date I've met online

Q.   ive been speaking to this guy who i meet on plent of fish for over a year now and never meet untill 2 weeks ago and have met twice now we get on really well over txt phone and in person, but the thing is he told me he wants to be with me and ...

A.   8 December 2011: You have to tell the truth to him no matter how scared you are because he will find out and he will be hurt that you missed that large detail. People do not like it when they are not told the whole truth and this is not something you can sweep ... (read in full...)

I need some ideas of where to take my girlfriend for New Year's Eve!

Q.   My girlfriend is coming to Manchester (UK) to spend New Years with me. Were both staying in a hotel from 28th December - 5th January. I have things planned to do for the entire time she's here.. But I'm struggling to think of what to do and ...

A.   10 November 2011: love the name lol he always seems to have dilemas. If you want to stay up late best not too do too much during the day so you have plenty of energy at night time, Try to look up if their are any special event for new years eve. some places have ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be friends with her if I can't be her boyfriend!

Q.   In short, I know a girl who I became friends with over the past year. But to be honest, being friends with her is not like being friends with one of my guy friends. We talk, or rather she does most of the talking. I find myself in a role of helping ...

A.   9 January 2011: No i dont think your selfish at all. i think your at a stage in your life were you have to think of yourself get your life going the way you want it to before putting everyone elses needs before your own. i think if you keep being a friend but not ... (read in full...)

Is Karma punishing me?

Q.   I want to know if anyone has ever broke someone's heart the wrong way then later on it happened to you? My girlfriend broke up with me this morning and I'm sick as a dog. Did you get feel like you couldn't make it fron one minute to the next?...

A.   8 January 2011: love is one of the best and most hardest things in this world. we all wish to meet the right one straight away but in a world such as today were you can meet anyone across the world its like fishing in the ocean with a little rod! so the likely hood ... (read in full...)

I slept with a prostitute and now feel regret

Q.   OMG.I slept with a prstitute and I was so sexed up and curious I asked if I could have a look at her pussy.part the lips and look in between. she consented and I was so overwelmed, impulsively I kissed her there. just a peck. I didn't lick or put my ...

A.   8 January 2011: everyone makes mistakes no exceptions! Least you know not to do it again as it does not have a positive effect on you. you were curious wanting to know and now you do! sleeping with a prostitute is not the answer to your problems. However ... (read in full...)

Will a woman be truly satisfied with an average guy if she has had large lovers in the past?

Q.   If a woman has had very large lovers in her past , can she really be truly satisfied with an average sized man later in life? ...

A.   6 January 2011: in my experience yes a woman can be satisfied with a smaller lover. although as alot of women will tell men is that if they know how to use it is better! so many men do not believe this but it really is true. doesnt always matter about size its ... (read in full...)

She has ignored me since I called her out for slapping me!

Q.   Should my friend Jill be ignoring me because I called her out for slapping me in the face? It was new years eve, a friends house, according to her It was my "stupid little comments about everything" that gave her the idea to slap me in front of a ...

A.   5 January 2011: you should leave her and not be friends. she doesnt respect you at all. you told her you did not like the slapping and she obviously does it because she can and get away with it. stand up for yourself and do not tolerate this behaviour. i wouldnt be ... (read in full...)

Any feedback from users of the implant?

Q.   I'm a 16 year old girl, who is a virgin and plans to remain so for a while, however I am one of those people who live by the mantra "better safe than sorry" and I am currently debating wheather or not to get the contraceptive implant and would like ...

A.   4 January 2011: aww no problem hunnie anything to help. but doesnt matter what you use mood swings are always their though if you get pain in the stomach area alot that went away for me on the implant but not the pill. xx... (read in full...)

Any feedback from users of the implant?

Q.   I'm a 16 year old girl, who is a virgin and plans to remain so for a while, however I am one of those people who live by the mantra "better safe than sorry" and I am currently debating wheather or not to get the contraceptive implant and would like ...

A.   3 January 2011: *quote* sof* well if your not sexually active i would go with condoms! what that is terrible she should protect herself at all times condoms are not that reliable and can burst so her chances are much worse than if she was on the pill or implant! ... (read in full...)

Any feedback from users of the implant?

Q.   I'm a 16 year old girl, who is a virgin and plans to remain so for a while, however I am one of those people who live by the mantra "better safe than sorry" and I am currently debating wheather or not to get the contraceptive implant and would like ...

A.   3 January 2011: this is my second implant. its not really sore to get it at all you get numbed first then they insert it which is slightly uncomfortable but nothing to complain at i think giving blood is worse lol. after two weeks you completely forget its their. ... (read in full...)

Staying clean :)

Q.   My friends sister cleans her vagina with yogurt. She says it makes everything smell good. I think this is crazy. But I also want to try it. Does anyone know if its safe? And how to do it? Also, if it doesn't work what can I use besides those in ...

A.   2 January 2011: Keep healthy is the first step. For this you need to minimize sugar intake, and maximize yogurt intake by eating not by putting it on or in your vagina. Why yogurt? Simple, really. The bacteria in your vagina is a certain type that is in only a ... (read in full...)

Is my Fetish too Weird?

Q.   this may seem weird but i'm 20 and a virgin. When i masturbate i like to wear girls panties. Is this a really weird thing to do? should i be really embarrased by this and learn to stop doing it?...

A.   27 December 2010: Suprise suprise you are not alone according to old stats 1 in every street wears womens under wear to masturbate catches the mess makes you feel closer to a women or just even the soft touch of the material. i myself think its quite kinky however ... (read in full...)

Merry Christmas, with an off-color queston!

Q.   This is NOT a relationship question. At least not yet :-). I'm just on a playful mood at the time, taking a break from work, and one of those weird and funny thoughts that give you the goosebumps came to my mind. I want to wish everyone a Merry ...

A.   21 December 2010: L M A O. Nice. If that truly did work on private parts i think alot of ladies would get more sleep. Merry Christmas!... (read in full...)

What does it mean if I'm unable to function?

Q.   I'm nearly 26 and a virgin. After losing patience with finding love, I finally worked up the courage to visit a brothel... twice. I failed both times. On the second occasion, the prostitute was trying very, very hard to get me hard and she was ...

A.   20 December 2010: i think deep down you know going to see a prostitute is like settling for second best and you know you can do better your also going to be under pressure and stress and this does not cause a happy surrounding in which helps. perhaps your just not ... (read in full...)

What does it mean if I'm unable to function?

Q.   I'm nearly 26 and a virgin. After losing patience with finding love, I finally worked up the courage to visit a brothel... twice. I failed both times. On the second occasion, the prostitute was trying very, very hard to get me hard and she was ...

A.   20 December 2010: i think deep down you know going to see a prostitute is like settling for second best and you know you can do better your also going to be under pressure and stress and this does not cause a happy surrounding in which helps. perhaps your just not ... (read in full...)

My first, but he does not want the blood when its expected.

Q.   Hi agony aunts! Im 15 and in a serious LDR. We spoke about what if we had sex. It would be my first, not his. But OUR first together. Obviously not soon, but what really bugged me was that I was asked if I had popped my cherry, I said no. I don't...

A.   18 December 2010: your very young and i know you think this is a dig against you but its not. do you know anything about contraception, do you know what happens if you get pregnant do you know what will happen if either of you are caught having sex do you know what a ... (read in full...)

Should I give a second change, or give up.

Q.   I have met this wonderful man 11 months ago whom i am now engaged to...the problem is his ex wont let him see his kids while he is with me...obviously she cant let go of him, and is jealous, even tho they were not together when we met...My fiance ...

A.   18 December 2010: your taking this way to personal. of course it hurts but your making the situation worse and not better. and his kids come first and that is the way it should be. he had them with her and now has a responsibillity to take care of them plus he had ... (read in full...)

I like bigger women and am having trouble dealing with it.

Q.   I have a thing for bigger women and i dont know how to deal with it. While Im not into the deal of larger women getting larger or "gaining" and not into the feeding thing, i definitely have an appreciation for plus-sized women, and am unsure if my ...

A.   13 December 2010: generally you go with the flow being a little bit of a big girl my self you always wonder what peoples intentions are but you never find out unless you try. so personally its no different than a large or skinny guy men are all the same its whats ... (read in full...)

How is this possible?

Q.   my friend is hiv positive and pregnant but her husband is hiv negative how is it possible?...

A.   12 December 2010: i have to agree just make sure her husband weres protection and is careful or he c ould contract it good luck... (read in full...)

I like bigger women and am having trouble dealing with it.

Q.   I have a thing for bigger women and i dont know how to deal with it. While Im not into the deal of larger women getting larger or "gaining" and not into the feeding thing, i definitely have an appreciation for plus-sized women, and am unsure if my ...

A.   30 November 2010: look you are the only one who can make you happy not your friends they dont live your life and if they cannot understand what you want that makes you happy then they are not real friends. and if you dont see that being an option out then you are ... (read in full...)

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