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| | aphexinfinite's profile:Hi im 23yrs old yes i know im young, tho i have alot of maturity for my age. i am very logical. I have seen an heard alot of things so i feel i am able to help others in similiar situations and would like to generally help others. I live in the UK . |
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Help! Is my penis too small?
Q. i am a 15 years old and i believe my penis is too small, it is approx 14.5cm in length and 3.5cm in width. I am very scared to have sex because i am so insecure about the size. I want to know, wil it grow? can i make it bigger? and what does a woman ...
A. 4 November 2009: your near average so i wouldnt worry about the size not to mention thats not what counts. you still have a good year for it to maybe grow so dont worry. just read some info pages on the basics then just let the rest fall into place. hope this helps ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me how long after the Contraception Implant has been removed can a woman get pregnant?
Q. Hi, Can anyone tell me how long after the Contraception Implant has been removed can a woman get pregnant? I've heard the affects can last 2-3 years after removal???...
A. 31 October 2009: you can get pregnant straight away or months to year just depends. the best way is not to worry about it let nature take its course. it will happen eventually. it has been known that those who have regular periods can get pregnant quicker than those ... (read in full...)
I cried in front of her and I don't think she trust me anymore
Q. Hi everyone, so yer i met this girl about a month, 2 months ago, we get on great and really enjoy hanging out with each other. Anyway we was out last night, having a good time but for the last few years i've had a few family problems and i'm...
A. 24 October 2009: im going threw the same thing right now except im in your girls shoes. we are very persceptive and we know when something isnt right. and we worry whats going on and we want to help make them feel better and to support them. but if you shut us out ... (read in full...)
I need some advice on my life and how to improve it?
Q. Hello I need some advice about my life and how to improve it I mean a while ago i lost my virginity to a prostitute and it was awful regretted it.... but i made the same mistake again... and learnt alot from it. It made me realise i want a ...
A. 18 October 2009: at some point in peoples lives they have done that or something similar so dont feel so bad. perhaps you were just in the wrong circle of friends. true friends can take a life time to find sometimes they fall in your lap. you need to either find a ... (read in full...)
One minute we're fine, the next we hardly talk. What's going on in this friendship?
Q. Hey...erm if you read this your a saint! And if u even attempt to try and think about it and reply to me....well your offically the best! You see, im very confused about one of my friends...hes male, we went to college together but we have now ...
A. 15 October 2009: i dont think you know each other as well as you think. to have any sort of relationship their need to be good comunication. and that seems to be your problem. their has been a few occasions when that has happened to me. and most of the time its ... (read in full...)
Girls Only: Advice on taking birth control!
Q. (GIRLS ONLY) I just started that process where you take birth control pills so that you only have your period 4 times a year. I was wondering if anybody else has or is doing that, because I wanted to know if then when you DO get your period if i...
A. 15 October 2009: here is a page that should answer alot of questions for you. not having a period regularly can cause problems for some people but you have to try different ones to find the one that fits you.. some like the coil or some like the implant others like ... (read in full...)
Each time my boyfriend goes away on a business trip I find condoms in his bag, and we don't even use them!
Q. My boyfriend of 6 years went on a business trip last weekend. When he came back, I found a receipt for condoms. We don't use condoms. He says he was the one responsible for till slips for the team. but, why would someone try and claim condoms from ...
A. 8 September 2009: you need to confront him and get rid cause if he aint gonna be the man you need then he should go no excuse can make cheating look good. you will unfortunatly have to t alk about him moving out as their can be legal issues with renting if your the ... (read in full...)
Each time my boyfriend goes away on a business trip I find condoms in his bag, and we don't even use them!
Q. My boyfriend of 6 years went on a business trip last weekend. When he came back, I found a receipt for condoms. We don't use condoms. He says he was the one responsible for till slips for the team. but, why would someone try and claim condoms from ...
A. 8 September 2009: very unlikely excuses if you ask me ! if their is no trust then their is no relationship. otherwise your gonna kick yourself about this and its not worth it. if he wants to play around let him! go off and find someone who truly deserves your love ... (read in full...)
We want to make the most of the years we have left, but I'm worried I'm too old for her!
Q. I have a very difficult situation: I am dating a woman 18 years younger than myself she is 43 and I am 61 although I am very fit go to the gym every day and look a lot younger! We are both married although both of our partners are badly brain ...
A. 26 August 2009: age is just a number some can see past it others cant. ive seen bigger age gapes than that. if she loves you and you love her then i think you owe a chance to try to make each other happy. your both consoling each other which many dont get a chance ... (read in full...)
Should I spend the money on the "morning after" pill?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex a few days ago using a condom, but it broke. I started my period on the 21st and we had sex on the 24th while I was still menstruating. I'm worried about pregnancy. I feel like the chances are very low I would be pregnant ...
A. 26 August 2009: well as far as im aware the morning after pill is only succesful during the first 24 hours though can work up to 48 hrs but gets less succesful! if you dont want to be pregnant then go see your gp or a family planning clinic and get a pregnancy test ... (read in full...)
Are my periods just irregular or could I be pregnant?
Q. Right, i need help. And before anyone judges me, i know i shouldn't have done this, but i'm on her for help not to be patronised. I went to the doctors for the birth control pill and i got told i was to start it on the first day of my next perio...
A. 25 August 2009: everyone says that but the truth is their not judging you their telling you how it is we wont lie to you and say its all ok well say what needs to be said and not to be cruel! ok their is such a thing as precum and that can get you pregnant! best ... (read in full...)
Teens and the importance of getting a career over sex
Q. hey everyone! this is my first article and topic is immaturity by teens in preferring sex over career. im watching that teens are more conscious about their sex lives, size of their breasts or penis,... they are more curious to know w...
A. 22 August 2009: their are alot of factors in why things happen. some dont find out how stupid they have been till they landed themselves in it.. the parents must be to blame to and extent why whas their child not watched closely enough that this is happening all ... (read in full...)
Should I be this anxious going away from my g/f?
Q. Hi looking for a bit of advice as to how to deal with a situation. I am going away shortly for 5 days to a festival with my friends. I made the decision to go which wasn’t easy cause I have trust issues with my Gf. Its not her fault cause a...
A. 20 August 2009: i can understand well about your situation we all some point in our life have those feelings or that type of situation. you both started a relationship from a fire which has caused you both to be a little burnt. your both insecure of what you done ... (read in full...)
He calls me his "younger brother" but I get the feeling he might be gay!
Q. hi im an adult of age 23 , I am a straight and i happen to meet a guy elder than me of around 25 years . he is from the same place where I come from and we got introduced through a common friend of mine. as days passed on we got close to each other ...
A. 19 August 2009: seems he is very mixed up and very unsure of himself. think he wants things to be his way and you were like is toy its hard to guess on something like this the only answers you would get are from him and why hes acting so stupid. sorry it hasnt ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and pregnant! please help me!
Q. Hi. I am Samantha and im in a terrible situation.... I think I'm pregnant. I'm only 13. I have missed my period for about 2 months, and i am really scared. There are 2 possible fathers to this baby... I have not told either of them... What should I ...
A. 19 August 2009: I don't want to be bad any more! --- then stop doing things that are illegal. for a start your gonna have to tell your parents their is no real way around it but to be sure your pregnant go to the doctors or a local family planning clinic and take a ... (read in full...)
Could a UTI be harmful to my baby?
Q. i have had three uti's since july. the first time i got medicine for it, the second time it went away on it's own, now i have it for the third time, i am also 6 weeks pregnant, so i was wondering if this is harmful to the baby? and what i can do to ...
A. 17 August 2009: you should go see your gp he will help you . also for youre age have you told your parents your pregnant i guess not since your asking for help on here. aphex... (read in full...)
Doesn't it sound lik eI'm pregnant?
Q. Me and my partner have being trying to concieve a baby, in the last 2 weeks i have being having dizzy spells, headaches, stomach cramps, fatigue, and nausea. i had diarreah for 3 days (sorry for t.m.i) i had what i think was meant to be my period a ...
A. 16 August 2009: you should perhaps go to the doctor and do a proper test also get all those symptoms checked out atleast then he can also give you good advice on to help concieving i know its not nice but atleast you will get your mind put at rest.. aphex... (read in full...)
Was it too soon to have sex?
Q. I am worried that I have made a big mistake. I met a guy a few weeks ago, and we are both in our 40s. We really hit it off and have had a great time just being together. He acted very interested in me--lots of heavy kissing, etc. Well, Friday ...
A. 16 August 2009: i think you need to talk about this. but seriously if he wasnt interested then why would he invite you over. and as for the sex thing perhaps he was embarresed to talk about it so he didnt mention it. he could be a good guy or a bad one but if you ... (read in full...)
She's 16, I'm 25, and I fear that the changes she'll go through in the next few years will cause us to break up. What can I do?
Q. Im 25 and my girl friend is 16.I love her more then anything in life and she admits i am her first love and I believe it for the fact that i known some of her exs that sh dated for awhile and never had sex with them.we dated one month before she ...
A. 16 August 2009: some people meet at 15 / 16 and have been together all their life. just these days partner hoping happens all the time because we have so much choice nothing is hardly frowned upon. and good for you waiting for the legal age but that has nothing to ... (read in full...)
Can relationships work if one smokes weed and the other doesn't?
Q. So my boyfriend smokes weed and I don't. As far as I know, he only does it with his roommates and doesn't pay his own money for the weed. I've smoked a few times when I was younger, and had bad expierences with it, so I generally say no when they ...
A. 16 August 2009: i have known people who one does and the other doesnt but because its an activity you dont share then he should be doing it when your not their but since you havent told him that you rather not be in that atmosphere your puttin up with it so you ... (read in full...)
He calls me his "younger brother" but I get the feeling he might be gay!
Q. hi im an adult of age 23 , I am a straight and i happen to meet a guy elder than me of around 25 years . he is from the same place where I come from and we got introduced through a common friend of mine. as days passed on we got close to each other ...
A. 16 August 2009: i think its time to treat him like a distant friend than anything else because he is not being honest and his feelings are causing you to get hurt and if he cared for you he wouldnt treat you this way. i say dont concern yourself with him and if he ... (read in full...)
Can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy!
Q. I can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy? I feel really unstable i don't know what's going on. This guy I've been seeing and spending time with has me feeling so confused. We do have sex, and I love it. However I don't kn...
A. 14 August 2009: no worrys glad i can help sometimes we forget big or littles things and they can make the world of a difference i just hope you can get things sorted out and live a happy life ! good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
Can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy!
Q. I can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy? I feel really unstable i don't know what's going on. This guy I've been seeing and spending time with has me feeling so confused. We do have sex, and I love it. However I don't kn...
A. 13 August 2009: the first thing that runs through my head reading this is maybe your afraid of commitment. that this guy wont commit like you want him to and that something bad in your life has happened were someone hasnt committed a parent maybe or a first love ? ... (read in full...)
Does kissing someone equal a relationship?
Q. I was just reading someone else's question where the girl had kissed him and he thought that meant they should be in a relationship afterwards...is that how many other people think also? Because I've been seeing a guy over the last few months, we've ...
A. 13 August 2009: you have to have that talk because otherwise you could be dating 10 people at once lol.. their needs to be communication to have a relationship thats what its mostly about. take your time getting to know you better before expecting someone else to. ... (read in full...)
Have I ruined our friendship because of our one night stand and my drunken behaviour?
Q. I have known this guy for 25 odd years. I was best friends with his sister and our mums were good friends. A few years ago we got back in touch as he started working at the same place as me! Which was the second place of work that he has followed me ...
A. 12 August 2009: well for a start i would cut back ondrinking if you cannot control yourself as this will only land you in trouble. second of all your laughing all this off but i see this means something to you so you need to get to meet him and talk about this and ... (read in full...)
What do you think of our situation? I'm cheating with a girl who can't leave her relationship
Q. im dating a girl but she has a boyfriend. she told me the first time we met so she never lied to me. we talk everyday and we like each other a lot.. she tells me that she likes me more but shes been with him for 5 years now and she cant just ...
A. 12 August 2009: i feel sorry for her bf who hasnt a clue that shes cheating on him he deserves better than someone who doesnt value people more than herself.. i never believe in cheatin or lying they are two things that is wrong with this world and only seems more ... (read in full...)
He calls me his "younger brother" but I get the feeling he might be gay!
Q. hi im an adult of age 23 , I am a straight and i happen to meet a guy elder than me of around 25 years . he is from the same place where I come from and we got introduced through a common friend of mine. as days passed on we got close to each other ...
A. 12 August 2009: i think he is unsure of himself and his life and he sees you as a brother but perhaps he likes you more than that but doesnt want to make a fool of himself.. let him get on with his life and if he wants to talk then let him start it.. just leave it ... (read in full...)
What is the big deal about masturbation?
Q. What is the big deal bout masterbating/cuming/orgasm? I have never masterbated in my life, but even on this sight there's something bout it. You hear stories bout people using hair brushes and carrots and whatnot to stick them up ya, i think it...
A. 12 August 2009: my mum walked in and was like didnt you hear me and i was in bed and was like erm no ok ill be down soon lol..and no you cant get sex toys till your older best experiment with your hands first and see how that goes..their is a little bit of skin ... (read in full...)
What is the big deal about masturbation?
Q. What is the big deal bout masterbating/cuming/orgasm? I have never masterbated in my life, but even on this sight there's something bout it. You hear stories bout people using hair brushes and carrots and whatnot to stick them up ya, i think it...
A. 12 August 2009: masturbating can be quite an expiernece one which gets better with practice..not all people do it and some dont do it all. but most people have done it. your young so your questioning things which mean your curious..What is the big deal bout ... (read in full...)
Already had sex is it going to hurt this time too?
Q. Ok so i already had sex before well my first time it was pretty painfull. I gotten fingered a few times. But my main concern is will it still hurt this time? Should he finger me before we have sex.I dont think we can use a lube because we are using ...
A. 11 August 2009: you can use some lubricnt which are useable with condoms but you are underage and it is illegal you should think wisely about sex and the effects of what would happen it if all went wrong and by the way if your not on the pill then you are higher at ... (read in full...)
Will this guy I met online make subtle hints if he likes me too? Or should I just let it go?
Q. I met this amazing guy online, but we talk only as friends, but I want more. Here's the full story: We both met up on a random site and started talking because there wasn't much to do on there. We talked for a month or two, but then the convers...
A. 11 August 2009: try meeting up first and see how things go from their from internet or phone is very different than just talking you then get to see them naturally. then perhaps you can tell more from his body language on how he reciprocates to you you could also ... (read in full...)
Do you think she knows he's cheating on her with me?
Q. I'm 18 and he's 40 and married, and we have been seeing each other for about 2 and a half months. We usually have sex in his car or a hotel room. Once after we had sex in his car his wife said she could smell perfume, but he said it was his mums ...
A. 10 August 2009: well for her i hope so poor women! you do realise that if she found out he would get rid of you and that this is just a bit of fun on the side. or it might be that one out of a 100 that you might be together but i tell you you will always wonder if ... (read in full...)
She lied about her past lovers! Should I trust her?
Q. i have been married to my wife for 13 years i just found out that she lied too me about how many people that she had sex with prior too us getting married she told me that she just rembered about one more person about five years ago but just now ...
A. 9 August 2009: wow its just a number and your willing to break your marriage for it what does that say about you. she forgot so being honest she told you. and now your flying off the handle if you do this every time she is honest then she wont be so honest ... (read in full...)
Why did he do the sim for my mate but not for me?
Q. Okay, my and my boyfriend are going through such a bad time, my parents are not letting me see him because of a rumour that leaked home. (About him beating me, this is completely untrue) But this isn't the problem. A while ago, when our relationship ...
A. 8 August 2009: i think their is something underlaying before he is not that willing to make this work perhaps they are having a relationship on the sly perhaps your better off without him their are so many possiblilties. i think you should forget him and move ... (read in full...)
Is It Rape?
Q. Hey a few months ago my ex forced me to have sex. i kept shouting at him n hitting him telling him to stop but he wouldnt.. i never told anybody except my best freind.. my ex is now saying it isnt classed as rape because we were a couple. ...
A. 8 August 2009: if he forced you to have sex and you told him to stop numerous occasions yes this is rape rape is were its not consented. not to mention your age its highly illegal you should tell your parents and then the police! and also see about get some ... (read in full...)
I have an annoying problem, all day I think about sex!
Q. hi, im 14, male, and i have an annoyin problem, all day i think about sex and it bugs me and i want to know if theres something wrong with me and a get hard all the time for no reason can you please help, pleasee...
A. 8 August 2009: you have lots of sexual tension and its causing you to get hard. at your age alot of young males find out about masturbation and that helps to release these urges in a safe healthy way. here is a web page filled with young teens who are unsure ... (read in full...)
Our relationship became sexual and now we're arguing. How can we fix this?
Q. p /> I'm having some problems with my girlfriend. We've recently started having sex... or atleast trying to. We aren't virgins, but we are having some problems. We've tried having sex twice now. On both occasions there have been distractions...
A. 8 August 2009: ok so you want more answers well the answer is your going to have to talk with her that is the only way to sort this out. second of all if you cannot do it happily then of course this is going to put preassure on and make it harder to complete your ... (read in full...)
Why do I suddenly feel guilty after masturbating?
Q. I started masturbating when I was 13 years old, and have never felt any guilt about it until recently (8 years later). It feels great and I don't feel bad while I'm doing it, but afterward I now find that I am feeling very guilty/ashamed/embarrassed ...
A. 7 August 2009: i have a friend who is just like you she felt so guilty about doing it when she didnt want a relationship with women but was tormented that she liked to watch women and their ir nothing wrong with having a wide variety of porn or so forth. you will ... (read in full...)
How can I convice my daughter that she'd be aborting for the wrong reasons?
Q. My 17 year old daughter is pregnant. We have always talked openly about keeping the baby should she ever become pregnant. Her boyfriend does not want her to keep the baby. I am so upset she is now considering abortion. We took her down to her ...
A. 5 August 2009: you can only tell her how you feel then tell her you will stand by her. you cant make anyone do anything more so when you know its wrong.just be their when the pieces fall. tell her how you feel and just support her how ever it falls. she will ... (read in full...)
The programs on tv just make me want a baby!
Q. Heyy :) this isn't a major problem but just something i'm curious about. i've been watching the programmes 'underage and pregnant' and i imagine they were broadcast to try and stop teens from becoming parents and to stop/be more careful when hav...
A. 30 July 2009: i agree if you were seen young and pregnant you and your family was seen with disrespect! all the shows make it so simple but its not. you need money and your education wont be easy to get done with a child around not to mention that getting a ... (read in full...)
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