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| | aphexinfinite's profile:Hi im 22yrs old yes i know im young, tho i have alot of maturity for my age. i am very logical. I have seen an heard alot of things so i feel i am able to help others in similiar situations and would like to generally help others. I live in the UK . |
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Unprotected sex at the end of her period. Could I have caught something from doing this?
Q. Hi, something troubles me. Earlier this week me and the girl I recently started dating had sex. We'd used a condom the first few times we had sex, but we've been together for a month now, and so have recently started doing it without protecti...
A. 22 November 2008: well if you believe she is clean and doesnt have stds or what not then you should be fine people can have sex whilst a women is on their period allthough some find it dirty. so their be alot of views on that but as far as catching anything no but if ... (read in full...)
At what point in a relationship do you reveal your past?
Q. At what point in a relationship do you reveal your past? I'm 20 yrs. old and this is really my first attempt at a serious relationship. I was a troubled teen. I used drugs and alcohol. I became sexually active at 14 and had literally dozens of ...
A. 20 November 2008: well if i have learned anything is that dont reveal too much because doesnt matter what your past was as long as its not going to be your future. the only reason i would clear the air a little if something was bugging me or i thought someone would ... (read in full...)
My mom walked in and caught us making out...
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 months.. she came over today and we were laying on the couch side by side watching the movie "Disturbia" and we starting kissing and then we made out for 10 mins or so and it was very intimate. This was ...
A. 9 November 2008: as long as your both adult about it i shouldnt see why you can kiss and hug as long as you dont go over the limit/ i hope your parents can come to an agreement on this as it would be a shame though her mums prob worried you have sex she lands up ... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship woes...
Q. I am in an awful dilemma. I am madly in love with a woman who I met while working at sea on a cruise ship together. I'm from the UK and she's from the US. I'm 39 and she's 44. I'm in the process of getting divorced and she's a divorcee with two ...
A. 9 November 2008: just take it easy it seems your both focusing so much on having a relationship that is going somewhere. how about focusing on right now! enjoy each others company live for the now and not tomorrow. if their is preasure she will feel the need to back ... (read in full...)
Any advice for a first timer on fingering?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend just over a couple of months now, and we've talked about doing oral sex. she wants me to finger her, but I haven't done anything with a girl apart from kiss. Has anyone got any advice on fingering a girl for the first ...
A. 9 November 2008: heres website already explained for you so it should be able to help you.. all i can say is take it easy and gently. good luck aphex http://www.sexinfo101.com/cunnilinguspositions.shtml... (read in full...)
My mom walked in and caught us making out...
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 months.. she came over today and we were laying on the couch side by side watching the movie "Disturbia" and we starting kissing and then we made out for 10 mins or so and it was very intimate. This was ...
A. 9 November 2008: i dont see the problem to be honest with you so you were kissing your 16! if you were having sex then thats a different matter. i personally dont see the problem so in future i just wouldnt let my folks aware your not going against their wish they ... (read in full...)
I lost my boyfriend to another guy!!!!
Q. Hi guys! I'm really really confusedd at the moment, my boyfriend and I were together for 18 months, he was my second boyfriend, he was quite experienced with girls, I lost my virginity to him although he wasn't a virgin, we were in love and I though...
A. 4 November 2008: hi hun, no its not your fault an no you ddnt turn him gay. i was once in the same situation and i kicked myself about it for a long time but dont make the same mistake i did dont wallow in it its something that he needed to figure out like we all ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want your photos back from an ex?
Q. I heard a question from a girl on a show that I used to like. She is trying to get back her photographs from her EX. He is currently in a relationship with someone else. Is the girl wrong in wanting her photos back? What is the scenario in your ...
A. 31 October 2008: i dont think it matters were you come from if you want your photos back or not...i guess some people prefer their exs not to have anything of theirs for several reason / perhaps she doesnt want him to have them encase he uses them against her or him ... (read in full...)
He has asked me for a BJ. I am afraid if I say no that he will think I don't like him anymore
Q. i have never given a bowjob and i am scared that i will do t wrong and my boyfriens has asked me to give him and i am scared if i say no he think i dnt like him any more what do u thnk i should do ?...
A. 30 October 2008: here is a website or two that can give you some tips on what to do if you want to give him one good luck aphexy xx http://sexuality.about.com/od/tipstechniques/ht/give_a_handjob.htm
http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml... (read in full...)
My wife can't get over my past...
Q. Me and my wife are having a hard time she cant get over my past. Now it seems that every time it seems that we are getting better she just goes back to my past. I admit that before i met her i was out of control I'm in the army and this has been the ...
A. 30 October 2008: sometimes we can spend our lives looking in the past than enjoying the present and looking to the future..your wife needs to get over this or it will be a divorce go to marriage councilling see if that helps with the situation..its always a good ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I think about death and it really scares me.
Q. I have had a very good life and enjoyed all it had to offer. I still very much appreciate and enjoy everything that is around me and every day. I have a very good and happy life. However at my age, I am getting closer to end of my life. I don't need ...
A. 29 October 2008: from a young age i always felt like i ddnt belong in this world a strange feeling in my stomach pulling me..never figured it out..its like wanting to touch the forbidden tree but not knowing why..in the end we all die a fact of life many people ... (read in full...)
I'm not on birth control and we didn't use a condom... dumb I know!
Q. Umm.. heres my situation. My ex and I had sex last week... WE were really dumb and didn't use a condom. So I think he came in me... he even told me he might have.. plus I saw some on my underwear when I got home. I'm not on Birth control either. ...
A. 29 October 2008: ok not sure about your country an its clinics but ill give it a shot..yes its a high risk your pregnant, go to doctors more reliable than home testing..next ok you dont want an abortion im neither for or against but do you realise what having a kid ... (read in full...)
Does My Teacher Fancy Me Back?!
Q. I've really fancied my teacher for just over a year now, and shes pretty much got this sussed. I got moved to the front of her class, realllyyyy close to her desk. She always singled me out, never got me in trouble and made sexual innuendos ...
A. 29 October 2008: i agree with aunt em this is almost breaking the law not to mention if she is found out she could loose her job and go to jail..i know your young but for the both of you you need to do what is best and avoid her at all cost, if you do love her or ... (read in full...)
Sex questions
Q. hi im 35years old and started a new relationship but im not very experinced when it comes to sex and my partner wants me to go on top but have never done that b4 as im queit large built and im to embarrased if i do it wrong and he wants me to go ...
A. 28 October 2008: oh dont worry hun im the same i dont like going on top but my partner love it as for blow jobs he loves that too lol.. its really a case of trial and error but here is a link to a web page that can give you advice on what to do. good luck hun hope ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay???
Q. I know this is stereotypical, but the only time he gets off is when he has sex from behind. And he always want to have anal. Just recently we watched an immoral video, i believe, about some horse f*****g a guy. I was disgusted. He was amused, ...
A. 25 October 2008: rofl shetland pony what does it matter it has four legs and a tail an a mane so for the sake of it well call it a horse/ and mod for asking that have you seen it?.. on to the real problem..he doesnt have to be gay to like anal some guys like it ... (read in full...)
Is what I'm doing illegal?
Q. My girlfriend and i are both 14, and we often just lie together snogging, and sometimes i put my hand in her bra... is this illegal?...
A. 25 October 2008: no hun it is not illegal.. good luck aphex ... (read in full...)
Which cousin should I have sex with?
Q. i was dating two guys who are often cousins, they are both very cute, and looks alike, they speaks the same way and has similar characters, the problem is i love both both the very same way and i do not want to let go of any of them. but then ...
A. 22 October 2008: i dont think you should do anything till you get your head sorted out..sex is something special that shouldnt be with just anyone..in our country it is illegal to have a relationship with your cousin, so check your laws before doing anything else ... (read in full...)
(I'm in love with this older professor, but I'm married to someone else!
Q. Dear Cupid, Please don't judge, but I am in love with my professor. I don't know what kind of love it is, if it is how a daughter loves her dad, or how a woman loves a man, but I have been in love with him for over a year now. I am 21, and he is 58...
A. 22 October 2008: you say please dont judge but yet that means you know its wrong yet your still in a dilema, but put that a side.. it seems you dont know what you want as the men say they put the pussy on the pedistal instead youve put your professor on the ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I have very different libido's and come from opposite sides of the fence.
Q. My girlfriend and I have very different libido's and come from opposite sides of the fence. I feel like neither of us are getting what we want out of our sex life. Is this something that will get better or is sexual incompatibility enough to end a ...
A. 20 October 2008: hi their,
talk to your partner how you feel about sex and try to come to an arrangment that suits both of you.. but i would agree with smiles their isnt enough info to give a good piece of advice. but i think the most problems with rela... (read in full...)
I'm very worried that. if it comes out only by holding it, then how do I have sex?
Q. Halo, Hope i'll get my answer here, I'm 22, and i never had any girl friends before aged 21, but my problem is, she's only just held my penis 2 times, first time it was just for 15 to 30 sec and second time, close to 1 min. just she holds it and ...
A. 17 October 2008: when we all get excited we release fluid in your case i would say its pre cum unless your having an orgasm if your penis is still hard after this cum happens then it is more than likely just pre cum so then continue to have foreplay and then ... (read in full...)
My best friend cheats on his girlfriend all the time, but she is a really nice girl
Q. my best mate regular cheats on his girlfriend everytime we go out,he sleeps with these women and get us to lie for him. his partner is a really nice girl and he treats her like shit at home and everywhere else.but the thing is shes really obsessed ...
A. 12 October 2008: you have two choices shut up and dont lie for him. or tell her the truth which one can you live with? what would the outcome be if you choose either..have a long hard think and way the pros and cons..i know what i would do i been in the situation ... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend fell asleep while I was giving him head, do I have the right to be pissed?
Q. If my boyfriend fell asleep while I was giving him head, do I have the right to be pissed?...
A. 9 October 2008: ide be like hey wtf ? you cant fall asleep you beep beep beep. then roll over and not let him have any for a while teach the boy a lesson heheheh.. good luck aphexy xx... (read in full...)
He lies about smoking weed now, I don't want to push him away - how should I handle this?
Q. yea hi am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 going on 16 this month.before we started going out he smoked weed all the time and then he told me he quit.but he still dose it once in a while and its not the fact that he dose it that bothers me, it's the fact ...
A. 8 October 2008: ok what he does with his life is his choice you either live with it or dont.. you cannot give him an altimatum my bofriend did and in the end i resented him for it and we split a 1 year after it although ours was smoking and not weed..reason he ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I am pregnant or not, should I take a test?
Q. I lost my virginity last month, on Sept. 13th, but a week before that I had my period. So I should be expecting it soon, but for some reason it hasn't come yet, and now i am worried that I might be pregnant. However, i just began university, and i ...
A. 8 October 2008: hrm condoms arnt 100% effect although their is no reason why you should be althought stress/worry can delay your period. i would say take a pregnancie test follow their instructions that way you can be sure and not have to worry.. next i would say ... (read in full...)
Am I too small and how can I last longer?
Q. Ok,hey well im 16 and my penis is a quite bit bigger than 7inches am I too small? Also im worried because I only last like 10 minutes is there anything I can do so I can last more? Please help...
A. 1 October 2008: no you are not small you are indeed larger than most average men so be quite happy with what you have..well whilst masturbating why not when you get close to peek stop then restart again try and control yourself not to let the urge get the better of ... (read in full...)
Did my hymen break by fingering? Is there a way to check?
Q. I got fingered last night. This morning I I started bleeding, but it stopped so I'm sure it's not my period. As a virgin, I'm asking did my hymen break? Is there any way to check without going to a doctor?...
A. 15 September 2008: just to add you seem very worried why it is broken this doesnt mean your not a virgin anymore only intercourse determines that your a virgin by majority standards but their is a good chance your hymen is broken, although using tampons or horse ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend to bits and feel very guilty for having kissed another under the influence of alcohol. What do I do?
Q. hey, i'm only 14 :( i have a boyfriend of one year, i was at a party and got encredibly drunk, im not using tha as an excuse, it was my fault..im k not even supposed to be drinking.. there was a guy there, he told me he was 18, i knew i had a bf and ...
A. 15 September 2008: well you have two options.. come clean tell him that you kissed a guy but you were heavily drunk and now you realise how wrong you did and it ment nothing now you feel sick about it and wish you could turn back time.. or dont tell him and be more ... (read in full...)
I was masturbating and urine was mixed with cum....should I be worried??
Q. When i was masterbating earlier today, i reached orgasm and started cumming. This was normal however i also started urinating at the same time so it was both cum and urine. I thought that this was not meant to happen becasue your urine thing is cut ...
A. 14 September 2008: yeah i would say go see your gp i know its embaressing but if their is a problem they will be able to help you out..dont be afraid about it they prob have seen or heard much worse..it could be an infection or something small so the sooner you get it ... (read in full...)
My fears were put to rest once but now I really worried!
Q. i wrote on here on 1st september called is my perfect boyfriend gay? The thing is you all put my mind at rest as i understood that just because he enjoys sucking a dildo and everything he is just experimenting and having fun. the thing is last night ...
A. 13 September 2008: it could be possible that he is bi he wouldnt be with you if he didnt want to be with you..or maybe it is just that a fantasy..or maybe he is just exploring sexual endevours..talk to him about it ask him be really sensitive and supportive ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my old boyfriend, even though he might want sex?
Q. ok there is this dude "j" i liked alot last year in school bur we never hooked up we were alway sfuck buddys even though i wanted it to be more than that well this school year he asked me out and we were dattinq everythinq was goin well intill...
A. 13 September 2008: are you really 13 ? if so its scary that you have a fuck buddy i hope your taking protection if not be prepared to be a parent and live with being an adult as it seem you have decided you are.. your young so things are different... do you love ... (read in full...)
Carried away in the moment... am I at risk for pregnancy?
Q. Is it possible to get pregnant if you have sex straight after you finish your period. Me and the other half got carried away in the moment. I wiped the cum away from my vagina but still think he came in me...
A. 13 September 2008: their is a thing called pre cum which is the effective sperm so it doesnt really matter when you pull out..their is a chance if you are not using the pill or condoms also stds too..ide say buy a pregnancy test read the instruction as to when to use ... (read in full...)
Late period, took the morning after pill though and was on my period at the time!
Q. Sorry if this is long guys i just need some reassuring (: ! My boyfriend of seven months, threw me a 16th birthday party, and yes there was alcohol there. ( my parents new about the party and went out, they didnt no about the alcohol being th...
A. 13 September 2008: now your 16 you can go to the gps or the family planning clinic and go on the pill or the implannon their all free by the way and means that if something like this were to happen again you would have something to fall back on..my periods used to be ... (read in full...)
I have below average boobs....what can I do?
Q. i got this problem with my boobs. they are not like really small but they are below average. i have never taken my top off 4 any bloke and my boyfriend always asked me why. im so concious that if i do it might put him off. even though he knows what ...
A. 11 September 2008: your 14 years old ? if thats the case you still grow till your 18 sometimes 21 hell mine are still growing wish they ddnt now their a DD48 :O hard to get bras i wish mine were small :(.. glad to have helped aphexy xx... (read in full...)
How can I tell him about how I feel when I know he will either laugh or shout at me?
Q. My boyfriend asked me for a threesome about 2 months ago, he said I could choose the girl etc. I had always wanted a 3sum but had never said, so I agreed. We went on a website to look but he immediately started looking at all the skinny girls and ...
A. 11 September 2008: to me if he loves you like you love him he wouldnt degrade you and humiliate you or make not likeyourself..tell him that you dont want a threesome and if he does this again you will not put up with this behaviour..you are worth more than to take ... (read in full...)
I have below average boobs....what can I do?
Q. i got this problem with my boobs. they are not like really small but they are below average. i have never taken my top off 4 any bloke and my boyfriend always asked me why. im so concious that if i do it might put him off. even though he knows what ...
A. 11 September 2008: well what is your bra size? my friend has a A cup and they annoy her to no end she wishes she was bigger but its not boobs that what counts its the person and when your with someone you take them for who they are and not what..its like when your a ... (read in full...)
Twisted Love: he's cheated on me over 20 times!
Q. I have been in a relationship with the same guy for five years. We have had some amazing times and some terrible times. He has cheated on me over 20 times (4 of them having sex with other girls) I cheated on him twice (having sex with two other ...
A. 11 September 2008: i agree with lazy guy you both dont seem ready for a relationship because if you were the cheating wouldnt of went past one and not 20. i think you both need to go on a break and see were life takes you..because you are clearly not working out.. and ... (read in full...)
My LD boyfriend yelled at me and cursed me when I said I would delete the pictures of his ex'es from his camera. We haven't talked since. Is it over?
Q. My boyfriend and I have not talked for two nights so far and we are in a long distance relationship that's been going on for a year and two months. I am so confused and lost I do not know what I did wrong or where I stand with him anymore.I been down...
A. 11 September 2008: i can see why he isnt talking to you..what gives you the right to delete other peoples property? he may want to keep them as a reminder of how happy he was and what lessons hes learned or its all just history either way it has nothing to do with ... (read in full...)
Very, very awkward situation with my teacher! Any advice?
Q. hi! I'm a 13 year old girl in desperate help!! It all started in 7th grade I had 3 teachers, as my home room teaches.. Anyways one of them is like a realy nice lady she helps me get throw anything beacause I tell her everything! And one of the other ...
A. 11 September 2008: i hate to say that your comment to him wasnt something you should be telling him, the reason they wanted to sort it out was prob to see what went on to evaluate him..if teachers as much take interest in children they could get in really big trouble ... (read in full...)
I used to date this guy, we broke up, now he calls me a slut, which is very annoying, what should I do, is there a good verbal comeback?
Q. Well i know this boy named evan and he used to go out with me and then he broke up with me. but now he calls me a slut and it is so annoying and i have no comebacks so what should i say to him....
A. 11 September 2008: not to respond to his immature words to be honest he has nothing to do with you now so hes wasting his own breathe. just think your the happier person because you dont need words to hurt others and that your not as pathetic as he is..if you wont to ... (read in full...)
I'm having boyfriend issues.
Q. Yesterday me and my boyfriend was chatting in general like we always do then he started talking about how he used to pull girls without even trying and that one of his mates would be desperate and come over to chat her up to but would reject him and ...
A. 11 September 2008: by the looks of it the communication is gone people go through relationships and in the begining were very forward on communication but as time goes on it dwindles out..you need to talk to him in a calm manner about the problems you are having and ... (read in full...)
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