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I want my mum to accept my boyfriend. How can I do this?

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for the past six months, but before we were going out we were good friends and introduced him to my parents. After 3 months i told my mum i was going out with him and she got angry, not because i have a b/f but ...

A.   4 October 2008: Hey there, I am from India. I know what is happening in your case. brownskinned people are likely to show more racism than whites. So I guess you will have to live with your mom to some extent. A possible way out is to calmly talk to your mom abou... (read in full...)

What responsibility do you have to someone cheating on their husband?

Q.   This question is theoretical... You have a very good friend, who is married, and she is cheating on her husband with another man. At a party, the lover makes a full out pass at you (because he figures all this woman's friends cheat too...)....

A.   2 July 2008: I agree, completely with uncle sneaker. I was in a similar situation and did nothing. the point is that you are the outsider, not your best friend or her lover! fb... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: Over 600,000 visitors last month!

Q.   Just a quickie We broke the 600,000 unique users/month (i.e. people!) last month. According to google analytics we had 638,310 visitors from June 1st to June 30th. Doesn't seem that long ago we passed the half a million mark. Thanks to all t...

A.   2 July 2008: Hi Andrew, Great achievement. This is such a unique site. I feel that there should be some option to delete a question one asked. I don't know whether that is good for you. but i would have forwarded the site to my friends, if I felt that they woul... (read in full...)

Can anyone understand the relationship I have with a married man?

Q.   I know nobody would understand the relationship i have.I`m having an affair with a married man.I`ve tried to stop my feelings towards him,but he`s persistent in courting me.He did the best and the sweetest things to win my heart.I know that married ...

A.   1 July 2008: Hey, have u read Jhumpa lahiri? she has written this wonderful story about an other woman.its in her collection, called 'interpreter of maladies'. the story is called 'sexy'. Read that. it might cure you.and please get out of this. fb... (read in full...)

I miss my ex girlfriend, I miss my kids' mom and feel terrible. My boys have never seen me cry and I fear they might hear me at night...

Q.   Hello. This is somewhat difficult for me to talk about but here it goes. I am a 36yr old single father of twins. I have raised them since they were born. Their mother is in prison and is out of the picture. I have no regrets about raising my ...

A.   28 June 2008: Oh! I admire you. I guess you are a wonderful person. I think you have your kids to hang on to. I think you should not worry too much about your exes. Whats gone is gone. And you are only 36. There is so much more to live. I am sure the aunts a... (read in full...)

Should I keep in touch with this older guy?

Q.   i went on holiday about 4 weeks ago and met a guy there who was on the entertainment team, i really liked him and he was such a nice person, about a week after i had come back off holiday he text me and told me he liked me and that he didn't tell me ...

A.   27 June 2008: Hey, Hang on dear. you are in different stages of your lives. The relationship is not immoral and the age difference is not much. But the problem is that you are in a very early stage of your life, just beginning to explore life. Though he ... (read in full...)

Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?

Q.   Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this ...

A.   27 June 2008: I totally agree with you. Thrusting in the toungue is a turn off for me. But it is hard to explain this to a guy. may be some women like it fb... (read in full...)

My ex is now dating my friend! I'm angry that he used me as a friend after. Can we not trust anyone???

Q.   Hey...im sooooooo stressed. I spilt up with my boyfriend of three years at the end of last year. We decided to be friends, in fact i did near enough everything for him. I kind of hoped we wud get back together. I found out last week he has slept ...

A.   27 June 2008: Hi, Get this guy out of your mind. He is not worth you. And don't get bitter. It will not help you. Just get on with your life. Only difficult part I see is that you live close to your best friend. But that should not be so hard, once you dis... (read in full...)

Any advice on how to play this situation??

Q.   Any advice for how to play this - I haven't seen my boyfriend for 8 months. I am due to fly out to him in 3 weeks and we have had an argument (not the first time as the distance has taken its toll) but he has said not to bother coming he is not ...

A.   27 June 2008: Hi, I guess you should go if you will regret it later if you don't go. That is if this is some kind of last chance to renew the relationship. But be prepared for the worst. He might have gown apart. Or he doesn't feel strongly about the relati... (read in full...)

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