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Why are bigger breasts better?

Q.   I know this has been asked a million times, but why are big breasts better? Honestly give me the reasons of why they're superior to small breasts when it comes to SEXUAL PLEASURE. Nothing to do with not having back aches, or that big breasts produce ...

A.   27 November 2009: As a bloke i can say that personally its not a case of "the bigger, the better". NICE boobs, as in the shape etc, are a bonus. But size? Nope doesnt do anything for me. And in all honesty even nice boobs should be (and are in my case) one of t... (read in full...)

I physically can't seem to have an orgasm... any suggestions?

Q.   I have never had an orgasm before in my life i have had 6 partners but they can ever seem to make me cum. the only time i have is when i do it myself but its my clit that sets it off. i need answers i feel like the only one in the world with this ...

A.   26 November 2009: Well let me start off by saying that you are DEFINITELY not the only person in the world with this problem!! Its quite possible that due to your relatively young age, most if not all of your lovers have been inexperienced. They may not have rea... (read in full...)

I physically can't seem to have an orgasm... any suggestions?

Q.   I have never had an orgasm before in my life i have had 6 partners but they can ever seem to make me cum. the only time i have is when i do it myself but its my clit that sets it off. i need answers i feel like the only one in the world with this ...

A.   26 November 2009: Well let me start off by saying that you are DEFINITELY not the only person in the world with this problem!! Its quite possible that due to your relatively young age, most if not all of your lovers have been inexperienced. They may not have rea... (read in full...)

My boyfriend slapped me... what should I do for him to forgive me?

Q.   What should i do my boyfriend slapped me? What should i do for him to forgive me? me and my boyfriend got in a big argument about where we will spend thanksgiving and i said a few things and kicked him where it would hurt the most.. cause he was p...

A.   26 November 2009: You need to get out of this relationship ASAP. I mean when emotions are running high and the anger becomes uncontrollable, physical violence is often the only outlet in the heat of the moment - i am in no way standing up for what he did, no man ... (read in full...)

I’ve never been in a relationship before so I don’t know what it feels like.

Q.   I’m scared and I don’t know why! I’ve never been in a relationship before so I don’t know what it feels like. Ever since my best friend’s cousin R started hanging out with me I been questioning a lot of things. I know that I like him and I’ve even ...

A.   26 November 2009: Yeah i understand how difficult it will be, but you have to find a moment and just take the plunge. Either way youll feel so much better afterwards, especially in the long term. And like i said before, good luck!!... (read in full...)

How can I makeout properly with her? And any good songs for me to play on the guitar for her?

Q.   I now have a girlfriend and I really like her. We have kissed, and tried to makeout but that didn't work. We started, but then we bumped lips and teeth and it stopped. How can I makeout properly with her? And what are some good songs to learn on ...

A.   26 November 2009: lazyman and blondebabe have it spot on - youre both inexperienced (hey we've all be there!!) so its going to take time. Just make sure the moments right and your emotions will guide you, trust me... As for guitar songs, have you heard of Cavatina... (read in full...)

I’ve never been in a relationship before so I don’t know what it feels like.

Q.   I’m scared and I don’t know why! I’ve never been in a relationship before so I don’t know what it feels like. Ever since my best friend’s cousin R started hanging out with me I been questioning a lot of things. I know that I like him and I’ve even ...

A.   25 November 2009: Hey i sort of know what youre going through. To be honest, it sounds like you could do better than someone who doesnt have time for you. But if you really feel this way about this guy, I think the only thing you can do is move forward, ie. pluc... (read in full...)

What can I do to stop blushing every time I'm with him???

Q.   I'm 13 and I really really like this guy, we get on realy well, except every time I go near him or he smiles at me I go bright red! As in tomato red! It is realy embarrassing, but I can't stop it. help!...

A.   10 January 2009: My gf blushes alot when we're together, and sometimes she can be really self-conscious about it, but i happen to find it extremely cute. My advice is: dont worry about it. In my experience many girls blush when a certain guy looks at them or talks ... (read in full...)

What kind of things do you like from your girlfriend on valentine's day?

Q.   Hey everyone (: hope the new year is all good for you all (: Basically I like to be organised and I know I have a month to decide, but guys, what kinda things do you like from your girlfriends on valentines day? (I always run out of money rea...

A.   10 January 2009: I quite like to recieve items of clothing on Valentines Day. A nice scarf is always a good idea due to weather at this time of year, or a hoodie if you wanna spend more. Im guessing you know what type of music he likes - a CD could make a good gift, ... (read in full...)

The World of Hanging Out and Hooking Up

Q.   “Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.” Billy Crystal, When Harry Met Sally You. You are smart, you are independent, you are strong. You make your own choices about what you do with your body. When you like a guy...

A.   6 January 2009: I wont say much, except that i find this quite sexist. The age-old phrase "Men are only after one thing" is thrown about a lot, but in reality for most men it just isnt true. Why is it women are allowed to be sexist, but men arent?... (read in full...)

How can I prove to guys that I'm not after their girlfriends?

Q.   I have a lot of girls that are friends, I mean like 60% odd. I think guys feel threatened by me because of this, im kinda confused about my sexuality right now to be honest and i'm not sure how I can show these guys that I dont fancy their ...

A.   6 January 2009: I can sort of relate to both questions. About 40-50% of my best friends are girls (though im sure that im straight), and although ive never had any problems with any of their boyfriends, if i had i would have just told them straight that i have no ... (read in full...)

I have frenulum problems, please help!

Q.   Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...

A.   6 January 2009: I experienced a similar problem when i was younger, so i took some "initiative" and stretched the skin as far as it would go, then left it til the next day and kept repeating the process. Eventually the skin becomes more flexible and will be able to ... (read in full...)

Should I continue to pursue this online relationship, or is it a waste of my time?

Q.   Here it is, one of the most oft-used opening statements in any relationship question asked on any site like this one; I met a girl online. Yeah, there it is. Just to get it out of the way (because I see stupid comments like this in any question ...

A.   6 January 2009: Im sort in the same boat as you - i met a girl online last year and we got to know each other really well. We view each other as boyfriend and girlfriend, and we're going to meet up sometime in the near future. I do belive that you can love som... (read in full...)

I'm way to shy to ask around for his number, what do I do?

Q.   Well...it's summer. I have the biggest crush on this one kid at my school. I thought he liked me at some point...but he never made a move. Now I don't know what to do because I never see him now since it's the summer. I miss him so much. I'm wa...

A.   28 June 2008: First off you have to understand that in this day and age asking for someone's number or screen name is the smallest of deals. You must find it in yourself, otherwise you will just have to miss him. You may be thinking of him constantly, but it's ... (read in full...)

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