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| | lovehate's profile:Heyy i'm L and 15.
Been through enough to give people help on some of their problems. I love helping people and want to study physcology for A levels.
I do post a lot of my problems myself as i hate keeping things bottled up, this is my way of release and this brings me closer to other peoples' problems.
I try to help as many people as possible but only help when i feel like i am needed and understand about the situation completely.
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Do people say what's in their heart while loaded up on alcohol?
Q. Is is true that people tend to speak the truth, and say what's truly in their heart when they are loaded? My b/f seems to have some difficulty being sweet and romantic to me, but when he's loaded he becomes poetic and loving, saying all the things ...
A. 26 August 2008: Alcohol for sure relaxes you and makes you lose your inhibitions. So yes for me i tell the truth when im drinking so to speak. ... (read in full...)
Preteen girl troubles
Q. Hi, I'm twelve years old. Six months ago I saw one most beatiful and intelligent girls on earth. She is(in my opinion) out of my league. It got to the point that I paid some of my friends to convince her that I was a good choice for her. During ...
A. 17 August 2008: how old are you? 10? 11? 12? Try not to worry about this sort of thing, your very young and have plenty of time to have teenage loves.This is just a crush. It's part of growing up so try not to worry if it doesn't all work out- there are plenty more ... (read in full...)
I have brown discharge before my period. Is this normal?
Q. is brown discharge normal? i seem to get this usaully before my period is it normal??...
A. 29 July 2008: yep that's normal, don't worry X... (read in full...)
Are girls turned off if guys have hairy asses?
Q. I've been complemented on having a nice and big ass, but the thing girls don't realize that i have a hairy ass. So here's my question, is it a turn-off, or do girls mind if guys have hairy asses??...
A. 28 July 2008: If they don't realise fine. Yet in general yess hairy asses are a BIG turn-off.
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How do I deal with my fear of attention from boys?
Q. Im 15 and really confused. i never have boyfriends enymore and it puts me on a all time low. Plus to make it worse i have never properly snogged a boy.All my friends have and they have done other things too. i gt scared when i get attention from ...
A. 28 July 2008: Uncle sneaker is correct, take his advice.
'Pulling' or 'snogging' really isn't what it's cracked up to be if it's with someone just for the sake of doing it.
You have got to really like someone for it to be special, that's the point. So don't ... (read in full...)
I have no drive or motivation in my life so how do I turn this around?
Q. can anyone please help me? to be honest i dn't know what is wrong with me. i feel like im not happy with my life. i have no drive, motivation or get up and go, for life. i feel like i find it so hard to live a normal life, im so disorganised,...
A. 25 July 2008: This lack of self motivation sounds a lot like depression.
I went through it at 14 - Age doesn't matter.
Too be honest, i know it may sound hard at the moment but the only way to stop this depression is to pick yourself up and realise that the... (read in full...)
Are mermaids real?
Q. My name is Annisa and I am 12 years old. I have been interested in this new t.v show/series called H2o. This show is about 3 bestfriends who turn into mermaids. Also with becoming mermaids they have powers. Each mermaid has a special power of their ...
A. 25 June 2008: aww you never know ;)
xx... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have an orgasm before ever having a period?
Q. Is it possible for a girl to have an orgasm before she's ever had a period?...
A. 22 June 2008: Ofcourse you can!!... (read in full...)
I'm too embarrassed to tell my mum about my period
Q. i'm 12 years old and just started my period about a week ago. i haven't told my mum because it's to embarassing. i have tried a few times but can't bring myself to say it. also i have two older sisters who would make fun of me about it. what should ...
A. 10 May 2008: Firstly, why would your sisters laugh? They went through the exact same thing and so does every girl! You should be proud of becoming a woman :) Not ashamed.
Anyway...why do your sisters have to know?
Too be honest i was exactly the same... (read in full...)
He confessed that he's been sleeping with his ex, should I call off this relationship?
Q. dear readers, i have a small problem that i jus wanted some advice on i've liked his guy for a few months now, we swapped numbers about 3 onths ago n since then hae been txtin, callin etc. we have slept together a few times. the other nyt i was ...
A. 7 May 2008: Get out now. From what i have seen he likes you but has feelings for his ex. He's not going to trade up just yet. You'll get hurt.
I hope you make the right decision.
good luckkk :)... (read in full...)
Can a guy remain friends after oral sex?!
Q. Can a guy remain friends with a girl who gives him oral sex? How does he control his emotions around her, or is this different than making real love? OK, you guys out there, let's have it!!!...
A. 7 May 2008: Girls can come attached after a while. Believe me i have many friends who have gone into 'FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS', includinng me and have come out hurt. Guys can 'disengage' when having a relationship based on only sex.
So yes, a guy can remain f... (read in full...)
My mum forced me to end contact with this boy because of his past, but I like him! What do you advise?
Q. dear cupid, ive been kinda seeing this lad on and off for the past 7 months, but my mum doesn't like him because he has a bad past and i care a lot about what my mum thinks and me and her have a very close relationship. I really like this lad and ...
A. 7 May 2008: What was his past like, does your mum have a point? All this needs to be taken into consideration. Your mum is just trying to protect you from getting hurt. Mother's know best when it comes to relationships and teengers. They have been through it! ... (read in full...)
I'm I a virgin or not anymore?
Q. Help i know people will think im stupid for doing it but last nite me and b/f where doing stuff,and after when he was inside me he said he thought i was a virgin which i was at the time but never told him, Anyway when he was going further in it di...
A. 4 March 2008: Congrats, your no longer a virgin.
x x ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance I could get pregnant?
Q. Yesterday, my boyfriend was on top of me and he put his hand down his trousers and started wanking, he then had a little bit of cum on his hand and then a few minutes later he put his hand down my knickers and was going to finger me but didn't, he ...
A. 17 February 2008: Sadly. Yes if there was sperm on his fingers there is a chance of pregnancy. It's small but it's still there. Take a pregnancy test and be careful next time :)... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if the guy touches himself and then me?
Q. I have a problem, I meet this guy a while ago, I don't really know him that well but last night I saw him and things got a little frisky. So my question is can you get pregnant if the guy touches himself and then me? All I know is that he did the ...
A. 17 February 2008: If any sperm gets close or inside you there is a chance of pregnancy. It's pretty small but sometimes you are unlucky: you can never be to careful. ... (read in full...)
Looks V Personality, which do girls prefer??
Q. What do girls mostly like personality of the lad or the looks ?...
A. 9 February 2008: Bit of both to be honest. I need a guy with a sense of humour as well....picky i know. X... (read in full...)
On facebook I said another girl is more attractive than my girlfriend, now she's dumped me, how can I get her to forgive me?
Q. Hi, i need a lot of help... About 9 months ago something happened on facebook between me and one of my friends. He told me this one girl was hotter than my girlfriend and i replied yes. It had not occured to me that it would lead me to this ...
A. 31 January 2008: You idiot. Teenage girls worry about their appearance towards boys 24/7 and for her boyfriend to say that- the guy who's supposed to think she is amazing is very hurtful. I suggest you be more careful in the future.
It's all about learning..... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and my boyfriend planned for us to reenact porn scenes...
Q. Hi I'm 15 and my boyfriend wants to see me squirt I need help my boyfriend is 18 and likes us to watch porn together then reenact it he got his best mate to join so we could reenact this scene with two boys one girl help please ...
A. 16 January 2008: If you don't wanna do it don't do it.. It will come back and haunt you at some point. Be rational about the situation, don't make a mistake that you regret later on. He sounds like he just wants you for sex to be honest.
Take Caree xx... (read in full...)
Does this sound like an orgasm??
Q. I'm 18 Years old. Recently started rubbing and tickling my clit. After a few minutes i get a strong urge to pee and my body tenses up. I can also feel and see my vagina beating. Is all this normal ? Does it sound like an orgasm ?...
A. 30 December 2007: Completely normal! Congratulations on your first orgasm!
Take care. x... (read in full...)
How do I keep a New Year's resolution?
Q. I know this isnt a sex etc related question but if possible can i have sum advice. Im planning to do the old new years resolution thing, and i was wondering if any1 has actually managed to keep theres, because i hear of everyone saying thet will...
A. 28 December 2007: DETERMINATION.
As Kenny said programme the mind, it's all about control. I would take Kenny's advice seriously. It's all that needs to be said.
Take care. I am sure it will work with a little determination!... (read in full...)
I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched me there and may have felt my pubic hair. Should I feel embarassed?
Q. I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched my down there and I think he felt my pubes. I'm so humiliated and I think he is going to tell kids at school. What should I do?...
A. 28 December 2007: Why should you be humiliated?? It's your body. Different boys/men like different things! He could have even prefered it!
And i doubt he will say anything to the kids at school. Don't panic. Just act as though it never happened. I'm sure it won't... (read in full...)
Do the loudness and moans mean a higher level of enjoyment during sex?
Q. My gf and I just had sex for the first time. Does the loudness and the amount of noises and moans mean a higher level of enjoyment? Do moans mean that I am satisfying her sexually?...
A. 27 December 2007: Normally a moan can show enjoyment yet it's hard to answer this question as the loudness or the amount can be faked so watch out if it is "too much".
It can also depend on how comfortable you are with eachother.
Don't worry. It all depends o... (read in full...)
What is sticking sex?
Q. plz tel me what is the sticking sex...? or meaning of sticking sex....?...
A. 27 December 2007: Never heard of "sticking sex".
Are you sure you don't mean 'stocking sex' or 'stick insect' ???... (read in full...)
My step brother and I are having sex! what should I do?
Q. im Annabelle and im 14. about 3 nights ago my brother (jayden) and i were home alone and he got me drunk. i remember him getting into bed with me. jayden is 16. he started touching me and then kissing me, but because stupidly i was drunk i kissed ...
A. 27 December 2007: Stop having sex with one of them. Follow your heart. Do the RIGHT thing and don't be let taken advantage of!... (read in full...)
To girls: Do you prefer a shaved chest or hairy chest? Shaved pubic hair or just trimmed?
Q. What do you girls like more, a Shaved chest or one with hair? And same question about pubic hair: Shaved completely or just trimed? ...
A. 27 December 2007: I like a smooth chest. Yet all women differ to what they like. Never A LOT of chest hair. A big turn off.
As for the pubic hair trimmed, yet some women may prefer shaven.
Different things turn on different individuals. ... (read in full...)
I'm 11 and my period has been very heavy, should I be worried?
Q. I'm 11 and I got my period October 10. It skipped in the beginning of November and my mum said it's normal. Then, I got it right on Thanksgiving! For December, I got right on Christmas! Weird! I think their's something wrong though, because last ...
A. 26 December 2007: You are perfectly fine, you can relax! All my friends, including me have had varied amounts of blood each month. I have found in the night i bleed much heavier than in the day. Each individual has a different menstrual cycle. Some people get cramps ... (read in full...)
Vaginal piercings!
Q. i'm 14 and this is weird but i was having a conversation with a close guy friend of mine about piercings and i have had my belly button, nose, tongue and nipple pierced but what i want to get pierced is my clit he says if i did that it would be ...
A. 26 December 2007: Personally i don't like lots of piercings. I have my ears and belly button pierced, that was enough!
These piercings get infected and arn't meant to be put in such sensitive areas! I don't think you should get one for a number of reasons.... (read in full...)
Happy Xmas from DearCupid
Q. Happy Xmas everyone :-) The aunts who share their wisdom, the people who share their questions and the team of moderators who keep everything flowing onto the site! Plus the 350,000 people who visit each month Have a great Xmas! Feel free t...
A. 26 December 2007: To all on Dearcupid...
MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR
I am very thankful for being apart of this site, helping people throughout their hardest times. It is an amazing website
x x x x
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Why have I not got pregant??
Q. I'm 16 years old, and I have been having sex with my best friend who is 18. Sometimes we use protection (condoms) but most of the time we don't. He doesn't always pull out on time before he ejaculates. I'd like to know WHY i havn't gotten pregnant!? ...
A. 25 December 2007: Why do you want to become pregnant at 16? It's too young! Go to a doctor to get get checked and find out what could be wrong with you, it could be that you are just extremely lucky. My suggestion is to use protection, you are also stopping std's fr... (read in full...)
Is "giving head" and a "blow job" the same thing?
Q. I know this is stupid, but is there a difference between giving head and a blow job? And how can I do it so it feels really good for my guy?...
A. 10 December 2007: They are exactly the same thing. 'Giving head' is more of a slang and younger use of the word.
'Blow job' is used more frequently by adults rather than teens.
i hope i helped. ... (read in full...)
How often should I change my pad?
Q. I just got my first period 3 days ago i was wondering how often should i change my pad?...
A. 8 December 2007: Around 4 hours if light to medium flow. Depends on the person really, if you have a heavy flow sometimes 1-2 hrs.
Ask your mum if you comfortable enough, she will be a perfect person to ask!
good luck . x... (read in full...)
Is cumming and having an orgasm the same thing?
Q. For a boy is cumming and orgasming the same thing?...
A. 29 November 2007: Different words- same meaning.
x... (read in full...)
Is this discharge an STD?
Q. Gel-like clearish discharge from vagina, more so when I'm aroused. What is this? I'm a virgin, so I don't think it could be STD, but I'm still worried. Is there any other way to get STD?? I've only been with one guy, and he was a virgin too, but ...
A. 21 November 2007: hey hey. No need to panic!! This is normal, hen a woman is aroused it is normal to have a clearish discharge. This is like a womans' 'cum' so to speak. If it is brown or smells then you may have an infection, but NOT an STD, do not WORRY. I ho... (read in full...)
What is "going down"?
Q. what does going down on someone mean ?...
A. 10 November 2007: Slang for oral sex honey. X... (read in full...)
Did he break my virginity with dry humping?
Q. I am a 13 yr old old virgin and have pledged to remain so until marriage. I recently had an intimate moment with my boyfriend. I sat on his lap while he kissed my neck but he had an erection and I felt his penis almost at the entrance of my vagina ...
A. 5 November 2007: The writer never said you could not get pregnant at 13. They said you could not get pregnant through DRY humping. I think you should maybe read the answers properly and just give your own advice.
Honey i am glad we all helped you! I hope you well... (read in full...)
Does losing your virginity make you bleed??
Q. I am 17 and i am close to losing my virginity. I just have one question though. The first time someone has sex (females) do they bleed? and does it hurt?...
A. 3 November 2007: Yes you do bleed and yes it does hurt, depending on the female the amount of pain is different. A few people i know said they found it hard to walk the next day.
It's messy and uncomfortable first time. ... (read in full...)
I have just started my period and don't know how to tell mom...
Q. ok i am 14 and have just started my period how can i tell my mom without cringing....
A. 3 November 2007: I know it's annoying but the only way to tell her is by being straight forward. I know how you feel, when i got my first period i didn't know how to say it. A week later i plucked up the courage to tell her. You've just got to say "mum can i have a ... (read in full...)
Could I still be pregenent
Q. On October 27, 2007 I had sex with my ex and the comdom burst and he came inside me. On the 1st of November I came on my period could I still be pregnant?...
A. 3 November 2007: Yes you could be pregnant. Get a pregnancy test and put your mind at ease.
x good luck x... (read in full...)
Did he break my virginity with dry humping?
Q. I am a 13 yr old old virgin and have pledged to remain so until marriage. I recently had an intimate moment with my boyfriend. I sat on his lap while he kissed my neck but he had an erection and I felt his penis almost at the entrance of my vagina ...
A. 3 November 2007: Do not worry you did not lose your virginity. Only through penetration can you lose it.
Yet i don't see you staying a virgin until marriage if you are already having dry sex at 13. I have no problem with you doing it at that age at all, nothing ... (read in full...)
The best approach to ask a girl for her phone number?
Q. hi, i want to ask a girl for her phone number. we have spoken to each other for a while now and we are lab partners at uni. can anyone tell me what the best approach would be??...
A. 3 November 2007: xSweetiex is so right.
Just like invite her out with you to a party or with a group of friends on a friday night then just say give me your number and i will txt you the details and stuff. It works!
good luck x... (read in full...)
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