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I'm just here to answer your questions to best of my ability and from experience.

He's bisexual and he's asked me out... do I say yes???

Q.   I need help really, really fast, as I really don't have much time. This guy asked me out, but he's bisexual and I don't know whether I'd be able to handle all the crap I'll get. I really like him and we even made out. Please, I really, really need ...

A.   8 March 2011: Hey there! this is just my opinion.. if a guy who is bisexual asks me, i wouldn't say yes... only because what if he likes another guy? How could you compete with that? ... (read in full...)

Twenty-five year old virgin, help!

Q.   I know a lot of guys have problems getting laid, but I’m having a crisis. I’m 25 years old and considered a virgin by everyone. In reality, I did lose my virginity, but not in a way that is something I would brag about. Nothing illegal or immoral, ...

A.   1 March 2011: Please don't do a one night stand! In my opinion, first time should be with the one you love( or at least care about) and it should be memorable! Not something you will regret in the future. Come on, one night stand? Eh... But then again, it's your... (read in full...)

Twenty-five year old virgin, help!

Q.   I know a lot of guys have problems getting laid, but I’m having a crisis. I’m 25 years old and considered a virgin by everyone. In reality, I did lose my virginity, but not in a way that is something I would brag about. Nothing illegal or immoral, ...

A.   27 February 2011: Hey there, I know you feel you're at the point where your friends are getting "some" and you're not. I think it's really nice that you're a virgin at your age! I mean, virginity is a special thing and once it's over, it's done! I say, you wait and ... (read in full...)

Is there any way I can get b/f to open up to me?

Q.   And my boyfriend has told me how nice and good I am to him. He says he has wanted a woman like me for a very long time. He started to cry, told me he loves me, and he is trying so hard to get his divorce done. I don't ask him about it alot sometimes ...

A.   26 February 2011: Hello Maine, I have been in your situation... My boyfriend is not a person that can tell you ALL his life in one sitting. It took me about literally 4-5 months for him to be really open with me. Even though we've known each other 3 years before w... (read in full...)

I'm uncertain about a LDR!

Q.   Help! I'm really new to my relationship with my boyfriend... We've known each other for three years now and we became a couple about 9 months ago. My concern is that I'm afraid of letting him go. By that I mean him going off to a different school, ...

A.   25 February 2011: I'm so touched with your replies. Thank you for taking the time to answer my question. They all seem personal and I really thank you for that. I also thank for the honest answers. That's life, right? I think I will just give this LDR a try... I mean ... (read in full...)

Never been kissed: how do I learn what to do?

Q.   Hello everyone! I am 17 years old and I recently just got into my first relationship. I have never been in a relationship before because I was always to focused on my GPA (it's a 4.0). Anyway this girl has some experience which kind of makes me ...

A.   24 February 2011: Hello Dear, This brought a smile to my face because you sound EXACTLY like my boyfriend! He's a smarty pants and didn't ask me to be his gf until prom night so his grades won't slip! I was his first girlfriend and well, he's my 3rd. So you can see,... (read in full...)

I overheard my boyfriend bragging to his friend about using me for sex and then breaking up!!

Q.   hi everybody I've been crying my eyes out all day because when I was walked into the passway leading to my boyfriend's dorm room I overheard him bragging and giving high fives to his roommate about how he was going to break up with me after he ...

A.   24 February 2011: Hey Hun, I'm sorry to hear that. I know you must be in real pain, but you have to be strong. Be strong for yourself. I can see that you really care for this guy, but I'm so glad that you heard the truth FROM HIM. you know? I know how much it hurts... (read in full...)

I overheard my boyfriend bragging to his friend about using me for sex and then breaking up!!

Q.   hi everybody I've been crying my eyes out all day because when I was walked into the passway leading to my boyfriend's dorm room I overheard him bragging and giving high fives to his roommate about how he was going to break up with me after he ...

A.   24 February 2011: Hey Hun, I'm sorry to hear that. I know you must be in real pain, but you have to be strong. Be strong for yourself. I can see that you really care for this guy, but I'm so glad that you heard the truth FROM HIM. you know? I know how much it hurts... (read in full...)

Would have I been better off if I had had a girlfriend years ago? Be honest.

Q.   Hi everyone. I'm back. I would appreciate an honest answer to this question. I like feeling sorry for myself and blaming God for everything, but to do that, I need amunition. I need proof that what I'm complaining about is fair enough. I have always ...

A.   17 February 2011: God hears everything. Just pray and ask God specifically what you need and be patient. He has three answers: Yes, not yet, and I have something better in mind.... (read in full...)

Would have I been better off if I had had a girlfriend years ago? Be honest.

Q.   Hi everyone. I'm back. I would appreciate an honest answer to this question. I like feeling sorry for myself and blaming God for everything, but to do that, I need amunition. I need proof that what I'm complaining about is fair enough. I have always ...

A.   17 February 2011: Dear Bruce, I understand why you feel sorry for yourself, but don't blame God. He has a plan for you, as of right now you don't see it. I know sometimes you want things (such as a gf) right now... but there's a reason why you don't have one at the m... (read in full...)

I treated her so well, why did she break up with me?

Q.   Okay my girlfriend and i have been together for 4 months since about September and we were amazing together i couldn't think about being with anyone else. She told me that she loved me and i loved her she didn't want to lose me and felt the same ...

A.   9 February 2011: Hello, Your story reminds me so much of 500 days of summer (sorry, i was watching it today; maybe you should watch it!). I bet you treated her well, but feelings change as time goes on... I know it might be hard for you to move on because you're s... (read in full...)

I like him, but I'm worried that he will never open up to me!

Q.   This isn't a huge issue yet, but I am trying to decide if I should stick with this guy or just forget about him. So we've been hanging out for the last month, at least twice a week, and lunch a few times too. But sometimes when we talk I will bri...

A.   31 January 2011: Sweetheart, I have been in your situation. My boyfriend is somewhat a reserved and private person. The first couple of months we have been together, he was fairly quiet. I didn't like it because I talk a lot and sometimes I just want to hear his... (read in full...)

My BF is overly jealous and I really don't know what to do about this!!

Q.   Please give me advice.. I have a boyfriend. He is a very very jealous man. He never allows me to attend my friend's birthday party or any party in my college because he said there will be many handsome guys there. He also calls me many times in...

A.   18 January 2011: Dear little aphrodite, I want to be honest with you if you don't mind. Your boyfriend seems to be very controlling of your life. He is obssessed with you and he always wants his way. relationship is build on trust and if he truly loves you, he ... (read in full...)

Sometimes he shows signs that he likes me, but other times there is nothing

Q.   I really like this guy in school. We used to talk at the beginning of the year online and he would say hi to me in the hallways. But now, he never comes online and just ignores me in school. But, everytime I look at him he is looking at me. I'm ...

A.   18 January 2011: Dear writer, I don't know if I will give you a good advice but i will just tell you from my experience. So here it is: I've liked this guy since 10th grade. (i'm a freshman in college now) and for 2 years I've been trying him to notice me. W... (read in full...)

I want to be thoughtful but, I'm broke!

Q.   I want to do something nice for my Sug but i dont have any funds. I know she knows i love her but i want to do something sweet for her to show i think about her non-stop..what should i do?...

A.   10 January 2011: Hey there, I just gave my boyfriend a 6 month anniversary gift and it's cheap but i mudt warn you. it is very tedious and time consuming to do. Since you always think about her nonstop, you must have reasons why you love her. here's what i did. i... (read in full...)

He thought I cheated on him but I didn't! Now he's broken up with me...

Q.   me and my ex-boyfriend started going out on april 6, 2010. on august 23 i was walking with 4 of my girlfriends and 4 guy friends. we were all crossing the street and of course the light was red. while we were crossing the street one of my guy ...

A.   10 January 2011: Dear writer, First of all, i don't exactly know the situation is but i'll try to answer your question as hard as i can. i think your boyfriend has trust issues with you because of the incident. Relationships builds on trust and if you told him... (read in full...)

My boyfriend loves me but I can't love him cause past realationship

Q.   Hello everyone:) so im a little new to the website. so my boyfriend and i are expecting. and on new years i broke up with him, why? i had a bad night and i realized i really dont love him cause of my past relationship. im scared of getting hurt aga...

A.   5 January 2011: I know exactly how you feel. My first boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year but then he broke up with me. I was so devasdated that i tried to commit suicide... Now that I have my second boyfriend, I was hesitant at first... I ... (read in full...)

Everyday I fall more in love with my best friend, who doesn't love me!

Q.   There’s this girl that I like a LOT. I’ve tired to see if she likes me and came up with no. We know each other for about 6 months. We talk every day for hours. She doesn’t really talk actually neither of us really talk. I’ve pretty much taken ...

A.   5 January 2011: Dear annonymous writer, I must say I have been in that situation myself. In this case I'm the girl that you are chasing. This guy I've known for 5 years now... and he is my bestest guy friend. He told me he loved me, but I told him I did not fe... (read in full...)

How do I reconcile things?

Q.   I got into a fight with my girlfriend of 2 years a couple of days ago. Right after our anniversary. After our argument I got into my car and left. (one of the things we argued about). I came back and she didn't want to talk to me anymore and ...

A.   5 January 2011: You always have something to say or do to reconcile things. Try to talk to her and explain to her why you left(that was your bad). Honestly, I wouldn't like it if my boyfriend just left without saying a word... Try to give her some time to chil... (read in full...)

Help needed ASAP!

Q.   Please help Tomorrow in school I'm sitting next to a boy who I have a crush on and I've fallen out with him because he ignores and he deleted me on blackberry messenger !!!! What should i say ? Should i ask him why he ignored me ? Please please h...

A.   5 January 2011: I say ignore him. If he deleted you on his bbm, then he's not worht your time hun! You will find other guys, trust me. You have the time in the world. Girl, you're only 13-15! you still have highschool, college, and your whole life ahead to ... (read in full...)

They're both so different, which should I pick?

Q.   i am a 14 year old boy and have a problem with two girls at school, who are both the same age as me. i like them both, but i don't know which one to go after. Or if either one of them like me. Girl 1 is really nice and we kind of play fight(argue...

A.   5 January 2011: I can't really choose for you because in the end it's your decision. From my conclusion, I think you like girl 1 better than girl 2. My reason is that you are only attracted to girl 2 for her sexuality. (of course you're a guy, you would like that ... (read in full...)

No sleep,missing my gf

Q.   Well me and my girlfriend have been together for about 4 and a half months and all the way through our relationship it's been stable we've only had 1 argument the entire time of being together but because she lives quite a while away and we're still ...

A.   5 January 2011: I know exactly how you feel, hun. I've been together with my boyfriend for about 7 months now and I don't see him as quite as I used too because of the distance situation and sometimes it does hurt. Try to not think about her 24/7. Perhaps do some ... (read in full...)

Would taking birth control pills make my breasts larger?

Q.   Hello. I'm 18 years old and my bra size ia 32A and I wish I could have at least a b cup without doing any surgery. From the research I've come across, some people say that birth control pills work! I just wonder if it really does work... PS. i...

A.   20 December 2010: Thank you for your all of your advice! but the sad part is, i don't even think I'm a full size A! I guess I just have to love what I have. Thanks again.... (read in full...)

Should I ask her to be my girlfriend on her birthday or is this too soon?

Q.   Ok, so I've finally met this girl at my very first party, she's 2 years younger than me and we pretty much hitting it off. It's her first time too, so we are so new to this whole thing. Anyway, I got her # and drive her home after the party... ...

A.   31 October 2010: You need to take things slow. Asking her to be your girlfriend is a big step and yet you don't really know the girl. Why don't you jang out with her a couple of times and really see if you are compatible and then figure things out if you want to be ... (read in full...)

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