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How can I even things out sexually?

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Question - (15 May 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2014)
A female Canada age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So I've been feeling incredibly hormonal lately. I've never felt this hormonal before but all that's on my mind for the past week has been sex. My boyfriend is lovely and is more than happy to have sex with me and does enjoy sex immensely though I've been feeling that I've been demanding it excessively and much much more.

I'm not very good at initiating the process as I just merely ask (most times slyly). To put the story short, I'm just wondering how to create some balance in our sexual demands? I feel as if I lust after him much more than he does over me :/ what kind of things could I do to drop some hints for the sexy times?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (16 May 2014):

aunt honesty agony auntI think you just need to try and gain more confidence. If you feel like you are doing all the chasing and he doesn't show that he is bothered about returning the favour then the only solution here is to talk to your boyfriend about how you feel and tell him how you feel. He is more than likely completely unaware of your situation and probably thinks everything is good so just talk to him.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2014):

I think the best thing to do is talk to him about how you feel, and see how he feels. To be honest though, it sounds like he's having a good time, so don't worry too much.

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