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I have been separated since March 2011 and am going through a divorce after 25 years of marriage. I think I can help the couples or singles out there who haven't had too many experiences with the opposite sex and who want advice on how to act or why does that guy act like such and such or the female too. I'm female over 50.

Does he like me as a colleague, or something more?

Q.   I wish to see other opinions on this who dont know us. I used to work with an older male. He is shy and difficult to read. When I left he hugged me (never really shows emotion). I now hav a new job but still need to speak with him. He calls me ...

A.   11 November 2012: No harm done unless he's married or living with somebody. Do you know if he is or not? What do you know about him other than what he does for a living? You should find out from someone at your old job to see if he is married and then if you find ... (read in full...)

Why am I less affectionate towards him? Is this the end of the honeymoon phase, or worse?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We are doing very well and are happy together. I used to be really physically affectionate toward him but less recently. He is however the same as before toward me. There is totally nothing ...

A.   11 November 2012: It's not a stupid question. But yes, the honeymoon phase is over and now you and he will find out if your love will remain. Being good friends is a very good thing. As long as you two can talk about silly stuff and important stuff and still get ... (read in full...)

How can I get people to stay out my business?

Q.   anyway i just finished my high school working and i had never dated before. at family functions i always get asked about my dating life getting married having kids etc. i'm in the shawdows of people who want/have kids and started all these things ...

A.   22 July 2012: If you feel like it, look up the statistics on marriages and divorces these days, and memorize them and the next time someone asks you about your love life tell them those statistics, and that given your age and your activities you are way too busy ... (read in full...)

I'm confused by his behavior.

Q.   Dear cupid I met someone at a meeting and it seems that he liked me he kept hugging me and staying near me all the time.So we kept contact after the meeting. He asked me out on a date and he coudlnt keep his hands off me at the cinema and kept h...

A.   22 July 2012: Can I just say that men are scum? Okay, at least the guy that this chick is talking about. Block him, defriend him, show the guy that YOU are more important than his games he is playing. ... (read in full...)

Is it normal not to have friends?

Q.   Is it normal to not have friends I think im a normal decent person but i guess not because kno one likes me I have no friends i tell people that i have no friends and they dont believe me but its true i never go to parties or hang out i dont kno a...

A.   19 December 2009: Now that you're becoming aware of your isolation from society I suggest if you see a woman you would like to be friendly with, look her in the eyes and give her a smile. Start out small and ask her if she would like to join you for coffee, tea, or ... (read in full...)

I don't understand the difference between girlfriend and best friend!

Q.   I just need some advice on how to handle a situation I have. Let me warn you this is a little long... I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half, and over time I've slowly come to see him as my best friend too while being a romantic...

A.   19 December 2009: Yes we talked about it. He said she understood him and made him feel like a man, blah,blah,blah. Same old story that all men say when they are unhappy in their marriage. Unfortunately, since I don't have the greatest self esteem I'm still stru... (read in full...)

I don't understand the difference between girlfriend and best friend!

Q.   I just need some advice on how to handle a situation I have. Let me warn you this is a little long... I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half, and over time I've slowly come to see him as my best friend too while being a romantic...

A.   13 December 2009: I agree with you. I thought I was my husband's best friend until I found a love letter to a woman he works with that he considers his best friend. I don't like that he spends emotional time with her. It takes away from our marriage in my ... (read in full...)

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