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| | Duckyhelp's profile:Hi, i feel i have had enough experiences with friendships and boyfriends, first love, that kinda thing is basicaly my forte. :)
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Am I over reacting if my boyfriend has a wedding on the day of my birthday and I do not want to attend?
Q. Am I over reacting if my boyfriend has a wedding on the day of my birthday and I do not want to attend? I am not close with the couple that is getting married and my birthday is the only day out of the year that it is all about me. He gives me a ...
A. 16 November 2009: maybe your being a bit selfish here. Birthdays arent that big a deal unless its the big milestone ones. Ur birthday is jst another day, that happens to be a day where to people want to declare their love for each other. A happy occasion, what cou... (read in full...)
Why can't I forgive my ex boyfriend?
Q. My exboyfriend was my first love. I loved him a lot. We broke up 3 months ago. We decided to stay to stay friends but is really hard for me because I haven't forgiving him from hurting me the way he did. Be broke up becaue "it had to be done" ...
A. 8 November 2009: Omg, i have this! My ex broke up with me 3mnths ago, i dated, and is dating atm, its probs not rite or proper of me, as i still have feelings towards my ex, But he occasionaly says he still loves me then cuts me down and my pain is back again from ... (read in full...)
He says he wants to be friends but is now avoiding me
Q. Is it a bad thing that I feel as if the guy who wants to stay friends is avoiding me now? We do not have any of the same classes but we pass by every morning and he never says hello anymore. When I asked him out he said he wanted to stay friends but ...
A. 29 October 2009: Yes, he probs wants a bit of elbow space to breathe and think about whats going on.
I say ignore him till he is ready to talk 2 u... (read in full...)
He stopped texting me back, is he planning to break up with me??
Q. I don't know what to do, my boyfriend has stopped saying sweet things to me. Is he planning to break up with me? My boyfriend and I used to text sweet things to each other before we went to bed every day, and then one day, I tell him good night, ...
A. 24 October 2009: Yes, i think that if u do what he's doing then either he will realize that he wants the night txts again or you guys just wont do that anymre.
Im 15, and my bf dont txt me, so i ignore him :L and he trys 2 talk 2 me a lot :L
and im on msn atm to h... (read in full...)
Why is he playing these games? I'm so confused!
Q. soo sorry this is rly long, had a helllll of a weekend!! me and my bf had been together for 4 months. but we had been fighting all the time and started to get less close. so on friday (its sunday now) he came over after school and everything was ...
A. 19 October 2009: i think he has ended it for good but maybe still wants you as a friend? Or just isnt realizing what he is doing. I think you need to decide what you really want now. Do you want him and his games? or are you willing to move on? Even tho giving ... (read in full...)
Could she be pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend and i had sex a little more than two weeks ago, she's not on any birth control, but i did use a condom. I pulled out with the condom still on, and i made sure the condom wasn't ripped or anything, and NO sperm even touched the vaginal ...
A. 19 October 2009: yes, periods are very iregular, i wouldnt worry, give it a week and it will arrive :) if not...(which i highly doubt) get tested.... (read in full...)
I guy I like kissed another girl! What should I do?
Q. basically this guy i like liked me a couple of weeks ago round about august time, my best friend knew i liked him and she knew he liked me back, i only found this out after he went to a party and kissed another girl. i am really upset, i don't know ...
A. 10 October 2009: Tell him how you feel, as you cant just stick around waiting for him to make the first move. Girls who make the 1st move are shown as confident. Since he doesnt feel awkward knowing that you like him, therefor it doesnt pose any risk in asking h... (read in full...)
Does he actually like me? Or should I just assume we're friends?
Q. Does my best friend like me? Yesterday my friends said he walked by our homeroom but didn’t stop by like he usually does, he just looked in. Grace said it was because I wasn’t in there and he was looking for me. Today he stopped by and talked with ...
A. 7 October 2009: usualy even if your best friend doesnt even feel the same way, they dont knock you for it! They feel flattered, and actualy make sure they dont upset you and stuff once they know:P
i say, tell him, but be serious about it, so he doesnt think yo... (read in full...)
I want my ex back - how do I speed up the process?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up 4 months ago on his terms. But recently he has spoken up and thinks he still loves me, he says he misses us and that he couldnt see himself with anyone else but isn't sure yet. He is going away for a ...
A. 4 October 2009: Thanks guys, you have really helped. I hope he choses the right desision. :S... (read in full...)
Would it be lame to stop being friends with him?
Q. So, for the last two school years, I've known this guy. About the second half of last year, we became pretty good friends, but it was pretty much just at school. Over the summer, we barely texted or anything. Well, this school year, I think we got ...
A. 3 October 2009: maybe he only sees you as a best friend, and this is a gd thing.
But you want mre than this, so play the waiting game. Once they break up, he wnt fancy her again.
Then you have a chance to make your move, as relationships dont usually last that lon... (read in full...)
I still love him, should I tell him?
Q. Hi everyone, i have a problem, ok.... Me and my ex broke up almost 3 months ago after a year and a half relationship because he ended...to be honest i dont even really know why, something about me being clingy and moody and jelous of his best gir...
A. 29 September 2009: thanks everyone :)... (read in full...)
Once a cheater isn't always a cheater?
Q. a week ago my cousin told me she had slept with my bf. given the fact that he had cheated on me before, and that she is a very close cousin, even though he denied it. i still broke up with him. now i learn that she lied in order to break us up. cuz ...
A. 25 September 2009: Meantion that it was a mistake, and that it wasnt that you didnt trust him, it was that u didnt want to be hurt that way if he had cheated. I really hope everything works out x... (read in full...)
Shall I go and talk to him even if he's a jerk and a liar?
Q. What is happening ? I and my boyfriend we are together since 2 years , recently I noticed that he became different person , he changed , like he doesn’t want me , if I hug him he said I hate hugging If I want sex , he said I hate sex , if I wanna ...
A. 25 September 2009: I think it is kind of obvious right now. Ignore him like he did to you, go out with friends, show yourself you dont need him. Then you will find a guy who will treat you right.... (read in full...)
I think he's making a really bad mistake by breaking up with me and I can't do anything about it!
Q. [Moderator note: 2 questions from the same poster are combined here as they are essentially the same question.] My boyfriend of a year told me that we are done. He completely shut me out and was being so rude. I got that we were done but i wanted t...
A. 25 September 2009: im so sorry to hear about this. This has happened recently to me, i kno exactly how you feel. And that hes rejecting you, and you want him, you'll do anything, change anything jst to be with him, thing is. when you do this, it puts him off even ... (read in full...)
I don't want my boyfriend to finger me because I think it's horrible..
Q. okay basically...my boyf wants to finger me but i dont want him to because i think its horrible. just the idea of it is horrible but im willing to give him a handjob or blowjob. but he says he feels selfish if hes getting stuff but im not. and i ...
A. 20 September 2009: What? Nufn sexual what is this? A nunery?
The law says no SEX. It doesnt ban foreplay...gosh!... (read in full...)
Smiles, eye contact -- does she like me?
Q. Hi, I wanted to know if this girl likes me. We're in the same classes and its only been the third day of the course. She doesn't talk to me, but when she looks at me she always smiles, and I usually catch her looking at me out of the corner of my ...
A. 14 September 2009: its only the 3rd day!! If she starts to get into a habit of sitting in the same place, sit in that general area.
Then u guys are in talking distance.
Or if u see her in non class times, a simple hi, then gradually get to a convo.
hope i helped... (read in full...)
Is he worth waiting around for to see if our relationship will work?
Q. Recently, as in 2 days ago, my boyfriend and i had a massive fight, because he keeps calling chicks names like "hun" and "babe" on his bebo, and he was mad at me for bringing it up again because we once had an argument about the same thing. He ...
A. 7 September 2009: I think this guy thinks hes still single, and wont change as he knows in the end that you wont leave him cause obviously you love him.
But this guy seems to have no respect for women and just likes playing games with everyone.
My advice would be... (read in full...)
Is it worth telling him how I feel?
Q. Okay, so here's my problem. I've really liked this boy for about 6 months now. We're good friends and we talk to each other almost everyday. I think he might like me too, I think he's shown some of the signs (Looking at me alot, getting nervous,...
A. 7 September 2009: I think do it on the sly over text or msn, by just asking him who he fancys, if he says he doesnt wana say, ask if u can guess, if he says yes, go through ALL the girls he is friendly with and tht your friendly with.
If he meantions one of them... (read in full...)
Really want to know whether he genuinely cares about me!
Q. Hey everybody,Sorry in advance as this is a little long but there is a lot of important details. I am 'seeing' a guy but in a confusing situation. I keep overreacting when there is no need to be. I am wondering if I am scaring him away. This guy ...
A. 7 September 2009: By the sounds of it he is trying to distance himself from you in a way so you dont think you guys will be in a relationship, so he doesnt feel he NEEDS to contact you all the time.
I say just to lay low for a while, and not be too willing to txt ... (read in full...)
Does masturbating have side affects?
Q. hi does masturbating have any side effects?...
A. 6 September 2009: Nope, perfectly fine :)... (read in full...)
What can I do to get past my fear of kissing?
Q. i have a problem.i have a lovely boyfriend who loves me and stufff like that.we've been together for a week.the problem is i have never french kissed and i have no experience with this and i'm afraid to do it.i told him this and he said no ...
A. 6 September 2009: Just put it out of your mind, let him take control till you get used to french kissing. Once you've done it once you will kick yourself about not doing it earlier!! :P Just relax with it, and being able to do it come naturally! Have fun and h... (read in full...)
I've been missing periods, and I'm not sexually active, so what's the problem?
Q. Hi I started my period in January 2007 and to start with they were really irregular, like in June of that year I had two 7 weeks apart But recently i have been kind of getting into a 3-5 week cycle. But now I haven't had a period since 11th July ...
A. 6 September 2009: What weight are you?? Periods stop if you become underweight.... (read in full...)
How can I talk to my girlfriend about taking it to the next step?
Q. Ok, so i have been with my girlfriend for about 10 months now. I really love her, but i dont know how far she would be willing to take it yet. We havent gone much farther than making out, so i dont know what would make her feel uncomfortable. Even ...
A. 6 September 2009: Simply just bring it up on msn i would say, its the easiest and less embarassing way to do it, just meantion there is something you would like to discuss with her and that you have been thinking about it for a while, BUT DO make it clear that you ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of meeting his friends! I had bad experiences with my ex's friends...
Q. I have gone on a date with a guy (Bill), and a few days beofre the date he asked me if I wanted to come with him to see another movie with his friends in a week. That was a few days ago, and we haven't talked about it since, so I'm not sure if I'm ...
A. 6 September 2009: Ive had this feeling before, but it ruined my relationship. I say, go with, meet them, and dont see the female friends as enemies, get to know them, they will have similar interests as you, basicaly get to know them and they wont seem bad. Just ... (read in full...)
Should I forget aout my old best friend?
Q. Hi, I'm Charlotte. OK, so I started to be best ever friends with someone. We were so close and told each other everything but we kept arguing. Every week it would be something new. But when we made up it was fantastic. The first few arguments, we ...
A. 6 September 2009: Obviously you have her mobile number or msn, talk to her through there, or discuss the problem with a mutual friend who can let her know, then you have more of a chance to speak to her about it in person. I dont think just moving on is the right ... (read in full...)
How do I get her to talk to me and get over her fears?
Q. I dated my girlfriend for 9 months. The last few months things got rocky, she was jealous of me spending time with my best friend (a girl) and all the rumors that were spread around about it. So she broke up with me, yet she still had very strong ...
A. 6 September 2009: Make it clear that you are not interested in your best friend in that way, and that you want her, and your there for her if she needs to talk, this may not trigger her to tell you everything straight away. But over time she will trust you
Hope ... (read in full...)
Is it bad that I crave my boyfriend's attention a lot?
Q. I'm not sure why but I crave my boyfriends attention a lot. I want him to talk to me when I want him to. Console me when I need him and just be there more me when I need him to be. Which he isn't sometimes. Today I spend time with him and we ...
A. 6 September 2009: Hey, i went through this, and i ended up getting dumped and branded a psyco b**** by him and his friends. And i dont want you to go through this, so i suggest laying low for a while, dont contact him till he contacts you, this WILL be hard to do and ... (read in full...)
Am I falling in love with him?
Q. Hey guys. Omg, Im going crazy over this guy. ive been talkin to him for a little over a yr now. i think about him all the time. i go to bed thinkin of him and wake up thinkin of him.the only place i ever wanna be is with him. when im with him, im ...
A. 6 September 2009: Sounds like you might be, do you talk to this guy often?
If so, ask him who he is interested in, if its not you, dont panic, just make him see how great you are by spending time together in friendship groups and alone, and discuss similar inte... (read in full...)
If I don't like him as more than a friend, then why do I miss not hanging out with him as much?
Q. I've known my male friend for 3 years. During these 3 years we've been hanging out alone together, going to eat, cinema etc. I know that he used to like me (more than a friend) but I was never interested in having a relationship with him (as i'm not ...
A. 6 September 2009: I think you just see this guy as your best friend, and you maybe expect him to feel the same way, so when he says hes meeting other people after you feel your more important or whatever, but dont take it personally.
Guy friends tend not do be as i... (read in full...)
My friend has problems getting a girl
Q. okay hi, my friend has a huge problem. he's a male, 16, and can't really seem to get a girlfriend. hes a really sweet guy and perverted but in a joking way. and every time he likes a girl, they always seem to stomp on his heart. i suppose sometimes ...
A. 6 September 2009: I'm sure this guy is very nice, just tell him personally what puts you off guys and that sometimes pervey jokes just leave the impression of being pervey and not really interested in a relationship!... (read in full...)
My parents won't let me go out!
Q. Okay,so im 15 about to be 16 in 2 weeks and me an my bf have been dating for 5 months now but we never get to hang out outside of school and im afraid he'll break up with me because of this. My parents don't think I'm of age to be dating even tho...
A. 6 September 2009: i duno if i miss interpreted ur post, but i didnt think it was about sex, correct me if im wrong!
But yes, you need to tell your parents, even if its tellin a lil white lie and say this guy aint a big deal, and your not going to do anything sham... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and parents won't let me date!
Q. I am 20 years old and I am still with my high school sweet-heart. Our relationship began 4 years ago and we feel to be really in love til' this day. I really love him and wouldn't doubt spending the rest of my life with him, we have been going to ...
A. 6 September 2009: I think that telling them will be a load off your mind, as i in the past have tried to keep a long relationship a secret, but as soon as my parents actually found out, they were angry, but if you speak to them about it, and make it clear that your ... (read in full...)
How can I stop obsessing over my girlfriend?
Q. I know the title is a little bit misleading, but I find myself obsessing a little bit too much over my girlfriend. I am a 21 year old male and she is a little bit younger than I am. I care a lot for my girlfriend. We've been dating for about 6 ...
A. 6 September 2009: I think your thinking to hard into this, if she arrives late or doesn't call when she says, just means she's busy at that moment in time.
But she has made it clear you are important to her, so don't worry.
... (read in full...)
I am scared of new guys, is it because of never voicing things to my ex crush or why??
Q. hey :) ok this is will be long but i could really use some help so please take the time to read it :) basically i like loved this guy *bob* for 3 years. its crazy, it started way back in year 10 as just a crush, and then it got so much deeper, i ...
A. 6 September 2009: I say don't let the feelings you had for *bob* be the the thing you compare all your new guys to, be open to the fact that your new guy likes you and wants to give it a try with you! Strong feelings develop over time, don't be afraid to be patient ... (read in full...)
I am scared of new guys, is it because of never voicing things to my ex crush or why??
Q. hey :) ok this is will be long but i could really use some help so please take the time to read it :) basically i like loved this guy *bob* for 3 years. its crazy, it started way back in year 10 as just a crush, and then it got so much deeper, i ...
A. 6 September 2009: Ok, you are thinking to much into your new relationships, obviously *bob* (nice random name btw) was the 1st and only person who you have felt these feelings for, but you are comparing your feelings you had to him to the feelings you now have for ... (read in full...)
He is giving me a lot of mixed signals and confusing me. How do I unravel my feelings?
Q. Okay so I am in highschool and there's his guy I really took a liking to..So I kept admiring him from a distance. There were a few times we talked but it wasnt really a conversation. So after a while he started giving me signals that he does like me ...
A. 6 September 2009: Hey, u could work on the sly next time you talk to him, ask for his msn addy, then you guys can chat there and get to know each other. Do jokey flirting over msn, greeting him with hey hottie or sexy, watever. Then the more you guys chat, the more ... (read in full...)
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