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I'm a 19 year old philosophy student, with a lot of friends with a lot of drama, so naturally I thought I'd find people with some more :p xx

If my boyfriend likes anal does this mean he might be gay?

Q.   I have been dating my bf for about 8 months and he is super sweet. A few nights ago while we were just cuddling watching a movie out of new where he ask me if I would try anal sex , he has done it before with his ex gf and said he really liked it. I ...

A.   20 May 2010: It doesn't mean he is or he isn't. As much as a lot of people seem to be suggesting that porn is the reason (some) men find anal attractive, it's actually a little deeper than that (no pun intended). The male g-spot is up there, and it's generally ... (read in full...)

I don't get turned on by girls but I want to get married some day in the future! What is going on with me?

Q.   Ok so im 13 and im soooo worried of being gay! I dont get attracted to girls only guys (i get crushes on girls but im sexually attracted to boys), and it doesnt help that i go to an all boys school, i really dont want to be gay (not that i have ...

A.   17 May 2010: First off, I would echo the question, why do you want to not be gay? Also, you could be bi, you could be gay, or you could be straight and just curious. Either way, you can still be happy, you can still have a healthy relationship, and you can still ... (read in full...)

I like two guys and I can't have either!

Q.   please help me, my head is messed up. i like 2 guys and there best friends, im not using there names so im just gonna call the guy 1 and guy 2 , so guy one ive liked him for a long long time now he's one of those guy you cant get out of your mind , ...

A.   17 May 2010: Re: guy 2. I know everyone else has said it's a bad idea, but talk to your friend, tell her you like him, and see if she actually does mind, if so, then it's a no no, but if she doesn't, then in my experience, some of the best relationships start as ... (read in full...)

He seems interested but hasn't asked me out...

Q.   Okay, I've been friends with this guy for quite a while and I've known him for a few years... It's only until now that we've started getting closer. We hold hands and hug a lot, and he's even tried kissing me....But he hasn't asked me out :/ I...

A.   17 May 2010: Seems like he likes you as more than a friend, but guys find it harder to move people from one area of their life to another (thus, our perpetual fear of the "Friend Zone"). Talk to him about it, force him to confront it.... (read in full...)

Is it worth the effort to ask her out if we're only going to be together for 4 months?

Q.   Good news: I'll be receiving my degree within 4 months. Bad news: I'll be moving where my future job takes me or back home until I secure a job fit for my career. Granted, I've lived my whole life leaving and trying to make new friends. It'll ...

A.   17 May 2010: Definitely. What have you got to lose?... (read in full...)

He stutters when he talks to me, he's so shy!

Q.   I really like this guy but he is so shy! He stutters when he talks to me, finds it hard to csrry the conversation etc, but before he started to fancy me he was fine and we talked all the time!! How can I tell him, or should I leave it, can I ...

A.   11 May 2010: Just be patient with him, he needs to see that things are still the same as they were, and that he can talk to you without worrying. The best thing you can do is wait for him to finish without cutting in (a lot of people try to finish people's ... (read in full...)

Planning my future in the Navy. My friends don't understand and I feel isolated.

Q.   hi i'm applying for the navy soon (in july to be precise) so i've been training phisically, mentally and emotionally. i've also been getting as much experience as i can on ships n that. but i'm only 15. half the people who are 16 in my school ...

A.   11 May 2010: Hey, you sounds really keen, and I have a similar experience of the UK forces, as I'm a trainee officer. You've said you don't really relate to the people at school, do you have more in common with your Cadet friends? You might just find that the ... (read in full...)

The thought of boyfriend fantaising about other people makes me want to be alone for ever

Q.   I really need some help with a problem I'm having. I'm had low self esteem since I was 11 (I'm in my 20's now) and I have been in therapy for it and although it helped I think its gone back to being as bad as before. The main problem is I rea...

A.   11 May 2010: Sweetheart, if you have a much higher sex drive than him, and you're acting on it, then he probably isn't masturbating, never mind fantasizing about other people! That aside, you shouldn't feel the need to change for him, if he loves you, then he l... (read in full...)

Should I kiss my lesbian friend?

Q.   hi. i have quite a complicated problem!! my best friend has recently told me that she is a lesbian and has been having a complicated relationship secretly with one of my other friends. it was really amazing that she trusted me with such a big ...

A.   11 May 2010: If you want to kiss her because you find her attractive, or you're curious, talk to her about it. It's unlikely to upset her if you talk to her about it, and if you both want to, go from there. Your boyfriend may not be too happy about it, or he ... (read in full...)

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