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How can you tell if a guy only wants sex or does he really care about you?

Q.   Hi guys. Can you tell me how you know a guy only wants to sleep with you? Are there signs, things he does, says, etc. that shows you he only wants sex with you? And if he really cares about you as a person and has feelings for you besides the...

A.   23 April 2011: Im having relationship w my bf almost 2 years in august and im still virgin and ofcourse we did other stuff..to be honest im scared cause it will be my first.. And wanted it when i married but sometimes im thinking all of a sudden we start to fight ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend saved my life and is now handicapped. Should I stay with him?

Q.   I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. He is the best thing that's ever happened to me. It almost sounds unreal, but he saved my life about one month ago. He pushed me out of the way from getting hit by an oncoming car, but he was badly injured. Right now, ...

A.   26 December 2010: if you were the one who saved his life and then become handicapped, would you want him to leave you just because of you are handicapped?... (read in full...)

How judgmental are guys on the first date?

Q.   Hello Guys, One of my friend gave my number to his cousin and sent to each other our pic and we liked each other and exchanged the numbers.. since one month we texted to each other and sometimes called.. he asked me to hand out twice but unfort...

A.   17 December 2010: @ TIM, he texted me saying " thanks, i will let u know" U told me he doesnt want to hang out if he really wanted he would have said it directly So does his last text mean he doesnt want to meet if yes, why he said let me know instead of no?... (read in full...)

How judgmental are guys on the first date?

Q.   Hello Guys, One of my friend gave my number to his cousin and sent to each other our pic and we liked each other and exchanged the numbers.. since one month we texted to each other and sometimes called.. he asked me to hand out twice but unfort...

A.   17 December 2010: ok guys i texted to him one more time saying that "I hope you enjoy your party. Is there a different time that we could get together to try a second date?" it has been for 3 hours but no text from him i tr... (read in full...)

How judgmental are guys on the first date?

Q.   Hello Guys, One of my friend gave my number to his cousin and sent to each other our pic and we liked each other and exchanged the numbers.. since one month we texted to each other and sometimes called.. he asked me to hand out twice but unfort...

A.   16 December 2010: ok dirtball ur right.. he has plans the same day that i offered and what can i do? but he didnt even tell me sorry or next time.... i didint text him back so u think should i text him back? the 2nd one is u made a comment about what i said b... (read in full...)

How judgmental are guys on the first date?

Q.   Hello Guys, One of my friend gave my number to his cousin and sent to each other our pic and we liked each other and exchanged the numbers.. since one month we texted to each other and sometimes called.. he asked me to hand out twice but unfort...

A.   16 December 2010: Ok guys, i really appreciate your comments.. and i was so upset also sent him after the day we dated and telling him: sorry the date didint go well i was nervous and i like you.. i would like to hang out again.would u like that? but he just ... (read in full...)

Second chance in a relationship?

Q.   Do you believe that people should be given a second chance in a relationship? we all do mistake if our partner did something wrong, broke your trust or some other thing and you still love them do you think its rite to give them second chance? i am ...

A.   3 December 2010: Ok let me tell you my ex bf called me whore even though i didnt sleep with anyone and asked me forgive and told me he lost his control and promise me and i gave him one chance Then he did the same thing and called me different words which made me s... (read in full...)

What gift can I send to my boyfriend in hospital?

Q.   Hello Guys, My bf will have a surgery in 2 days.. I was planning to send him flowers to the hospital. Do you think is it good idea sending a guy to flowers to the hospital? or what kind of gift I should send to him considering he will have bypass g...

A.   22 September 2010: Thank U guys.. right now he is having a surgery.. They are gonna make his stomach smaller whis is bypass gastric.. I will send him flowers when he let me the room number... (read in full...)

What gift can I send to my boyfriend in hospital?

Q.   Hello Guys, My bf will have a surgery in 2 days.. I was planning to send him flowers to the hospital. Do you think is it good idea sending a guy to flowers to the hospital? or what kind of gift I should send to him considering he will have bypass g...

A.   21 September 2010: also I cant buy tsort cause he will have bypass surgeryand he wont eat anything except liquids for 2 months:(... (read in full...)

What gift can I send to my boyfriend in hospital?

Q.   Hello Guys, My bf will have a surgery in 2 days.. I was planning to send him flowers to the hospital. Do you think is it good idea sending a guy to flowers to the hospital? or what kind of gift I should send to him considering he will have bypass g...

A.   21 September 2010: Hello Friends, the thing is I will send the gift to the hospital.. so sending giftcards or t-sort is fine with him? or flowers is like too girlish?... (read in full...)

He has time for his friends and revision but none for me...

Q.   Lately, my boyfriend has been really confusing me. He keeps telling me that he wants to see me, but I always feel as though he doesn't. We used to see eachother a lot - his excuse is that "people change". He tells me he needs to do revision as h...

A.   17 April 2010: you know what Ive the same problem, my bf never sees me always busy etiher with his parents or with his work..when we decided to hang out, smt came up so we couldnt see each other for a long time... thats not fair.. maybe its better to move for both ... (read in full...)

After getting back together, how should I behave towards my boyfriend despite my trust issues?

Q.   Guys, Me and my bf broke up 1 week ago because of trust issues.. Then I was the one who broke up because I couldnt trust him.. but I am still in love with him.. during the period of one week, he texted me to get me back together but I told him...

A.   3 April 2010: yesterday I text him back and show him care about him, like asking oh u dont skip ur meals right? the reason why Iam asking cause u were sick but he didint respond it.. so after this time what should I do?Its bad when u text him showing care of ... (read in full...)

After getting back together, how should I behave towards my boyfriend despite my trust issues?

Q.   Guys, Me and my bf broke up 1 week ago because of trust issues.. Then I was the one who broke up because I couldnt trust him.. but I am still in love with him.. during the period of one week, he texted me to get me back together but I told him...

A.   2 April 2010: like today he texted me how Iam doing and what plans are.. he didint tell me he love me.. because he always told me before.. every text he always put it.. but I know I have to wait for a while.. so u think should I leave him alone no cont... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's stressful situation is making me stressed too, I don't know what to do anymore....

Q.   Here is my story, my bf went to his country outside the Us for his granddad like 2 weeks.The reason why he went there with his family because of his granddad. He is so sick and about to die.. In His country he try to call me everyday for the 1st ...

A.   1 March 2010: Iam devastated and so upset right now... U know my situation I told u that he went to gym inseat of spending time with me. I didint answer his calls since yesterday because I was so upset. then he text me and called me 2day.. I didnt pick up.. ... (read in full...)

Everyday I wait for a call from him, and wait and wait ..

Q.   Hey Guys, Thank you for this site cuz whenever I have problem, everyone is trying to help me.. I have problem with my bf whom I havent seen him since he went to his country for 2 weeks because sickness of his granddad. I know its really hard for ...

A.   23 February 2010:  Even though my bf came to Ny, He doesnt call me anymore or text me so much.. I feel like we are not relationship no calls no texting or barely saying I love u even though we havent see each other for 1 month because he went to his country for his ... (read in full...)

Everyday I wait for a call from him, and wait and wait ..

Q.   Hey Guys, Thank you for this site cuz whenever I have problem, everyone is trying to help me.. I have problem with my bf whom I havent seen him since he went to his country for 2 weeks because sickness of his granddad. I know its really hard for ...

A.   22 February 2010: Hey Guys, thank u so much forur great advice:) guess what on saturday morning he called me that he'll be here on saturday night:) so I had thought he was supposed to be here thrday or friday but I had misunderstood:)) When He came to US he called m... (read in full...)

Everyday I wait for a call from him, and wait and wait ..

Q.   Hey Guys, Thank you for this site cuz whenever I have problem, everyone is trying to help me.. I have problem with my bf whom I havent seen him since he went to his country for 2 weeks because sickness of his granddad. I know its really hard for ...

A.   20 February 2010: thank u guys.. hopefully everything will be ok and I'll try to be mora patient and I even think that maybe he cheat on me or wanna break up.. I was just worried because he was supposed to come yesterday to the US. but no phone calls at least he ... (read in full...)

Everyday I wait for a call from him, and wait and wait ..

Q.   Hey Guys, Thank you for this site cuz whenever I have problem, everyone is trying to help me.. I have problem with my bf whom I havent seen him since he went to his country for 2 weeks because sickness of his granddad. I know its really hard for ...

A.   20 February 2010: thank u guys for giving me advice and Iwill try to be patient and not to be hurt.. and I wont expect him to call me anymore sometimes at least he should have let me know that he cancelled his plane ticket because he was supposed to be in the US ... (read in full...)

Do guys wait for their girlfriends if they are virgins?

Q.   I told to my bf whom I dated for one month that Iam virgin..He respected me and said he wait me until Iam ready.. and he wanted to be with me forever. Do the guys wait their gf or change their behaviors toward gf when the girl told to bf she is v...

A.   6 October 2009: I can not text him anymore that turn him on...cuz he knows Iam virgin maybe he does not have any pleasure anymore cuz he can think that she is virgin so she probably didint do these things to any guys... for insstance I text him that is that... (read in full...)

Do guys wait for their girlfriends if they are virgins?

Q.   I told to my bf whom I dated for one month that Iam virgin..He respected me and said he wait me until Iam ready.. and he wanted to be with me forever. Do the guys wait their gf or change their behaviors toward gf when the girl told to bf she is v...

A.   6 October 2009: how do u make ur guys have sexually pleasure? cuz he knows Iam virgin and if I text him that turn on he can think ooohhh she is virgin so she probably didint do any knind of things to anyone else...Is that right?... (read in full...)

Do guys wait for their girlfriends if they are virgins?

Q.   I told to my bf whom I dated for one month that Iam virgin..He respected me and said he wait me until Iam ready.. and he wanted to be with me forever. Do the guys wait their gf or change their behaviors toward gf when the girl told to bf she is v...

A.   6 October 2009: what about their behaviors? Dp they change after they learned their gf told them they are virgin?... (read in full...)

I'm trying to push him away because he really hurts me

Q.   Dear Cupid, I've met this guy in the work and we always see each other once in a week.and we started to talk about almost 3 months ago..In the first month he always text me called me.Everything went perfect..during 3 months we only hang out once..Af...

A.   3 May 2009: FRIENDTOM, Thank u for giving me advice..U know man's game better than me...I just feel myself fool because in 3 months I always tried to do best he just said me sweet words..He didint show me that he loved me... In the work I was usually happ... (read in full...)

Opinions needed. Does he deserve another chance?

Q.   I will be there at 3.30pm. He doesnt respond it and he doesnt pick up my phones either. so I went home without seeing him. he texted me back and he forgot to take his phone with him while he was eating thats why he couldnt respond so we couldnt ...

A.   29 April 2009: iam not sure that he really loves me...cuz when i said him to break up,he said me that it was my fault cause I was afraid being hurt from another girls( his ex cheated him) yesterday i said him that if u showed me that you loved me i can be with u ... (read in full...)

He said he lost his phone yet he answered when I called him anonymously!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been talking this guy almost 3 months.. we working the same place both of us said we liked each other. Also we only once a time go out. I asked him 3 times to hang out with me. He made an excuse... Now he lost his phone last ...

A.   19 April 2009: Guys, He wanted me to give him one more chance....I ve talked with him in the work.and i said him eventhough u said me u lost ur phone, when i called ur phone from private number,u answered..he said me nope i havent got my cell yet.idk how it i... (read in full...)

He said he lost his phone yet he answered when I called him anonymously!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been talking this guy almost 3 months.. we working the same place both of us said we liked each other. Also we only once a time go out. I asked him 3 times to hang out with me. He made an excuse... Now he lost his phone last ...

A.   15 April 2009: but if he really wanted to keep in touch with me, he could send me an email and get my number... actually i have never thought what armymedic said cuz he refused me when i asked him hang out..he may have a girl friend....... (read in full...)

He said he lost his phone yet he answered when I called him anonymously!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been talking this guy almost 3 months.. we working the same place both of us said we liked each other. Also we only once a time go out. I asked him 3 times to hang out with me. He made an excuse... Now he lost his phone last ...

A.   15 April 2009: ok.iam gonna ignore him.but what if he asks me why dont u talk with me?and maybe he just save my number to his cell phone not his card.when he lost his cell, my number has gone maybe i am looking on the bright side?... (read in full...)

He said he lost his phone yet he answered when I called him anonymously!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been talking this guy almost 3 months.. we working the same place both of us said we liked each other. Also we only once a time go out. I asked him 3 times to hang out with me. He made an excuse... Now he lost his phone last ...

A.   15 April 2009: ok.what if he asks me why dont u talk with me?... (read in full...)

Not sure if he likes me. What should I do?

Q.   at firstI know this guy for 2 months and the begining of 2 months we talked everyday till his school started.cause he is overly hardworking..after 2 months i asked him that how does he see me? he said me more than friend.he said me he liked me. ...

A.   8 March 2009: well i waited from 10days to ask me.. and also after he said me that he liked me i asked him if u liked me,why didint u ask me to go out with you? and i was suprised by his answer he said me i asked u when we first met and you said me, i some... (read in full...)

Not sure if he likes me. What should I do?

Q.   at firstI know this guy for 2 months and the begining of 2 months we talked everyday till his school started.cause he is overly hardworking..after 2 months i asked him that how does he see me? he said me more than friend.he said me he liked me. ...

A.   8 March 2009: Hey Kaylagal Maybe u are right.but i would like to know that we had in the same situation once.cause i didint text him and he didint either and he said me that he thought i didint want be with him so thats why he diditn text me.but why why do i make... (read in full...)

If he doesn't care why would he text so much?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   23 February 2009: I talked with my guy and asked him in the work that how he sees me as a friend or more than a friend.At first when i asked him, he suprised cause he didint expect that question he said me that he saw me more than as a friend.later he called me at ... (read in full...)

If he doesn't care why would he text so much?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   15 February 2009: hey gina u were exactly right.today i text him and he said me that i forgot him and he said me that it seems as i dont like him anymore and he also mentioned that i ignored him in the work behaving coldly yesterday. i said him that i behave u the ... (read in full...)

If he doesn't care why would he text so much?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   15 February 2009: Hey Gina Thnkx for ur advice.Exactly I behaved him cold cause he didint ask me hang out that friday.and always i compare the now according to the past.I always think that in the past he texted me a alot called me alot but why does he behave not? i d... (read in full...)

If he doesn't care why would he text so much?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   15 February 2009: firstly thanks for your advice U said that he is my friend.i asked him to hang out 2 weeks ago he said me that maybe this friday but he didint text me anymore.and also today he text me 'happy valentine'. also today in the work when he saw me ... (read in full...)

If we're friends why does he call/text every day?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   8 February 2009: hey Dusty Dave, Did U read my message?... (read in full...)

If he doesn't care why would he text so much?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   4 February 2009: ok thx guys but if he thought that i am his friend, when i came off the work without bye to him why would he text me and tell me u didint love me no more, u didint ask me how i am doing? ... (read in full...)

If we're friends why does he call/text every day?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   3 February 2009: Hey dusty Dave whats up? i really appreciate ur advice for me guess what? 3days ago 2guy from my work wanted to hang out with me but i said them that i am not available and after that i went next to my guy and told them that 2 guy wanted to ha... (read in full...)

If we're friends why does he call/text every day?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   30 January 2009: hey Dipi42 I think u were right cause now it happened the same situation as u Till he recovered i texted him everyday after after he felt better he didint text me anymore And Dusty Dave From this time I'll never text him anymore even if he t... (read in full...)

If we're friends why does he call/text every day?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   27 January 2009: thnx for ur advice guys... (read in full...)

If we're friends why does he call/text every day?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   20 January 2009: hey dusty dave guess what, he text me and said that he was in hospital he was sick and he fainted and he said me u are mad at me and inncocent my life i cant change u and thnx for good luck. i feel regret but on the other hand i dont belive h... (read in full...)

If we're friends why does he call/text every day?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   20 January 2009: Dusty Dave, wow u are wonderful person thnx helping me.ur advice gets me comfortable.actually i only see him in a place which i work in.next saturday we're gonna work the same day thats all.and i have never seen him except that place..But i am happy ... (read in full...)

If we're friends why does he call/text every day?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   19 January 2009: Hey Dusty Dave, 2 days ago i waited him to call but he didint call so i text him whats wrong with u?he didint reply me after i waited 5 hours i text again that i thought we had a good relationship but i see that its over for u i cant say anything... (read in full...)

If we're friends why does he call/text every day?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   18 January 2009: thnks for giving advice bu yesterday i waited him to call but he didint call so i text him whats wrong with u?he didint reply me after i waited 5 hours i text again that i thought we had a good relationship but i see that its over for u i cant say ... (read in full...)

If we're friends why does he call/text every day?

Q.   hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

A.   17 January 2009: thnx for helping.he asked me if i had a boyfriend and i also asked him the same question and he doesnt have girlfriend.actually i am shy person i cant show my feelings.he always calling me and everyday text me and said that i miss u.but from 4 days ... (read in full...)

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