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Bachelor Psyc Sc with Honours

Live in QLD

LOVE Old Style German Shepherd Dogs

old video games

surfing the net

a few tv shows lol

spending time with my family :)

Single

I've managed to find nobody.

Q.   OK, I'm really, really struggling now, and I don't know who I can turn to. Basically I just want honest answers, which my friends and family in real life don't seem to wish to give. Anyway, I'm almost 29. I will be 30 in a little over a ye...

A.   27 December 2010: Ugh dont let what that cow said get to you! Its no wonder she had to join a dating site if thats how she talks to ppl! Listen dont get so down on yourself! Im sure like alot off ppl have said, love finds you and you are still young so i am will... (read in full...)

Is it ok to be a guy who doesn't like porn

Q.   Ok here is the situation, I am visually turned on by females, and always have been. Thats important because the next part of what im about to say hinges off that fact. Porn as a whole has never done anything for me. I have always been more ...

A.   14 October 2010: Geez i wish there were more men like YOU around! guys who are into porn are such a turn off for me!... (read in full...)

What did he mean by saying I'm not pregnant yet?

Q.   Okay. So I have a crush on my friends brother, who is one year older than me. I was at their house yesterday and and said Guess What? My friend said: Uh.. You're pregnant? I said: No. Her brother said: not YET anyways" Whats that supposed to mean!...

A.   7 September 2010: sounds to me like he is calling you a slut, i wouldnt take much notice of this guy from now on if i were you.... (read in full...)

Did I pop my cherry or is something else wrong?

Q.   This is kind off embarassing, I was masturbating the other day using an electric toothbrush, then I hve a really great sensational feeling, but suddenly there was a sharp painful feeling and the tootbrush was bloody.... now my stomache feels like ...

A.   7 September 2010: I know its embarrassing but if the bleeding doesnt stop i think i would go to the doctor. You can always see a female doc if you are worried abt it.... (read in full...)

My gf's fingers, feet and calves cramp up during orgasm! What can we do?

Q.   Hello, My girlfriend and I have been trying to figure this out for a while now. Quite frequently durning orgasm my girlfriends fingers curl and seize up, as do her calves and feet. We are wondering what the cause of this is, if it is unhealth...

A.   5 September 2010: Maybe it would be worthwhile seeing a doctor abt this if you are really worried. I take it when u say seize up you dont mean she is sated but rather in pain and cant move? I may be wrong but as far as i know this isnt normal.... (read in full...)

My teacher has hit on me help please

Q.   ok so guys i need help before the six weeks hoilday my it teacher tried to hit on me,i do fancie him a little but her promied me that he would let me pass my exams if i would have sex with him and he would give me an a but i didnt and i keep get...

A.   5 September 2010: I actually think his behaviour is illegal! I know it sure as hell is where i come from! dont do anything with this man! i would be reporting him!... (read in full...)

31 and never been kissed!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have a big problem. I'm 31 years old and male and have never had a girlfriend. I never even been on a date with a girl. I really like girls but am very unlucky not to have met someone. I haven't even ever kissed a girl before. ...

A.   20 August 2010: Perhaps joining a singles club or going out to have drinks with your mates to a pub? anything to get you in a social situation where you have a chance to talk to and get to know some women might help you out a bit? Good luck :)... (read in full...)

I'm pretty sure she was hitting on me, but I was so drunk I cant be sure! Should I tell my girlfriend?

Q.   Hi. Bear with me I feel you need to know all the details to make a judgement. 5 weeks into my relationship I went out to a club/pub without my girlfriend, and this girl with a bf approached me to initiate conversation, I bluntly told her to f***...

A.   19 August 2010: hmmm i guess it is really up to you to decide what to do, but clearly when you were sober you were showing no interest in this girl and you thought you had made it clear to her. Im sure you have explained this to your girlfried and hopefully she ... (read in full...)

Contraception Question - I want to put my periods on hold

Q.   I've been on the Cilest pill for over a year now. So far it has been effective, has made my periods lighter and more comfortable and has improved my complexion. However, I'm going to uni to study dance in september. I'll be moving about a lot, and...

A.   19 August 2010: Well here in Australia you can get some forms of the pill that stop ur period completely until u want to have it i think. not sure cos i have never tried it but i know with the one i was you could do it with that one too. but then again not sure how ... (read in full...)

Can a woman get Thrush even if she is not sexually active?

Q.   Hi, I know what Thrush is. Can a woman get it even if she is not sexually active?...

A.   17 August 2010: As far as i know, yes ... (read in full...)

Opinions please on this email he sent to me....

Q.   I just want some opinions regarding how someone I know feels about me, if you were to receive this email, what would YOU think, its not the full email, just a part of it which I received today. I've known them for a long time and it is starting to ...

A.   5 July 2010: Is your uncle married? Sorry but to me it sounds like he has a thing for you.... (read in full...)

Is it really possible to have no sex drive whatsoever? Or am I just depressed?

Q.   I've stopped caring about whether or not I ever have a girlfriend. I don't know if this is normal. But my question is...Is it possible to have no sex drive whatsoever? I am 31 and I've become so depressed and disappointed with my life, that I just ...

A.   11 June 2010: hey im sorry to hear of your sitation :( I often feel like this and i think it may be a sign of depression. Maybe if you figure out why you are feeling like this you could maybe talk to someone abt this? As for not wanting a gf i dont see anyt... (read in full...)

Why wont my husband accept I just don't enjoy anal?

Q.   My husband is obsessed with anal sex. We've had it twice. He refused to use any lubricant and it hurt very badly. I told him that I'm not interested in doing it again. I only did it with him because I felt pressured. His female boss is ...

A.   10 June 2010: I am so sorry to hear of your situation. I think you should get out those divorce papers again. He sounds controlling and manipulative! Im sure in time you will come to realise you can do much better than this guy, you deserve someone who will trea... (read in full...)

Yes or no to sex?

Q.   im the jealous type to..i've been in a relationship from since 2008 october 6th n i still have the guy..yh we run out of things to say but eventually he always seems to find something to talk about at one point in time...we never had sex..i want to ...

A.   10 June 2010: I wouldnt. I think you will end up regretting it later on. You are too young and if he cant appreciate you enough to wait until a time when you are ready then he is not worth it anyway.... (read in full...)

How do I fight for love?

Q.   ok so I was seeing this man for about 9 months. We never planned on having feelings for each other or dating...we were just looking for sex. We had amazing sex, the best i've ever had. I was going through a divorce and he had a girlfriend that he ...

A.   10 June 2010: He is a cheater, what would make you any different to his current gf if he got together with you? Its highly likely he will cheat on you too. you need to get this bloke out of your life and start again with a clean slate!... (read in full...)

The real 25 year old virgin!

Q.   Hello, So there it is. A year ago I thought I'd be alright by now, but nothing has actually changed so far. To sum it up: I'm a 25 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. Needless to say - I'm a virgin as well. I've read some ...

A.   10 June 2010: dont feel so down on yourself about it! not all women are interested in whether or not you are a virgin! i personally think it is a nice change to hear that some men out there havent had more sexual partners then they can count on both feet and toes ... (read in full...)

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