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I know I'm not in love with him... should I leave him?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have a 4 year old daughter together but I'm not in love with him anymore and I can't decide if I should stay or go. To everyone else we have the perfect relationship which we do but it's not what I ...

A.   3 April 2010: If you know in your heart that you do not love him - get out now!!! Dont make the mistake I have made and stay - u will regret it. I stayed for the sake of the kids. Im still there, but I spend every day thinking of leaving. Its your choice.... (read in full...)

No longer find husband attractive, and ended affair, I'm really hurting

Q.   (MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined) I no longer find my husband physically attractive anymore. I married him aged 24 I am now 40 years old. The last time we had sex I hated every second of it. I have two children, and honestly feel I am now only with ...

A.   3 April 2010: F.A.O Caring Guy I think once I have sorted myself out emotionally and learnt to deal with the loss of my bestfriend, I will feel stronger and will seriously think about leaving. I worry about is my kids and the effect on them. Its all such a s... (read in full...)

No longer find husband attractive, and ended affair, I'm really hurting

Q.   (MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined) I no longer find my husband physically attractive anymore. I married him aged 24 I am now 40 years old. The last time we had sex I hated every second of it. I have two children, and honestly feel I am now only with ...

A.   3 April 2010: I was once very happily married. My husband ruined everything by cheating. I discovered he has cheated many times, but always denied it. I made the decision to stay with him rather than ruin my childrens lives. If that is the wrong decision, then ... (read in full...)

I have a sexless marriage and I am in love with my work colleague, how do I cope?

Q.   [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Question 1 I love him so dearly but can never be with him, how do I cope? My work colleague of 12 years, has become my best friend...over the last 2 years we became e...

A.   2 April 2010: Hey, thank you for writing. It's the first time I've spoke about my situation and it's so uplifting to hear some quality advice. You are so right, I know what you are telling me is true, but I'm so hurt with being without my work friend I'm not ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with someone but I'm in a relationship! What should I do?

Q.   Ok well i'm in love with another guy. but i'm in a relationship. my now boyfriend is an alcoholic and tends to treat me lik crap when he's buzz. but the sex is great. the other guy is romantic and sweet don't drink an very very sexy. what should i ...

A.   2 April 2010: Follow your heart...love is so precious...if u have found love then grab it with both hands!!... (read in full...)

An overwhelming feeling of sadness when I orgasm

Q.   Lately, I've been having an extreme fit of sadness when I orgasm. An accurate description of the feeling would be; an overwhelming sense of extreme sadness, hopelessness, and a feeling of desperate longing. The strange feeling only lasts for the ...

A.   2 April 2010: I experience exactly the same things! It's terrible, I cry and feel totally utterly lost and sad. I miss my lover so badly, I presume it happens because of that reason. I do not know how to deal with it, and it's impossible for me to masterbate ... (read in full...)

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