Is he trying to get revenge after I had sex with someone else? Or does he just not care about me?
Q. I've had a relationship with a guy for about a year and a half now, we have never actually called each other " boyfriend, girlfriend" but when him and I are on good terms, he doesn't mess with other girls and I don't mess with other guys. We have ...
A. 10 May 2011: Well, him wanting to fuck someone else doesn't necessarily has anything to do with you or your actions in the past. If you two weren't in a defined relationship, technically you are not exclusive and each one of you allowed to sleep with other ... (read in full...)
Turning a Bootycall into a boyfriend, can it be done?
Q. Dear agony ants, I've been sleeping with this guy for 2 weeks, mostly after hanging out with him on the weekend. Sex is really good. We have been texting and e-mailing (FB) each other almost every day. When we're out together, he takes me to dinn...
A. 14 November 2010: Jmtmj, thanks for your input.
Here are some answers to your questions:
Have you been friends for long before you ended up sleeping together? - No. We hung out 1-2 times with mutual friends. On the 3rd time, we ended up making out. Then he invi... (read in full...)
I still love him deeply, how can I move on?
Q. my husband just left me after 13 years of marraige,he as another woman,hes 46 shes 22.i am devastated.he leaves me with our 6 year old daughther. i had no inclin that this was happening and within 4 weeks of him moving out this week he as set up a ...
A. 20 June 2010: Wow, this man sounds like a complete jerk! If your mutual friends knew he was cheating on you with prostitutes, I am surprised that you weren't aware??? This man doesn't deserve you, he is a complete as**ole and you and your daughter deserve much ... (read in full...)
Spousal loyalty...
Q. I found out yesterday my 16-year old step-daughter whom I have raised since she was 6 months is dating an 18 year old. The kicker... my wife's known for 2 months and kept it from me. How did I find out? I happened to ask the right questions and ...
A. 20 June 2010: It comes a time, when teenagers need their space. She is starting to enter the world of dating, relationships. Although every good father wants to protect their child from making some bad mistake at a young age, it's best to just let her be. All she ... (read in full...)
How can I fall in love with a man I've never met?
Q. I have fallen in love with a boy that I met online in Mid March. Never once have we chatted on msn...For the first 3 months of knowing one another was through emails, pages and pages worth of emails... Then we moved onto phone conversations. ...
A. 20 June 2010: It may not have been true love, but you got used to getting attention and you miss the attention. On the other hand men are unpredictable. They may be talking to many different women (online) or in real life until they decide which one is the most ... (read in full...)
So ashamed of my body that I can't go to the pool with them
Q. Hi ! I have 15 years old and i have a problem! My problem is that my school guys are always trying to "catch me", that makes me feel pretty and hot and thats great but you now what they say: "behind clothes we can find a worse thing" and i think th...
A. 20 June 2010: I have the same problem as you, but nowadays there are plenty of swim suits that can make your boobs look much bigger than they are. As the previous person suggested, you can even add or sue some extra padding and I have actually done that too! If ... (read in full...)
Dead libido!!!
Q. I am a 21 year old female. My libido is dead. Or at least my response to sexual stimuli. It all began after a few months of dating my now ex. Before I met him, I had many sexual urges, I fantasized and got wet, I kissed guys and got wet, I watch...
A. 20 June 2010: I am not sure from you answer if there is anything wrong with your libido or if you perceive as there is something wrong with it. Many of us have trouble reaching orgasm and require forplay and using hand or other type of stimulation or a specific ... (read in full...)
He's 30 years older than me. Should I make a move on him???
Q. Hello! So, I have a situation here... I am doing an internship and it ends in July, so I have ten more days. The thing is, I've fallen for a man there. But he is 30 years older than me, has been with his partner for 13 years, and has a son - who is ...
A. 20 June 2010: Honestly, I think it is not a good idea. Doesn't sound like there is any future for you with this men, so don't embarrass yourself.... (read in full...)
Are all men carrying sexual baggage like this?
Q. I have been together with him for about eight years now. For almost seven of those years I did not know how to have an orgasm through penetration alone because I was a virgin when we met and did not have sexual experience. We had to use my hands ...
A. 20 June 2010: Men are in general sensitive when it comes to sex. That is a good thing. If you're happy, and it sounds like you are, then let him know that he is doing good. You said that you've been able to orgasm on regular basis for the past year. That's a ... (read in full...)
I really want this threesome!
Q. hey im 26 and my girlfriends 20 . we have been together for 3 years we had our ups and downs but we are pretty good now. we have a baby together. i wanna have a threesome. perferably another girl. but i wouldnt mind if it was another dude. im not ...
A. 15 June 2010: I had an ex bf ask me the same thing - to have a threesome with one of my girlfriends. He even said her name. I was extremely mad. Shorty, the relationship ended.... (read in full...)
She's cheated on me at least 8X, doesn't want sex with me!
Q. I have a little problem i've been dating my lady for 25 years in that time she cheated on me at least 8 times that i can remember she would kick me out and have another man in my bed.I Feel that she's the only one for me and i can't get pass that i ...
A. 14 June 2010: If it started before the kids, are you sure the they are actually your kids??? I strongly recommend you taking a paternity test! you don't want to be paying child support for another man's child!... (read in full...)
His constant cheating is breaking my heart...
Q. My boyfriend's character towards me changed since two weeks, i find out that he is cheating on me. what do i do? i came to his house and saw a girl inside his car, i called him to let him know that am around he just shouted at me that i should have ...
A. 14 June 2010: End it!!! Immediately!!! You don't deserve such treatment. The worst is that the more you put up with it, the more you get of it! He will not for a minute think that you being "patient" is something he should be thankful or appreciate about you. ... (read in full...)
She's cheated on me at least 8X, doesn't want sex with me!
Q. I have a little problem i've been dating my lady for 25 years in that time she cheated on me at least 8 times that i can remember she would kick me out and have another man in my bed.I Feel that she's the only one for me and i can't get pass that i ...
A. 14 June 2010: How the heck did you manage to stay together for 25 years and make 3 kids??
When did all that cheating start - before or after you had your children? Why didn't you leave after the second time she cheated?
You need to re-evaluate your... (read in full...)
I'm hesitant about my feelings, but should I ask him out?
Q. what should i do i like this guy but its like unknown territory the way i like him...he knows i like him should i ask him out? ...
A. 14 June 2010: I did ask a guy that I liked out one time and the only thing that grew out of it was his EGO. So happy he was, that he showed off to all his loser friends that I liked him, but never did anything beyond that. In fact, I got so frustrated that I ... (read in full...)
Should I contact my ex now he is single?
Q. I was very close friends with a bloke I went out with for a period of about 3 months around 3 years ago. We were close friends before the relationship and close friends following it. However when he met a new girlfriend 2 years ago things became ...
A. 7 June 2010: I would go ahead and catch up with him. Who cares about her??? You shouldn't do what she wants you to do!... (read in full...)
He's gay, but his dad doesn't know and has banned me from staying because he thinks there is something going on!
Q. hi, my friend is gay(lets call him alex) and he is going out with a guy that lives quite far away and every few weeks he's boyfriend (lets call him danny)comes to stay with him, anyway when danny comes to stay i usually go to stay round alex'...
A. 7 June 2010: I agree with chigirl. You need to step back. His dad is wayy too conservative and parents do now like to "be convinced" by their kids anything. Further more, he is not your dad, so don't try anything. ... (read in full...)
My bf doesn't treat me as good as he used to! Has he lost interest?
Q. My boyfriend does not treat my like he use to he ignores me and does not make me feel loved like he use to is it because he lost interest in me?...
A. 7 June 2010: It might be. I have also had the same problem many times. Best thing to do is to distance yourself a bit. Take a trip on the weekend without him. ... (read in full...)
Nice Guys, my boyfriend is too nice, my husband is too nice
Q. So...I just want to open this space for discussion between men and women husbands and wives girlfriends and boyfriends about what it means when a man is being "too nice" or is a "Nice Guy" and how it makes both men and women feel...there are a lot ...
A. 7 June 2010: Well, you guys also break up with "nice girls", so it's not only us girls who break up with what you call the too-"nice guy". How many times have you broken up with a girlfriend who was sweet, but you got bored of her and lost interest and you ... (read in full...)
This time I ended the relationship and I'm heartbroken :(
Q. I'm so hurt right now. I feel like its a heartbreak all over again. So after 4 months my ex boyfriend comes back. He's in a relationship with someone right now. He told me he missed me and that he took everything for granted. He cherished me and ...
A. 6 June 2010: He is only after sex! He doesn't even want to respect your wish to wait until marriage. Do not let him use you. He is laying about breaking up with the other girl. He has a lot of growing up to do. Get rid of him. Ignore him. Tell him to fucking ... (read in full...)
Nice Guys, my boyfriend is too nice, my husband is too nice
Q. So...I just want to open this space for discussion between men and women husbands and wives girlfriends and boyfriends about what it means when a man is being "too nice" or is a "Nice Guy" and how it makes both men and women feel...there are a lot ...
A. 6 June 2010: I want a nice guy, as long as he is attractive and interesting to talk to.... (read in full...)
He is unemployed and steals my money. Do I stay?
Q. should i still stay with him hi all heres the thing I've given my bf chances, well I think too many chances but i have given him chances to prove to me that he wants to be with me . see hes not working and hasnt been for the 2 and half years...
A. 6 June 2010: Break up with him - he is causing you more problems than bringing you happiness. When that balance is interrupted, then it's more beneficial for you to be single.... (read in full...)
Is it strange for someone my age to have no experience and not be on the pill?
Q. I feel like there is something wrong with me, I am really embarrassed by sex and get shy talking about it so much so that I have always ignored the fact. I have been tryng to face my shyness and have started fooling around with guy eg kissing,...
A. 6 June 2010: No, most guys do not think it is strange for a woman not to be on the pill or not have experience. Most men realize that this is usually a woman's decision and they respect that decision. The decision to be or not to be on the pill may be influenced ... (read in full...)
Husband cheating says he gets sucked in by the internet
Q. We have been married 33 years-happily I thought. Last week I discoverded my husband had been chatting online and on a webcam to women. Mostly ordinary stuff but also talk of kissing and brushing hair, etc but not sex. He said it was for friendship. ...
A. 6 June 2010: Do bring him to counseling.
As soon567 said, he is looking for love because he needs to feel loved. You have to find a away to make him feel loved, appreciated, needed. You need to start being more affectionate around him - hold his hand, kiss him... (read in full...)
Teenage daughter having an affair with a married man
Q. Please help, my 19 yr old daughter is having an affair with a married man. My daughter has been babysitting for a local family for the last 2 summers. Recently I was looking at pictures on her computer and I noticed pictures of the family she ...
A. 6 June 2010: You should not kick her out - she is very young and she is making a mistake. She is probably very confused herself. If you kick her out she will have nowhere to go, no money and will end up resenting you.
Instead you need to be very understa... (read in full...)
Why is she hosting a party if shes asking us to bring all the food?
Q. Morning all! I don't have a love question but I'm just intrigued to get your opinions on my question. A colleague of mine emailed us all on thursday inviting us to a barbeque at her dads house today. In the email she asked if we can bring ...
A. 6 June 2010: Well, I think that's embarrassing...there is a fine line between not being able to afford some things and being lazy or plain cheap and she seem to be last...... (read in full...)
Possibly pregnant for the first time, I need help...
Q. I need a little bit of help. I am 17, and...well...there is a posabillity that I may be pregnant, and I am scared to death. I don't know what the signs are, and I dont know what to do to find out if I am pregnant are not. Me and my boyfriend had sex ...
A. 6 June 2010: Get a ClearBlue test and check.... (read in full...)
The condom broke -- could I be pregnant?!!!
Q. hi im am 15 and well me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday on june the 4th and well today is the 5th, and well the condom tore:/ and the condom tore and he didnt know soo he came in me and im scared i might be pregnant? i was on the last day of my ...
A. 6 June 2010: By one of those Clear Blue pregnancy tests in 2 weeks time from now in order to be sure.... (read in full...)
I dropped a friend because she dated an ex. Shoudl I give her another chance?
Q. Hi all Sorry this is quite long. i have this problem at the mo which im havin trouble solvin. Wot it is my ex best friend wants to be friends again, she contacted me through facebook, basically when we was mates a couple yrs back she told me she has ...
A. 4 June 2010: She stabbed you on the back by starting to date your ex-bf! Best friends do not date you ex-bf. You should tell her that. If I AM YOU, I will not be friends with her!!!! She is the type of girl who chooses "dicks before chicks"!... (read in full...)
Small penis is not satisfying my partner!
Q. i am 47 year old having small penis 2.6 inch erected length. i feel i am not satisfying my partner fully is there any technic by wich i can satisfy my partner. ...
A. 4 June 2010: I agree with businessasusual's advice. You should use these extra strategies. Also introduce toys if she is open to that. Also, make sure your are great at everything else outside the bedroom, which is where you can excel and beat the other ... (read in full...)
I miss my ex, but there is a new guy in my life, should I give him a chance or clear things up with my ex first?
Q. Long story short, my ex-bf broke up with me almost 2 months ago. I miss him terribly. He wants to remain friends with me on skype and whenever he logs on and I am online tries to talk to me, but there are no other signs of him wanting me back (one ...
A. 4 June 2010: Thanks all you helped. I would like to provide an update on my situation. I decided to be "brave" and I asked my ex to meet me in person and I asked him directly if we have another chance as couple together. I also told him that I have an upcoming ... (read in full...)
Three days ago everything was good -- what's going on?
Q. hello, I need help please: tree days ago, everything was good between me and my boyfriend, he was caring and very romantic even if I didn't have much time to be with him because of my exams but the last time I called him he was not as he used to be, ...
A. 1 June 2010: Wow! What a sleek player! He is playing you my dear and he is using the strategy "Admit nothing, deny everything and make counteraccusations" said by Roger Stone. Don't fall for that. Move on. He is immature and he is a layer. On top of everything ... (read in full...)
Help! I want to have sex with my cousin... is this bad?
Q. Hey, is it bad that i want to do it with my cousin? Shes so beautiful!! she has a great body and shes one year younger than me. please help me!!!! and how do i ask her to do it with me?...
A. 1 June 2010: I think it's wrong, but some cultures do marry their first cousins. In my (western) culture that is not accepted very well. There are other girls out there who are not related to you by blood. Why not go for them?... (read in full...)
Emotional affair with someone in a loveless marriage... found out he has kids. what should I do?
Q. Hey everyone! I'm in a bit of a dilemma and was hoping you guys could help... Recently i met a guy (lets call him Joe)on a chatroom where people just go for conversation, anyway he and I hit it off straight away. He lives down south and i live up ...
A. 31 May 2010: I agree with the others. You should cut him off until it is still early. He is not the right person for you and he has withheld information from you.
Moreover, if he is unhappy in his marriage he can divorce her instead of cheat on her.
Wou... (read in full...)
His changing his pictures upset me, should I mention it to him?
Q. i am on a online dating site.. i was getting tired of it.. i met this one person on there from it and we have been talking every day.. we have gone out 4 times.. we haven't gotten too physical yet and i am still deciding if i like him. Seems like ...
A. 31 May 2010: Don't mention anything. He will think that you are acting jealous or even possessive.
Just try to go on more dates with him and see if he is interested in something serious with you. ... (read in full...)
Three days ago everything was good -- what's going on?
Q. hello, I need help please: tree days ago, everything was good between me and my boyfriend, he was caring and very romantic even if I didn't have much time to be with him because of my exams but the last time I called him he was not as he used to be, ...
A. 31 May 2010: He is not in love with you, unfortunately. He might even be cheating with the other girl. Just move on. Don't expect him to call/text and if he will, don't reply to him. Completely ignore him for the the time being.... (read in full...)
Hanging by a thread!
Q. well me and my girlfriend had a steady long distance relationship for the past 3 years. she was always caring and loved me a lot. we had loadz of good times all along.i would go and meet her up during holidays n stuffs she was a very studious an...
A. 30 May 2010: What to you want? Do you want to be with her or not?
If you want to be with her, then you should try to improve yourself and win her trust again. If you don't want to be with her, then break up.... (read in full...)
Should I break-up?
Q. I dont know whether to stay with my boyfriend or not. he is really sweet when i see him in person. he has a good sense of humour , and he told me that he would wait unti l iwas ready for sex. We are both virgins, but he sems to be more confident ...
A. 30 May 2010: If a guy swears at me or calls me dumb little b**ch, I'd break up with him, unless I also said hurtful things to him or course in which case we'd be even. But it doesn't seem that this is the case with you.
Don't let him treat you poorly and don'... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 30 May 2010: You really need to try to focus on your self and not think about him. I know how hard that is because I am going through it myself right now. You need to be around close supportive people such as your family. Take some time off for yourself and get ... (read in full...)
He dropped me like a bad habit, what should I do?
Q. We were together for 4 months. The time we spent together was fun and very passionate. He would tell me he cared about me and was scared of being in a relationship because he still had things in his life to figure out. I fell for him. We took a week ...
A. 25 May 2010: I am in the same situation except my guy broke up with me after 3 months because he was confused, not ready, cold feet, and "needed to find himself" - whatever that means. The truth is ALL of these common phrases used by men are just excuses! What ... (read in full...)
Our affair was discovered and now he won't talk to me
Q. I have had an affair for nearly four years and his wife found out when i called him at his place she answered the phone. He told me never to call him again and it was over i ruined his marriage. I am also married. This man and i were caught ...
A. 25 May 2010: Well, as you can see this man cares for his wife and he is not going to leave her for you or let his marriage down because of you. At any day he will choose his wife over you and the only time he will call you is when he has an argument with his ... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 22 May 2010: You need to be strong and give him an ultimatum. Tell him that if calls you again, you'd file a restraining order. lol! Honestly, TELL him to leave you alone or TO CHANGE. And when he asks how he should change, you must lay the rules out and clea... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 18 May 2010: Hi, why don't you try the online dating? Create a profile and start talking to other guys. It will definitely distract you from thinking about ur ex and who knows - maybe you will meet someone interesting! I am currently doing that and it helps a ... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 14 May 2010: When a girl does everything for a guy, the guy unfortunately doesn't have any obligations to return it to her. That is because he is not perfect, nor is anyone else.
Next time don't do "everything for a guy". You have to protect yourself... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 13 May 2010: Dear Alexia846,
I am going thought something similar right now - my bf broke up with me and only wants me as friends. He wants to be able to talk to me once and a while as friends. I am trying to gain courage and stop talking to him. I feel so lone... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 11 May 2010: I am really sorry for you. I can imagine how much pain this man has caused you. This man manipulated you and used you. He was not happy with you - he was not happy about your physical appearance and he acted as if he was embarrassed of you, but yet ... (read in full...)
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