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I've been through my share of trials in life, I'm always giving my freinds advice, and putting their life back on track. As for my life thats a different story. I was always able to hold it together until 3 years ago when too much fell on top of me within less then 6 months... just basic but here goes with a stained relationship with my husband and my daughters father things got better when the 3 of us lived with a 4th person in the house, my boyfreind... but he died,his son wouldn't let me go to the funeral, my husband became violent again, I had a stroke which paralized my right side, had to walk away from my house, couldn't work, and her father rang up over $80 000 of debt in my name, and 5 other close family members died this all occured in less than 4 months, plus all the emotions and trama that went with all of it, I guess it was just too much all at once. But I tried to bounce back, and restart my life, maybe I was too fragile to use good judgement when I met my new boyfreind but now I'm stuck hook line and sinker.

What is more pleasurable?

Q.   Just out of curiosity what is more pleasurable vaginal or anal sex for both the guy and the girl?...

A.   1 July 2011: I don't enjoy pain, life is painful enough, I don't understand why some guys like to take something pleasurable and make it painful, some guys can get in enough trouble by hurting their girls unintentionally, why put a strike against yourself ... (read in full...)

I don't want to break up with him, but it hurts so bad to love someone and tell it constantly, and get NOTHING back

Q.   So I have been dating this guy for over 9 months now. We work together, go to lunch together, leave together. And on our days off we spend time together. He is always there when I need him. But he hasn't said I love you. I do love him and I have ...

A.   1 July 2011: Well speaking about bricks, thats another way to see things in the visual, image every time he messes up... you place a brick on the wall between you, and when he does the special something, it blows up the bricks... well if that brick wall every ... (read in full...)

My 20 year old boyfriend can only ejaculate once a day. Normal?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now, throughout these 2 years he has only been able to ejaculate once a day. Sometimes if we've had sex multiple days in a row he needs a break, and can't even get hard, in fact sometimes I will just ...

A.   26 June 2011: I had similiar issues with my boyfreind, but it had been that way with his last girlfriends, so he told me it's normal. I've only been with a handful of guys so I'm no expert, but he has been able to have many multiple pleasure sessions since, on a ... (read in full...)

How can I face this girl and tell her that I lied? I'm a virgin too!

Q.   I'm a 21 year old male. I'm entering my senior year of college and am altogether a fairly normal person. I'm not tall, but certainly not short. Not an athlete, but I'm in excellent health. I'm not much a pickup artist, but I'm not exactly shy ...

A.   26 June 2011: Anyone who has that strong of emotions for another can move mountains. I actually think you did an awesome job explaining it to us, now just tell her. I don't think you can live with the lie though, and maybe she will like the fact you are still a ... (read in full...)

How to get the spark back and keep it?

Q.   Im a 26 yr old female thats invovled with 45 yr old man we have been together for 6yrs and have 2 children together. I want to keep the spark between us we just reconciled after 8 months so we are slowly easing back into it, and i want our ...

A.   26 June 2011: This happens too many relationships, even when ages are similar. Things become routine, boring, and the spark gets lost. There are a lot of sites out there that give you this information, visit as many as you can, research it. Videos, speciality ... (read in full...)

Why do I only get a boner half of the time we want to have sex?

Q.   People I have a biiig problem. Me and my gf have been together for 3 months now and we were both eachtother first time. The sex couldnt be any better ... but lately half of the time when we want to have sex I either don't get a boner from the s...

A.   19 June 2011: Talk to your girlfriend, it may not even be a problem for her, but make sure she realizes it's not because you are not into her. When my bf was having issues we talked, and realized we just let things happen, come what may, and there are lots of ... (read in full...)

He hurts me so bad but I keep taking him back! How can I just break away from him for good??

Q.   Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles. I just recently took my lying, cheating, disrespectful, sneaky bf back. I love him so much that no matter what he do or has done to me, i always forgive him and take him back...regardless of the situation. He has done ...

A.   19 June 2011: I can't help you, but I understand where you are coming from. Always remember no body can change unless they want to. So I guess it comes down to what your willing to accept, but also remember relationships usually decline over time if they do not ... (read in full...)

Is it really possible she can't remember why she hurt me??

Q.   a girl i have been dating (not for so long, 3 months) has been recently breaking our plans at the last minute. this last time, i got tickets to a show and she canceled again with a text msg a few hours before, I called her and she said she just ...

A.   19 June 2011: I can't possible know where her head was at, but I would not forget something like that, it would be playing in my head over and over again, but my boyfreind has done many stupid things to me and doesn't have a clue. Maybe she realized how important ... (read in full...)

I don't want to break up with him, but it hurts so bad to love someone and tell it constantly, and get NOTHING back

Q.   So I have been dating this guy for over 9 months now. We work together, go to lunch together, leave together. And on our days off we spend time together. He is always there when I need him. But he hasn't said I love you. I do love him and I have ...

A.   19 June 2011: Sorry to hear about the cancer test,good luck, but just for a positive my first bout with C was when I was 12, some mild issues since but I'm 39 and totally fine. Positive thought works great, when it comes to health, I believe. As for your guy, I ... (read in full...)

I don't want to break up with him, but it hurts so bad to love someone and tell it constantly, and get NOTHING back

Q.   So I have been dating this guy for over 9 months now. We work together, go to lunch together, leave together. And on our days off we spend time together. He is always there when I need him. But he hasn't said I love you. I do love him and I have ...

A.   15 June 2011: Sometimes when people have been hurt, those three little words take on a new meaning, and sometimes it's not a good one. Don't dwell on those three little words, it's his actions that will let you know if he loves you, some people show their love ... (read in full...)

I have never been so heartbroken in my entire life, does anyone have any advice?

Q.   ok, i know this probably sounds extremely weird but a long time ago my first cousin and i hooked up and have been together for six years, well he just recently left me and i am crushed, even more so than when i got a divorce, i do not understand ...

A.   9 June 2011: I don't think it really matters if it was your first cousin or your highschool sweetheart, when you are in love and your heart is broken it hurts, I know I can't mend your heart with words, and when people say it will get better with time that just ... (read in full...)

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