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Hi, I really enjoy this site, it has helped me a great deal and in turn I enjoy helping others when I think I can. I work as a holistic nutritionist because health and helping people are my passion!

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My mother in law walked in on me naked. I put some clothing on. But should I try not to be concerened? My M-in-Law wasn't bothered at all.

Q.   My wife and I are currently on vacation and staying at my mother in laws house for a week. Last night my mother in law walked into my bed room as I stepped out of the the bathroom. I was completely naked. She did not seem at all bothered by ...

A.   30 January 2017: I think it has nothing to do with YOU per se. its just how she is..........some people are just more comfortable around nudism and are more open minded. Trust me, you are not the first naked man she has seen........she is not shocked like a 15 year ... (read in full...)

Why would my co-worker buy me coffee and a muffin?

Q.   Today one of my coworkers that I'm friendly with surprised me with coffee and muffin from a fast food place. I normally get to work an hour early because parking spaces are scarce--first come first serve. When I arrived, he came to my window and...

A.   30 January 2017: He likes you and he was just being nice. he likes you does not necessarily mean he wants to date you, he might just like you as a person and thought you deserve to be treated like that. Be nice and friendly in return and don't read too much into it ... (read in full...)

How do I proceed with this situation? How do I process feeling unwanted if it doesn't work out?

Q.   There is somebody that I like who I am kind of friends with . We get on really well, have lots in common and laugh and joke a lot, as well as chatting when we go to the pub in a group etc. I've been on two holidays with him in a group. I wouldn't...

A.   30 January 2017: 1)you are right to start as friends first.......the best relationships have a foundation of friendship. You can try flirting to see how he reacts...or you can ask a mutual friend(preferably a girl) what she thinks of the two of you going out as a ... (read in full...)

I still have feelings for him. He still feels the attraction too. But now he's living with another girl. How can we go forward with this?

Q.   Long story but need advice. In 2013, I dated a guy for a few months. I really, really liked him but he was very keen to make the relationship official (telling everyone), which at the time I wasn't ready for, mostly because I was really poor at t...

A.   30 January 2017: Along as he is in another relationship(living with her too!) you cant be anything more than a friend to this guy and you need to tell him that! It's not fair to you, him or the other girl........how would you feel if you were her? Be nice and ... (read in full...)

I want a prettier girlfriend who cares about being fit and healthy. What do I need to do?

Q.   I want a prettier girlfriend. I've been with mine for a few years now and it seems wrong to leave. I love her but the lack of effort (exercise counts) is making me less attracted to her. Bringing it up makes me the bad guy. What should I do?...

A.   29 January 2017: Like attracts like. Be the person you want to be with(or you want your gf to be) If you want what you are saying then start taking care of yourself first.........start working out, eating well, grooming yourself and then your gf will either follow ... (read in full...)

He gets my hopes up talking about having kids and then changes his mind!

Q.   hello all of you, I'm Lauren, I would like you all to know my name. I need some advice. I have just come out of a 16 year relationship, my now ex was a lot older than me and had his fill of life experience, married, 4 kids, divorced and th...

A.   29 January 2017: Sounds like he told you what he thought you wanted to hear at the time so he can keep you around and then he went home, thought about it and regretted it. What do you really want? Do you really want kids or would you be happy just being with someone ... (read in full...)

Where do I stand with this guy? He didn't ask me out after our third date.

Q.   Hello All, I have been talking to this guy from work almost 3 weeks. On our 2nd date, I made a mistake bringing it up where was his craziest place to have sex? Since that time he started to text me that he wants to hold me ... Etc Last w...

A.   9 May 2015: Give him space....................act indifferent. the more you show you care the more he feels like he is in control over you. It's possible he was expecting sex from you since you were comfortable enough to bring it up on the second date and now ... (read in full...)

Dating for 2 months. How should I respond to her very hesitant attitudes about sex? She's a virgin and aged 36.

Q.   My new girlfriend of 2 months is a virgin and found this out when I tried to take our relationship a little further. She started crying and said that she would find it embarrasing to have sex with me and just kept on saying that she says that whe...

A.   9 May 2015: It sounds like she has yet to have sex( with you or anyone else) because she has major body issues.Has she ever come close to having sex? how close and why didn't she follow through? This can be very common in young girls but at her age it's very ... (read in full...)

I love my wife. I miss sex. I'm flirting online with an old friend. Help!

Q.   I'm married, I love my wife we have a beautiful little girl together that will be turning 4 in a few months. I have never asked questions on a forum before but I like to give as much information as possible so you get the picture. I wo...

A.   17 April 2015: Is it possible that you are attracted to the idea of her( your online friend) and not the actual person..............the fantasy of how things could be with someone other than your wife? Fantasies are often a way to cope with/escape reality. it ... (read in full...)

I love my wife. I miss sex. I'm flirting online with an old friend. Help!

Q.   I'm married, I love my wife we have a beautiful little girl together that will be turning 4 in a few months. I have never asked questions on a forum before but I like to give as much information as possible so you get the picture. I wo...

A.   17 April 2015: Is it possible that you are attracted to the idea of her( your online friend) and not the actual person..............the fantasy of how things could be with someone other than your wife? Fantasies are often a way to cope with/escape reality. it ... (read in full...)

Are we dating or are we in a relationship?

Q.   So there is a guy that I really like, but I'm confused about what we are. We went out for a few dates etc and really hit it off. We have similar interest and I would like to go to the next level with him. So far we've went on about 4 dates. Recent...

A.   16 April 2015: you're just dating at this point. dating is not necessarily the same as hooking up. hooking up is just about sex......dating is about building a foundation for a relationship and getting to know each other. if you confront him and start demanding a ... (read in full...)

Indian society is very harsh on babies born out of wedlock but the man wants nothing to do with me. What do I do now?

Q.   Dear Cupid I am basically Indian, working in US. Had an affair with a guy, I was in love with him, obviously he just used me for sex and money. Now I am pregnant, he didn't use condom, since Indian guys hate condom. They never use one, I took morn...

A.   26 August 2012: Have you considered giving it up for adoption INSTEAD OF ABORTIN if you can not go back with your baby or stay in the u.s. to take care of it? just a thought............................ (read in full...)

Indian society is very harsh on babies born out of wedlock but the man wants nothing to do with me. What do I do now?

Q.   Dear Cupid I am basically Indian, working in US. Had an affair with a guy, I was in love with him, obviously he just used me for sex and money. Now I am pregnant, he didn't use condom, since Indian guys hate condom. They never use one, I took morn...

A.   25 August 2012: I say keep the child of course, stay in the US as society there will not look down on you but might be able to help you. Tell him that you do not want him in your child's life but would appreciate it if he could at least pay you back all the mone... (read in full...)

The tall and short of it

Q.   Iam 6 foot 7 and My Girl Is 5foot1 When She Pulls Me Down To Smooch . She Loves To French Kiss But I Don't How Can I Get Her To Stop Kissing Me Like This ?...

A.   3 June 2012: Tell her how turned on you are by tender sensual kisses and really don't miss the high school" i want to devour you" days of kissing" lol Just be honest and tell her you're not really into it and it does nothing for you but you do like her as a ... (read in full...)

The tall and short of it

Q.   Iam 6 foot 7 and My Girl Is 5foot1 When She Pulls Me Down To Smooch . She Loves To French Kiss But I Don't How Can I Get Her To Stop Kissing Me Like This ?...

A.   3 June 2012: HOW OLD IS SHE? WHAT IS SHE TRYING TO PROVE?... (read in full...)

My BF cheated on me, I cant get over it but I cant leave him because I have nowhere to go, no family, no job and no car

Q.   Please help me with my problem. I do not know what to do. Last month I caught my boyfriend cheating on me. It was graphic and a very bloody fight happen. After a week from that horrible day, I could not leave him. Since then he has tried everyt...

A.   1 June 2012: Oh hun, im so sorry to hear that you are hurting. I know its hard to be put between a rock and a hard place but remember the saying that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger so don't despair, you will come out of this on top!! For now, show him ... (read in full...)

How can I show my boyfriend I really love him with out having sex ?

Q.   how can i show my boyfriend i really love him with out having sex with him i am planning to be with him for a very long time any ideas tips it would realy help!...

A.   26 May 2012: Sex does not prove love.........it only proves you are sexually attracted to that person and from a biological point of view it means that you find him compatible for procreation! If you want to show him that you indeed love him then tell him, show ... (read in full...)

Does sex hurt a lot?

Q.   my bf once told me that girls have a lot of pain while having sex for the first time.is it true? then why is it so? i never had sex. he told that u must be scared of marrying me, and he then told me that it is for just 1st night, other nights will ...

A.   7 April 2012: It only hurts if you are not relaxed and aroused.......if your first time is when you are ready and with a guy you love, then it should be pleasurable and pain free. My first time was not painful at at all. We had lots of foreplay first and he ... (read in full...)

I miss my ex terribly, should I try and get in touch?

Q.   My ex and i have been broken up for two months. We were together about a year he is the one that broke it off just saying things weren't going to work and he didn't want to try anymore. I miss him terribly should i try to make contact? Even though ...

A.   28 March 2012: Of course he will contact you again, they always do:)............BUT............don't just sit there waiting for him to contact you BECAUSE THAT NOT GOOD FOR YOU AND IT'S A VERY BIG TURN OFF FOR MEN. Live your life, have fun, go out with your ... (read in full...)

I miss my ex terribly, should I try and get in touch?

Q.   My ex and i have been broken up for two months. We were together about a year he is the one that broke it off just saying things weren't going to work and he didn't want to try anymore. I miss him terribly should i try to make contact? Even though ...

A.   27 March 2012: DO NOT CONTACT HIM..........the more you try to go after him the more he will pull away. If you want him back, the best thing you can do is move on with your life, forget about him and let him wander about you and come to YOU. ... (read in full...)

Mixed signals from best guy friend. Please help!

Q.   We've been best friends for 4 years. now he's 17 and I'm 20) Our jokes have now become way more sexual this year and kinda serious this past weekend. Even our texts are bad, almost like sexting! We were talking about sex and I said "You wouldn't ...

A.   27 March 2012: He obviously finds you attractive and what 17 yr old guy would pass up the chance to flirt/talk about sex but be very careful and make sure he is not keeping you as his security blanket while trying to have his cake and seat it too. Talk to him and ... (read in full...)

How to deal with lies at school?

Q.   I know this isn't the usual type of question for this site, but I pray you will help me anyway. there's this guy at school, who is spreading vicious lies about me [he's telling everyone I told him i'd be happy if he killed himself] when I ...

A.   27 March 2012: Try talki g to him and find out if there was a misunderstanding........it is possible that he took something you said and turned it around in his head to make it sound like you did say that or maybe he is trying to hurt you be trying harder to help ... (read in full...)

Forgiving a friend?

Q.   Hey Aunts and Uncles Do you think friends should be forgiven anything or is there a line you draw? one of my friends needed nursing (cancer) which I did whenever I had spare time I also cooked cleaned shopped did injections and slept over if...

A.   27 March 2012: If you truly were friends then you should try to forgive her and realize she made a mistake for which she is sorry and wants a second chance. We all make mistakes hun, you, me, her, everyone does or said things we shouldn't one time or another. If ... (read in full...)

Can we have sex on our wedding night when he's going to be in a cast?

Q.   I am 24 and a virgin. It's not like I didn't choose this because I wanted to give my all to my gorgeous fiance. Anyway we get married in May and I was fine with the idea of how we will spend the night and what we will get up to in the bedroom. ...

A.   24 March 2012: It will be no problem hun.........just focus more on making love rather then having sex so be more gentle with each other( a lot of touching, kissing, petting...etc) As far as positions, his cast will not interfere any more then if you were to wear ... (read in full...)

How do I offer this FWB situation to him without sounding like a whore?

Q.   I have known this guy for a couple of years now and we have gone on a couple of dates. Well.... last week we had sex, but he let me know that he he is not interested in a girlfriend and Im not interested in a boyfriend. I want to be FWB but also ...

A.   22 March 2012: Hun, What you want...............nest friend and sex to us women usually means a relationship. FWB means sex but no emotional support from him, no commitment, obviously, no phone calls the next day to see how you're feeling.......no strings.... (read in full...)

Does this disgust girls?

Q.   Sometimes when I'm kissing a girl or holding her close, I'll start to get an erection. I know it's normal but sometimes I feel a bit embarrased. Is this disgusting for girls? Should I try to hide it? ...

A.   23 December 2011: Not at all hun, I actually find it a turn on.........knowing that my partner is aroused by me and by what we are doing:) It's perfectly normal and a sign that you are healthy! ... (read in full...)

Can this happen? My Sex drive is gone, and I'm only 20 years old

Q.   I have lost my sex drive completely. I have an amazing fiance of four years, and we never have sex anymore, b/c I don't want too. I'm only 20 years old, and I don't care for it. As of right this very moment, i don't care if i EVER have sex again. At ...

A.   30 October 2011: I experienced this as well when I was around your age and yes, looking back it was because the relationship was getting stale and although I loved him so much, I was a little tired of all his crap and a bit bored with "us" as well. If you are not on ... (read in full...)

Can anyone help me with my confusion? I was positive that I was straight, now I'm not sure?

Q.   i'm here because i'm confused about my sexuality and i don't know what to do. For awhile now i have been thinking about men, specifically kissing and having sex with them and even having a relationship with another man. I try not to but when i g...

A.   30 October 2011: HONEY............you are gay and too scared to admit it to yourself because you are afraid of the reaction you will face from your friends and family. There is nothing wrong with you, be yourself and don't be scared. Here's a thought for ... (read in full...)

IS my girlfriend cheating on me? I need women's advice!

Q.   I just want to know if my girlfriend is cheating. we been together for some time but since we both in two different colleges we dont see each other as much but we do txt and talk on the phone. she recently sent me a picture and i noticed her butt is ...

A.   29 October 2011: THAT IS RIDICULOUS..................A woman's ass will not grow just because she's been having a lot of sex,lol. Maybe that's her body type and that's how she gains weight............we all gain differently,for some of us it goes on the stomach and ... (read in full...)

Too strong a hymen???

Q.   I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to ...

A.   29 October 2011: You need to see your doctor about this hun.........!... (read in full...)

My past is coming back to haunt me.....

Q.   I have a very big problem about my past and I'm not sure how to handle it. My husband I are married almost 10 years, and together over 10 years. My husband thinks that I was not only a virgin when we started dating, but he also thinks that I was CO...

A.   27 October 2011: Since you haven't actually lied to your husband, telling him the complete truth now, after all these years will either hurt him or make him feel like a fool so I would not open that can of worms if I were you. As far as the ex goes, I would talk to ... (read in full...)

Why the sudden change in my wife with sex?

Q.   My wife made me beg her for sex for 13 years. I went out of town a couple of weeks ago for the weekend and ever since I got back that's all she wants to do now...

A.   27 October 2011: Maybe shes afraid of losing you and read too much into your "weekend get away" Be happy and enjoy yourselves and reassure her of how much you still love and desire her:)... (read in full...)

Ladies: How important are a man's looks in a relationship?

Q.   Hello. This is not a "problem" as such, but i have a question for the ladies.... TRUTHFULLY, how important are a mans looks in a relationship? I ask this for 2 reasons. Firstly women always say that its personality, kindness, empathy, sense o...

A.   26 October 2011: THEY JUST WANT TO PLAY WITH THE PRETTY BOY.......they know he is a player and irresponsible so they have no long term expectations from him............its just for fun! Women who want to have a family or a serious relationship will want a mature, ... (read in full...)

Ladies: How important are a man's looks in a relationship?

Q.   Hello. This is not a "problem" as such, but i have a question for the ladies.... TRUTHFULLY, how important are a mans looks in a relationship? I ask this for 2 reasons. Firstly women always say that its personality, kindness, empathy, sense o...

A.   24 October 2011: Of course personality and confidence are faaaaaar more important then looks and they can even help a man become more attractive in a woman's eyes............with time! but that initial attraction has to be physical AS WELL unless you are 80 and just ... (read in full...)

Is he missing me? he has not directly apologized, but he is posting profile pictures of himself from when we were together

Q.   If a guy starts posting his profile pictures as those from the time when you were together...but not exactly the ones you're in... is he just thinking of the general time or could he... possibly missing you. He has given other signals, like rea...

A.   23 October 2011: Not necessarily hun, it could be that he just likes how he looks in those pics best and like most of us, he wants to put up a profile pic that he feels good about..If he was missing you, he would call or email you or tell a friend of yours to tell ... (read in full...)

I definitely like this new girl more, and would rather date her, but she's my girlfriend's friend!

Q.   So i've been dating a girl for almost 3 years. but within the last 2 months i've really started falling for her best friend, whom she recently met. i seriously think i'm in love with this friend. she is more attractive than my girlfriend (i never ...

A.   23 October 2011: Do the right thing and end the relationship with your gf first! ... (read in full...)

Would an older guy be interested in someone mature or innocent?

Q.   Hi, I'm 18 and I usually like older guys, like who are in their mid to late twenties. This is a step up for me as before I used to like my middle aged teachers. I don't know if it's because I grew up without a father or what, but I tend to act very ...

A.   7 October 2011: It depends on the guy hun. Just because he is older does not mean that hew is also mature, so.........an immature guy will like younger girls so that he can feel young again and have more fun then he would have with an older girl or woman. a mature ... (read in full...)

Is he falling for me again? Or does he not reply because he feels guilty because he's married now or does he have some other agenda?

Q.   My ex and I were together for over 10 years There was a bad breakup. He wouldn't talk to me for a long time. He married after a short time. Now I started to contact him because we bumped into each other and it made my heart race again. He takes my...

A.   5 October 2011: Please don't be offended but it sounds to me like he is just being polite but doesn't want to initiate contact because he doesn't want to lead you on or start anything again and perhaps because of your past there is no way for him to see it simply ... (read in full...)

I seen that he has moved on and I smiled. Does that mean I'm over him?

Q.   Is this a good thing and does it mean i have no feelings or what so ever for this guy anymore. I was on facebook and saw a picture of him and this girl who i assume he is seeing, instead of me wanting that to be me or feeling even a little bit upset ...

A.   2 October 2011: Yes, it means you have moved on and you don't have any more romantic feelings for him. They say that the opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. ... (read in full...)

My online guy of a month wants to marry me! Is it really meant to be?

Q.   OMG..I have a problem I'm so confused idk what to do..so here I go!! Ok I met this guy through the internet and we have been talking for a while now close to a month but we talk on the phone and txt and send pictures of eachother but you see he ...

A.   1 October 2011: He is either playing with you or he he totally desperate.......both are red flags. You need to meet someone first, spent lots of time with them to get to know them (months or years) before you even think about marriage. Tell him you want to take it ... (read in full...)

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