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Daughter and boyfriend sponging off of us and we can't afford it!

Q.   Our daughter has recently turned 18 and left school about 18 months ago,since she left school she hasn't worked or done any schooling.She refuses to get a job and comes up with every excuse in the book why she cant get a job or even look for one. T...

A.   22 January 2010: Hi Read your reply. Well, in my country too, we equip our kids to be independent. But Parents support the kids all the way. And in return, the kids support the parents in old age. Not just support them, but give them the respect and honour they... (read in full...)

Daughter and boyfriend sponging off of us and we can't afford it!

Q.   Our daughter has recently turned 18 and left school about 18 months ago,since she left school she hasn't worked or done any schooling.She refuses to get a job and comes up with every excuse in the book why she cant get a job or even look for one. T...

A.   10 January 2010: hi I am not here to advice. I was just reading thru all the advice and I felt weird. We are from different cultures so its obvious. But here goes. I am Indian. In our culture, the parents take care of all their kid's needs till they are grad... (read in full...)

Hubby not interested in sex anymore??

Q.   Ok I'll get straight to the point, Ive been with my hubby for 20 years, he's 42 and I'm 36, the first 15 years together he couldn't get enough of me, then I started to do shift work and he said he got "lonely" and met some girl at the supermarket ...

A.   10 January 2010: You live only once dear. Let go. The worse case scenario- He is actually cheating on you and you will make a fool of yourself by trying to show him how much you love him. But its still worth it. Maybe all that you do will change him. But I know in ... (read in full...)

Hubby not interested in sex anymore??

Q.   Ok I'll get straight to the point, Ive been with my hubby for 20 years, he's 42 and I'm 36, the first 15 years together he couldn't get enough of me, then I started to do shift work and he said he got "lonely" and met some girl at the supermarket ...

A.   10 January 2010: Hi I am sorry what I said upset you so much. When I read what I wrote last time, I find it very harsh and inappropriate.I felt angry when I read what you had written and then read all the advice. And what I wrote was Impulse. Forgive me. all I in... (read in full...)

Hubby not interested in sex anymore??

Q.   Ok I'll get straight to the point, Ive been with my hubby for 20 years, he's 42 and I'm 36, the first 15 years together he couldn't get enough of me, then I started to do shift work and he said he got "lonely" and met some girl at the supermarket ...

A.   8 January 2010: my god woman! are you really 36?? You sound worse than a teen ager. Poor man. No wonder he has lost his appetite. Stop being crazy and start treating him with the respect he deserves. ... (read in full...)

Why can't my husband ejaculate after having sex with me?

Q.   I was wondering why does my husband still masturbate if he has a wife to please him? I continue to catch him masturbating and that really hurts me and makes me feel like I'm not doing my job at home when I do every sexual favor he wants but even ...

A.   8 January 2010: I agree with caring guy. This is not about you. You are amazing. Talk to your husband and ask him to stop masturbating. tell him its ok if he doesnt climax the first few times. ask him to do it for you. He will. its a matter of just getting unused ... (read in full...)

I know I shouldn't but I'm falling for him... Help!

Q.   hey guys. this is a weird one but plz help!!! i've recently went back home to europe to c my family over christmas. Went out with my mum for new year and we bumped into her cousin that i never really saw before and there was a heavy attracti...

A.   7 January 2010: you had your fun now its time to get out. You dont deserve a guy two women already consider worthless. Find someone your age and someone worthy of you. He is your uncle. Let him be just that. Nothing more. Not worth it. You say you have fallen for ... (read in full...)

Does anyone have experience with larger men?

Q.   I am a virgin and yes I'm aware of protection and wait till you're ready. I am ready now and I'm going to be in a relationship soon with a boy who's kind of on the big side. I wondered what kind of things am I going to have to do.. as I'll hav...

A.   7 January 2010: By larger men, Do you mean he has a large body or a large penis. I assume you are saying he has a large penis. Dont worry about that. A vagina can stretch to accommodate any size. If he has a large body, you will have to explore positions that do ... (read in full...)

Help! What is going on in her head? Does she want me back or not?

Q.   Evening all I recently found out my Fiancee (together nearly 4 years) was cheating on me. I think it's still going on as well. I went ape, but I only shouted and stuff. She denies it all and says they're just friends. I have copies of emails...

A.   7 January 2010: Hi I am sorry for the misery you are going through. But I think you are going one step too far too soon. Wait. Take a breath. This is a woman you have known for 4 years. You proposed. She accepted. You know her dont you. What does your gut inst... (read in full...)

Is it normal what I'm doing/feeling?

Q.   Hello, I'm 15 years old and I look at pictures of naked women online sometimes, which I like very much :/ and also when I'm out shopping and I pass a lingerie section, I always stare at the models, quite aroused. But the thing is I'm totally into ...

A.   7 January 2010: Hi I know how you feel. But there isnt anything to worry about. Its just a passing phase. You are growing up and your hormones have taken control of your body. Silk, lingerie and naked bodies all yell sex and that is why your body reacts to them... (read in full...)

Been dumped by my first boyfriend and my best friend in 2 days. HELP!

Q.   Hi. I'll try and keep this as simple as I can. I am 16 years old and recently was dumped by my boyfriend of 9 months 3 days ago. He said he felt that our relationship had "run it's course". He hurt me a lot, but we eventually decided to just be good ...

A.   7 January 2010: hi I am sorry you are going through such a difficult time. I would like to know if your girlfriend has a boyfriend? I am guessing that she doesn't. This is the reason she interfered in your relationship more than she should have- she was jeal... (read in full...)

Heeelp!!! I can't get him out of my head. Any tips?

Q.   I can't get him out of my head. Any tips? I know he is not right for me, but I miss him tremendously. We were good friends who then had sex a few times -- I am married but that is complicated and he understood the situation - but now he won't ...

A.   7 January 2010: hi I am really sorry for the mess you are in. I hope I can help you. I would first like to know what kind of marriage you are in? Why did you find the need to cheat on your husband? Anyways that apart.. There could be a few things that migh... (read in full...)

How to Say "NO!!" to Depression?

Q.   ok here's the deal.. I want to have a better social life and a group of friends that I can confide in and stuff like that. I've been dealing with depression for a number of years and to me life just kept getting worse... I made a resolution to look ...

A.   7 January 2010: Hi People say life is short, but it really isn't! After a certain time you just run out of things to do, things you care about or things that matter. And that is when you get depressed. So here is some advice... there are enough people in the worl... (read in full...)

He's dating me, but he's engaged, what would you do?

Q.   hey, im a 16 year old girl really need some advice... i recently got a job on weekends and at my interview met a boy who is now 21. ive been working for 2 months now and weve become better friends over this time, he was always helping me out an...

A.   7 January 2010: Hi A guy who has already proposed to a girl will not leave her for someone else. Guys dont like being tied down with a wedding band and therefore they put in a lot of thought before proposing to someone. If you are indeed not a kid, you must kno... (read in full...)

Scared of commitment or just being used?

Q.   I've been sleeping with the same guy for 2 years and have fallen in love with him. But he won't commit to a relationship. I'm not sure if it's because I have a child or that he's just not ready. Do I give up and move on? or keep holding on hoping ...

A.   7 January 2010: It seems like he is already getting what he wants from you. Why bother marrying you?? get out woman! you deserve much better.... (read in full...)

Things going wrong since we had sex

Q.   I had sex with my boyfriend spontaneously and unplanned for the first time. We were both virgins and i mean it was bad sex because it hurt and nothing really happened... we both weren't ready and i think we both regret it... but ever since then.... ...

A.   7 January 2010: Dont worry. Sex is never pleasant the first time. It will get better with practice. But you have to talk to your partner. Both of you feel confused and vulnerable. Confide in each other.. You will feel much better.... (read in full...)

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