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After break up is it too soon for me to go out again?

Q.   I hate beeing single for valentines day and I just broke up with my old boyfriend of almost 3 months 2 days ago because he stopped talking to me for weeks a time and we not once saw eachother outside school or in school for that matter :/ and I knew ...

A.   10 February 2011: If you are single then go ahead and date. Just as long as the moment feels right is okay dont think about what other people think because then you are never going to date..... (read in full...)

My 22 yr old boyfriend spends too much time with his 11 year old sister....?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. When we first met, he made it perfectly clear that his younger sister was very important to him. Initially, I thought that was very commendable. About six months ago, he changed jobs and we ...

A.   10 February 2011: Don't take it in the wrong way but if you are not home how does it affect you that he goes to see his sister. That is something that should make you appriciate him more because when you start your own family he is going to be commited. I would ... (read in full...)

How do I get him to call me baby to my face

Q.   I'm in a new relationship and this is my first. I don't know how to get my boyfriend to say he likes me face to face or to call me "baby" like he does through texting. I can't bring myself to say it so what should I do?...

A.   10 February 2011: Just dont push it when the moment is right you will say it and he will say it as well. Have patience because guys are complicated dont pressure him into saying it if you cant say it either. It will happen when the moment is right...... (read in full...)

He gets SOOO angry! Is this normal?

Q.   My boyfriend grabbed my head and slammed it against the door. He said that I wouldn't shut up (we were having an argument) and that because I followed him through the house (I was trying to get him to talk / listen) then I tip him over the edge and ...

A.   10 February 2011: Okay the safest thing for you to do is just like move out if you are living with him. Since you love him help him and go with him to anger management classes. If he does not agree to go to this classes the best thing is for you to move on its not ... (read in full...)

He's abusive, but I don't know how to live without him. What should I do?

Q.   Im in 2 relationship for the past 4 years. My boyfriend beats me up. I've lost all my friends for him.now I have no one to tell me what to do. Every1, including his friends have told me to move on and I also tried. I tried getting into another ...

A.   27 January 2011: You have to learn to love yourself...before anything else. He doesnt love you he love the punch bag he has that put up with everything. You need to talk to someone that can help you appreciate everything that you are. Stop loving him to live and ... (read in full...)

Should I bring new boyfriend (gay) to straight friend's birthday dinner?

Q.   I've got a group of friends I've been hanging out with for a few years and I like them a lot. It's three couples, and me (a guy). Not only am I the only single one, I'm also the only gay one. We do not talk about my being gay, although I have ...

A.   27 January 2011: If you want to take him you should..but i think since it is the first time he comes over you should skip the dinner and just spend time with him...get to know eachother more and see where things are going. Later on that you know things are more ... (read in full...)

I can't figure out whether she likes me or not?

Q.   alright well this girl is giving me the hardest time I have had to figure out if she likes me or not. she seemed like she liked me and maybe seemed like she wanted to date in the future but this morning she texted me after I told her that before I ...

A.   26 January 2011: Maybe you reminded her of her brother...Now talk to her and ask her on a date after that you will know if it will work out..If not someone else is going to ask her out and she is going to totally lose interest in you...Be straight out to her and ... (read in full...)

Should I keep my married boyfriend's baby?

Q.   I have been seeing a married man for almost 4 years he has been married 6 yrs. I know I will be judged and for the most part for what I have read on this topic, answers seem to be one sided. Always blaming the mistress. It takes two selfish,cheaters ...

A.   25 January 2011: Okay, stop!! How much do you love yourself this man is seriously stupid because there are no other words to describe him. I'm an not going to judge you because I understand sometimes guys are charming enough to fool us. You have to ask your self... (read in full...)

How will I forget her if I leave her

Q.   heeey....i knew a woman...loved her...met a lot....then i knew that she was married...she told me... we are in the same age....she is married for 6 months....her husband works abroad...only come home twice a year...i believe that she loves me...i ...

A.   25 January 2011: time will heal the wounds my friend just make sure that your pain doesn't drag you back to her because in that case you are going to HURT more!!... (read in full...)

First Valentine's with my girlfriend and I have no money. Need suggestions!

Q.   Valentine's Day is about three weeks away and I've got no money at all to buy her anything. Besides, this is our first time together. What should I do?...

A.   25 January 2011: Sometimes girls dont want gifts and expensive stuff all we want is for that day to be special. So do something romantic i think you should cut a rose from your garden start off with that...then take her to the beach or a park and have a picnic is so ... (read in full...)

Ladies: How do you feel about your highshool sweetheart if you aren't married to him now.

Q.   I've been dealing with some insecurities about my wife's ex - the guy she dated in high school. She lost her virginity to him and by all accounts he was the love of her life until it ended. I also know that she didn't want to end it and was prett...

A.   25 January 2011: I think your first love will always have a special place in your heart. This doesn't mean we are inlove with them you should trust her. Now how do you know that when she reads this story she isn't thinking of your love and your relationship. I think ... (read in full...)

Is there any hope? I'm in love with a married foreign woman

Q.   Hi. I love a foreign woman who's only reason for being in America is that she is married. She's explained numerous times that its a casual marriage, and that he has his own lover(s) *I do not ask that many questions on the subject*. I know, though, ...

A.   25 January 2011: I think the healthy thing to do here to for you to let her go and end it. If she loves him she is never going to leave him is harsh but true. You are just waisting your time talking to her and you are hurting your self. Just try to date other people ... (read in full...)

I used fake pics online & met a girl. I want to tell her the truth, but I'm scared. What should I do?

Q.   I recently met a fantastic woman over the net but i made the stupid mistake of using someone elses (who looks like me a bit) pics as im a little insecure on how i look! we chatted over the phone for 4 months and we've been talking about seeing each ...

A.   25 January 2011: If you really love her and she loves you its best to just tell her the truth right now. If she doesnt understand why you did it than that means she doesnt really like you. But she already said she likes your personality so just tell her the truth ... (read in full...)

He's coming across as too strong...how do I call it quits??

Q.   This guy, who's a friend but not a really close one, asked me out a couple of months ago, and I said I'd give it a try. I meant that I'd be open to like going out a few times, like for coffee, just to get to know more about each other and stuff. ...

A.   25 January 2011: It's horrible to date someone like that especially if you're not into him the way he is into you. I think you should just grab some coffee with him and tell him straight out that you just want to make sure you're on the same page and tell him you ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm not good looking enough to meet girls, help please!

Q.   the worst part of this all is my friends tell me if they had my looks and body they would be able to get ten times more girls when we go to the clubs, sadly i disagree. I feel i am the ugliest of all my friends and it pisses me of when they say...

A.   24 January 2011: I don't know if you still have this problem but I think it happends to everyone. It get to that point where you don't feel out there or in you case good looking. I think you should change that before thinking dating work on your self. If you put ... (read in full...)

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