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Hello, I'm 19 years old and I live in Puerto Rico. I like to give advice to people who need it and enjoy looking for ways to solve the kinds of problems people usually have.

How do I last longer?

Q.   Plain and Simple...I'm a guy...How do I last longer in bed? I get so turned on and can't last more than a few minutes and always finish before she does. ...

A.   19 November 2010: Actually, to go further off Chigirl's suggestion of masturbating, don't just physically train yourself to last longer by just jackin' away. You have to also train your mind while you're at it. Here's how you train your mind: while you're masturbat... (read in full...)

How do you know when love is not enough?

Q.   How do you know when love is not enough any more? When you see that love alone can not hold your relationship together?...

A.   16 November 2010: When you want sex more than she does and that makes you feel so bad that you're actually thinking about breaking up with her so you're free to go and find another one that is more sexually compatible with you. Sources: -Experience Sincerely, ... (read in full...)

One Year Anniversary Present?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are going to make a year in a month.. what is a great present for our aniversary? ...

A.   5 October 2010: There are so many things you could get him, but it really depends on what he's into. If he's into basketball then maybe buy him his favorite player's replica jersey, or if he likes to play an instrument then buy him an accessory for it, like if ... (read in full...)

Pre cum problem...

Q.   i seem to have a problem. when i am with my girlfriend and we are getting horny etc.... when i get an erection i get a lot of pre cum. I dont like this at all, when she is going to go down my trousers, i have to stop her and get my penis out myself ...

A.   5 October 2010: Question 1: "do girls not like the fact that boys pre cum or do they?" Answer: It absolutely varies from girl to girl, some LOVE IT, some like it, some are indifferent to it, some dislike it, some HATE IT! Question 2: "can i stop me pre cumm... (read in full...)

I want to show my girlfriend that I love her but she's not easily impressed!

Q.   Me: I'm 19 years old, I'm in college, I live 1 hour and 50 mins. away from my girlfriend. (I have a car) We've been together for 1 year, 2 months and 14 days. We love each other to death, and I trust her more than I would even trust my mom. (I...

A.   4 October 2010: @ followtheblackrabbit Composing a song would be good, but... I'm not sure she'd be jumping for joy with that. See, I've played her favorite songs for her (and sung them too) and she liked it, but it really didn't do anything to let her see how ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend won't give me what I want

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been dating over a year and 3 months and I don't get blow jobs anymore. I give everything to her but I don't get anything in return. I floss, I brush my teeth, I shave (both areas), and I am a good boyfriend. (flowers every ...

A.   3 May 2010: I don't want to make you feel hopeless, but girls are like that, if they don't want to do something, there's nothing you can do to make them change their minds. Take it from me, I'm somewhat in the same situation. My girlfriend just hates the sticky ... (read in full...)

Feeling ready to give my virginity to him.

Q.   i am a virgin and i have very strong feelings for my boyfriend. we have know each other for all most a year now and i think that he may be the one i lose my virginity to. how do i get him to see that i am ready to give myself over to him without ...

A.   28 March 2010: You have to be careful, teenage boys can easily get hooked with sex, and he might lose himself in it, so much that he might forget how much he cares about you, he might even dump you if you deny sex to him later. That is exactly why I waited to be ... (read in full...)

My friends are encouraging me to take a adderall, can it be harmful?

Q.   So, I have testing tomorrow and my friends have been encouraging me to take adderall to help with my concentration. I'm a bit of a spazz. So can adderal do anything bad to a person? I really need some help. ...

A.   23 March 2010: I have many friends that take it, and they say it helps them A LOT. The problem is that the effect lasts too long, and sometimes they can't sleep at night, and when the effect finally wears off it's 7am and they have to go to school, so they have to ... (read in full...)

What is the 'secret code" in finding a girlfriend???

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am having a lot of trouble finding a girlfriend. I have to admit I am very shy going up to a complete stranger and asking her on a date. The only girls I have the courage to talk to are the ones that i meet at classes or in sh...

A.   10 March 2010: "What is the 'secret code" in finding a girlfriend???" The secret code is: B-e-_-Y-o-u-r-s-e-l-f You might get a girl to fall in love with you by pretending to be something you're not, but are you willing to stop being you for the rest of your... (read in full...)

He talks to random girls and lies about porn use. I don't want to be a single mom at 21!

Q.   So he has never physically cheated on me that I know of.. But I've caught him talkin to numerous random girls even his ex. We are now engaged and expecting a child.. I've also caught him looking at porn. His arguement is it will never happen again ...

A.   10 March 2010: If it worries you that you could become single mom at 21 then way end up pregnant in the first place? It means that you're not ready to be a mom, because a good mother would seek what's best for her child, and if it means being single mom, then it ... (read in full...)

Fooling around, blow job gone wrong!!!

Q.   so me and my boyfriend were just fooling around the other day and i was suckin him off and stuff. i blew on his penis around his wee/cum hole area. i think a small amount of air went in but i dunno. then i realised that dis could be really dangerous ...

A.   8 March 2010: Laughing my butt off eyeswideopen's comment. But it's true. He'll be fine.... (read in full...)

Is there something wrong with not being attracted to a penis?

Q.   Is there something wrong with not being attracted to a penis? For some odd reason, I can't watch heterosexual porn. I'm an 18 year old girl with a boyfriend, but I watch lesbian porn sometimes. Well, just today, I was watching something, and a sc...

A.   5 March 2010: I can't say it's normal, because I really don't know, I know girls that hate to touch it when it's all wet with the pre-cum or the girl's natural lube, but I've never met or heard of any girl that hates the sight of it. Nevertheless, I don't think ... (read in full...)

My father says he will disown me if I date a black man!

Q.   My dad said he'll disown me if I ever bring a black guy home(I'm white and don't live with my mom). I'm attracted to guys of all races, and I find myself being attracted to black guys, more than white guys. Until I knew where my dad stands on the ...

A.   5 March 2010: "I love my dad too much to reck the great relationship we have, but Should I really limit myself when it comes to love? ..?" In my most honest opinion, no. You should never limit yourself because of others. Remember, it's all up to you to choose w... (read in full...)

What does he mean when he says he wants me to bring my vagina to him during sex?

Q.   When me and my boyfriend have had sex he tells me that he wants me to bring my vagina to him but I don't no what to do. Please help...

A.   2 March 2010: Maybe he means like, and excuse my crude language, "bring that pussy to me", and if he's doing what I think he's doing then he's just talking dirty, probably just to add some more erotic sense to the act. Or maybe, he might mean that he wants to ... (read in full...)

Pregnant, but wish it was my ex's!

Q.   I am in a tricky situation. I split up with my ex Tim, who I dated for 4 years, 3 months ago but we have remained friends. I was 2 timing him for a few months (which he doesn't know about, and for which I am truely sorry). I have been dating Ed ...

A.   2 March 2010: Hello, Gemma12345. As you may easily find out, I'm only 18 years old, and I'm sure you might just ignore my piece of advice, but the little experience that I have in life has taught me that you should always just go for what you think is best for ... (read in full...)

The idea of oral sex turns her off

Q.   Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, I've been having a small problem lately with my girlfriend. We've been together for a year, and we've enjoyed together a great sex life, and we also enjoy foreplay almost as much as the sexual act itself, but recently ...

A.   2 March 2010: Thanks to everyone, especially DoubleM and Miamine, it was really helpful, and well, I'll see what I can do, I'll try to give her as much time as I can, and see what happens.... (read in full...)

The idea of oral sex turns her off

Q.   Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, I've been having a small problem lately with my girlfriend. We've been together for a year, and we've enjoyed together a great sex life, and we also enjoy foreplay almost as much as the sexual act itself, but recently ...

A.   2 March 2010: Yes, my age is reported as 18-21, I am 18, but my girl is 22, and she's pretty mature, apart from the thing we're discussing here. When we watch porn together I try to sound pretty enthusiastic about everything they do, including the oral sex part, ... (read in full...)

The idea of oral sex turns her off

Q.   Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, I've been having a small problem lately with my girlfriend. We've been together for a year, and we've enjoyed together a great sex life, and we also enjoy foreplay almost as much as the sexual act itself, but recently ...

A.   2 March 2010: "By the way, do you watch a lot of pornography?" Not too much, and when I do I usually watch it with her since she enjoys watching it too, so I mostly download long porn movies, and usually no amateur stuff, so we watch it as any other movie. B... (read in full...)

The idea of oral sex turns her off

Q.   Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, I've been having a small problem lately with my girlfriend. We've been together for a year, and we've enjoyed together a great sex life, and we also enjoy foreplay almost as much as the sexual act itself, but recently ...

A.   2 March 2010: Ok, I talked to her about it. I'll try to quote our conversation as accurate as possible. (We talked on the phone) Obviously I didn't get to the question out of nowhere, I started rounding the topic for a while and once I thought it was the righ... (read in full...)

The idea of oral sex turns her off

Q.   Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, I've been having a small problem lately with my girlfriend. We've been together for a year, and we've enjoyed together a great sex life, and we also enjoy foreplay almost as much as the sexual act itself, but recently ...

A.   1 March 2010: I want to make an addition to what I said here: "Should I stop giving her oral until she agrees to give me oral or is that a mistake?" I don't think this would work because she says she's fine without oral sex, it just feels good that's all. But... (read in full...)

What do girls really mean when they say "size doesn't matter"?

Q.   For just about the majority of my life, I've heard all about that "bigger is better" stuff. Well I'm pretty much 18 now and I'm convinced that I won't be growing down there anymore since it's been that way since I was 12. Mine is 4.5 inches lon...

A.   1 March 2010: I'll need your user name though.... (read in full...)

What do girls really mean when they say "size doesn't matter"?

Q.   For just about the majority of my life, I've heard all about that "bigger is better" stuff. Well I'm pretty much 18 now and I'm convinced that I won't be growing down there anymore since it's been that way since I was 12. Mine is 4.5 inches lon...

A.   1 March 2010: Okay dude, I'll be totally honest with you. Size does not matter, have you ever hard the phrase "it's not the size, it's how you use it."? Man to man conversation, I have a 6" penis, not sure the girth but it's not bad. My girlfriend has been ... (read in full...)

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