I am crushing on my math teacher and he found out!
Q. Well fo starter I'm 14 and in Year 9 at the moment. But, I have the most gorgeous and amazing maths teacher ever! I love him so muchan can't keep him out of my head. We have a good laugh together and he is a great teacher. Anyway, A few weeks back...
A. 24 November 2009: This is a horrible situation and I'm sorry to be so harsh. I know it's tough when you really like someone but this is something you really need to get over. You need to stop feeling this way to save embarrassment for yourself and your teacher. ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my sudden change in menstrual cycle?
Q. hi, this is one for the girls. The situation is that a few months ago (back in July) i THOUGHT i was pregnant. I realised i wasn't, and even since my periods have become more infrequent. I used to be on an average menstrual cycle (every 28 days r...
A. 24 November 2009: I'm no expert but I'd advise you to visit the doctor. Your periods are still regular which is good but the pattern's changed quite suddenly it seems. And more than that it's changed after you thought you were pregnant so I'd definitely go for a ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and starting to look old! What should I do?
Q. Im 15 and im starting to look old i don't smoke or nothing people think im old enough to be 23 right now and my face is starting to rinkle (it least thats what it look like). I look exactly like my dad and that makes me look even older. I wish I was ...
A. 24 November 2009: Make the most of what you've got. This is the way you look and there's nothing you can do about it, unless you have some serious surgery which I strongly wouldn't advise.
Look in the mirror and pick out the good points about the way you look. It d... (read in full...)
I want her to wait for me to take her virginity!
Q. this girl lives far from me and drinks and parties alot.. she says shes a flirt to and she is pretty sure she is a virgin.. how do i make sure she waits for me and has sex with me first because i want her to be my first.. idk if i can trust her she ...
A. 24 November 2009: I totally agree with the other posts. I think it'd be best to move on from her. Losing your virginity is a big deal. Even if it doesn't feel like it at the time, when you look back at it you realize how much it meant. There's no rush. You need to be ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you really like someone?
Q. how do you know that you like someone? i cant tell and im staring to worry that i will never meet anyone who i will like or maybe im just incapable of love. its driving me crazy and starting to scare me....
A. 24 November 2009: Don't worry. When you like someone, you'll know about it. You probably just haven't been in a situation where you do like someone. But fear not, your time will come!
You'll most likely just long for their company and feel happier when they're arou... (read in full...)
Should I make the first move?
Q. i think my best friend likes me, i would go out with him if he asked me but hes not the most confident of people so i dont think he would be able to ask me but if i asked him an he said no then everything would be dead akward between us but the more ...
A. 23 November 2009: If you think he likes you and you like to then go for it. Like CaringGuy said, you have to take a risk sometimes. The more confident you feel about his answer the better. If you think he's too shy to ask you even if he did like you, then you might ... (read in full...)
Any tips for learning to drive a car?
Q. I didn't know wether to write on this website or not but I don't know any other, and i'm on here quite a lot and have had some great advice in the past. But anyway I have my first driving lesson tomorrow.. and as i'm not exactly a car whizz, i...
A. 23 November 2009: Yay. I'm learning to drive at the moment and I was exactly the same as you before I had my first driving lesson: inexperienced and very nervous.
But I have to say I really enjoyed my first lesson. It went much better than expected and I haven't look... (read in full...)
Does he like me, or is he just fooling me?
Q. Okay so... I like this guy. I don't love him, cause that's pretty much impossible for me, since I have trust-issues... Anyway. He's like the "hot sports-jock" of our level... I mean. I'm the sad little "emo" (according to everyone else) and he's Mr. ...
A. 23 November 2009: Personally, I don't think he likes you. I'm sorry.
There's a chance that he does if he teases you but you also mention that he's a popular guy. So he could just be teasing you and picking on you to make himself seem more popular. If he can keep up h... (read in full...)
Let's Define ":Love" and Having a "Crush"!
Q. I am writing this article because I think that the term "love" is fast becoming meaningless. The word gets thrown around by so many people, teenagers in particular, and crushes are being labelled as Love, and are therefore getting blown way out of ...
A. 22 November 2009: Hey, I’ve only just read this but I have to say you’ve really created an impression on me.
I can relate to you in the sense of your problems, but not with a teacher. I recently fell for someone online. I knew him in person but it was as if neit... (read in full...)
Irregular periods, please help?
Q. hi, I'm new to this, but I'm really worried. I've had my period twice in one month and i don't know what that means :[ I'm not very old I'm only 13 and it freaks me out. It hurts really bad and nothing makes the pain go away other then layin...
A. 22 November 2009: Sounds normal to me. You're only 13 so your periods aren't going to be regular for years yet. Pain and cramps are normal too. A good idea is to hold a hot water bottle against the pain, you could also take paracetamol as pain killers.
Don't worr... (read in full...)
I like her more than just a friend! Should I tell her?
Q. i've known this girl for just less than a year now. We spoke over msn for months and we became really close and met for the first time about a month ago. I met her in person for the first time about a month ago. She'd been going out with a guy i ...
A. 21 November 2009: You're doing the right thing. For a chance to be with her in the future just keep doing what you're doing. Be there for her, be a "good friend" and let your relationship grow.
Her feelings for you could develop as you get to know each other bett... (read in full...)
I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?
Q. i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...
A. 18 November 2009: Grr. I know exactly where you're coming from. I'm the same.
In the past, I'd even go as far as saying that I've been discriminated it because my bust could almost be considered non-existent.
When I was a teenager I got so many comments, especial... (read in full...)
Am I too young to move in with my boyfriend?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we are in love and really care about eachother. im 17 and hes 23, we both have jobs and that. at the moment hes looking for his own place, and the other night he turnt and said to me "you could live ...
A. 17 November 2009: No, I don't think you're too young. Provided that you go into it with your eyes wide open.
You clearly know it's a big commitment, and you seem to have a wise head on your shoulders. There'll be a lot of issues and things to consider. Not only wher... (read in full...)
I want her back desperately! Any advice?
Q. hi guys! please i need your help. back ground- last year, when i was in 10th standard, there was a very cute girl in my class. but sh was very shy and reserved.and by luck, i was her only guy friend. slowly, i developed a huge crush on her. ...
A. 14 November 2009: You just need to tell her that you're sorry. Explain what happened: you felt down and wanted some space. Tell her that you're sorry this upset her, you didn't want things to get this far and you want her back.
You said she was quiet. With quie... (read in full...)
I want her back desperately! Any advice?
Q. hi guys! please i need your help. back ground- last year, when i was in 10th standard, there was a very cute girl in my class. but sh was very shy and reserved.and by luck, i was her only guy friend. slowly, i developed a huge crush on her. ...
A. 13 November 2009: I really feel for you reading this.
I think the best thing for you to do would be to open up to her. She needs to know why you ignored her and how you felt. You want t her back so make her realize how much you want this. Just tell her ever... (read in full...)
Is it normal to blush everytime you see a cute guy?
Q. hi, i just have a question. is it normal for girls to like several guys at once. well not excactly like but think they look hot or something, because everytime i see a cute guy, i totally blush everytime i see him (like at school) is this normal...
A. 11 November 2009: Yes. Totally normal. And you're definately not the only one! X... (read in full...)
Does he sincerely like me? Or is to shy to ask me out?
Q. When I don’t see my friend he acts differently because I think he misses me. When I and he pass each other walking in the halls, he won’t look at me or wave if I wave back. He always makes fun of his cousin and it makes me laugh even though she’s my ...
A. 11 November 2009: Sounds pretty familiar to me...
I'd say he likes you. Your friend can see that and you wouldn't be wondering if there was nothing there.
I think he's shy. All the signs are there that he likes you, but he probably doesn't know how to behave w... (read in full...)
Why does no one want to kiss me in spin the bottle?
Q. Ok, what to do what to do: I am going on a bus tomorrow with guys. It is a soccer team so both teams are going usually we play truth or dare or spin the bottle but when it comes to me almost no guy wants to kiss me. It is not that I am pretty. ...
A. 11 November 2009: Don't take it personally. It sounds to me like it's them and not you. They're probably too scared to kiss you. Especially if other guys are around. There'd be a lot of banter afterwards and no matter what they'd find a way to tease that person about ... (read in full...)
My ex wants phone sex but he has a new girlfriend! Please help.
Q. me and my ex boyfriend of 9 months had this great relationship we split up because of my family we had the worst brake up and said things we did not mean , anyway after a month of us being apart he got back in touch saying he still loved me so we ...
A. 7 November 2009: Say no! He's using you. You deserve better and need to cut him out of your life.... (read in full...)
She's making out with me one minute then ignoring me the next???
Q. hey, long story (kinda) short, im 15, and there is a girl in the year above who has been one of my close friends for quite a long time, but i realised that i liked her more than that. A few weeks back i told her how i felt, and she told me that she ...
A. 4 November 2009: I think you need to talk to her. She seems to be a bit unsure of where she stands with you. You've told her how you feel and she's responded but nothing seems to be official with either of you.
She probably doesn't know how to act around you. If s... (read in full...)
My boyfriend took advantage of me while I suffered alcohol poisoning!
Q. Alright well, i'll try to explain this the best way i can. On halloween, last saturday, i went to a party with about.. 6 people. one of which included my boyfriend. We obviously were drinking since it was halloween and just for fun, you ...
A. 4 November 2009: Forget taking a break. Ditch your boyfriend and don't give him a second chance. He raped you so why are you even considering getting back with him? You could even go to the police with this. You were too drunk to know what you were doing and you're ... (read in full...)
We just broke up after a month of dating! What happened?!
Q. ok PLEASE PLEASE HELP!! me and my gf have been going out for like a month now. She just broke up with me, she still has feelings for me... but she said it didnt feel right... in the space of two days she didnt feel right, something wasnt the ...
A. 3 November 2009: Looks like she was doubting your relationship and felt she should end it. I don't think it's anything you've done, just how she feels about it. Maybe something happened or maybe she just felt it wasn't going anywhere with you.
If it's really both... (read in full...)
Why do I keep getting this feeling?
Q. There is one of my male friends who is in love with me. Whenever I'm not with him I miss him to the extreme, I feel like I love him whenever he's far from me but whenever I'm with him I don't feel the same. Why do I get this feeling? Am I in love ...
A. 28 October 2009: No. I don't think you're in love with him. I agree with the first post. It sounds like you're in love with the idea of him. You know that he really likes you so you crave his company as it might make you feel better when you're not with him. But ... (read in full...)
I really want a relationship, but I'm so insecure about my looks
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have never been in a relationship before. I've liked several guys before (not at the same time of course) and about 2 of the crushes were HUGE, they really impacted me and it lingered on my mind for a year or so. But I ...
A. 26 October 2009: In the end, I don't think looks are very important. So long as you're both attracted to your other half, it doesn't really matter what you look like. You said you've seen girls who you think have less going for them than you in terms of looks, and ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life!
Q. Hey. I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life. Well i cant call it that, as i've never actualy had one. I've never actualy had a proper girlfriend, i've 'seen' girls but not been in an actual relationship. I always get mucked about by ...
A. 22 October 2009: There's more to life than girls. If you think about it, what does it matter that you haven't had a proper girlfriend? You're 16, young, enjoying your life and you seem pretty happy as a person. It doesn't sound like you have any major problem that ... (read in full...)
My friends don't like him and it is affecting my feelings.
Q. I started going out with this very kind, sweet, and funny guy since two days ago. He is very cute and he treats me like a princess and I know he will never hurt me. However, and I am very bugged by this: The rest of my friends think he is weird. T...
A. 22 October 2009: I don't know how much of a good idea this would be for you personally. But I think you should tell your friends how you feel. Let them know that you like him, regardless of what they think, and be honest with them. Have it out with them. It should ... (read in full...)
I want a real boyfriend so I don't have to lie about having one!
Q. i want know if i will ever find the guy that makes me not be able to think about anthing else. I have never had a real boyfriend its got to the point where my friends think i am so sad that i have started lying to my friends bout having a boyfrie...
A. 18 October 2009: Yes, you will definately find a boyfriend one day. You need to wait for the right person and the right time.
Don't lie about having a boyfriend. You always get caught up in your lies. It's not you or anything that you've done that's stopped you from... (read in full...)
Is it OK to add her to my FB friends list without asking her first?
Q. Hi, right now i like a girl and i dont really talk to her. So i keep thinking if i should add her on my facebook friends list so i/we could talk a lot. But the point is if i should add her without asking or asking first. Whenever i look at her...
A. 14 October 2009: I reckon you should just add her. You do know her so it's not as if you're complete strangers, and she could always decline anyway. I wouldn't mind at all if a guy I knew just added me. I don't think you have anything to lose. Go for it. Good Luck... (read in full...)
Should I change myself in order to win him over?
Q. i'm 16. i'm a normal high school student, well i'm not that normal, i look kinda emo and goth, wear lots of eyeliner, i always wear black, and sometimes i could be annoying. ok so i like this guy for about a year now, he's really cool, and i like ...
A. 12 October 2009: Move on. Move on. Move on.
As hard as it might be you have to be cruel to be kind. Do not change yourself for anyone but yourself. Be the person you want to be.
If you're meant to be then he'll come to you. You can't make anyone like you. So ... (read in full...)
She changed her mind about loving me, is there anything I can do now?
Q. I have known this girl a long time, and she had said to me that she loved me, i felt in the same way, however she said a while after that that she didn't. She says she "cares" about me now but i'm not sure what that means. When i confronted her ...
A. 12 October 2009: Nope. Sorry. The best thing you can do now is, as the previous post said, move on. Confronting her about it will only push her further away. So show that you're mature and accept what's happened. You're still young so someone else will definately ... (read in full...)
Is he pushing me into sex?
Q. i have only been with my boyf. for a day and he already is saying that he wants to have sex And im not ready at all but if i dont i will get called fridged and i dont want that to happen so am i just going to have to have sex with him or is ...
A. 11 October 2009: Do not have sex with somebody until you're 100% ready. You don't want to so don't! I'd prefer to be called names and picked on instead of doing something so personal and exposed that I could regret for a long, long time.
This guy is certainly not ... (read in full...)
Why don't guys find me attractive?
Q. i wake up every morning and i see different guys at my school. and i think to myself, "Why do guys find me unattractive?" i want to understand why i have no one noticing me and complimenting me, like a guy should. my question is: Why don't guys find ...
A. 11 October 2009: Even without seeing a photo of you, I'm pretty certain that you're at least decent looking. Has anyone ever actually told you that they find you unattractive? Or are you presuming this because noone's ever complimented you? Trust me, unless you'r... (read in full...)
I was too scared to talk to her and now she is mad! What can I do?
Q. i really liked this girl for a long time and now she hates me. Ok i was at our breakfast table with the football players( which im not) and i got the crazy idea to ask her to the dance. Of course i had to tell my best friend before i did it and when ...
A. 11 October 2009: Wow. I don't blame her for feeling like that. You've really been messing her about. It's a good sign that she said 'hi' even after you left though. It shows that she probably didn't judge you for it. Best thing to do would be to open up to her. ... (read in full...)
Is she toying with me for her amusement?
Q. help im really confused! This girl at my high school keeps writing me notes about how she is a virgin. this started happening about three weeks ago and its starting to get worse. Then in the halls i ran into her and she was like what the hell are ...
A. 10 October 2009: I have no idea what she's doing. What she's doing must really annoy you though. I'm getting annoyed just reading your question!
Tell her to go away and to leave you be. You haven't done anything to her and what have you got to do with her?
Sound... (read in full...)
I'm head over heels in love! How do I muster up the courage to ask her out?
Q. I'm 17 and nuts, crazy over a girl a year below me but goes to my collage or sixthform if you live in England. I have a similar situation to a person you help about asking a girl out I dont know her at all, well i over heard her saying she w...
A. 10 October 2009: I agree with the first two posts. Facebook, msn that sort of thing would definitely help as it'd give you a chance to get to know each other with no friends or nothing to make it too weird. Having said that, watch it. Getting to know someone ... (read in full...)
I like two girls but who should I choose?
Q. So I've known two girls for the last two years: let's call them Sophie and Katy. I've probably talked to Sophie more and we get along really well (same type of humor and things like that), but she's really shy and kind of a loner. So, she doesn't ...
A. 10 October 2009: To me it sounds as if you'd prefer to be with Sophie. You're going out with Katy right now, but despite that you're thinking about Sophie and you're saying that you want to talk to her more. You seem to enjoy her company a lot more than Katy's. ... (read in full...)
How do I make him notice me and love me?
Q. hi i am a 13 year old girl and i have fallen in love with a boy in my class but he loves my best friend and i am getting jealous she is very sexy and i am ok but how can i make him notice me, talk to me, and love me. please help me out or else i ...
A. 10 October 2009: You might not like my answer, but seriously, at your age this should be the least of your worries. You're only 13 and you should be having fun! Not crying because you're jealous of your best friend. If you want him to notice you, then you go up an... (read in full...)
Should I carry on trying to take things further?
Q. hi. I know this might sound a bit stupid but i am totally unbearablely obsessed with this guy. We don't know each other very well but we have been going to the same hockey club for 1 or 2 years and he's recently started at the same school as me. ...
A. 5 October 2009: Carry on and don't give up. You've said yourself that you're paranoid and your friends are encouraging you. It's just you who believes he's out of your league and the reality is that he probably isn't. Just go for it. And good luck. X... (read in full...)
I'm in love with two best friends. Any ideas?
Q. im in love with two people both available but both best friends and they both like me what should i do? x...
A. 5 October 2009: Take a step back from both. If you can't choose it's probably best to let the whole thing be for a while. Things will develop naturally with time and you'll know what to do. Good Luck. X... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like I'm useless to everybody?
Q. dear cupids, im a 17 year old girl who wanted to be motivated about life,education and relationship. The reason why i wanted strangers' motivation is because my dad left my family, my mum is taking me for granted and my brother is in jail. I dont ...
A. 5 October 2009: What you feel isn't always reality.
You need to pick yourself back up again. You say that you want to learn, study and enjoy life so you haven't given up. You've got some hope and motivation inside you and you need to use that as a tool to insp... (read in full...)
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