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8 Golden rules!

Q.   Hiyaaaa, Ever since I've join this amazing website which wasn't long ago, there is many question about relationships failures like cheating, no spark and all that so I've decided to come up with 8 Golden Rules on relationship! So here are my inte...

A.   19 April 2011: Waw what a good list! Think you are very right in what you say. For me, a relationship has to have the following to work! 1/ trust, 2/ attraction, 3/ respect, I think, that their needs to be trust, from both sides in a relationship, be... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend but am terrified of him!

Q.   I really need some help. I am trapped. I don't know where or who to go to bc the stupid part of me feels that this isn't reality. My boyfriend of 2 years is from Italy. I am American. He's been coming down from depression and I have been trying...

A.   16 October 2009: The only evidence you need is how this relationship makes you feel. Just because others experience even worse doesn't mean you have got to put up with being treated like this. That he puts the blame on you for loosing his temper is part of it al... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend but am terrified of him!

Q.   I really need some help. I am trapped. I don't know where or who to go to bc the stupid part of me feels that this isn't reality. My boyfriend of 2 years is from Italy. I am American. He's been coming down from depression and I have been trying...

A.   16 October 2009: Your type of question comes up a lot. Is the behavior of a partner who makes you feel bad 'normal'. The answer is simple. No. People get together because they like each other and want to be there for each other, face the world together. The who... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend but am terrified of him!

Q.   I really need some help. I am trapped. I don't know where or who to go to bc the stupid part of me feels that this isn't reality. My boyfriend of 2 years is from Italy. I am American. He's been coming down from depression and I have been trying...

A.   16 October 2009: Holly, so nice to hear from and I am sorry for your hurt, hun. I sense by reading your posting, you are likely a very giving person, aren't you. And it's likely your bf is a typical 'taker'. If he was a giver like you, he could never do this to you. ... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend but am terrified of him!

Q.   I really need some help. I am trapped. I don't know where or who to go to bc the stupid part of me feels that this isn't reality. My boyfriend of 2 years is from Italy. I am American. He's been coming down from depression and I have been trying...

A.   16 October 2009: OMG, please, get out while you still can. I have been in a bad relationship for 6 years now and left my boyfriend last week. Well I just came back today and it's for the last time berlive you me. Your situation is 10 times worse than mine is but t... (read in full...)

Can I ever have a real relationship without sex? How?

Q.   Am in my twenties and i ve never had a fulfilled relationship because i decided to wait till marriage b4 havin sex.the last guy was really my first love and made me feel cherished and wanted but i found out recently he was pretending,hoping that i ...

A.   7 April 2009: Awwwww, I'm so sorry that you have been treated this way, how unfair. I think YES, most devently you can. If someone likes you enougth then they will wait for you no matter what. Think of it like this, would you want to give anyone the time ... (read in full...)

Why do women like "bad boys", and why do so many people cheat?

Q.   Just wanted to know people theory's why there are so many in relationships who cheat? Can you really love someone and cheat on them? What is it with women and the whole "bad boy" image? It seems the better you treat a woman the worse they treat...

A.   28 July 2008: yeh i think thats partly true. i think women want a strong man, and by that to me , i just want someone who knows how to keep there cool around me. i think that some men that appear to do anything for a women can maybe come across as a bit needy, ... (read in full...)

We're together, but he's not ready to be serious. Should I stick with him?

Q.   Which do you go by, actions or words. I have been dating a guy for about 3 months. His actions towards me shows he cares, and does like me. He even says "we have a great time together" "loves what we have" and "loves the way I treat him." Well, ...

A.   28 July 2008: well i think that he must care alot about you genuraly because of how he treats you and wanting to me your family. maybe he's just trying you out like you would try on a pair of shoes. i recon if the shoe fits right for him then he will but into you ... (read in full...)

I hate to think that anorexic, fake breasted whores are better than me! How do I stop being insecure?!

Q.   I hate having to compete with media beauties. My boyfriend (23) admitted that the girls on TV are supposed to represent the fantasy of the ideal female. He says they're hotter than the average female because that's what they're paid for, the same as ...

A.   25 July 2008: ahh im sorry that you feel this way. i feel the same about my face, it feels like everyone has a prettyer face than me. i can put on makeup but i carnt transforme my face to be all pretty and cute, so i might be slim but its not like men are going ... (read in full...)

One minute he's a attentive... next he's not! What's going on here?

Q.   Seen this guy 4 times in two months... but it has been just sex, and I have always said I wanted more than that. (Met on internet dating site). Sometimes he does not contact me for days at a time, and a week ago I told him that was enough, and ...

A.   25 July 2008: well i think that is sensabule in you saying that you dn't want to move in yet, as you have only just met. i personaly think that he is playing games with you, like giveing you the chase. and when he realises what he is about to lose he books his ... (read in full...)

I always hold back when it comes to sex. Should I change?

Q.   This guy I met I think just wanted me for sex. We had some nice times around the resort and I did fancy him but i didnt have sex becasue I wanted to hold back which was a bit stupid -as the time soon came to an end. I am sorry now I hurt the g...

A.   25 July 2008: hi i think the guys are totaly right buy saying hold back. i think if someone likes you enought then it wouldn't matter how long they hade to wait, TRUST ME. i think alot of the time that is what men are trying to get at (p...y), so i think that ... (read in full...)

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