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How can I have more regular sex with her?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly two years now, everything is going well but we have never had a good sex life but this was a mutual decision at first but then we both started enjoying it. But the main problem is over the past ...

A.   9 November 2009: There could be OTHER issue under this such as something that happened between you two... a fight or somehting of the sort that could make her feel upset or depressed. She may have other sort of problems so try to speak with her calmly, privaetly and ... (read in full...)

Does he actually love me or what? And why does he stay?

Q.   I don't get my boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years. I love him deeply, even though we have issues. Mostly because he dislikes my past and because I lied about it in the beginning of the relationship, but immediately afterwards (like two ...

A.   9 November 2009: Are you sure you truly love him? or you are used to being around him? just confortable? What if someone that treated u like a princess came around. Imo you should straight tell him that you dont like that and tha ti hurts you. If he is not will... (read in full...)

How do I decide between my boyfriend and my best friend who has opened his heart to me... ?

Q.   Well, I need help on a really awkward situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years on a semi -distance relationship. We have had some ups and downs and even some betrayal from his side which i forgot and let go of. On the picture my best ...

A.   7 November 2009: Oops I mean to say I am not indifferent to my best friend's feelings :P 3 Thanks for ur answer CaringGuy ^^.... (read in full...)

What should I do while my bf sucks my breasts?

Q.   what should i do while my bf is sucking my breasts? And i want him to go down by my vagina but as his never been down there before not with me or any other girl im not sure what he'll think? We've been going out for 2years now :)...

A.   7 November 2009: What i did was play a little kissing game with my guy..tell him kiss me here!and point a certain spot until after much playing and sucking and kissing i pointed to my vagina and ofcourse I moaned and complimented him a lot and boosted his ego so ... (read in full...)

Do you think he'll cheat when he travels?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are very much in love, but have encountered our fair share of problems with other females (singles sites, and an "online affair," but no physical cheating to my knowledge) in the past. He ...

A.   7 November 2009: How close are you? I had the same problem of an "online affair" but he told me himself about it and then I read everything. But my point is that you yourself know how honest he can online affair (depending on how serious it was) may just... (read in full...)

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