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My boyfriend wants me to break it off with him!

Q.   Any one good at body language?? I think my boyfriend I had over a decade is trying to get me to dump him but I can't he started a fight today.. even during the fight he said I'm not breaking up with you, your gonna do it this time is what he said.. ...

A.   29 March 2014: I think the best thing for you to do is ask him. You got to communicate with him before you can really know. And if he really said that I would've just done it right then and there, because it sounds like he just doesn't care if you do it, which ... (read in full...)

I like him but I'm scared to tell him. Help!

Q.   I need help Please! Okay i have a friend he is really sweet i flirt with him some but he doesnt see it. I really like him and he's really cool. I have been thinking about seeing if he likes me but dont what to do or how to do it. I really like him...

A.   15 June 2012: I thank all of you for your honest opinions and it turns out the male reader was right. He liked me but he didnt think he wanted to ruin our relationship so we didnt get together and when we were going to he moved but were still friends no matter ... (read in full...)

He just looked at me like I wasn't there! What does that mean?

Q.   So, I really like this guy, and I thought he liked me to, even tho we didn't speak to eachother. So, the other day, I walked by him, and smiled at him several times, looking away between smiles, but he just looked at me as if I wasn't there or...

A.   22 May 2011: Firstly, ask him yourself. Secondly, girl talk flirt enjoy. Thirdly, he just might like you all you know... (read in full...)

Heatbroken! I broke up with him. He came back and broke up with me! Why??

Q.   Hi Guys, can i pls ask for your crucial advice.. I met a local guy who was chasing me on facebook over xmas. After around a month of talking we met up. We knew we liked each other. We continue to date. On our second date we became intimate....

A.   22 May 2011: He's saying its over.... (read in full...)

Is he interested in me?

Q.   I volunteered about 2 weeks ago at a pound, and met a guy looking for a dog who went to the same college as me. Then by chance the next day we were in contact on the student forum......which led to exchanging numbers and having coffee together. At ...

A.   22 May 2011: Call HIM. Talk to HIM. I was just telling my friend the other day that girls and guys make their relationships diffiult because they don't like telling how they feel about each other or how they don't you need to talk instead of going along silent ... (read in full...)

Why do I always dream of my ex?

Q.   Im always having wierd dreams about my ex its itheir that I have twins of him in my belly or a baby in my hands I wonder why they also look like him and sometimes I dream wonderful dreams about me and him I wonder why?we been seperated for a year im ...

A.   22 May 2011: Maybe because you still have feelings for him. Or you just miss him alot... (read in full...)

Mother's rights to unborn baby in Massachusetts?

Q.   im 16 and im 12 weeks pregnant. the father and i are no longer together. do i have to give the baby his last name? just because it is his baby doesnt mean hes goiing to be there and support it, id rather do it on my own. if he were to take me to ...

A.   12 April 2011: Use your last name.... (read in full...)

Should I say, "Oh, I thought this was your number" as an excuse to ring him?

Q.   ahhh, cupid i need help!, ok well basically (this is the back story to my actual question)i was talking to this guy in the year above me at school and he really does seem to like me, well the first time we met it was raining an we both decided to ...

A.   11 April 2011: He likes you.Yes you should call him.Go for it girl.... (read in full...)

Does he like me?

Q.   I met this guy that i really like and i'm not sure if he likes me. He is one of my older brothers friends, and only one year then me. At the skating rink he asked my brother if he could ask me to couples skate with him. I thought it was sweet. T...

A.   11 April 2011: Ask your brother.And it sure does sound like he likes you though.... (read in full...)

How do I handle his "sexting" when I see him next.

Q.   A friend of mine and I have a complicated relationship. It is complicated in the fact that I have had on and off feelings for him, but as of recently, been keeping it platonic. And he is a massive flirt who will flirt with most girls in my year and ...

A.   11 April 2011: Okay i have been through this kinda.Girl, you need to just forget about him.Because that is beyond weird what he's talking bout. Hope i helped!!:))... (read in full...)

We're 14, are we old enough to have sex?

Q.   hello, this is a pretty long question but it would be great if i could have your honest opinions, i'm 14 and i've been with my boyfriend who is also 14 for about ten months. we're very close and he's like my best friend as well as my boyfrien...

A.   10 April 2011: NO. Are you crazy? That is stupid girl get our headd together. If he isn't willing to wait then he isn't worth it.:(... (read in full...)

How can I stop obsessing over this girl?

Q.   Hi friends...I need help... Please... Okay...so how can it be a coincidence all the time? There's this girl...who makes my heart jump, makes me crazy...in short my love... So the moment I forget her...how is that I see her in reality? She'...

A.   10 April 2011: no prob.... (read in full...)

Does he like me or just my body? How can I tell?

Q.   I'm in high school by the way =] So there's this guy or better yet, player I like but hes been on and off with his girlfriend for a while now ( Me and her are between acquaintances and friends), anyways I've been capable of " lightly" liking ...

A.   9 April 2011: Ask Him.You well never know if he likes like likes you or just likes your body.I have been threw that and i am not happy bout what happen but in the endi did meet my boyfriend that way well just ask him it would be alot easier. Hope i Helped!!... (read in full...)

Are we too physically intimate too fast?

Q.   My boyfriend is 17 and I am 15, and we have been together for about two months. We live in NYC. We started kissing and making out a while ago and now its almost the only thing we do. I spend a lot of time in his room, especially at night, and while...

A.   9 April 2011: Its true you need to slow down burn the candle to fast it runs out.... (read in full...)

Should I confront my girlfriend on this?

Q.   My friend has being a mean girl lately and i am not liking it. She tells everybody i am a _______ and i am not. She has been starting rumors about me and my other friends to and i want to what's going on because the other day i found a note with her ...

A.   9 April 2011: Thanks for the help.I think i am going to do what ya'll said cause i have just been ignoring her so Thanks.... (read in full...)

I had sex with him and now I am worried about a few things. Need advice.

Q.   Hi! So i was a complete idiot. I am 17 and where i work this new lad started who was 21. Instantly we clicked, and i really liked him. Of course i barely knew him. But he spoke to me online and we met up and the 4th day i kissed him and i was so h...

A.   9 April 2011: Firstly,you need to go to a doctor and get a check up.Next,you need to geett tested for anything you could have caught.Because girl you know he was not a virgin.Then, you need to get a pregancy test.Because you never know you ddidn't use a condom. H... (read in full...)

How can I stop obsessing over this girl?

Q.   Hi friends...I need help... Please... Okay...so how can it be a coincidence all the time? There's this girl...who makes my heart jump, makes me crazy...in short my love... So the moment I forget her...how is that I see her in reality? She'...

A.   9 April 2011: Go up to her and tell her what you told us.If she's this great i say go for it.Don't be depressed it's not a good thing trust me.And if you want to stop thinking about her then try to listen to music it takes my mind off of things or read a book ... (read in full...)

My ex is now willing to get with me, but I think it's too late

Q.   I'll try explain the situation as much as I can within this. I've had an Ex but we broke up before christmas, but we had tried many times to get back together and failed. But now we're more liking and he is a lot more willing to get with me. But...

A.   8 April 2011: Don't get back with him.If you think it's to late tell him that.Be careful and don't look back. Hope i helped!!:))... (read in full...)

How do I make things work with my best friend and my boyfriend?

Q.   My best friend is starting to ditch me because I'm with my boyfriend too much at school instead of how it used to be with just me and her.. I don't want her to feel forgotten but I also want to be with him and have been with him for a long time. ...

A.   8 April 2011: I have been threw the same thing before.The thing i did was be fair and spend sometime with your boyfriend and spend sometime with your friend.And try and let your friend and Boyfriend be friends to it helps. Hope i helped!!:))... (read in full...)

I keep having dreams that my boyfriend turns into a drunk, abusive, cheater! Does this mean anything?

Q.   I keep having dreams about my boyfriend where he turns into a complete loser. But he's nothing like this in real life. In my dreams he turns into a complete drunk, shouts abusive things all the time, and even cheats on me with my friends right in ...

A.   7 April 2011: Has he been acting strange lately?Have you experienced someone like this before?And anywas their probably just some stuid dreams. Hope i helped.:))... (read in full...)

I saw my ex girlfriend cheating. Should I get involved?

Q.   There was this girl I used to be best friends with, lets call her Sydney, but when this new girl came along, lets call her Amber, all of a sudden Sydney was leaving no time for me and always hanging out with Amber. Amber and I didn't like each ...

A.   7 April 2011: If you hink its the right thing.And btw i wouldn't cause that would start a whole lot of drama that i don't think you would want to get into. Hope i helped.:))... (read in full...)

My jealousy is starting to ruin the relationship. What do I do?

Q.   I get so jealous about my boyfriend's past and especially jealous when he hangs around other girls or talks to them a lot. I know he loves me and doesn't like them, but I still get jealous and believe me I constantly try to just let it go but I ...

A.   7 April 2011: 1.You need to tell him sorry for acting so jealous like. 2.You need to stop those others don't have the one thing you do HIM so don't sweat them. 3.Stop being jealous!! It's normal that ou get jealous but don't worry about right now.And thin... (read in full...)

He likes me only as a friend, has a g/f but I can't get him out of my head

Q.   I really like this boy at school we've been friends for ages but a couple of months ago I started to like him more than a friend. I spoke to my girls about it and they said that I should tell him because if I didnt I would regret it incase he felt ...

A.   6 April 2011: i agree with your friends.i been threw the same thing.you need to talk to him and see how he feels about you that is the only thing you can do to get it off your mind.... (read in full...)

He likes me only as a friend, has a g/f but I can't get him out of my head

Q.   I really like this boy at school we've been friends for ages but a couple of months ago I started to like him more than a friend. I spoke to my girls about it and they said that I should tell him because if I didnt I would regret it incase he felt ...

A.   6 April 2011: I have been through the same thing and i agree with your friends you should tell him and see what he feels about you. I done it!:)... (read in full...)

No replies to my texts?

Q.   I finally got the guts to ask for the phone number of a girl I really like. She willing gave it too me and I was so happy. She texted me back the first day but had to leave because of a dance class. Since then though she hasn't returned any of my ...

A.   6 February 2011: Either 1.She is trying to play hard to get [maybe] 2.Trying to find away to tell u she just wants to be ur friend [maybe] 3.She likes but doesnt know you lik her [maybe] Be careful becuz i know you dont want your heart broken ... (read in full...)

It's only been a week -- should I get him something for Valentine's?

Q.   Just got a new boyfriend. He's great and dead sweet, but its a week before valentines day. should i get him something if we've only been together a week? and if yes, what?...

A.   6 February 2011: Hey,just comon down.He is probably gettin you somethin so just get him somethin little.Like a small box of chocolates and a card that would be not to little since it has only been a week and its not to much. Hope i helpe... (read in full...)

My boyfriend hasn't tried to reach me in 2 days! How long should I wait before contacting him?

Q.   Hi my bf of 1.5 years is acting out weird lately. Always finding excuses not to call me or hang out with me. He is acting like real jerk, heavely fliting with other girls and stuff. I started to think he lost interest in me, so i stopped cal...

A.   2 February 2011: Right now this second.He shouldn't avoid you and yes if he is not calling you it is avoiding.You shouldn't take that stuff call him and tel him how you feel about this.He will understand.... (read in full...)

My craving to have a baby...

Q.   Well I am 14 abd I am gonna be 15 in July. I have recentally been asked out and have been going out with this boy (I will call him toe) toe for just over two weeks and I have suddenly have a craving for a baby. Me and toe haven't talked about this ...

A.   2 February 2011: I have always wanted a kid but you dont just have a kid because you just want one.It is alot of work.You dont want to go to sleep at 1 am then wake up at 2:30a to feed thee baby and go to school them after school go to workk it is to much.... (read in full...)

I can't masturbate unless I think of penis... and I'm male! Why is this?

Q.   I am straight and male, but i cant masturbate unless I'm thinking about penis. Outside of masturbation, I love girls no guys at all, but when I maturbate that is all I think about. Why?...

A.   2 February 2011: Cause your doing yourself so you think about your part and what it "likes".... (read in full...)

Lie and lie again...

Q.   I have this predicament.. I want to tell the whole story so everyone knows all sides.. I met this guy when i was 11 years old and we always flirted and we were good friends and then years later after him moving away and everything we got ahold of ...

A.   2 February 2011: DROP HIM!Lying goes to cheating trust me i have had a guy do that to me and i am still hurting over it so dump him now before you hurt later on.... (read in full...)

MY man called her baby!!!!

Q.   I recently moved in with my bf were goin to have a baby girl in 2 months. I thought that we had a perfect relationShip and that he was faithful to me so I didn't think twice about moving in specially bcuz now were goin to have a daughter but I came ...

A.   2 February 2011: A guy calls every girl "baby" so dont get upset.And i bet he wans you jealous so ddont sweat it,its nothing.... (read in full...)

I don't know if I should end it now to avoid being upset in the future...

Q.   I am in yr11 at school and I am going out with this guy (John) who is in yr12 (lower 6th form) and we have been going out for just over 2 months now. About 2 weeks ago, John took me to one side and told me that he couldnt be with me anymore because ...

A.   2 February 2011: It is normal you feel threaten by another girl.But just because you feel threaten by her doesnt mean you need to break it off wih your boyfriend.He wants you over her so be happy and live it up, dont give up.You really like him you stay with him if ... (read in full...)

I am scared I lost my chance with him, and scared to lose my best friend too! What should I do?

Q.   I need advice about this guy i still really really like.We have gone out off and on 3 or 4 times. He has dated my friend first but i ask permission to date him him she said yes, so we went out and now he has went out with 5 of my most best friends ...

A.   2 February 2011: He ask me out before that gott together i called her and asked what should i say she told me that dont give him an answer i found out a hour later that she called him and asked him out and i had to find out from him.So this sucks!... (read in full...)

I am scared I lost my chance with him, and scared to lose my best friend too! What should I do?

Q.   I need advice about this guy i still really really like.We have gone out off and on 3 or 4 times. He has dated my friend first but i ask permission to date him him she said yes, so we went out and now he has went out with 5 of my most best friends ...

A.   1 February 2011: Hello no answers or advice for me hurtful.... (read in full...)

He comments that I smell great. Does he want to date me?

Q.   There is this guy at my gym who will on occasion tease me about my workouts. He will make comments about the machines I am on and the weight I am lifting. Then one day I am getting a protein shake and he walks up to me and say's god you smell ...

A.   30 January 2011: Ask him see if he is inrested in you.If he is go out have fun.And girl he sure does sound interested in you.... (read in full...)

I had sex with my mother's friend. I'm worried she will find out!

Q.   Hi. So I'm a bit a stuck with a situation and I don't know how to get out! My parents are both in their mid 40s, I'm 18, and I have a 4 week old daughter. I've been through shit (I guess it's relevant to say), and my parents have recently been ...

A.   30 January 2011: You need to come out and tell her because what if somebody told her before you had the chance to tell her? So just come out with it. Your parents always love you no matter what so you need to come out with it. Don't keep it in for another minute. So ... (read in full...)

I'm not feeling validated in this relationship and she can't fully commit!

Q.   Alright, this is going to be slightly long, but bear with me for a moment. I started dating this girl when I was 19. I've always had a lot of trust issues, so opening up to people wasn't something I was good at. For about 6 months things were goin...

A.   30 January 2011: Well I really can't help you here cause usually it's the other way around. Maybe she can't commit because she has been in a bad relationship before you, so give her some time she'll come around when she's ready.... (read in full...)

How do I get over her.. or How do I make her fall for me as well?

Q.   My ex-girlfriend who broke up with me a month ago talked to me today. I am still in love with her and wonder if I'll ever get over her. Our relationship never would have worked because she had to move, but today, she talked to me as if she still had ...

A.   30 January 2011: You find someone that can replace her in your heart. Because trust me, you don't stay with the same girl in high school, you have to explore other options and get out there, and never be shy even though it is kinda cute.... (read in full...)

Receiving a blowjob from my girlfriend does not feel good to me! Why?

Q.   Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been going out for three months. We have a history together and I love her with all of my heart. There's just one problem. To me, it doesn't feel good when she gives me head. She's gotten me off from her hand every ...

A.   30 January 2011: Well maybe she's not the right girl for you, maybe you need something new, or maybe it is something you don't not be comfortable doing.... (read in full...)

Can we still be friends after what he said?

Q.   Me and a guy friend were talking online and the conversation some how turned to our past. (We used to be sort of friends with benefits) he's with another girl now so we agreed to stay friends even though i found it very hard. The FWB thing ended ...

A.   30 January 2011: Yes,I have been through the same thing that you have but mine included 5 of my bffs dating him, so I'm going to tell you... after him dating me off and on again, we are now friends, been friends since 5th grade. So you if you try your hardest and ... (read in full...)

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