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Archived questions from: 13 August, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I want validation that he is not cheating on me! If I asked to see his phone would that be wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other since May, but lately I've had this gut feeling he is hiding stuff from me. He's been acting a little shady in my eyes. Yesterday I asked him if he was talking to any other females. I excepted a no, ...

Am I being to insecure? Do you think he is thinking of me as more like a FWB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Am I just being insecure? Been seeing a guy for a few weeks. At first I could tell he was really interested. I have known him for years as an aquaintence, through friends and always thought he is a really nice guy. I didn't know he liked me this way ...

I have just learned my husband fathered another child during our marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Hi I hope someone can give me some advice! I have been married for 31 years and have a pleasant life! We have raised 3 well adjusted,talented and successful kids. My husband was my first lover and even thou he had a child out of wedlock, which he...

I just found out my girflriend cheated on me three years ago

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

13 August 2012 (M) - Hey guys, I have a situation that im in dire need of some other people opinions. I have been with my girlfriend for about 3 years now. Today I found out that at the beginning of our relationship when we were "exclusive" she was having sex with oth...

Are guys immediate about pursuing a girl or do they go away to think it through before they make their first move?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (?) - I am a very conscientious person and as a result I tend to over analyse and think my way out of things. when it comes to getting to know a guy I tend to hold back at first and observe his behaviour and actions rather than (like many women) pounce a...

Three months and he treats me well. But do you think his relationship with his ex could be a stumbling block?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. He's good to me, treats me well. I just have some concerns about his relationship with his ex. He works for her, plays sports with her, they have children together, and he's at her place a lot....

I hate that sex is always on my mind. How can I contain my interest in sex? Because I want to marry as a Virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

13 August 2012 (M) - I'm a type that hate sex and thinking about sex. Sex is always in my mind and i can't stop these thoughts when I start thinking of sex. Please what will i do to control my urge to think about sex all the time? Not only self sex, normal sex is invol...

I am embarrassed about oral sex. Are there things I should be aware of?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Hi I have a question about oral sex. I’m in a new relationship and my partner wants to give me oral sex. The problem is I feel embarrassed of him going down on me. I do want him to pleasure me but I’m worried what if he doesn’t like my scent or...

How should I deal with online friend who proposed to me recently, but was uncomplimentary about my face? Should we break-up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - My friend proposed me last week on friendship day. I'm 16 and he is 18. I accepted his proposal and we started dating. We know each other from 2-3 months. We had never met or talked before. I never showed him my pic before. I'm suffering from marf...

Friend and I fell out. OK with me. But what do I do about a wedding we will both be attending? Don't want our issues to spoil bride's day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - My friend of twenty years and I had a terrible falling out. Now two years later, she wants to rehash everything, but I don't. Leading up to the "break up," we had grown apart, but I was taken by surprise with her decision to end it (via email). ...

We broke up last week. Now he's talking FWB. What does he really want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Heyy please help me out. I am confused and don't know what to do. A month ago me and my bf broke up. Didnot contact each other for like two weeks. And then became friends. Then we start seeing each other and he starts kissing me. I think we are back...

He has depression but is that any way to treat me? He's horrible and calls me nasty names.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - My partner is and has suffered from depression for years (way before i met him but i didnt know about it for a while after we met.) his temper lately has been awful and he swears at me and calls me horrible names. he has even told me he doesnt want ...

How can I successfully get to know this exchange student? I am in love with her but she seems not interested.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

13 August 2012 (M) - Hello everyone, Since the beginning of the year, I have developed a crush on an exchange student, who has been transferred to my college to study for 3 years. I do not have any classes with her, and whenever I see her - she is always with her...

We've been together four years. Will I lose him after he joins the Air Force?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4281 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - dear readers.. i am in a crisis... i have been with a boyfriend for 4 years now, we have been through so much together.. ie cheating, separation etc but we have always come out on top.. now i am 18 and he is too, but in the year above me.. he i...

Why would he do this? Do I try to get him back? My Bf broke up with me as he failed a grade.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a few months and we really love each other. The only problem is that he failed a grade and I get to go to the next grade. This is out conversation Him- "I think we need to break up. Well honestly, I failed math an...

Sweet sixteen. Does he like me, or does he just want to get into my pants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - OK, so i have been hanging out with this guy for the last 4 weekends, going to parties and such. his mate kept telling me to hook up with him, and that he hasn't been flirting with any girls since i've been hanging with him. the thing is though,...

He was like my dream guy. But I feel wounded by his actions. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I met this guy at a club. I liked him at first sight .I thought he liked me,too. he thought I am good looking and show me off in front of his friends. He was like my dream guy. I am afraid I can never meet someone just like him again. He...

I can't tell if this will work or not. Is he still interested in me since he ignored my text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I met a guy on last Wednesday at a bar. We clicked and he got my number. Texted me the next day good morning asking me to hang out. I agreed but ended up blowing him off. Made up an excuse the next morning saying my phone died. Later that day...

He is 32 and I am 22. He flirts with me, a lot. Am I being played or is he trying to see what happens first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I have become attracted to someone and I know at least the physical aspect is mutual but I'm not sure of his intentions. He had a bad experience with another woman a few months ago and I just broke up with my boyfriend recently. I know neither one...

The Ex looms large in our relationship. What can do to keep him in my life without pressuring him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I met this guy and he is amazing. We have gone on three dates and quite frankly I feel very comfortable with him. But we have one MAJOR problem. His ex gf. They dated for 5 years and broke up a month ago(he broke up with her but she's not ov...

Is it normal for a Gf to say sexy things in her sleep? Every night!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - My girlfriend makes sex noises in her sleep, it used to be every now and then, now its a nightly thing that wakes me up. Her history is quite promiscuious which probably adds to the paranoia, but we do keep a regular sex life. I know people can'...

Recently broke up with Bf. Who says he still loves me. Now his friend is interested in me. Is it too soon to go with the other guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend, but he says he's still in love with me. And one of his close friends, let's call him X , recently was left by his girlfriend, but still has some feelings for her. So this brings me to my problem: I've be...

I'm five months pregnant but he made me walk 8 miles plus home. I love him but he stresses me. Should I give him up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. I am 17 years old and I'm pregnant. I am 5 months pregnant and the boy who got me pregnant was my boyfriend of a year. He has now decided to choose alcohol and drugs over me and my little girl. I'm not really sure as to what I s...

Her boy friend is abusive. But she says I am trying to break them up if I talk about it. What can I do to help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4281 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Dear cupid About six months ago I was at a small party with my friend and her boyfriend. my friend and her boyfriend were having some issues. They had been constantly bickering throughout the night. They then went outside to sort things out alone, a...

Can you please help me get him back and what indications would I see if he is coming back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - dear all .... it was in 2009 my friend hooked me and this guy up from a site because i told her i wanted a boyfriend so then me and the guy dated and when i was 14 i didnt hear from him no more and me and the girl the one hooked me up with him we ...

Why is my partner even considering her ex? Why did her ex show up now after four years of being away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

13 August 2012 (M) - I need help any body please. my problem is im with a great person who has helped me get through alot and i helped her through alot in the last 7 months. we have been dating since march and out of the blue her ex husband calls her asking for f...

I have been nothing but nice to her. What are the chances that she will start to like me sometime soon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (M) - There is this girl that I like who doesn't like me the same way back. (Classic, I know right?) I've been nothing but nice to her, and I try to smile and say hi when I see her. How much of a chance do I have of her feelings changing over the cour...

My old flame. We got back together. When he went back to his wife. When is enough enough? Is he lying to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I'm not sure where to begin. I apologize now if I'm all over the place, but I'm going to try.. I met this guy when we were 15, so we have a bit of history. The jist; Instant love, we were inseparable, I got pregnant, our parents forbid us to see e...

But should I feel guilty about him paying me alimony still? When he seems to owe money everywhere? We are still married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - hi agony aunt, i wrote on this site about my 48 year old husband leaving me for a 24 year old. I want to thank all of you for the advice that you gave me. it helped, although i have my good days and bad days. im still in that i wish he would wa...