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writes:dear readers..i am in a crisis... i have been with a boyfriend for 4 years now, we have been through so much together.. ie cheating, separation etc but we have always come out on top.. now i am 18 and he is too, but in the year above me.. he is going to the airforce next year and i have once more year at school... the hard part is, knowing how much could change next year... is he going to leave me? going to be so busy with his new life that i will just be a memory? i am really scared.. i dont know how not to be...we love eachother, but this truly terrifies me... i cant stop him, and dont want to, but i cant lose him... how should i handle this transition? what could help me and him work through this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2012): If you both truly love each other and are determined to stay together, then I'm sure you both won't let it come to the point of drifting apart.
I don't know much about the air force and how often members can stay in touch or even take leave to visit loved ones back home, but I would imagine with all the modern technology these days it shouldn't be that hard.
You can keep in touch via video link, video chat etc, instead of a couple of letters and phone calls are year like the old times lol.
Unless either of you don't make the effort to keep in contact, I can't see you drifting apart.
Its just getting used to not having him around everyday that will be hard, but the distance should only make your love stronger because you will miss each other and look forward to the contact you can have, as oppose to taking each other for granted everyday.
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