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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Embarrassed of getting erection while hugging my date. Opinions needed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

8 October 2011 (M) - Something very embarrassing happened to me and I would like female readers' opinions: There's this girl at work with whom we've been flirting for a few months now. Finally she initiated to go for a friendly coffee where we had a really nice and...

I'm having trouble dealing with my retroactive jealousy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

8 October 2011 (M) - I have a question that maybe some of the women readers can answer. Why would an attractive, intelligent woman -21 years old at the time-carry on an affair with a much older married man {25 years older}with children of equal age for 7 long years? He ...

Will I ever trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Just over two years ago, I embarked on what was then an affair with my current boyfriend. We knew each other from work and he had always been flirty with me, he had given me his number a few months before and after discovering he had a wife I backed ...

I've been there for her. Yet she doesn't want others to know about me. Is there anything worth waiting for in all this, for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

8 October 2011 (M) - what does my ex want from me? my ex and I broke up years ago, we decided to stay friends, but it seem to me at cost. it seem ok at first but i began to wonder, over the years, she dated other people, and so have i. but i think i put myself in toubl...

So what's up with this guy? And how do I handle his actions? He has a girlfriend, so why is he doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - So i am working for this theater department. and i had showed up for rehearsals on night and skipped the next day because i wasn't needed. This guy had asked my dad ( who's in the play for the theater i am working for )"wheres your daughter at ? " ...

Does our friend have a new girl friend or not? He is acting differently with this one versus all his previous girl friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - my dearest friend has a new girlfriend, we text heaps and he's always talking about her and what they get up to etc. BUT when we are face to face and I ask how she is going he just says she is good and changes the subject? is there a reason for this...

He's jealous. I feel scared if we break up he's not going to care about anything. And he's not warmed to my children. But wants his own. Problems ahead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend over a year. He's a really nice guy he's a lot older than me by like 8 yrs or so. Sometimes we disagree with so many things as he's a really jealous guy!! Recently my family had been talking to me about him ch...

Why is it so easy for guys to act heartless after a break-up? I was upset because he was hiding things from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - So me and my bf of 5 months have recently broke up a week ago and im about to go insane! I don't know what to do anymore, he was always there for me and my son, hes done more for my son then my sons father! he would come over every night.. ever...

My 12 year old daughter kissed a boy. A little shocked, wasn't expecting it! Even though I knew it would! Big deal or not so much??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - My daughter is 12 almost 13! I know what I'm getting ready to say ppl will think I'm nuts. Yes what I have to say is normal, but I am a single mom, I work and go to school! I have my own buisness so I could always be home with her! I have done this...

Do I have to compromise and give up my goals to find love? Caring for animals is my passion. Can I find love too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Will I ever find someone with the same goals as me? I am interested in love, men, etc....finding "the one", but what I am most interested in in life is animals. I want and dedicate my life to making sure I help as many animals as I can. Its time ...

Is masturbating nasty? Some girls say it is. Girls don't like me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

8 October 2011 (M) - I am 29 year old i have been single for 5 years now . Girls dont like me because i am stocky and they say that i am ugly . Is masturbateing nasty? because i do it every night . I started doing it when i was younger. Don't girl...

I am constantly worried he will break up with me. How do I prevent this? How do I act to ensure I keep him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - I've recently got a boyfriend who I like a lot, except I'm constantly worried he'll break up with me even though there isn't any real indication that he will. Is this normal? What are things I should do to prevent this? and will playing kind of hard ...

We had a fling. I'm meeting up with him again soon. Want more from him. How will I get over him if he rejects me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - I work sometimes with a guy who is married we had a fling not all the way. I know it is wrong I will be seeing him next week and I plan on acting like nothing happened. I feel anxious about it already because I'm so attacted to him. If he rejects ...

We's been together for 4 years. But is my 22 year old partner losing interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Hi I've been with my partner for 4 years he's 22 snd I'm 34 , we always had a spontaneous sexual relationship but for the past year and half we hardly ever have sex I am gettin frustrated with him as I caught him pleasuring himself , why don't he ...

Am I the world to my fiance, or does his heart still belong to his ex? He lies to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - I've been engaged to this guy for 6 years we share everything together he never leaves my side and works really hard for us to have everything but we have a problem and I guess its me but idont know how to let go..when I first met him he lied to me ...

Should I play hard to get too? I want more from her. But she's always 'too busy'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

8 October 2011 (M) - Time is my worst enemy. I have a friend who I think I am really in love with. The problem is, there is no time! Anytime I ask her to hang out, or even chat, she tells me that she doesn't have time. She is contantly busy with homework, etc... ...

Why do girls get so mad? Why don't girls forgive mistakes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

8 October 2011 (M) - why do girls hate you if you do one thing that makes them mad? i liked this girl a lot then i said something on facebook she didnt like and now we avoid each other and dont talk....

First it's all good. Then he stops replying. Then stupid excuses. what does his confusing behaviour mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Why would a guy who seemed really into you, told you he liked you a lot, text you all the time, suddenly not reply to your text message? Secondly after a couple of weeks you text him again, but this time he replies, with a stupid excuse as to why...

He NEVER will talk to me in public! Am I just his booty call? PS: he also has a girlfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - So, there's this guy. I really really like him, and he seems to like me back. But he NEVER talks to me in public. Only when its just me and him. He has this girlfriend that he claims to love. But when he's with me he says he doesn't even care...

It still hurts. He has drug issues. How do I accept it will never be the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - It's been six months since I moved out of my place with my ex and so much has changed. We dated for over a year, and in the beginning everything was perfect. I knew he had a past with drugs, but I thought that's where it was going to stay. We star...