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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How can I move forward in our relationship when I can't stop thinking about her? I want her back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - So here is my story. I will cut some stuff out but it will be a long one. My ex and I started dated for about 5 months. It had been a while since I had been with anyone and she had not been with anyone seriously since her divorce about a year ago...

My Dad asked me to tell a serious lie. I feel bad about that. Should I cut contact with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Hey everyone so its been awhile since i have been on here but i could really use some help, so this morning my dad called me and he lives six hours away from me and i only see him once in a great while and he asked me if i could do a favor for him ...

Going to meet him. To talk. But can I get him to like me as more than 'friends'?i don't want to lose him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Hi i'm a 23 year old female. I met my boyfriend 3 years ago as (then) just mates no emotional connection just friends. His little sister passed away and i was there for him. 3 years later i moved to a new city and it was a shock that he was movi...

If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested? I went out with a girl this week and we seemed to have a really nice night together. It started timidly, but then we relaxed and enjoyed our evening. It even ended ...

Where do I stand with this girl? Friend Zone? Or more if she re-thinks her stated intentions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - The first few weeks of university have been a true whirlwind experience and yesterday, I went out with a girl who I really like. We had a few drinks and then headed back to her appartment where after a drink she told me that she "didn't want to ...

Am I a loser? And is it wrong that I no longer miss my ex-girlfriend? Is that normal after 14 months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - My girlfriend me dumped 14 months ago, saying I would never get a good job thus wouldn't be able to give her financial stability. She used to call me a loser which would make me laugh. I am still doing smaller paying job and I am fine with this los...

Mixed signals? So does she like me NOW? Despite denying wanting to go out with me earlier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - If a girl you're extremely close friends with (and has previously slept with one occasion) says to you one morning, "You know that feeling you get after a night of really great sex? Despite not having it last night, I feel like I have. Thanks for an ...

Love my job, but! Married Boss is badgering me to have an affair. What's the best realistic thing to do in this situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - I have been at my job for about a 18 months. about 6 months ago, my married boss started badgering me for sex. I emphatically told him I wasnt interested because he had a wife. plus he is not my type-- although i couldnt say that to his face beca...

When someone just wants sex, do they avoid affection like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - How does a man act if it's "just sex"? I've been seeing this man. We slept together once and since then I've tried not to see him, but I keep ending up seeing him and we kiss. We can never be together - there are so many reasons. Our situations i...

How do I not ruin this relationship, due to my insecurities over failed past relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - I have had a really bad relationship in the past that was emotionally abusive and resulted in me being very insecure. He cheated on me repeatedly, lied about even basic things and put me down constantly, when he kicked me out I was left pretty d...

I think I've made the biggest mistake of my life ending my affair. Don't want to be hated. But how do I make this work out right?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - Hi, not sure how to start this but hoping to get some good advice. I have been with my wife for 9 years married for 4 and last year i had an affair for 3 months with a woman who is friends with one of my friends. There was a connection from ...

How do I get through to him? He doesn't want these two people at our wedding, Because he thinks they dislike him and his son.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and plan to get married. We just had a huge argument because he feels that one of my friends and one of my family members do not like him and his son (from previous relationship). He thinks this...

How can I tell my teacher that she is like a second mother to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - first of all, i have an english teacher and i love her very much as a second mother but she doesn't know that. and i really want to tell her that i love her as a second mother but i don't know how she is going to react if i told her that. so, what ...

I'm 37 and a very different aged woman showed interest in me. I thought we had something happening. So why did she lose interest so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Hope someone can give me an advice here, I am really really confused. Here's the story: About half a year ago a really beautiful woman started showing me interest in me She winked at me, talked a lot to me, asked me if I'm seeing someone, and smil...

Guys, don't you feel it if a woman wants you? or you just give it a try anyway and try your luck?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - This is what I want to ask you guys and girls, but mostly guys: can you tell when you have a chance with a woman even for just that night, or are just men absolutely oblivious to the signs and you guys need to be told straight forward yes or no? ...

My 14 year old daughter wants to call the shots. My family is unsupportive. How do I get through all this alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Dear Readers, I am feeling guilty that my 14 year old daughter doesn't want to live me with unless it is on her terms. My whole family disrespect me as does she. My family give her whatever she wants, give her the out and refuse to let me place bou...

I am Jealous of my boyfriend's sister! Am I out of my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - I am 17 and I have been with my boyfriend (20) for over a year. His sister is my age and she has hated me ever since we started dating. His sister and I used to go in the same school (now I'm not going to school because I can't afford it, my fath...

He loved me. Is he over me now? Would it be OK to tell him why I could not respond? And ask for a new chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - About 3 months ago, I met this really great guy. I'm not just saying this either, he was very genuine and sensitive. The problem was that I had recently gotten out of a 4 year relationship (7 months prior) and still had my "guard" up. I never really ...