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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Should I bother trying to be her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - My friend and I had an argument over a lie I told her and had a huge fight! She quit talking to me. I tried talking to her but she was so angry she cussed at me and told her to not speak to her ever again. Then over the course of a few weeks (once a ...

My FWB is being far too casual with me. Is he losing interest?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I don't understand my FWB guy. He seemed really into me and said that he just wanted "a bit of fun" I am fine with this. But what I don't get is that I just hardly ever hear from him. If I text him he doesn't always reply we're supposed to be m...

I fell in love with my cousin's cousin. Should I try to pursue him or just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Hello, I have never done this sort of thing before but I have run out of options and advice from friends. I fell in love with my cousin's cousin and need some advice from a stranger. So here's my story. I have known him since I can remember...

How should I control my jealously and this shock that my girlfriend defeated me in a game of soccer?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - Six months back, I started teaching Soccer to my girlfriend. We have been together two years. Two days ago, we had one-to-one match and I got shocked to death that she beat me by 6 goals to 3, out smarting me in every aspect of the game. It got ...

My BF of two months gave me a promise ring. But how do I handle this? Another guy wants me to go with him instead.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I don't know if I'm making the right choice or not!!!! Okay so my BF of two months gave me a promise ring at my Homecoming dance. I accepted it thinking it was so sweet and he was my Mr. Right. Well now I don't known if I'm making the right choice...

Am I setting myself up for heartbreak yet again? 17 and in love with my possibly lesbian teacher.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Okay, so I will get right to it. I'm 17, female, a lesbian, and in my senior year of school. Lately I've been having feelings for a teacher at my school (also a female). Firstly, let me just clarify that I've never been in a proper relationship, ...

Am I having a mid life crisis? It seems so important to increase the number of woman I have sex with. So would paying for it be a quick solution?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - I am single and am no spring chicken anymore, although Im not exactly geriatric either. In my life I havent really had many girlfriends and can count the number of sexual partners I've had on one hand. Im starting to feel that 'I've missed out...

Help! Getting mixed signals from my man. Is it a casual relationship or more serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - OK, so this is a bit of a long winded one so bear with me and apologies in advance :) I am 29, have been separated from my ex husband for 18 months and have a two year old little boy. I met a guy, lets call him J, in April through mutual f...

Why did my last guy refuse to give me another chance? I know I cheated. What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Since as long as I can think back I have cheated on every guy I dated. I had been with my soul mate now for 9 years. For 2 years I did resist cheating except for the first 6 months. We was about to set a date to marry when he found out I was sex ...

What is do the numbers signify? What's normal for you? Is more sex with more people success? Or is more relationship with one person more?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - Out of curiosity, how many a) romantic relationships (i.e. dated for a while, no sex) b) full-on-committed relationships (i.e. with sex) and c) sexual relationships did you have by the time you were 22/23? This question is both for men and wom...

What to do? The Cook and I made out in the back room of the restaurant. Do we continue? He's married.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I work at a restaurant as a server. I get along with everyone I work with fairly well, but the cooks exceptionally. All the cooks are men (but I've always been more partial to having male friends than females) Somehow I managed to attract the atte...

Did I somehow drive him away? What's he about? Cuddle one day. Then ignore me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Recently a new guy started working where I work. After hanging out a few times we exchanged numbers, and soon after we were hanging out all the time. He'd even text me a few times a day just to talk. For about 2 weeks he'd always want me to come...

It's not official. So is it wrong to be dating two guys at once? and how do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I am dating two guys at once and it feels like cheating to me even though I'm not officially with either of them and its just dating. I was assured by a friend (having been single a long time and out of the dating game) that if your a free agent ...

Am I too sensitive? Or is he insensitive? And when do you call it quits when it comes to a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I am engaged to my guy for a year and a half now. In the beginning everything was great, I was completely ready to marry my guy. However, the past 6-8 months is making me re-think this whole marriage thing. We're hardly ever intimate, we har...

She contacts me all the time. I ignore her. I am heartbroken. How do I move on? How do I forget her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - I Just recently broke up with the love of my life. We broke up about a month ago. I cant stop thinking about her. I want to so badly. I broke her heart and i want to forget her. I cant. I thought maybe I can get her back, But i realized the...

What's wrong? I'm cute and fun he was not bored but something happened right? I'm lost

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I met a guy in 2007 but at the time we lived in different cities so we stayed friends through email then Facebook. We talked frequently with laps in between when dating other people etc we are in the same industry so we have lots in common but he's...

Don't want to scare him away. But how can I drive him wild and make him fall for me? Any reliable strategies please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I've known this guy for about a year now, we've been just friends, but recently he's been texting me about hooking up and being friends with benefits. But he even said a couple times that it would just be fun, nothing serious; so I guess that mean...

Why do I have trouble completing sex in a committed relationship yet can reliably cum during flings and one night stands?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm a bit confused here, I'm 20 years old, and have only had 2 SERIOUS relationships, the previous lasting 4 years, and one currently. In between, and before the relationships I've had several flings / one night stands, etc. I've noticed I...

My fiance is inexperienced in so many ways. Should we grow old together and learn together? Or should I call it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Would you be worried if your fiance was inexperienced? Inexperienced with life, relationships, and sex. Would it be enough to call it off, even if everything else compatibility wise was perfect? Any input would be greatly appreciated. ...

B/f recently told me that one of his girlfriend's was a prostitute! Now I cannot get the nasty image out of my head

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - During an argument, my boyfriend of almost a year, revealed to me, that in his past,many years ago, that he had a girlfriend who was a hooker. He could see in my eyes how disgusted I was, and of course I said I wanted to vomit. Now, days later, I ...