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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How to fix my trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

27 October 2009 (F - hey I have a problem and I don't know how to fix it. I don't trust anyone, not my friends, not my reatives... like, I wouldn't put it past anyone to sell me out or anything. Any time I like a guy and it's going well I tend to sabotage it beor...

What should I say to get him to really understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

27 October 2009 (F - my fiance is sneaking and talking to his ex behind my back. i've confronted him about it but he still does it anyways. what should i do to get him to understand how much this bothers me?...

How can I get rid of these lack of trust and anxiety issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

27 October 2009 (F - Hi guys :) I've been going out with this great guy for over two months and I really really like him. I've been in horrible relationships prior to this and unfortunately these have left me with bad trust issues and anxiety. I can't seem to enjoy th...

He backed off after I told him the truth about my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (F - I met somebody about 8 months ago, he seemed to be a really genuine guy with good morals and lots of ambition like me and I really thought it could go somewhere. We had several dates and was all going well only I made the mistake of admitting I had ...

His cheating has left me feeling so insecure...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

27 October 2009 (F - Ok this is a little confusing but here goes... I am 6 months pregnant and really don't enjoy having sex. My partner cheated on me before, and I'm worried he will do it again if we stop having sex. I've spoken to him about it and he said that...

What to do?? I am I being too possesive?

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27 October 2009 (F - Hello, Am i being too posessive? i was with my boyfriend and he got a text of this random number, that hadn't been saved on his phone. when i asked who it was, he replied, " i don't know it's been texting me all week".so i started to text the number ...

Why am I avoiding romantic relationships?

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27 October 2009 (F - Hi, I'm wondering if it's weird to be basically an adult but just dated one guy for 2 months. I'm scared of the whole dating thing and feel uncomfortable with the fact that someone wants to be with me? I feel that because I am so against the...

Does she think she is not worthy of me?

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27 October 2009 (M - my ex gf cheated on me and then broke up with me the next day. She didnt tell me til about a month later and said that was the reason she broke up with me. She said she felt guilty. I forgave her and we remained friends. We even discussed hangin out ...

Do you think I should trust him?

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27 October 2009 (F - my partner of 6yrs went on a night out for a big game so lot's of drink consumed and when the team won partying didnt stop.... he went to a female work colleagues house who lives in the opposite direction to our house with two others after a night ...

He never mentioned he was going away to Europe for months on end, should I cut him out of my life completely?

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27 October 2009 (F - I split up with my ex around 2 months ago after living with him a year and seeing him on and off for 5. When we split up my ex banged on about us not working now but didnt mean we couldnt work in time, so on so forth. However I discovered via a...

He initiates "eye romances" with other women

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

27 October 2009 (F - My Boyfriend and I have been living together for 3 years, and I have been putting up with his ROVING EYES the entire time. ANY time that we go anywhere, he ALWAYS finds another female that he is attracted to... and makes no secret of it. He first ...

Could I be falling for another sex addict or is this just a strong attraction to each other?

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27 October 2009 (F - Hello, I am divorced and in a newer relationship with a nice man. I really like him a lot because he is very attentive. He makes me feel like I am #1 in his life. unlike my ex husband who wouldn't even carry a cell phone, this man will answer his ...

Why do I feel guilty about ending her emotional affair?

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27 October 2009 (M - My wife had what I figure was an emotional affair a few years ago. There was a lot of texting. I don't think there was any physical contact and she came totally clean about it in the finish. It devastated me at the time and had a pretty bad affect ...

Did he cheat with his child's mother?

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27 October 2009 (F - sorry to write such a long story. i believe my bf cheated on me with the baby momma on saturday, i phoned him late that nyt the lady picks up and said my bf was asleep and cant speak to him, i hang up.. he called me the following day to say that ...

What is behind his accusations?

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27 October 2009 (F - My boyfriend has accused me of looking at other men in a sexual way and of cheating on him, for a little more than one year. I have officially gone insane and the other day I freaked out on him and shouted that I finally understand why h...

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