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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Will I grow out of being jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - well.. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now.. We're both seventeen. I love him very much and I can't imagin life without him. I get on on with him better than anyone else.. Everythings perfect except one thing! In recent months I ...

How do I find the right words to say to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Hi there, i have known my boyfriend for almost 10 yrs, when we were 12 he was my first boyfriend, we were together for a year...we drifted apart, reunited in 2007, and drifted again. I sent him an email in april and on april 30th we were a happy ...

Why does he tell me he still has feelings for me when he goes on online dating sites?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for a year, but we broke up when I found out he had a girlfriend back home (he is not originally from my town). We remain friends, although there is still very much an attraction b/w us. I have been just been taking it ea...

How do I stop this silly jealousy in my LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Please help me. Thanks, don't know where else to turn :( This is in relevance to my last post... I met this guy on the net about just over a year ago, we built up a good friendship etc on the net and on the phone, and then met in reality ho...

Should I worry about my girlfriend's male friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - hey hope ya can help me on dis 1.my girlfriends 2 best friends are guys they are completely in love with her their always touching her always flirting with her and tryin 2 kiss her !!! she loves them 2 bits but it really annoys er !!!shes told me ...

Am I turning into a jealous jerk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - why is my wifes guy friend so important to her? My wife and I are pretty rocky right now. I don't know how to handle her spending so much time talking to her guy friends(one in particular). Its to the point where I have a lot of rage built up in...

Am I being too close minded?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Hello. Ok here is my issue. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. In the beginning he was cheating on me all the time and I was really hurt by it so I found myself a lover and everytime I knew my boyfriend was cheating on me , I ...

Is she just punishing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - I met my girl friend on july 19th 2008, when we met i was seperated for 6 months and i was getting divorced and had no kids. After a month when I realized how much I realy liked her i told her i had to tell her something we met and I told her i had ...

He meets his psycho ex secretly, should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - I have been with my sig other for almost 2 year, but he still keeps in contact with his ex girlfried. I am okay with ex's being friends, bit this person is a bit of a bunny boiler. e.g. she sends "i love you" messages to him via text (she is a ...

What is likelyhood of a committed relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - I'm a 30 year old male and I've met this hot woman off the internet. She is 20 years old and a virgin. No religious ties. She's never even had a bf. She just moved out of her parents home (very controlling/mentally abusive father) and is l...

Flirting/chatting-how much is too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - Okay the background. I've been married to my wife for 8 years, we've been together for 10. We also work on the same floor at the same employer. Last few years have been rough- we seem to live in our own separate worlds. I'll admit- some of our a...

Once an abuser, always an abuser??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - My ex bf abused me and now he wants me back. He promises hes changed and so on. He says he regrets it and would do anything for me. He admits to be an idiot. He says he loves me- something he never told me when we were in a relationship. He says we ...

Are these actions normal for a man almost 30 yrs old?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend (29) and I (25) were really enjoying having sex the other night and when he wanted to have anal sex I said no because I knew that my stomach was not up for it. He knows that I really do not like it yet I have promised to continue doing ...