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*umelo
writes:sorry to write such a long story.i believe my bf cheated on me with the baby momma on saturday, i phoned him late that nyt the lady picks up and said my bf was asleep and cant speak to him, i hang up.. he called me the following day to say that someone answered his phone it must have been his friends galfrnd cause he left his phone in his car... the very same lady phoned me later that day saying she is the baby momma and has been with this guy for 5 years, and told that i knew about the baby when we mt he said they have broken up according to the lady they neva did.what i dont get i met part of his family and most of his friends..he is saying the baby momma has her own stress i mustnt listen to her he loves and doesnt want us to break up...but i cant shake the feeling that he did sleep with her that night,,was it only that nyt or wat does he really love me.. few months back the baby momma phoned while i was with him and he said to me the lady uses their son as an excuse to see him or something she would call and say the baby misses him or say stuff to gt my bf to her place....please help if he did sleep with her i dnt think i will be able to trust him again or if our relationship will eva be the same...advice peopl please
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reader, tumelo +, writes (28 October 2009):
tumelo is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontx for the advice
1 i dont stay with him, he lives 2 hours away from me, he always phones me when he gets home, i will phone him in the middle neva heard,seen anything suspicious..it is the 1st this has eva happened in our relationship. i cant tok to him now i ignore his msgs. i just need him to explain to me what happened cause for some reason his story really doesnt match up......if he does confess i might be able to deal with it and maybe forgive him and move on
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 October 2009):
There is something wrong here. Why did she answer if he was supposed to be alone at night? I cant' say for sure whether he cheated or not, but you need to do some more digging before anything else. He could be telling the truth, but this woman does seem to be very persistant. Look at how your relationship is. Are you living with him? Are there mysterious absenses? I think you also need to seriously talk to him. Try asking why she answered his phone. Why did she have his phone?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 October 2009):
There is something wrong here. Why did she answer if he was supposed to be alone at night? I cant' say for sure whether he cheated or not, but you need to do some more digging before anything else. He could be telling the truth, but this woman does seem to be very persistant. Look at how your relationship is. Are you living with him? Are there mysterious absenses? I think you also need to seriously talk to him. Try asking why she answered his phone. Why did she have his phone?
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