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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Am I totally out of line here? Uncomfortable about a text my girlfriend received.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - well it started bad in the first place because i looked on my gf phone at a message that a male friend of hers sent to her. the message said and it was forwarded to her ....you and i do it in the bedroom.we do it in the livingroom we do it all over ...

Should I leave my wife and is she up to something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - This is hard for me I have been married for over 20 years now my wife has secret e mail is dressing diferantly wants to go out more is spending on clothes and says she needs to find herself, lots of fighting,should i leave...

How do I save a relationship that's going downhill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - hey i need help with my relationship, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 month now. but i feel it is going down hill and i dont no what to do, when we first started going out it was good but he kept joking about this girl he ...

Suspicious letters...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - okay. so i was searching through my boyfriends room the other day and i came across a letter, behind it was more . there were about 7 or 8 of them saying "i love you " and such. His mom claims that there has never been another gurl come to the house ...

Should I be alarmed by this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - ok me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile even though we live in separate countries..recently he hit my cousin up on facebook sayin..i love ya pics keep lookin good love... he didnt kno she was my cousin... so when i confronted him he ...

What can I do to stop getting worked up about stuff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - To cut a long story short I slept in the same bed as this guy one night. Nothing happened and I didn't intend on anything happening either. I didn't sleep that night anyway. I have a lovely boyfriend who Is a great friend as well. I told him what ...

My boyfriend has women at the house while I work. Is he leading a double life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has women over my house (where we live) during the day when I am at work. He doesn't work. He says he should be able to have over the house who ever he wants, that I should not dictate who he can and who he cannot see. The girls have ...

Crossdressing husband worries.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Several years ago my husband/bf said to me he liked to crossdress and at first I was okay with it because I thought it was like some sort of sex game between us until I discovered he started secretly taking some of the clothing to his apartment and ...

Why don't I trust women when it comes to their relationship status?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (?) - I'm a friendly, well-liked individual, I'm 23 years old and do volunteer work. Somehow I have a knack for being able to talk to new people well. Once a woman stopped me in the street when I was in the city centre asking for directions - s...

Should I be worried he might be cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - so here is my question... my boyfriend called me drunk one time.. and his nephew was on the phone because he had me on speaker)and he was talking about this girl named let's call her "b", my boyfriend was like hush boy your about to get me in ...

How can I tell my husband it hurts me that he hides porn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My question is how do I tell my husband that it hurts me when he watches and hides porn? I have told him I would watch it with me and that doesn't work. I have tried dressing up in sexy clothes and that doesn't work either. I have found porn under ...

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him constantly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend always thinks im after other guys and cheating on him constantly. Ive honestly never cheated on him i love him so much. I go to school and i got a little close with one guy, we would hug longer than other people would or talk just to ...