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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

The way he acts around girls I find to be too much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Ok so I've had this boyfriend for 2 years. We broke up on 2 occasions throughout this time, 1x cuz he wanted "a break" but then went out with someone else n lied to me about it. I decided things deserve a second chance so we went back out. We ...

Are my friends ditching me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - How can I stop being jealous of 2 of my friends? Basically I used to be best friends with one girl (A) throughout school we then went onto college where a another girl(S) we went to school with was in our class and I quickly became friends w...

Advice on making a move on my shy boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months now. We work togther at least 2 times a week, and try to see eachother on our days off together. Our days off usually mean hanging out at his apartment with his roomates and me staying the ...

How do I get over his past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I know I've been posting a fair few questions lately, but I really need help with this... I've been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now, I'm 17 and he's just turned 21 and we're in a LDR. So far he's never given me a reason not to trust him...

How do I find get back the old confident me?

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7 October 2009 (M) - I was seeing this girl in work for a few months. She was 8 years younger than me. I'm 31 she's 23. I am divorced, no kids, was in a relationship for 9 years, split up early in 2008, we just drifted apart. It was for the best. Anyway I didn't really ...

She will think that I don't trust her, but how do I question her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - Hello Friends, I have been in a relationship my girlfriend for past 9 Months. Its a long distance relationship and currently i am living in Washington and she is living in Canada. In these past nine months we have learnt a lot about ea...

How can I find out everything I need to know about this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Hallo everyone I hope you can help me out on this one because I'm lost and yet in love. It goes like, I met this man 39 last year, he works in Canada so he visits every 3 or 4 months. So more like a distant relationship. I'm a single mum and h...

Is my guilt ruining our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Hello all, Im a 27 yr old female. I have been feeling very insecure. I have been in a relationship with my bf for 4yrs. I cheated on him he has pretty much forgiven me. For some reason I have been overly clingy. I keep thinking he is cheating! I ...

Should I say something? I'm super afraid of getting hurt.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - So me and this guy have been dating for just a little over a month. Unfortunately, somethings happened about a week after we got together that put some distance between us and we werent really able to see or talk to each other. As a result, we ...

He has the urge to try other girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I need advice... I asked my boyfriend (we've been on bad terms since he left for some reason) if he has the urge to try out other girls (since I'm his first, trying not to count the girl he got drunk/cheated with) He said 'eh kinda, but it's ...

Should I tell the truth about my shady past

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - 5yrs ago I was at a very bad place in my life I was addicted to crack and pills and in an abusive relationship. I lost my job because of drugs and to support my and my bf;s addiction I beganing doing things I am very ashamed of. I slpet with dealers ...

Do I trust him or trust me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend of 5 months lives about 35 minutes away from me and i only see him once every 2 sometimes 3 weeks. we have managed to make it work so far. he says he loves me and i love him too. the only thing is that he's cheated on me about 2 months ...

I feel uncomfortable about my body with my boyfriend. How do I address it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I, an American, am overweight. I'm 5'7", 195lbs, a size 14/16, and it's all in my gut. :( This is partly do the fact that when I was younger, I had surgery and was put on steroids--I was 150 pounds by the time I was 2 (seriously)! My bf (of 10 m...