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36-40,
*ickyn
writes:ive been with my partner for 3 yrs we got a little girl togerther know and i also have one from a previous relationship 2 yrs ago i found out that he took some girl back to his dads house and they stayed in the same bed my partner and the girl say nothing happend deep down i dont belive them now and then he goes of out and he does not pick up his phone to me or anything so i dont know wot he is up to before i got with him people told me not to as he is a male slag but i did i recantly logod on to his email had found out he had sighned up to some kind of porn chat i read his profile and it said he is single got 1 child and that he is outgoing and looking for girls to have fun i asked him about it he tryed to get out of it but it realy got to me know i dont know if he loves me or not he says he does but if he does why has he done all this he tryes to blame me and twist it on to me what can i do i think he has cheated on me more than what i know he wont tell me please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): Suspicion is a very strong emotion and it’s difficult to hide. Suspicious men/women tend to signal their doubts by making accusations, acting insecure and anxious, being overly inquisitive, and so on.
And a cheating spouse’s worst fear is getting caught. So, cheating spouses constantly monitor their partners for signs of suspicion. And if a cheating spouse detects suspicion, he/she will adjust his/her behavior to better hide and conceal the affair.
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reader, 48years  +, writes (29 November 2008):
 Honey, here are some of the signs of cheating:
1. He breastfeeds his cell phone-keeps it close to him or turns it off when with you
2. He picks fights with you-to get away to see someone else and feel justified that you "forced" him to do it
3. He doesn't pick up or call back when you call
You've got a daughter-don't teach her that this person's behavior is acceptable. She sees what you do and how you feel. Be the kind of woman you admire.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): From all you've said he does sound like he is cheating.
He could still love you, some men want to have their cake and eat it.
Work out what is acceptable to you. If you can live with the situation that's okay, if not you need to decide whether to leave him.
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