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I don't feel he is prioritating me over his ex, what can I do to make him understand my needs in this mess?

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Question - (29 November 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *89456 writes:

i don't want to leave him because i'm blinded with my strong love for this person...His ex keeps calling me and she was telling me that they were getting back together.. she told me that the only reason that my boyfriend was getting back with her was because they have a baby together and his mom wants him to take care of the kid. He never told me that they were getting back together..She was telling me that he seems really happy when hes with her but i told her that i want to break off the relationship because i don't want to have any more problems like this. He has cheated on me before but i gave him a second chance and it seems like he has changed. When i told him what his ex told me, he said that i sholudn't listen to her and that i should stop talking to her.

I told him that he should only have one girlfriend and he said that im his only girlfriend. I don't know what to do because i really love this guy. He said that he wants to be with me and that he doesnt want to leave me. The situation is killing me because i feel that im the second priority.how can i deal with this...i can't let go of him. He doesn't want to break off our relationship. I tried to talk to him about this but he said he doesnt want to hear it. He wouldnt listen to me.

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