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female
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30-35,
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writes:Why dont guys hit on me?!! I need advise!!?People always tell me i am one of the nicest and kindest people they know. Girls also constantly tell me on how pretty i am and how they wish they were as pretty as me. I constantly get stares or looks from girls at the mall. But guys never look at me or say i am pretty, its weird. My friends says maybe because i look to cute and innocent i really dont know. By the way supposely straight girls are always hitting on me i guess m too nice i dont know. wahts your advise? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): Could be that guys are just too afraid to ask you.
I remember back in my high school years in a health education class, a story the teacher told us. He said that there was a past student, a very pretty girl, came up to him after class one day, and was very depressed. She was wondering why guys never asked her out. He came to the conclusion that it was because the guys had thought that she was so pretty, that she either already had a boyfriend or would want nothing to do with them.
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female
reader, Teacake +, writes (24 November 2008):
 If guys at your age aren't hitting on you that is actually a good thing. They are more interested at this age in a lot of girls and a lot of sex. They probably see you as a decent girl with morals and won't put out.
So, don't worry. In a few years you will have better suitors who are looking for a relationship and not for playing the field.
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reader, BookWyrmGirl +, writes (24 November 2008):
Are you flirty and show you're interested to boys you find appealing? Guys kind of need to be hit on just as much as girls do. XD
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): To be absolutely honest, I'd need to see a photo of you to be able to pass further comment, and to gauge what the girls are looking at that is so fascinating.
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