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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She says she won't love me anymore if I don't change some of my behaviors!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (M) - Hi, am in a 2years relationship, and just recently, she told me that she doesnt love me like before, unless i change some of my behaviours that she has been complaing about for the past two years.Well what i just do told her was that there is no ...

Should I love him and leave or keep fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Hi! Just need some advice from some unbiased folks...I started dating a guy who was my friend/flatmate first. I fell for him while we lived together and we got close and eventually decided to live separately and start dating. However, things have ...

Is he being manipulative?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 7 months. for the past 3 weeks says hes too busy for me and has been ignoring my calls, im moving states soon and hes been distant. He keeps telling me he wants to be friends but changes his ...

Liking pictures of half-naked girls on Facebook, not changing his relationship status-Should I just give up on my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend nearly 5 months. We see each other 1-2 times a week on average. The past 3 weeks, we have only seen one another twice, as he has cancelled on me numerous times. I asked him about it, and he just said he had a lo...

B/f cannot drive, doesn't own a car, has little money, no job, never spends on me and my mum dislikes him! I don't know what to do!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for six months. He is very into me and so am I. However, he cannot drive, doesn't own a car, has little money and at the moment, has no job either. I, on the other hand, can drive, have a car and work almost full time ...

Should I keep giving him a benefit of the doubt? Am I being too demanding and unrealistic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Just in need of some advice.. I'm not sure if I'll listen, but I would love to hear some thoughts. It will be 5 years in February that I've been with my boyfriend, though the last year has been turmoil. About a year ago things sort of came to ...

I lied for 7 years about what I looked like with a LDR and now that he knows the truth he is different to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (?) - Dear Cupid, I was 13 years old in the year of 2005, possibly to young to understand the word love. I met two young boys,my age, one day chatting on the internet. One of which took my number and started texting each other almost all the time...

Am I completely in the wrong and deserve this? Or is he overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I met a guy on a dating website 2 months ago, we met after a week and kept seeing each other every weekend. At first it was a but bumpy and he wouldn't text for days, he works away in the week n so we would only see each other on weekends. He calls ...

My boyfriend's mother has seen all our dirty texts and now I cant face her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Hey this is really embarassing but i have no one to turn upto for help.! Last night, me and my boyfriend were texting each other, rather talking dirty, when suddenly his mom and dadcaught him texting. His mother already hates me unlike ...

I told him about my past, he went silent and now wont speak to me until he has 'forgiven me'!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I need some help. When I was 12, i was quite badly raped and beaten to within an inch of my life (I was in ICU for the following 2/3 months afterwards.) I did not open up to anyway and I still remain that way (like, i will jump if anyone touches me, ...

Christmas stress....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Hello! I'm worrying about Christmas.... I have been with my boyfriend for two years and have spend both Christmases away from each other, so we said last year we would spend xmas together in December 2011. We thought of some ways to be together l...

I don't feel loved anymore

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

17 October 2011 (?) - Are these signs he doesn't love me... maybe hates me, actually... or is abusive perhaps? He lets his friends make sexually explicit jokes about me in front of other people, not defending me. When I say it hurts my feelings he says that's beca...

Why did he say he wanted to keep in touch whilst travelling and then not call me? Am I not a good enough girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I have been separated with my boyfriend for almost 5 months because he has to go back to his country to continue his study. He studied here for 10 months, and we used to be sharemates then we fell in love each other, aNd we went through our ...

My mother doesn't think my boyfriend is good enough for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I'm sorry guys, this will be a long story but I really need your help :( I've been with my bf for almost 2 years. At first our relationship is just soo wonderful. We love each other so much and both of our parents encourage our relation...

I'm worried by these texts I've seen from another guy on my girlfriend's phone....what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (M) - my girlfriend sends and recieves strange txts from a guy at work; sent:he migth get suspisious secret meeting in the street an all x, (thro wet sponge at manager for charity) (pj day at work for charity) sent:you could get ya legs waxed in ya pj...

I was his rebound girl....how do I get over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I was his rebound girl. I cannot believe it. I definitely knew what I got myself into, but the god-damned feelings kicked in. I fell for him, quite a bit. I wanted more, and I thought I could do it. The honest words he said, does hurt....

Why am I feeling so broody all the time? Has anyone else been through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I'm just wondering why I'm feeling this way and if anyone else has been through this? I'm in my late 20s and have been living with my boyfriend for the past few months. We've been together for six years and have what I believe is a solid relation...

I think my boyfriend is gay...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I just want other opinions...my boyfriend served in the armed forces, he's quite the hard ass at times, and he's the stereotypical alpha male. A friend of his is visiting him this week. This friend is also in the service and is coming from Iraq...

My boyfriend's family don't know my real address but know I have lied, I'm worried they will turn up at my house and insult me and my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, i am 20 years old girl in a relationship with a guy from last 2.5 years. Due to some personal problems, i didnt tell him my current address but later on, i confronted. Now, the problem is, he knows my current address but his family s...

How much time should I give him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4584 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I had posted a question a few days ago concerning a problem I am having with my boyfriend...since hunting season started in our area he has become distant, distracted, and pretty mean towards me. He's an avid hunter and doesn't want to be bothered ...

My supervisor is trying to force me out of my job! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I know this isn't a problem regarding relationships or anything like that but I really need advice. I recently started my first job about 6 weeks ago, I've just turned 18 a few weeks ago. Everything was fine until I got friendly with a girl at w...

We decided to be FWB, but now it sounds like he wants something more but he cant give me a straight answer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Hi! Ok, this situation is a bit more complicated than I'd like it to be, but it is what it is. I met a guy 3 1/2 years ago and things didn't work out. Now, we've started talking again and we decided to do a friends with benefits type of thing. ...

We want a baby, but we have no support on my side of the family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Some background information: I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been together for almost 4 years and we love each other very much. I'm the only child and my parents, grandparents, and my aunt are TOO overprotective and still look at me as a child. ...

My boyfriend has fallen out of love with me because of all the arguments!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been getting into arguments every single day. and yesterday he had told me that he fell less in love with me because of all the arguments , im still deeply in love , what can or should i do? brake up and let everything go or ...

I think my boyfriend almost cheated on me but he won't give me any details

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - bare with me, im a little p'd off right now.. ok, so im currently in a long distance relationship. its only for about 6 months or so until he comes back.. im pretty sure he cheated on me, but only came half way clean, because i went off on him,...

How can I let my best friend go just because he doesn't love me as a girlfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I feel so frustrated I just need to rant. I have known a guy for five years and we have always been friends. We get on really well and stay in weekly (sometimes daily) contact. We socialise every few weeks because we live some distance apart a...