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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

There are no boundaries for his ex and I'm always left waiting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid; I dated a man for a little over a year. Early in the relationship, he had dumped me for a old girlfriend and when that didn't work out, came back to me. He also has a teenage son who he has 50% of the time. They have things they do ...

I'm contemplating leaving her and moving out to live on the streets!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

20 October 2011 (M) - I absolutely love my fiancee and I want only good things for her. Our dilemma is that we live in an RHCF (we both have depression) and needed services and treatment. We no longer need to be here and I have been working as a freelance writer. She is ...

Is my boyfriend being cheap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - Hello, The other day me and my boyfriend were out and he wanted something to eat, I told him I didn't have alot of money on me and that I would eat when I got home. He looked at me and was like you can't be that broke and I was like yes I am...

After several chances, should I give him one more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 months ago but we arranged to live in the same house several months back so we now live together with 3 of my other friends and will do for the rest of the year whilst attending uni. To cut a very long story ...

Scared and confused, should I marry him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - hi cupids, ive been with my guy for 3yrs.we have a boy of 2yrs.he's been divorced from a previous marriage.he wanted to marry me last june which i refused.because of the way he treats me.i am very confused.i still stay in his house.i cry almo...

34 year old Saudi woman dating a 50 year old American man for 9 years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - iam 34 years old woman dating 50 years old american man for 9 years,i met him when i was 26 and he was 42 and we are completly commeted to eachother. we are trying to be married 5 years back but my family refuse him for 2 reasons,one, he in not saud...

Pregnant and on bed rest which is why I'm living with my parents, but should I move out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - i never thought i'd be in a position asking people for help but i have no real friends that at this moment i would care to really hear what they have to say . you see I'm married and just recently i found out that i'm now expecting my 1st baby in ...

I've painted myself into a corner and have no idea what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - I think I may be depressed, and I'm not sure how to cope with it. The past year and a half has been a steady decline for me. It all started when I was academically dismissed from my university. I also found out I was pregnant the same day. I ended ...

I have my suspicions...is this woman he claims to be his 'sister' really his wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - I have a guy for almost one year who lives with a woman in a single room whom he claims that the lady is his sister. There is a long distance between where he stays. He has been to my place twice and I've been to his place twice. My first time i ...

What can I do to open up to him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - Please help ! I have been seeing a great guy for about six months .its not too serious but we get on and see each other about once a week . We go out and he's affectionate holds my hand etc. At the beginning I felt so much for him but as we have ...

B/f isn't an Australian citizen, has run out of money, no studies, no job, is addicted to poker...and he wants to marry me!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months but I've got a few problem... 1.His not an australian citizen. 2.He came here to study and almost finished his diploma until he ran out of money because he spent it on going out everyweekend. 3.no st...

I just had a baby - I wonder why my relationship is falling apart ever since having it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - I just had a baby boy two weeks ago and my bf is not pulling his weight enough around the house to which he is the father of this one. I already have an 18 month old (not his - her father didn't want to know her nor has he ever tried to see her once ...

Are we FWB or something more? So confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - Hi everyone here is my problem its a bit complicated. I met this man in march this year, we started having sex. I went out one night, he got jealous he thought I'd met someone else which I hadn't I told him I only wanted to be with him cos I thought ...

How do I help her gain confidence again? She was amazing before! She is now scared and nervous about sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - Really need some advice. I'm gay and ive been dating this amazing girl for about 3 months and its been perfect. Recently however she has been lacking considerable confidence when we have sex, and now its got to the point where she just won't do...

Could the average guy handle this? Eight months on and my Gf is trying to treat me like her servant

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (M) - 8 months back , I dumped my girlfriend with whom I had spent 3 years . I had no reason to dump her except I was feeling bored in that relationship . She tried for next one month to bring me back into her life but I didn’t move an inch and then she ...

Do men like to be the Hunters or the Hunted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - I'm in love..I can't stop thinking about him. I know he loves me but we havn't had a discussion about starting a relationship. I told him I might go away to Vet school..im a senior in college and he just graduated. He has an accounting job travels a ...

My boyfriend cant stop looking at porn and explicit pictures, and lies to me about it! How should I handle this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - Okay, so in the recent past I've had some troubles with my bf of nearly 2 1/2 yrs looking at porn and having explicit pictures of girls on his phone. For ages I knew and didn't say anything. Until one day I asked does he watch porn and he said no. I ...

When can I openly Cross dress? I am not gay. I just want to Cross dress. In what countries is cross dressing most accepted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (M) - Women can wear men's clothes then why can't men wear women's clothes? like saree and salwars and all? why is there not support for men to wear women's clothes? I am a 15 year old , almost 16 year old male and i love cross dressing since i wa...

Any advice on how to fix our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (M) - Hello people I need some serious advice about my relationship with my girlfriend now we've been together for 2 years and 3 months and what really bothers me is her friends her aunt and her cousin they all pretty much want me out of her life and are ...

He said if I ever fell pregnant he would leave me if I didn't get an abortion.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year, we plan to have a future together, have even spoken about marriage and kids, but kids would be at least 10 years away. (I know sometimes relatioships don't work out, but we do have a good ...

He's 21, but still has tantrums. Do I tell him? Does he need counselling? or what? It affects me, but he never thinks about that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years (best friend of 5 years) has a BIG problem that I don't know if I should bother dealing with any longer, so I need your advice. We're both 21. I love him to death. But he just cannot handle problems he comes across, no...

Will she ever give me what I want? And is what I want right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

20 October 2011 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for 5 months now and our relationship is in a really bad place. i am recently graduated from college and she is in her final year. we met over the summer and fell in love and now that she is back in school two hours ...

Why would he go back on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had some issues over what he used to do on facebook.he deleted his page 10 months ago and now,i have discovered he is back on there.why would he go back on there when he knows how much trouble it caused and that it upset me ?.i ...