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writes:Dear cupid, i am 20 years old girl in a relationship with a guy from last 2.5 years. Due to some personal problems, i didnt tell him my current address but later on, i confronted. Now, the problem is, he knows my current address but his family still thinks me as somebody who is rich spoiled girl. Moreover, they dont know my current address. Recently, his family came to know about our relationship which wasn't a secret exactly. Now they wont let me meet or talk to him over phone. His mother specially hates me.The problem is, his mother called me at her home and we cleared everything. But they wanted me to give them my address and my father or brother's phone numbers, so that they can contact my family. On the other hand, i dont want his family to visit my home due to some personal problems. Moreover i know they will come to my house and insult me and my family. Therefore, out of fear, i didnt give them my correct address and phone numbers. Now his family has come to know about my lie which i had to say, as i lost my mom at a tender age and all i have is my father and two brothers, who really dont understand me.Yesterday, his mother caught us talking over phone when we were exchanging some texts about porn. Since then she is calling me continuously as she wants me to get away from her son. I am scared if they come to know about my correct address, they wont spare me and ruin my life at my home. My father is a heart patient, he may not able to take it. What should i do now?How can i contact my boyfriend now? I am feeling helpless. Please help me. :( Thanx for your time.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 October 2011):
 You need to get this sorted. Go and visit your boyfriends home talk to his mother face to face and explain to her why you gave her the wrong details. Tell her that your father is not very well and he does not need to worry or stress about you and that you where scared for his health. Tell her how you feel about her son and ask her straight out what her problem is with you and why she does not like you. Ask her to give you a chance to get to know you.
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