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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

With an unfaithful guy...What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - I need advice for my friend, She is madly in love with this guy and he makes her happy but then when she hangs out with him and his female friends he acts like she doesn't mean a thing to him all because her ex bf lives with her and they have been ...

He has told me to pack up and get out with no explanation. We've been together for 4 years and have a 2 year old child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - hi there,pls i need some advice.i'm 25yrs and my man is 47yrs old.weve been in this relationship for almost 4yrs. we even have a boy of 2yrs.we were planning to get engaged this november. But two days ago.we had a slight misunderstanding and then he ...

No sex in months in an otherwise turbulent relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 18 months. Quick background...We met online on a dating site and after 3 weeks we moved in together. Sex life was great. Then it started slowly down. At that time I thought 2 months without sex was a ...

LDR b/f and I agreed on 2 week vacation but now because of mom's pressure he's reduced it to 10 days

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - So I'm crying so much right now, and here's my problem. I've been in an LDR for about four years now. We cam and talk daily, his family knows me and he knows mine. We planned for me to come to his country for the holidays/new years, whic...

He's completely avoiding me because he thinks he is the character in my book!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

5 October 2011 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts, I am an engineering student and also a writer, living in Germany and I am bisexual. I had a very close straight friend who knows that I am bisexual and because of my false action, he is now avoiding from me. Last week I se...

Why has she stopped talking to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

5 October 2011 (M) - Why has she stopped talking to me? She used to be clingy and text me all the time. Now she only texts if I do with at most two messages. I'd always get morning messages when I woke up and now she stopped. She's distant. As if she doesn't care to ...

I think I might be falling out of love with my boyfriend, but I don't want to hurt him. What do I do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - I'm in a dilemma and really need some help. Although I have a boyfriend, I've started to fall for a different guy, which sounds really shallow I know, but please read my explanation of the situation. I truly don't know what to do. :( I'm 19, a...

Girlfriend gives me the silent treatment and I don't know how to deal with it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

5 October 2011 (M) - Hye, I'm 25 and is currently in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year who's a year younger..we're both still studying but at different colleges...the thing is i'm a very sensitive guy (in a bad way), even if she doesn't reply my texts or ...

Help! Advice? Am I driving my daughter away? Am I being too controlling?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

5 October 2011 (?) - My daughter will be 21 on her next birthday. She is a high achiever but also could be a handful at times. From the ages from 16 to 18 she was out a lot, yes she was doing her A levels, part time job and cared for her horse. She also did go out with...

My fiance is going to be a topless waiter. I don't like it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - My partners is going to do a new job as a topless waiter I was fine with this untill I saw the pouch! He wears n the way tips r to b put in the pouch n the bell is rang at the bak. Were getting married in 7 wks n I think this is unacceptable am I ...

Why do I keep making mistakes due to inattention to detail? How can I do things differently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - I keep messing up in my relationship with my boyfriend. It's over little things like not remembering things that he said he told me and forgetting too tell him thing too. It has put a serious dent in our relationship. Like tonight we got in to a fi...

Should I give my husband another chance and risk losing the life I really want, or should I finally file for divorce?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - This is sort of complicated...but not at the same time. Just a decision I have to make and would like some input. My husband and I separated almost two years ago. We had a very bad emotionally abusive relationship. He never worked, expected me to do ...

Have I moved in too soon? Blended family problems. My son is suffering. Should I try living alone with my son instead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - I left my husband whom I was in a relationship with for 10 years last December. We were very close, but I never really loved him. I am now living with my new partner who is going through a horrible divorce. We have been together for 8 mont...

He's on the net all the time. Yet says I give him no attention? I just feel like I'm walking on a land mine. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 5 years. A typical week night at home goes something like this; I come home from work, he's surfing the web. I exercise, cook dinner for us while he's still on the web. We eat dinner and watch TV. Usually he ...

He lied, I'm hurt, and he doesn't care. How do I handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have recently had our 4 year anniverary, and i've known for 3 years that he watches porn, and it bugs me a lot. i have told him, and he just says its not a big deal and gets mad if i bring it up again. that is not the worst part...

Am I being a doormat for her ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - Here is my agony. I was in a long-term relationship with my partner for six years, when I met a girl online that I developed a great friendship with, after about 15 months of corresponding daily we started developing feelings for one another. These ...

I kissed another guy and I have a boyfriend I love alot, I've made a mistake, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - so me and my boyfriend eric have been going out for about a month and he's kinda been a bad boyfriend and he doesn't hold my hand and walk me to my classes he's not used to doing any of that stuff, and i always cry over him. ppl always tell me he's ...