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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

His post-steroid mood changes are getting to be ridiculous!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend does steroids and he has constant mood changes, they never end. (i didnt know until we had been dating for about 5 months) He just ended a cycle and its slowly getting worse. Can anyone give me advice? He has constant mood changes and ...

How can I stop myself from thinking he's cheating on me? He's not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4586 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - No matter how hard I try and how much I've been through with my boyfriend with him trying to reassure me and show that he loves me, I still find it hard to accept. After we went through a ton of issues because of my distrust in him (with no gro...

My boyfriend is bringing back my feelings of inferiority toward other women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - I can tell that my boyfriend likes pretty girls. Even though when he's with me, I caught him having a string of messages with a girl whom he told me often that she's good-looking. And he admits that she's got very good complexion and looks amazing. ...

My boyfriend has a need to always comment on attractive women he sees!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - I have an otherwise great relationship with my boyfriend of two years. We have a lot of fun and have lots of things in common. My family and friends think he is a great guy too. However there is one thing that really bugs me. Whenever we are ...

Do I tell new boyfriends about my past as an abuser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Should I tell my future boyfriends about my abusive past? This might be a bit long, but I want to be completely honest here. To give some more information, about 4-5 years ago I was in a relationship where I abused the man I was with, both physi...

Is it better to continue with this and see where it goes, or is this something I should stay away from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - I have found an amazing gal, she has been out of a relationship for one year. Her relationship was controling and abusive. We have only know each other for a couple of weeks, and i know it is short, but she tells me she does not want anything ...

Is 9 months too little time to start a family in our circumstances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - Hi All, I dont really have a "problem" so to speak but more a situation that I need advice on, I hope some of you can help! :) I have been with a lovely girl now for 9 months, and we had an amazing 5 or 6 month start to our relationship tha...

I didnt cheat on him but he wont listen! I feel like I've blown it for good, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Hi all, I have been reading through post but one seem to match my sitation so I'll try and explain So, I've known this (guy now my ex) for about 4 years but we only really started dating in April. Everything was strange because he'd take ag...

He doesn't want a relationship but said he doesn't want me talking to other men, what is that all about?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Im so confuse the guy that im be have sex with that said he didnt want a realationship just told me that i cant talk 2 any other men what all that about i was talk to him and his workmate that is my bestfriend ...

I'm in love with my best friend and it's complicated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - A couple months ago, I finally told my female best friend that I've had feelings for her for 3 years. She is also lesbian, but she admitted that likes someone she'll never get (another married woman who's 10 years older than we are) and she can't ...

I've confronted her but she continues to behave the same way, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - naturally i am not the most trusting person however recently my gf has started doing some things which seem to me to just be plain suspicious. she is never without her phone and will never allow me to see it and a few times i have caught her on the ...

Am I being too jealous and paranoid?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - Hi, my problem is this my girlfriend of 3 years is making me very uncomfortable with her behaviour. She is texting an ex school friend of hers and has admitted this guy likes her and that if she wasnt with me she would probably go for him. The ...

Will a guy go back to his old ways?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I had broke up for a while. He lied and hid a lot from me in the past. After he realized what he had lost he came back to me promised no more of that and because I love him I decided to get back with him. A part of me believes him ...

Whats his problem???calling me a slut!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Whats his problem???calling me a slut!? I was involved with this guy who is 7 years my seniori am 24 and hes 31.we work in the same place-theater.. and we were really good friends for the last 5 years.he would always sit beside me be it any interact...

Is my body giving me signs of my relationship problems that I should take into account?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Hey Agony Aunts.. I don't know if i would categorize this as a relationship question but let me ask anyway. I have been stressed out of late and i have noticed a few subtle changes in me that i am worried about. My boyfriend of five years has a...

B/f takes me for granted. Do I just have to accept it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - I constantly feel like my boyfriend doesn't appreciate me and takes me for granted. I know he loves me but he has such a poor way of showing it or rarel ever showsgonna it and then I start to question his love. Is there anyway to change that? Or is ...

Why can't I move on from the time we each cheated on the other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4589 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months i am also 26 weeks pregnant with our first child we had a fall out one night and we both ended up sleeping with someone i cant forget the memory of him sleeping with this girl and i never want him...

Feeling like I'm going in circles...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend want's me to spend the nite all the time now that's great but I can't and everytime I tell him why he thinks i'm lying. It's always the same fight why don't you spend the nite more or hang out. I work all kinds of strange hours and I'm ...

Misunderstandings between Colleagues? How do they start? how is this example normal behavior between my two friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Two of My Strange Friends Chapter 1 There is this 26 yr old female, and there is older married guy (abt. 43), and his wife who were good friends for many yrs. To her, they were like second parents. They use to talk a lot with her and help ea...

About Facebook and relationships

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - While generally facebook is considered a fun way to keep in touch with friends and share photos, it can be a huge source of turmoil in a relationship. If I had a dime for every time I read "I'm worried because I saw something on her/his facebook..." ...

My B/f was aroused, but couldn't climax. Could it have been due to stress, or am I just not good enough for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Hia Today I found myself in a situation I've never been in before, and I was just wondering if anyone here could advise me on it :) I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year, and we've been sexually active for a while now. Today when thing...

How I can keep my emotions stable? I don't want to be a nagging girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year, I'm 18 and he is 17, and we are one of those couples that everyone says 'wow those two are made for each other', which we are, I'm not being young or naive, we are two really good people for each ...