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Archived questions from: 10 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He was texting with his ex and now I don't know what to think!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - So i went out with my boyfriend to his works party they were throwing and i noticed that he was texting the whole time. Then on the way home (i drove cuz he was pretty drunk) i was able to see that he was texting this girl. After we were done ...

No family support -- what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, sorry if this is kinda of lengthy, but I'm from a very small town in South Carolina and am trying to figure out the best way to move to El Monte, California. I'm 16 and before everyone thinks I'm young and crazy, I have graduated high ...

Should we stick with this turbulent relationship in the hope that it might work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. We have had quite a rough relationship. He has cheated on me multiple times and I have done the same. We have been engaged to each other about 15 times but we continue to cancel our engagement each ...

Family home is like a war zone!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - First of all thanks for taking the time to read this, i could use some adivce. I am a 14 year old teenager and i live in a house with my mum and my grandma, me and my mum recently lost are home 2 years ago due to problems...

Did he "do it" with his ex... or didn't he???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - Basically I have been with my bf for 2 yrs and 7 months, we have been through everything together. But I am too nosey for my own good, and I found on FB that he was messaging his ex talking dirty and he suggested meeting up for sex :O its killi...

Married. Almost a father. But I love him! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - I have a problem and I can't tell anyone I know. I'm 36, I've been single for most of my life and have always held a torch for a man I met at University. We recently ran into eachother on the work circuit and all these feelings I've had bottle u...

Am I too old to find love again? Should I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - I've divorced my husband. He is a selfish person and his stinginess has bothered me for years. He never wanted to spend money even if needed. Finally I've decided to end it after 20 years together. While I was going through my divorce I've met ...

Why does he care if I have found his replacement?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - I was dating a guy for almost a year when he out of no where decided he wanted to date someone new. I was very hurt, angry, and confused. We talked and of course he said he still wanted to be friends. I told him he needed to give me some time. I ...

I'm married but struggling with the sexual tension between me and a colleague....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - A few months ago I started working at a school as a Teaching Assistant and I have found myself becoming really attracted to one of the Teachers I work with. The problem is Im married with a child, only recently married. When I first started wo...

I want her to give us another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (M) - I and my ex were going out for about three years in half…at the beginning when we first started going out, I wasn’t giving our relationship my all because of what happened with my prior relationship. My ex put it all in the line for me. She would ...

Ignoring him isn't making him go away, so how do I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - One of my friends who I didn’t really like asked me out three days ago. Said he loves me and would like if we were in a relation. He asked me if I could start developing feelings for him. I didn’t want to be rude and I thought that maybe something ...

I'm finding it difficult and a slow process to make new friends! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - So i've just started collage,and i thought that it would be amazing because i don't get on well with everyone,and i thought i'd meet a lot of new friends.I used to get along with everyone,but people have let me down a lot and i cant seem to forgive ...

Flatmate problems....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

10 October 2011 (M) - I've just moved into a shared student flat in a convenient location near the uni I've just started a course at. It's an ideal location. I moved in a bit later than two of the other people in the flat because I live within an hour and waited until...

He has lied and I don't know if I should stay with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has a son and daughter (9 and 11 years old) from a previous relationship. We’ve been together for 18 months and live about an hour apart. I noticed that the kids had not been around for a while. I asked him why, he made excuses ...

My manager changed his attitude towards me when he found out I had a boyfriend, but we broke up and his attitude still hasn't changed! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - hello. I hope that i can get deep analysis of my situation help me find an answer of what shall i do? i had a boy friend for 5 years and during my friendship to him i started working in a company. At company, i met a deputy manager and we u...

Are You Making Time For Your Partner?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

10 October 2011 (M) - Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...

I'm tired of people having a go at me over my relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - Dear agony aunts I really need some advice as my prob is upsetting me so much and I don't know how to handle it. I am with a really amazing guy. He loves me and is loyal, kind and honest. I feel so lucky to have him. However, he has chi...

She's suddenly different and weird.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (M) - Okay first of all, thanks for taking your time to answer this :) There's this girl I recently met, and it's been 3 months since I first met her and we both like each other very much. We came to the verge of going out once and I even asked her o...

Not happy with our open relationship anymore, but then again I would rather him not cheat on me if we went exclusive! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 f in a 9 month open relationship. To start with I was completely fine with this- wasn't anything serious just getting to know eachother more etc. But 9 months later I am serious about being with this guy and it hurts to see him texting ...

Why am I feeling these things? What shall I do about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months yesterday. Everyone congratulated us when they heard the news but I am not very excited over it. I'm not sure why because we get on very well, and I have been wanting to go further with him almost since ...

Holiday romance or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - hi, I would very much appreciate your thoughts and advice on my current situation. I am a single mum of two. Recently I went on holiday with some girfriends and met a lovely man. He is a DJ and ten years younger than me, I am 33. We had a rom...

I feel like he is avoiding me...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - i have been in a relationship for 5 years. it was a complicated one but we loved each other despite all odds. Since begining of this year, we have been fighting over varoius things. Anyway as a person, he is very egostic. Most of the time, he doesnt ...

We broke up for college but while we were apart she had sex with another guy. Now we are back together I cant deal with this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

10 October 2011 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for 16 months. We were best friends before we started dating and she was almost my first everything, except for kiss pretty much. I loved her so much but we decided that we should break up for college, and go back to ...

Should I end this relationship or keep being patient?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a year now. I am 23 and he is 36. I know that his past relationship was serious and his girlfriend left him because her father wanted her to marry someone with money. I have been extremely patient with him. It ...

I need help, I don't understand what he wants

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend are heading down that breakup path, I have my last homecoming next weekend and we have been dying to go together all year. We are best friends, but I am moving 4 hours away in a week and we've been together about 8 months. He's been ...

How do I fix my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - To be very blunt, my whole family is extremely pissed off at each other. Saturday, my family had a memorial dinner of sorts for my mother's brother who passed away a few weeks ago. My two cousins have been having some issue in the recent years...

A month after saying he needed space, he shows up with a birthday present. What's up with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - My man asked for space. We have been very much inlove for 8 yrs. I took it bad at first. But now back off.2 weeks after I stayed away with nc he text me and told me happy bithday. I sent him text back with a thank you. 4 weeks later he shows up at ...

My best friend is hanging out with the girl of my dreams!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (M) - Hello everyone , i feel like my heart is about to break, you see i have this friend who is one of my best friends and he's hangin out with the girl i love when i'm not around like...all the time. and the worse thing is that i can't say anything so I ...

My husband (who cheats) wants to go off his anti-depressants, and it is way too soon!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - I've got serious issues, and no one to talk to. I have a great family, wonderful friends, but I'm so afraid of judgment. And now the plot has thickened. I'm 25, he's 29. My husband and I have been together 6 years, married 2. He is a former...

I shouldn't have to constantly second guess our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4590 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - We've been together 1 year. He's 24 and I'm a little older. Here's a recent example of our relationship over the last couple months: Went to a haunted house and he held my hand through it but not while we walked around the park it was in. He ...

What is going on with him? I wish he would change and fall in love with me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - dear cupid, I have been so confused about a guy who I have met seven years. I cannot call it a relationship but we have been together on and off for the past seven years and for short periods of time maximum a month. The reason why I keep letti...

Distant boyfriend and falling for my male friend....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4589 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - I've been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for over 2 years, but I've been really attracted to my guy friend for a while now. My guy friend (I'll call him Jim) writes music and asked me to sing for him last year. So about once a w...