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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Our long distance relationship is totally one sided

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been together for about 9 months now, but have dated on and off for the past year and a half. We are both 18 years old, and we met in high school. For the past 8 or so months, everything was great. We would see each other ...

I asked the guy I'm seeing what we were and he said he didn't know!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I,m dating a guy but he doesn't want a relationship. But I don't understand it. He meets up with me when he can, we kiss, cuddle, trust each other, go on dates and we get on really well! I don't understand it to some people we're already in a ...

I feel like I need her to be happy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - I met this girl when I was 16 (young, I know) and well we were friends for a year, then after realizing our feelings as more than friends we dated for 2 years. She left me in a complicated process for another guy whom she had liked before she met ...

My estranged mother's funeral....the worst situation I will ever allow myself to be in...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I had not spoken to my parents or their families for some years. To cut a long story short - I spoke out about being abused as a child by my father and they all took my father's side - my ex husband and his family included??? I was cut out from ...

Is it destructive behavior to get with someone?

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11 October 2011 (F) - So im at university, in my second year and while im not massively into partying and drinking, on the occasion when i do go out i like to have a good time. I have 'got' with 4 gyus since being at uni meaning i have kissed them at the club or roun...

I'm pushing away the one person who might really care about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Okay here's my problem and it's with the same girl Diedra, now we've started talking and stuff and she constantly tells me that I'm special to her and that she loves me and that she can talk to me about everything, now idk why but I say things that ...

How to seek revenge on a player?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I was dating a player, and he keeps coming back for sex coz we have chemistry..I have been ignoring him..what is the best revenge? Is it better to confront him, and end it.. or be friendly and sweet like he doesnt mean anything to me, and gently p...

I feel so alone and don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - sorry for this being so long, but please read and hopefully give some advice. ill start with my personality, im not very confident very shy and get very anxious. My school life was ok i wish i was back cos id do so much different but since leavin...

He said he's imagined what sex would be like with other women

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11 October 2011 (F) - My fiance has just let it known that he has imagined what sex would be like with other people based on their bodies and personalities...he does say that I always 'win' though. This coupled with the fact that he doesn't have much expeirence outside ...

Surviving a controlling relationship and coming out on the other side stronger

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - Hi and thanks, To begin we met about 3 years ago. He was very nice texted a lot I mean A LOT which I thought was a bit weird maybe 200-300 per day. He told me his life story break ups, everything u can imagine. Finally after 3 weeks I met him....

How can I learn to accept he wants someone else but still loves me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - My partner has decided to start looking for other female company on chat sites. We got into a situation of our doing but I found I could not cope with the situation. He cannot understand that I have feelings that get hurt. It is destroying our ...

Do I listen to my friends? Give in to my doubts? Alarm bells, not wedding bells are ringing in my ears?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - i'm with a guy who wants to marry me. Yet alarm bells are ringing? He has his own business in istanbul and two other businesses in another city. But my friends say he is using me for passport and visa. Has anyone any advice for me? ...

Is it normal to feel resentful when someone makes you feel responsible for their personal happiness?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I am with a wonderful man whom I love very much. We are in a long-distance relationship but he is endlessly sweet, thoughtful, and loving to me. We talk every day on Skype. In most ways I feel I could not ask for a better man. But. He has been hurt ...

My girlfriend is just too emotional and needy and I cant handle it anymore, but I don't want to leave her in ths state either.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Patience with my girlfriend is wearing thin. All she ever does nowadays is complain about everything, she rarely asks me how I am, and if I have a problem she usually just tells me it's nothing or she just doesn't listen at all as if my issues don...

We are in love, but is she back with her boy toy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship with a woman who is 42. I am 43. We have only seen each other 3times in the last 7 months and had sex on two of those occasions. I love her and she says she loves me completely. However a few weeks ago her ...

We messed around and ended up having oral sex, now he isnt answering any of my calls or texts! I've never felt so cheap in my entire life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I had known my friend and her brother for almost 7 years, and although I wasn't as close to him when we were younger (due to the 3 yr difference) I used to have a big crush on him. After years of not talking, we messaged each other back and forth on ...

Why do I feel hurt that he thinks it's normal to go to a strip club/pole dancing at a stag party?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - The subject of my fiancee going to a stag weekend where there they go to a strip club/pole dancing came up (we're together a year). He said he wouldn't think of going twice and what was the big deal. I was shocked at his reaction. He was then ...

Why is he talking to women online and getting nude pictures?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 4 yrs now and have two young children together, one just two months. I recently found him on a website and his profile shows single looking to meet. i also found pics of another girl, some nude, on his phone. ...

He hurt me by taking another girl out, but now he is being sweet again...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I am 18.I have a big confusion that is bothering me, My ex and I know each other for 4 years.We've loved each other in spite of n number of break ups we have had [I think he loves me] Um, two weeks back we were trying to sort things in between us ...

Is it unreasonable that I'd like sex with her every so often? She's stopped all sex now she is a Christian

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, I am in a relationship with this amazing girl and have been for over a 18 months, when we first dated we were having sex twice a week. This carried on until about 12 months later when she asked if we can stop having sex as she is a ...

My sister-in-law drives me nuts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been together since college. During that time I have gotten to know her sister well. In fact, she even lived with us on two occasions. One, when she divorced her husband and moved in with her toddler son for a few months and t...

I hooked up with an older guy who turns out to be my cousin! Do I come clean about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - please help me what do i do!!.last night i went to a party and drank more then i should (im under age)..i hooked up with this guy that is about 8years older then me and ive known him all my life. Today i woke up with my sister calling and saying ...

Its only been a month but we are in love, and now I find out he is never willing to leave his small town....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a month now, and we've already fallen in love. Problem is, he lives four hours away from me in a small town. With his parents, and just recently finally found a job. Me on the other had, I have had a job of four years, ...

I went on a training course. Unbeknown to me he went on a trip with his ex. How do I cope with all the turmoil in me over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I feel as if I have somehow lost myself. I am an almost thirty year old woman, and have lived a fairly adventerous life. I have traveled, studied, and most of the things people talk of doing. I have never had a serious relationship unt...

How do I cope with the downsides of a FWB relationship? tips please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - For those of you in a long distance relationship, how do you cope with saying goodbye (til next time)? I normally get a few days with my man every couple weeks but I only got one day this time around and at the risk of sounding like a big, fat ...

Is his choice just a convenient way for him to continueliving his single life and enjoy benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - About 7 months ago I got out of a long term relationship. Almost as soon as that relationship ended I began seeing a co-worker and friend of my ex-boyfriends (they are not great friends but they do work together and they have mutual friends and some...

Is his Ex trying to talk her way back into his life? If I confront him, he'll know I snooped.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - Please help :/ A little back story: I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and we have known each other and been friends for 12 years. He broke up with his gf of 1 year about 2 months before we progressed into a relationship and made things o...

Over-reaction? "what girl did he get this from?" Suddenly he's lifted his game in the bedroom. Should I be worried that he may be cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or I should be worried. When it comes to sex with my long-distance boyfriend, he's always been really simple/traditional/I'm not sure what to call it. Foreplay isn't much of a factor, barely any kissing, and we alwa...

Yes, drunk, I kissed a boy. Shall I tell my BF? But worse my BF did the same a year ago with a girl I know. Do I confront him with this new info on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - This is long. but please bare with me. Here it comes, the age-old question, manifested into one very weird situation: What is worse. emotional betrayal or physical betrayal? Here's the story. I am at university right now, i'v just finished ...

In love with my ex who I can't have, but I slept with someone else. Head is messed up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - In love with my ex, but I slept with someone else. Here's the story. Long story short, my partner dumped me over 3 months ago now, but we carried on having sex until about a month ago, and now the ex seems to have lost interest in sex with me as t...

Dated him, dumped him, cheated with him, dated him again, I found out he was cheating, dumped him, then decided not to try again. But what if I should have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - i liked this guy who use to be a player until he met me i dated him for a month, loved every min of it, and then i dumped him for my x.....a month later i ended up cheatin on my boyfriend for this guy, and then we ended up datin a month after that ...

I know I'll be hurt if I stay with him, but it'll hurt if I say we're over too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I,m dating this AMAZING guy. He's sweet, funny, kind, caring and I really care about him. I feel like I love him but I know he doesn't feel the same...he doesn't really want a relationship. The thing is he's had alot of lovers in the past and only 3 ...

I'm a 19 year old virgin who has never had a girlfriend. How can I change both of these problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Here's all my relevant background information: - I'm a 19 year old virgin who has never even had a girlfriend. - I'm 5ft10 and weigh 150lbs. - I used to be a loser who was friends with losers. However, after I graduated high school, I abandon...

I'm hurting from the breakup, I texted her boss and she broke it off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - I looked in my girlfriends phone and found a text from her boss and started returning the texts as if i was her telling him that I love my partner This has made it hard at work for her I also lied to her and said i didnt do but the told her...